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I'm sick of being the only one with these views and feel insane by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 84 insightful - 3 fun84 insightful - 2 fun85 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

First, if you hadn't mentioned that you were 16, I would never have known: your writing style is already very sophisticated, so don't undermine yourself by saying "I'm only a teenager".

Second, I remember how isolating it was to be a gay teenager in the 80s. I guess it still is isolating but for different reasons. I don't know that I or anybody else on the internet can make the loneliness any better. But hang in there: you're smart, level-headed, able to see through BS. Never forget your power and you'll make it through.

TIF whining because gay men behave like gay men by weirdthorn in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 64 insightful - 2 fun64 insightful - 1 fun65 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This might sound dismissive or cold, but she's probably better off in the long run. The last thing people need is to be having sex with multiple random strangers. Yeah, I'm judgmental about promiscuity, but it's based on lived experience.

"Vaginas and MTF vaginas are indistinguishable": This level of cringe is beyond unbearable! by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 62 insightful - 24 fun62 insightful - 23 fun63 insightful - 24 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah it's just such a bad take lol. The best surgeons can make a neovagina look identical to the point that gynecologists are even fooled.

OK, let's do it again (take 7823): there is no way that a professional who has spent 3-4 years in medical school and then 3 more years in internship/residency and then maybe 3 more years in a gynecology fellowship, who has seen literally 1000s of vaginas by the time they see you, will fail to notice that your "vagina" is slightly too low, has no mucous membrane, no musculature, a tendency to grow hair, and does not lead to a cervix.

Even I know this, and I'm a gay man.

Physically indistinguishable from a cis gay man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 54 insightful - 6 fun54 insightful - 5 fun55 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

r/thathappened.

In no way does a phalloplasty resemble a real penis. If plastic surgery had advanced to that degree then you can be sure that a Google Images search would reveal the marketing materials promoting this genius/miracle of modern medicine.

Fae is not happy. Fuck capitalism and people who won’t learn neo pronouns by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 54 insightful - 4 fun54 insightful - 3 fun55 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

What he means to say is "my boundaries are not debatable or negotiable, but your boundaries are meaningless to me if they stand in my way."

Well, well, well... by fijupanda in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 49 insightful - 15 fun49 insightful - 14 fun50 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

I thought that was just a genitalia fetish. Shouldn't he be "re-examining his preferences", which will surely lead him to the epiphany that male vaginas are !hawt!

r/SuperStraight banned :-(

by IridescentAnaconda to /s/LGBDropTheT from reddit.com

r/itsafetish anyone? Wife scared to leave her TIM husband over the fear of transphobia by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 46 insightful - 2 fun46 insightful - 1 fun47 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

We have 3 kids together, two under the age of 10, and one teenager... I've tried to be as supportive as possible and we have spent a lot of our savings on her surgeries.

What a selfish prick.

I Signed Up to Study Sexual Health. What I Got Was Gender Ideology, Fetishism, and Porn

by IridescentAnaconda to /s/LGBDropTheT from quillette.com

Someone dared to make a sub for lesbians, gay men and bisexuals. Guess who came a callin'. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 44 insightful - 2 fun44 insightful - 1 fun45 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Recent post on the Farms pointed out that homosexual dementia patients remember that they are homosexual, while trans dementia patients don't remember transitioning and freak out about what happened to their penis or breasts.

One phenomenon is intrinsic and the other is not.

I realize that this is only tangentially related to OP, but the point is: we are not the same.

PenisNews is disgusted by pathetic "superstraight" trolls. Outraged in fact! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 43 insightful - 3 fun43 insightful - 2 fun44 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Le yawn The "wedge" that is dividing the LGBTQ+ community was driven by TQ+, not SuperStraight.

I know I'm a complete fraud and thats why I need gay men to fuck me and validate my precious identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 42 insightful - 27 fun42 insightful - 26 fun43 insightful - 27 fun -  (0 children)

If only ... if only ... somewhere in the world, there was a cis guy willing to date a woman....

And the snake begins to consume itself from the tail up by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 42 insightful - 12 fun42 insightful - 11 fun43 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

It's not validating me if it's someone who is specifically attracted to trans. I need to be desired by somebody who is exclusively attracted to the sex I was not assigned at birth. Anything less than that is LITERALLY TRANSPHOBIC VIOLENCE.

Is this what woke homophobia looks like 😓 by EverydayIsSad in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 41 insightful - 4 fun41 insightful - 3 fun42 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Why don't these gay transmen date each other if the penis isn't so important?

Or better yet, they could save themselves a whole lot of trouble by dating straight men who have fully functioning penises and actually want vaginas.

'he/him & they/them lesbians - a quick guide' the fuck is this? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 41 insightful - 3 fun41 insightful - 2 fun42 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If pronouns are simply a form of expression then it shouldn't be a capital crime to use the wrong ones.

Sexual boundaries are transphobic by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nobody is obligated to be "sexually available" to anybody else, let alone a whole (special and protected) class of people.

Should have stopped at "I don't know a single lesbian IRL" by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 40 insightful - 8 fun40 insightful - 7 fun41 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"Lesbians".

Also: claims AGP doesn't exist and proves he suffers from it in the very next sentence.

Pride is "kicking out T**FS that try to crash the party because there is no community without trans magic" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 38 insightful - 1 fun38 insightful - 0 fun39 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really do feel like gay men are under attack. I guess we're the next to go, now that lesbians are pretty much erased.

Lesbians scissoring is transmisogynistic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 37 insightful - 28 fun37 insightful - 27 fun38 insightful - 28 fun -  (0 children)

That's a hot take!

Next, it will be transphobic for me to give my husband a blowjob.

Anybody else encountered TRAs and their allies claiming no one sees anyone naked in a locker room? by NDG in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 37 insightful - 12 fun37 insightful - 11 fun38 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

To be fair, most of these men have never been in a male locker room.

Rest in peace r/TumblrInAction by lunarstrain in TumblrInAction

[–]IridescentAnaconda 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They think 2030 is going to be a LGTBA+bullshit paradise, in reality, once the pendulum swings back against them, they are going to face so, so, so much more hate than when they started and no one will give a shit because they went so too far.

This is one of the things that concerns me. I was happy when I gained the right to legally marry my spouse. That's all I needed, and the two of us have faded into the woodwork to be part of our general, family-oriented community. All of this degeneracy, from raping lesbians to mutilating children to forcing kids to view kink, is ultimately going to imperil my simple right to be left alone.

Yes, kink belongs at Pride. And I want my kids to see it. - The Washington Post by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 36 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It pains me to admit that the slippery slope arguments were right. I love that I am married to the man I love, but all this other shit is just pushing us towards social catastrophe.

Woman banned for being a lesbian on dating app Hinge by PeakingPeachEater in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 36 insightful - 14 fun36 insightful - 13 fun37 insightful - 14 fun -  (0 children)

This is fucked up but, in the current environment, the obvious solution is stealth.

Nobody is obligated to explain why they are not attracted to someone. You can make up any reason you want, including the most frontal attack possible: you're ugly. That's not identifiably transphobic if you don't add the rest of the sentence, ... because you look like the man you obviously are.

Transman in "Three-Holed F*****" shirt wrote an article to scold gay men for offending her by talking about how they like dicks and not vaginas. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 35 insightful - 4 fun35 insightful - 3 fun36 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

This person is mentally ill. It's clear early on in the essay.

You gotta get ‘em while they’re young by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Our society is doomed.

"Why Won't Woke Boys Pay For Sex?" - A fascinating look into the minds of two TiM sex workers by SeasideLimbs in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 34 insightful - 6 fun34 insightful - 5 fun35 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Is it me? Or is this guy arguing that "because sex work is legal and you support its legality, you are now obligated to have sex with me and pay me for it".

It's never enough, all that matters is having lesbians sleep with them. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So the lesson is: don't be a trans ally. It will never be enough and you are only enabling the behaviors.

Sometimes you just need to accept the coercion... for her! 😔 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 33 insightful - 4 fun33 insightful - 3 fun34 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

If I were a lesbian and she were trans, no I would not love her.

If I were a straight man and she were trans, no I would not love her.

Turns out I am a gay man, and if he were trans, no I would not love him.

Thanks for asking, next question?

I'm a girlfag because... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 33 insightful - 12 fun33 insightful - 11 fun34 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

I think I've crossed an age threshold where certain things completely elude my comprehension. Is this what it's like to get old?

Lesbians, any man who says he’s a woman and doesn’t even attempt to pretend to be one is your dating pool. Gay men, same goes for you with women. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 32 insightful - 14 fun32 insightful - 13 fun33 insightful - 14 fun -  (0 children)

I vote "leave trans people alone".

"I don't want to be labelled as a freak, or worse... GAY." by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can't even get behind the HSTS thing anymore. That phenomenon seems more and more about GNC gay men who can't accept themselves.

Remember that violent trans profile many of us followed on Reddit? It was fake.Targeting / Harassment

by IridescentAnaconda to /s/LGBDropTheT from archive.vn

I hate censorship. by ArthnoldManacatsaman in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

r/superstraight and r/LGBS were banned because they demonstrated solidarity between LGB and straights, against the cancer that TRAs rerpresent.

r/SuperStraight banned :-( by IridescentAnaconda in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda[S] 32 insightful - 3 fun32 insightful - 2 fun33 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I can't help but notice that r/lesbians is the only woman-born-woman sub allowed on reddit, the only place where girl-dicks are prohibited. And it's a porn sub.

"If I feel like a woman then boom I'm a woman bc it isn't real" by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 32 insightful - 4 fun32 insightful - 3 fun33 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

This 1000 times.

As I was talking about this issue with a friend, I asked her what it was like to feel like a woman ("I don't know"). More importantly, I asked her if the jiggling of her boobs turned her on. Her answer: "no, it's irritating because they're too big."

TRA proud of falsifying medical data to align with his politics by dandeliondynasty in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

/thathappened

Seriously, as someone whose entire career involves medical research, I can tell you this could never happen without PI's authorization. If it did, the project has bigger problems than a loose cannon TIM.

The rapiness never ends: "...try to have a conversation, consider what it is about those genitals that you don’t like, ask how that person likes their genitals played with ..." by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 31 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

“There are features that you may not find attractive, and a trans person may have those features,” Hamil explains. “But this is different than saying you do not find transgender people attractive. We have to remember that all transgender people, like all cisgender people, are different.”

You know what features I don't find attractive? Vaginas and phalloplasties made from arm skin.

“If you’re genuinely not interested in a certain set of binary genitalia, that’s okay; you shouldn’t have sex with someone that you don’t want to,” Hamil assures. “But if you’re really into someone, are genitals going to be a dealbreaker for you? Or will you try to have a conversation, consider what it is about those genitals that you don’t like, ask how that person likes their genitals played with (if at all), and then see where you stand?”

This person has never had sex.

The difference between two sites reporting the same story. by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I cannot tell you how much I view this as a threat. The messaging regularly promoted by "LBGT" media is going to doom us all in the long run.

"Women have dicks" "Lesbians like sucking dick" Just repeat it over and over until you brainwash everybody or they leave. by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 30 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Narcissists don't like other peoples' boundaries.

#StartCisShaming is now trending on Twitter, and what a surprise that the hashtag is filled with homophobic and misogynistic nonsense. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Can I start a #StartTransShaming campaign or a #SayNoToTransgenderism campaign since it’s now OK to do it for the innocent people you hate so much?

No, because it's becoming illegal in more and more locales.

Apparently we aren't really gay, we're invading our own subreddits because we're 'transphobic'. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 30 insightful - 8 fun30 insightful - 7 fun31 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Does a marriage license count as certified documentation?

Am I still lesbian if I also like trans/andro/non binary people as well? by denverkris in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 30 insightful - 17 fun30 insightful - 16 fun31 insightful - 17 fun -  (0 children)

Weird how I don't get that same butterfly feeling for a member of the same sex, like I do for members of the opposite sex. How strange for a lesbian like myself!

Laura Jane Grace: "JK Rowling has no grounds to speak on the transgender experience because she knows nothing about it" | NME by alttrawl in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

TIMs have no grounds to speak on the female experience because they know nothing about it.

TIFs have no grounds to speak on the male experience because they know nothing about it.

A man/transwoman commits suicide after botched neovagina surgery. These surgeries are dangerous! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]IridescentAnaconda 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How many boys who would grow up to be normal gay men are being pressured / incentivized to destroy their lives in this way?

The implosion of Boston’s Pride Parade is a sign of things to come by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In Boston, as in other cities, Pride has fractured into several camps. One is made up of those who are happy to see Pride become a blander, more corporate, mass participation institution within America’s ever-expanding civic calendar. The second major bloc is made up of those who seek radicalism for its own sake, and who are desperate to rekindle what they see as the revolutionary origins of Pride. And so if gay rights is no longer radical, they insist, the LGBT movement must pour its energy and resources into causes that offer the possibility of militant politics—such as radical gender movements, the erasure of biological sex, anti-capitalism, demonization of Israel, extreme forms of “anti-racism,” pacifism, and police abolition. Even gays and lesbians, now seen as the “privileged” elite of the LGBT population, are the subject of suspicion, and even animosity.

As a member of the "privileged" elite, I've known for awhile there's a target on my ass. The alphabet soup people don't want my heteronormative lifestyle, and they kinda don't want me to have it either.

Fuck them, I don't want the freak show that LGBTQ+ (where the "+" probably includes MAPs) has become.

The corporate option may be bland but it least it leaves me alone.

"'I’m not attracted to trans people' is based on the idea that you actually CAN exclude trans folks from your dating pool, and you absolutely positively can’t" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 29 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

"genital preferences"

This morning I mentioned this concept to Husband, who (bless his heart) remains naive about these matters even after my attempts to educate. But, but, that's just like the 1980s rhetoric about "sexual preferences"! Uh-huh, yes dear.

Actually we'd rather shove the whole Empire State Building up there than have sex with your disordered self ma'am by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

More directly and I really mean this: I'd rather have sex with a normal, cisgendered woman than these weird transmen that are an unholy mix of things that are not supposed to go together. And I'm not very bisexual at all, like Kinsey 5.75.

What do penises have to do with girl sex? A lot actually! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 29 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

... clocking cock time ...

-- is what every 14-year-old lesbian wants.

"yOu'Re NoT gAy YoU'rE pAnSeXuAl!", more enby dating horror. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I get to define what you are, but you don't get to define what I am.

Red flag: run away while you still can!

r/gaytransguys - Why don’t gay men send me cute emojis and tell me how they want to hold my hand on Grindr? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 8 fun28 insightful - 7 fun29 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously: no clue how men socialize. But, really, I'm an honest and true, authentic gay man!

Yes, kink belongs at Pride. And I want my kids to see it. - The Washington Post by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 9 fun28 insightful - 8 fun29 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

My husband and I, our 10 years together through multiple houses in multiple states, enduring the ups and downs of life like deaths of close family members, new puppies, new jobs, and jobs that didn't work out as planned -- soooooo kinky.

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Bwahaha I knew exactly which user you were talking about, went directly to his user profile and there was the post you were talking about.

Yes, he's a loose cannon and he will hurt someone one day. Bonus: he is a fan of rape fantasies. His aunt tries to keep her daughters away from him, and he has posted an image of a young girl standing at a urinal commenting on the size of "her" member.

I don't doubt for a minute that he was creeping on the girl and that the mother's protective instinct kicked in.

"The gender binary is an invention of white supremacy" by ukrdude10 in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Frankly it's racist to insinuate that non-western cultures couldn't figure out the basics of reproduction.

Trans community learning how does it feel to have your safe spaces invaded and mouths shut by the moderation by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These are truly awful people and the rest of us LGB are going to be associated with them in the public's mind.

I want my surgery to bring all the lesbians to the yard by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

... if I'm accused of being trans

lol deep down they are ashamed of who they are.

#SuperStraight trending on Twitter! Hilarious tweets & memes from straight men "coming out" as straight. They're calling their sexuality Super Straight and want an S added to the LGBTQ. SOME OF THE FUNNIEST TWEETS I'VE SEEN IN YEARS. Also calls for #SuperGay & #SuperLesbian - LOL by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 7 fun28 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

SuperGayMan checking in.

"Straight lesbian" 🤪 by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 21 fun28 insightful - 20 fun29 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

That made my brain hurt.

On another note, today my husband wife showed me his her choice for new drapes in one of our bedrooms. I told him her it looked a little feminine. But then I became really excited because now that he she is clearly female (I have already declared my transgender status) we can now transition as a couple from heterosexual to lesbian.

Who says two gay men can't be lesbians?

Askgaybros uwu thread #11828828276 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have a slightly different perspective on all this.

Nobody is seriously proposing woque-style conversion therapy (at least not yet), notwithstanding an insistence that we "seriously examine our socially determined preferences" or whatever that crap is. On our end, almost all consequences of FtM uwu can be avoided simply by limiting any meaningful social contact with FtMs, which shouldn't be difficult.

Who I am really concerned about is the FtM's themselves. They are signing themselves up for a lifetime of rejection (recall that story about the FtM who ended up crying in the bathroom of an orgy because nobody saw her as a real man), not to mention serious medical problems, all for some stupid fantasy that can easily be worked around by dating some metrosexual straight guy who would be happy to have them.

I really feel bad for these women in spite of their obnoxiousness.

Privileges of transitioning... by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Even if no red flags go up about skeletal structure or larynx-related issues, I don't really think a straight guy is going to fall for a neovag. I mean, I'm a gay guy and neovags look obviously fake to me.

Redditor is triggered by real woman, dreams about committing violence against her. "She inflicts so much pain on me by making me feel ugly, worthless, and masculine sends me into a fucking rage." Pretty male reaction there, bud. by Chipit in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnaconda 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not at all a dangerous predator, not at all a ticking time bomb.

The eternal mystery of why r/TumblrInAction remains while r/LGBDropTheT, r/GenderCritical and so many more were banned. Thoughts? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Companion sub r/SocialJusticeInAction is in the crosshairs of AHS, especially since its mods' literal answer to AHS complaints was "fuck you".

I don't know why either is still standing, but it's wonderful while it lasts!

No amount of pandering can fill the great soul-sucking void of their narcissism by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Was going to say something along the same lines: I don't support you at any distance, from 2 nanometers or 2 light years, here, there, or anywhere. Also I don't see you as desirable as cis men, and usually I don't see you as desirable at all.

Gay men twirling fabulously on thin ice by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm going to hell for saying this but I doubt this person could be attractive in any gender or sexual orientation.

Is Pansexuality Obligatory? No but... actually yes. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Second, even if it’s true that most men natively have strong desires to have sex with people who have vaginas, it doesn’t follow from this that they can’t ever develop desires, perhaps even strong ones, to have sex with people who have penises (and the same goes for women). Such a preference may have to be one you’d have to work to develop (unlike, say, the desire for sugar, which comes naturally), but that would simply make it the sexual equivalent of scotch: an acquired taste.

Lord god, we're moving in the opposite direction and LGBT is leading the way.

"It's transphobic to say you wouldn't date trans people" by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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Think of this as a golden opportunity to practice boundary setting.

People are too fucking nice these days. Curb your compassion, it's only creating monsters.

J K Rowling has tweeted the Boxer Ceiling archive by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Never was a HP fan but god I love her more and more every day.

Remove your womb so trans women feel accepted by Hurdurnayshun in LGBDropTheT

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I see. But if a 14-year-old girl asks for a double mastectomy because "dysphoria" it's step right up to the boob guillotine and kneel...

I was expected to smile my way through it all”: A lesbian transwidow tells her heart-wrenching story to Jo Bartosch by millicentfawcett in LGBDropTheT

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Maybe it's because I'm old, maybe it's because I have my own battle scars. But I draw a very harsh and unwavering line with things like this. Love is a two-way street, it is a reciprocal activity, it is always conditional, conditional on both parties bringing something to the table (I'm talking about two adults, not parent-child love). Love is not, nor should be, unconditional.

If you partner changes the rules so drastically that there is no room for you or your own story, then it's time to leave. Period. There is no negotiation on this point.

TFW you stay at home a little too long and suddenly your whole ass sexuality changes by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm kind of curious what people here did (other than spending time on s/LGBDropTheT and TERFing out).

Other than settling into a new job I was hired into right before the pandemic started, I got really serious about meditation. My husband really perfected his cooking and gardening skills.

Is Pansexuality Obligatory? No but... actually yes. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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maybe they do it because they genuinely find certain distinguishing racial features less attractive than others.

True in my case. For example, I typically find hairy bodies much more sexually appealing than smooth ones. This ends up excluding one very large racial group. Nothing personal - happy to have these people as friends - but they won't do much for me sexually.

Inclusiveness Training by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Privately I'm starting to identify as "androphile" or old-school-cool "homosexual". Publicly I just say I'm married to a man or I just casually slip in references to "my husband". People don't need to know anything about my sex life, they just need to know that I've committed to spending my life with a specific named individual who is clearly, biologically and socially, a man.

I don't want to be part of this ever-changing rainbow BS.

Here we go: the P belongs in the alphabet soup by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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That's right, and if this becomes accepted we are toast.

Oh, and I need to insert my obligatory "I am vomit" comment.

Or, crazy idea here, you could not chase the one subset of men who aren’t into women and play the victim about it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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You're not supposed to say no. Don't you get it yet?

Coming out as a trans lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Isn't this person the comedian who confessed joked about jerking off to all the pics their female FB friends posted?

Stop right there, criminal scum! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I can't wait for the asteroid to hit.

Forget What Gender Activists Tell You. Here’s What Medical Transition Looks Like [authored by trans-man]Transing Children

by IridescentAnaconda to /s/LGBDropTheT from quillette.com

r/AskGayBros is fully astroturfed by a banned trans hate community - how dare those transphobes refuse to date or fuck women by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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RIP AGB, now that AHS has it in its crosshairs. ... prepare for incoming CP.

While it’s been a long time coming, I think it’s safe to say that Arielle Scarcella has now officially peaked the hardest. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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<3 <3 I'm in love <3 <3

We're totally wrong for each other, Arielle and I, but I can't help it.

“Why is this lesbian refusing to suck Girldick™?!😡” : TumblrInAction by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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r/TIA mods are supportive of GC positions. The real question is how long before they end up on the flat end of the Admin banhammer.

I had an eating disorder and a history of self-harm so ... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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... so naturally I was deemed competent to make life-altering medical decisions.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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You can count on queer theory to always take the most disruptive and dehumanizing position.

Sure, Jan. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Of all the things that ever happened, that happened the most.

A transmaxxing snake devours its own tail over "transbians" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I don't have much of a problem with truscums. At least they have standards and most (all?) of them truly have some form of dysphoria prior to their trans journeys. The tucute transmaxxers are all basically incels and/or AGPs possessed by their paraphilias.

Mirrors are transphobic now. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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So we're supposed to avoid "scrutinizing" trans people? I guess we're all supposed to stay at home so that trans people can wander around outside without fear of being triggered.

Will the trans pedo mod clique be the undoing of Reddit? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Reddit ain't gonna do shit. They know his history, by hiring him they tacitly approve.

Trans activists don't like "female anatomy" by Happy_Blueberry3910 in LGBDropTheT

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lol vulvas are transphobic.

"If I feel like a woman then boom I'm a woman bc it isn't real" by MilkTea in LGBDropTheT

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Homosexuality in men is in principle physically measurable. Attach a device that measures small changes in diameter to a flaccid penis, then show a diverse sequence of erotic images to the owner of said penis - comparison of diameter in response to either biological sex will provide a reasonable quantitation of sexual orientation. I'm guessing something similar could be done for women, perhaps with moisture.

I know of no way to measure the magical feeling of gender that exists entirely within somebody's head.

They're not violent at all! (this profile is a shitshow, this man should be in jail) by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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like the mall that I used to formerly work at where I'm now banned from due to TERF violence against me, a trans woman

Dude.

A very careful reading of that statement shows that (1) he believes he deserves special privilege as a "trans woman" and (2) completely fails to take any responsibility for his actions.

Classic narcissist. No wonder the "great date[s] ... fizzled out for other reasons". My guess is that these women correctly assessed the situation and politely made up fizzle-based excuses to GTFO.

Anyone else notice how they're trying to change the meaning of GNC? by Lesbianese in LGBDropTheT

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Hey there little boy, you're not much into sports and kinda into dolls, yeah?

Let's put you on some meds to block puberty and then when you're 16 we'll chop off your dick.

Sound good?

Personality Disorders and Personality Profiles in a Sample of Transgender Individuals Requesting Gender-Affirming Treatments by _UngodlyFruit_ in GenderCritical

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Borderline PD was the most frequent diagnosis in the overall sample.

What. A. Shock.

"I'll kill myself you don't give me exactly what I want, right now!"

r/gaytransguys - PSA: all your delusions will come true by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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YOUR GENITALIA IS NEVER A DEAL-BREAKER. IT DOESNT WORK LIKE THAT.

It do work like that tho....

Yeah, lemme just control my attraction real quick... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Thanks. I'm quite enjoying our little hateful corner.

The walls are a little bare though, I think we need some artwork. Lately I've been into mid-Century. What about you, boys?

The toxic self-centeredness of the T knows no bounds by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Just like "homosexual". Used to be an ugly clinical term, now it is how I choose to refer to myself in order to separate myself from the clusterfuck that is TQ+.

LGB Drop The Hobos...? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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They're right, as a cisgender gay man I do not identify as "queer", I don't want any part of that dumpster fire.

The men at r/ukpolitics disagree vehemently that lesbians are being bullied to fuck transwomen by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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You probably could find 100 straight men who have felt pressured at some point in their life to suck gay cock.

So let's take a data driven approach. What proportion of gay male tinder profiles are targeted to straight men? Now compare to the proportion of transwomen HER profiles targeted to lesbians.

Such an analysis should quickly clarify what's going on.

New NY Gov is pushing this shit too 😩 by spanishprofanity in LGBDropTheT

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Now you understand how history is written. And revised.

Concerns we're heading for a misgendering crisis as 61% of Brits never ask about pronouns™ by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This is what I find alarming:

... Mermaids, one of the UK’s leading LGBTQ+ charities, ...

No LGB erasure here, no sir.

I'm a girlfag because... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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My husband asked me how I became so conservative, and I told him it was because of him. He wasn't quite sure what I meant, and it took me awhile to work it out in my head.

I have a friend who is a newly minted therapist, she talks about how she thinks all of this nonsense is due to attachment deficiencies ("attachment" here is to be understood in the technical psychological sense). I agree with her 100%, and that is what I meant in response to my husband. Once you become securely attached you understand its value, and you understand how the tidal-waves of nonsense that come mostly from the left side of the aisle work against attachment and are likely the result of insecure or disordered attachment.

You want this boy pussy or not faggot? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Um, who is she marketing herself to? She can't possibly think gay men would be attracted to that?

And for you straight guys who might take a second look (and ignore the stink): remember what they say about sticking your dick in crazy.

Tonight's the night his girlfriend must choose between translesbianism and transphobia. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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All of those AITA stories where the woman finds out that her husband is an AGP trans: people answer "NTA" but then go on in subtle gaslight mode, "well... if you can't be the supporting presence she needs right now you're probably not the best person for her." Hardly ever is there a comment that spells it out: "the husband you married betrayed you by selfishly succumbing to his sexual perversions."

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