The Six Million Dollar Nebularomantic DemiMan by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah, I can't speak for everyone who's autistic, but personally, I don't think it's a typical autistic thing. While there are some autistic people who have sociopathy or alexithymia, it's a myth that autistic people don't feel anything or that most take a long time to feel anything emotionally. If anything, emotions can be strong, sudden, overwhelming, but they're not always expressed in the way neurotypical people express them, if that makes sense?

The Six Million Dollar Nebularomantic DemiMan by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Yet.

The Six Million Dollar Nebularomantic DemiMan by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Plus awkwardness alone isn't enough to make someone neuroatypical. It needs to be pervasive in not just socialisation but other areas such as sensory processing, which these self-diagnosers conveniently forget. Never heard a self-diagnoser mention that they've had a meltdown or any of the other less quirky aspects of autism.

The Six Million Dollar Nebularomantic DemiMan by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Thank you!

Also neurodivergent always makes it sound like it's a choice or that autistic people started out 'normal' then diverged from that path. Neurotypical and neuroatypical are better terms (not to mention neurodivergent makes me think of new age-y transcendental shit).

Rapey t**f scum by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Because periods give them gender dysphoria.

Marriage equality was a mistake by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

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I really think people shouldn't be carefully considering the opinions of young children who are only just grasping the concept of object permanence.

Marriage equality was a mistake by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

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Completely right about taxes, and we completely deserve the same rights regardless of sexual orientation. Before we got same sex marriage here a few years back, there was a case where a (British?) gay couple were on holiday and one of the two men died. Because gay marriage wasn't recognised here, there were all sorts of issues regarding the handling of the dead man's affairs and it was a real mess which wouldn't have happened if it was a straight married couple.

Most people don't realise the legal implications and limitations of civil unions and why gay marriage is an essential human right, especially if LGB people contribute to society, pay taxes, contribute to the economy, etc, and are in no way different to everyone else.

Cis faggots are so hot for her by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Why don't you mention her, while you're at it? You don't want her to know you've got a new alt?

Cis faggots are so hot for her by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I think it's exponent2/grammaroo/orangina5 again 🙄🙄🙄

Cis faggots are so hot for her by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I think it's our buddy exponent2/grammaroo/orangina5 in his 45th alt by this point. Just ignore him.

What the ever loving fuck Scotland? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Most TRAs are insufferable, not just yours 😅

Oh the pain, the pain: the agony of these dickless losers on /r/askgaybros by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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From what I can see, 'gay' FtMs seem to be paraphilic ones, since they're the ones who have convinced themselves that if they enjoy gay men as a fetish, they must be one too. Also they can't understand that some men are actually not attracted to women in any way shape or form, much like men who can't understand why some women aren't interested in men, period.

How often do you hear other LGB people (that you know in real life) encourage stereotypes or insults about LGB people? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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When I was growing up, 'peder' (gay man), 'pederast' (gay-like or behaving in a gay-like manner, and yes in Serbia, the word for gay comes from pederast, or pedophile, so there's that association as well over there), and 'peša' (a diminutive version for 'peder') were terms thrown around my household, especially by my mother.

It was generally used to insult men who did not fit the stereotype for straight men, had some kind of flaw about them, or behave in a way that is different or not acceptable for men, therefore making them lesser 'peders'. I used to use it quite often when I was younger, not realising the implications behind it, and had to learn to not use it even though our family and family friends often did.

However, there isn't an equivalent for women or lesbians. Yes, 'lesbika', when used to describe a woman, is usually said as an insult rather than a descriptor, but it's certainly not as widespread or common as the different ways you can describe men as 'peders'.

My mother will occasionally call men 'peders' and I'll always call her out on it, so thankfully she's improved, but my Serbian family/ family friends still use it and it's awful to hear.

For Pride Month, Taco Bell To Continue Giving Explosive Diarrhea To All Genders And Orientations by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

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🏳️‍🌈 We welcome all front and back holes, big or small 🏳️‍🌈

You know how progressive Iran is... by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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Pretty much. He ran into someone recently, and the media was fawning over him and how bad it must've hurt when he smacked into a woman.

Intergenerational Munchausen by Proxy by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Humans having evolved brains was the mistake

You know how progressive Iran is... by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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I have to see that piece of shit plastered all over our newspapers whenever he plays a game here.

Julie Bindel: There's no gay gene – and I love the idea I chose to be a lesbian by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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I think it's about the cases of straight men having homosexual relations in situations where there are (usually) no women present, such as prison or the army.

Intergenerational Munchausen by Proxy by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Three little ducks went out one day

Over the hill and far away

Birthing person duck said quack quack quack quack

But only two genderfluid little ducks came back.

Intergenerational Munchausen by Proxy by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I like to imagine they sing nursery rhymes with gender neutral/gender special pronouns.

The rainbow flag isn't enough! by witchdicktor in LGBDropTheT

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But everyone was fucking on board with Tracer being a lesbian, because lesbians are ultimately fetish fuel, although I'm not saying gay men aren't too.

I’m so tired of the normalization of the word “queer” by MaxDefacto in LGBDropTheT

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If you're talking about Portrait of a Lady on Fire, I remember reading an article where the lesbian director mentions she doesn't like the fact that articles about the movie always say queer instead of lesbian, even though both she and one of the actresses are lesbians and it's a movie about lesbians.

All very good but when will Minor Attracted People be included on the flag? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm from Australia too, and thanks to COVID, I was able to get my diagnosis quicker as an adult, because child diagnoses were stopped for a while (since it's difficult to get children on the spectrum to keep their distance for a longer period of time, I'm guessing?). I'm able to get assistance myself, luckily, and I'm glad others can get funding as well, but I have the feeling many self-diagnosers avoid getting an official diagnosis because the truth would shatter their narcissistic delusions that they're intersectional and special.

All very good but when will Minor Attracted People be included on the flag? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'd wager about 80-90 percent of people who say they've got autism spectrum disorder (especially in the QT community) are self-diagnosers who aren't actually autistic. Actual autistic people are then convinced by these narcissists that their gender-nonconforming is actually a sign of being trans, and they trust them because they think the self-diagnosers are autistic themselves.

Please don't demonise and associate autistic people with the rest of these narcissistic, attention-seeking creeps.

A million eye rolls 😒😒😒 by GayBoner in LGBDropTheT

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It could be a bit more inclusive but I guess it is ok 😐

I really hope this is a joke, I really do.

Don't let anyone tell you you're not gay enough, straight people. by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

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Probably? And girls used to wear blue (whales).

Don't let anyone tell you you're not gay enough, straight people. by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

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And pink was a 'guy' colour up until World War 2 anyway, so if anything, it's the opposite of feminine.

Rapists gonna justify rape and the T is embarrassing once again by Sunflowerdevyl in LGBDropTheT

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🎵Girldick: It's strawberry flavoured 🎵

During Pride month, be a good lgbtqia+ and only eat Gay food! by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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I didn't realise we had to subsist on gay food. Is there a value pack of Gay Kibble that I can get for Pride Month?

Government of Canada declares summer "Pride Season" through official Twitter account by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

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Do any people non-ironically use two-spirit?

Rapists gonna justify rape and the T is embarrassing once again by Sunflowerdevyl in LGBDropTheT

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We shouldn't have to disclose it because sure, preferences I guess, but it really shouldn't be that big of a deal in the way that it is. And I'm not talking about abuse victims or a preference. If it matters that much then change your sexual identification since you wanna exclude trans people.

And when we changed our sexual identification to indicate that we want to exclude transpeople (super-), then you whine about that as well.

Also cannot stand that the only way (in their view) that you can justify not wanting to sleep with the opposite sex is to have been sexually abused or assaulted. What happened to 'no is a full sentence' and 'consent can be retracted at any point'?

In your opinion, what are some good examples of media (books, tv, movies, podcasts, etc.) that accurately portray the LGB experience? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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Male professor too, so made it all the more interesting.

Facebook groups for TV shows are infested with idiotic TRA liberals promoting TRA garbage by firemonke8 in LGBDropTheT

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They can simp all they want for Nintendo, but Japan isn't going to go and trans one of their most iconic characters.

NPR casually erasing same-sex attraction while also making pride all about the T by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Psst, don't ruin it for them but they think being gay is a personality.

Facebook groups for TV shows are infested with idiotic TRA liberals promoting TRA garbage by firemonke8 in LGBDropTheT

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Not quite Facebook, but I'm playing Splatoon 2, and in the plaza, people write and draw messages that hang above their characters, and I want to vomit from all the virtue signalling.

Even the Stalin regime wasn’t this good at revising history by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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We got gay marriage. What else could we possibly need? /s

But seriously, these assholes won't stop until everyone's greeting each other with neopronouns.

Even the Stalin regime wasn’t this good at revising history by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I wouldn't put it past them to revise history where it was a trans bar, and the big bad gays and lesbians called the cops on them.

Front page of the Telegraph UK. Stonewall are determined to destroy themselves and take all of us with them. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Or have to pay back all of their donations since they're clearly a scam for a lobby group.

In your opinion, what are some good examples of media (books, tv, movies, podcasts, etc.) that accurately portray the LGB experience? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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I haven't watched that, but he's definitely with both women and men according to the wiki synopsis.

In your opinion, what are some good examples of media (books, tv, movies, podcasts, etc.) that accurately portray the LGB experience? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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I had to read Brokeback Mountain in uni, and we had to read parts aloud for some reason. How the men in the class squirmed. It was interesting to see their reaction.

I've had Giovanni's Room on my list to read, since I really enjoyed Beale Street.

In your opinion, what are some good examples of media (books, tv, movies, podcasts, etc.) that accurately portray the LGB experience? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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The only time I've seen 'bisexual' males in movies is when you've got a seemingly straight lead that gets seduced into sleeping with a man, like in Rocky Horror and Cabaret, but even then, it might be a case of bicuriousity more than actually being a bisexual.

In your opinion, what are some good examples of media (books, tv, movies, podcasts, etc.) that accurately portray the LGB experience? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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Not quite, but it's a better example than most.

Front page of the Telegraph UK. Stonewall are determined to destroy themselves and take all of us with them. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Maybe we'll eventually have government mandated sex changes so that everyone gets penises, and then we won't have to worry about gender inequality.

Front page of the Telegraph UK. Stonewall are determined to destroy themselves and take all of us with them. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Employers are also asked to prove how they have utilised social media accounts “with the widest reach” to communicate messages of LGBT, bi, non-binary and trans equality.

Wait, then what's the B in LGBT for? Does it stand for queer people who are identify as bigots?

r/atg - If you are mad at trans people for not disclosing before a date you are a bigot and the same as a nazi by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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No. If you say you're not interested in transpeople, you're a bigot, and you should force yourself into a situation which could be traumatising and/or dangerous to appease trans fee fees.

No, no she should not by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Because everyone knows you don't have to censor slurs against women ;P

No, no she should not by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Never in my life have I heard anyone describe women or girls as flamboyant.

NPR casually erasing same-sex attraction while also making pride all about the T by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Diversity apparently doesn't include white people because they're not diverse enough, even if they're a sexual minority and/or disabled.

r/atg - If you are mad at trans people for not disclosing before a date you are a bigot and the same as a nazi by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Except now they can identify as an employee, shit all over the floor, and you can't kick them out because they are allowed to go in.

NPR casually erasing same-sex attraction while also making pride all about the T by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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But how else can people feel special?

NPR casually erasing same-sex attraction while also making pride all about the T by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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And considering so many people have some kind of mental health issue, especially ones to do with executive functioning issues, I'd say it's pretty damn ableist to expect people to expend their limited mental energy (or spoons in woque terms) to make your smug little ass euphoric for a few seconds.

NPR casually erasing same-sex attraction while also making pride all about the T by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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What I find interesting about illustrations in woke media is that a majority of people (if not all, in some cases) drawn are people of colour. Is that to say that only people of colour are into this gender woo woo, or that they've become the majority?

June seems to be the month when straight people identify as queer by MiaXiang in LGBDropTheT

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That's kind of how I see one of my friends who claims she's bisexual, although she's never dated or been with any women and exclusively been with men. I think she likes the idea of being bisexual and with women, but wouldn't ever actually do it, kind of like being queer.

Sorry, Demi Lovato: You Can’t Fight Sexism by Opting Out of Womanhood by sadbihours in LGBDropTheT

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I've certainly seen them on dating sites, and fear seeing them IRL.

Virtue signalling at its finest: we can’t by truly comfy until everyone is by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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They're chesticles.

Virtue signalling at its finest: we can’t by truly comfy until everyone is by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm not really a person who cares about this, but these clothes would make it hard to see the angles of their dangles.

June seems to be the month when straight people identify as queer by MiaXiang in LGBDropTheT

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But like, she's super super super oppressed because she only wants to have sex and no romance with smart people. Give a girl/person a break/nbreak.

You okay hun? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Why did they use trans pastels?

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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I believe you. It's like the saying goes: Just follow the money.

June seems to be the month when straight people identify as queer by MiaXiang in LGBDropTheT

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I don't mind bi people in straight passing relationships, but if they've only ever been in straight relationships, and don't show any intention of getting into same sex relationships despite gushing about how gay they are and love the same sex, it's really frustrating to see them pop up in pride month talking about how hard it is to be bisexual.

I've been waiting months to post this image and the day finally came! by MatthewofHouseGray in LGBDropTheT

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What show is it?

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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Interestingly enough, Mackenzie Davis, who played one of the lesbians in San Junipero (Black Mirror) was also the love interest in Happiest Season.

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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Wasn't that the whole joke with Chandler on Friends? That he was being mistaken for gay.

And somehow it's one of the favourite shows of modern LGBTQ, especially Qs. Barely anyone calls that show 'problematic'.

Anime profile people are the full force behind the pride month celebrations. Happy Pride. (Bleurgh) by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

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Cute girls doing cute things would be fine if they were grown ass women, but these are usually teenage, sometimes pre-pubescent girls.

Sorry, Demi Lovato: You Can’t Fight Sexism by Opting Out of Womanhood by sadbihours in LGBDropTheT

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The one in the middle looks like Larry David if he was Beetlejuice's half-sister.

What Pride actually is... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

¿Por que no los (to)dos?

Virtue signalling at its finest: we can’t by truly comfy until everyone is by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Isn't this just unisex clothing? How is this new?

Also it remind me of this:

https://youtu.be/JE4VdrKf40s

What Pride actually is... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 19 insightful - 10 fun19 insightful - 9 fun20 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Because same sex isn't queer enough, dummy. Check your privileges!

What Pride actually is... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I read that as 'identify as black matter' and I wondered whether being dark matter was a new gender identity.

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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What I don't understand is why this is happening? What the hell is going on in Silicon Valley for them to collectively decide that they'll go pro-trans? Is it a Big Pharma thing, or a way to sneak men into positions that they'd had to acquiesce in the past to women as a part of a diversity hire? I really don't see what's in it for them.

What Pride actually is... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Black trans elders no less.

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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I thought more along the lines of older stereotypes associated with races, but now the new stereotype is being an activist, so you're right in that respect.

Anime profile people are the full force behind the pride month celebrations. Happy Pride. (Bleurgh) by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

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Got one right here. I generally shy away from people on dating sites that say they enjoy anime, though. They probably watch shit like that horse girl series.

Anime profile people are the full force behind the pride month celebrations. Happy Pride. (Bleurgh) by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Nothing more kawaii than Johann from Monster. uwu nazi child experiments uwu ;P

Anime profile people are the full force behind the pride month celebrations. Happy Pride. (Bleurgh) by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I'm schoolteachersexual, and you have no right to invalidate me!!!!!!

Anime profile people are the full force behind the pride month celebrations. Happy Pride. (Bleurgh) by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

OMG I LOVE THIS CHART HAUFJHEWJKSD IM GONNA PRINT IT OUT

Here's hoping that garble of letters is that person choking on their own tongue. I wish them nothing but unpleasantness.

Happy Pride Month! by wokuspokus in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I got onto Facebook, and in the top left corner, they've got an obnoxious moving logo that changes the letters of Facebook to not only rainbow colours but the trans pastels and brown and black. Then there's some shit Silicon Valley style art with people with colourful hair twerking and shit.

That's what people think of us.

I hate this month so goddamn much.

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

On the other hand, how do you write interesting straight people without drawing attention to their sexuality? With them, you don't have to. It's assumed they're straight and therefore you can expand other parts of their character without ever having to touch on the fact that they're straight. But then if it turns out they're not straight, it's often treated as a twist and their character immediately becomes defined by being gay.

It's a Catch-22. You can make the character interesting without mentioning that they're gay, but then it's assumed they're straight. If you reveal that they're gay, then the character becomes gay and anything interesting about them is immediately attributed to them being gay as opposed to them being a complex character, which they would be considered to be if they were straight.

Lesbians Aren’t Attracted to a Female ‘Gender Identity.’ We’re Attracted to Women - Quillette article by Kathleen Stock by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm really getting tired of people saying something, then saying it's okay, because it's usually code for: "I'm only giving you a slight validation but I'll add the word 'but' after it and a complete 180 on what I just said was 'okay.'"

For example: You don't have to date transpeople (and that's okay), but you need to check your cissexist privileges and examine whether you're actually hesitant because of your internal and unjustified bigotry.

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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Thank you for your response. It's really thorough and you've got an interesting perspective.

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In other cases, I can forgive people for taking what roles they can get, but in this case, Levy has no such excuse. He created the show and wrote for it with his father. If he didn't want the character to be that way, it wouldn't be.

Oh please, can you be any less obvious? by hhhhhhhhhhhhhh in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nah, they'll think it's a snowball effect of giving gay people rights, and they'll say gay people groomed children into becoming trans. I doubt they'll take away gay rights, but LGB acceptance will hit an all time low for a while.

Anyone else bothered by gay stereotypes in media not going away, and in some times being heightened? by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And then when you see him in this video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hn9HrL27YUY

You wonder whether this is just a performance for woke points or whether he's genuinely like this.

You know what will stop the T? Conservatives. by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Just letting you know his newest alt is flouiride25.

Sunday Social - open chat! by TumbleweedFireflies in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Winter over here and it just gets cold and rains. But looking forward to spring :)

How about you?

Us poor widdle men are scared of big mean lesbians by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Help, help, I'm being oppressed!

How children trans each other - from the horse's mouth... by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

First of all, the 5 and lower case username are a dead giveaway, your account is new, and you always start off being "pleasant" before, a few days along, you return to form. Don't play coy.

You know what will stop the T? Conservatives. by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Do you get tired of having to make new accounts?

How children trans each other - from the horse's mouth... by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Careful, your orangina5 is showing

Halifax Pride, a "LGBTQ+" group, boycotts local library for acquiring a copy of "Irreversible Damage" by Abigail Shrier (Halifax, Canada) by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Acquisition can sometimes take a while, even more so in COVID times. Be patient and hopefully it won't take too much longer.

Halifax Pride, a "LGBTQ+" group, boycotts local library for acquiring a copy of "Irreversible Damage" by Abigail Shrier (Halifax, Canada) by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nobody seems to understand basic library ethics. They strive to collect all information, regardless of how harmful it seems to some. Content banning and censoring goes against their principles. I've seen books in libraries about alien world orders and harmful diet regimes, and the onus is on people to access what they want, not to limit access for others because of how they feel.

You know what will stop the T? Conservatives. by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The most recent ones were orangina5 and the original was exponent_2. The names are usually in lower case and I'll also add that he'll criticise gay men only if they're black, otherwise they're safe from his vitriol.

Blues Clues Pride Parade by Mangomart in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 7 insightful - 9 fun7 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

You can't expect them to hop around on their fins, you ableist.

"my male appendage"... but... but I thought genitals weren't gendered? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 5 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

What's he got against gentiles?

Blues Clues Pride Parade by Mangomart in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

No, no, it's "socialism". Completely different to communism /s

"my male appendage"... but... but I thought genitals weren't gendered? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

A choice response rife with oxymorons:

Yes it might be the case that those men are straight, actually. Heterosexuality is being attracted to someone of the opposite gender.

Although the men who claim to have attraction towards trans-women can have varied identities and self identifiers, it's mostly men who identify as heterosexual (and usually date or register attraction towards cis women)

The obvious reason ? trans-women are women. No matter what the anatomy of genitals, majority of the men who claim to have almost exclusive or somewhat exclusive same gender attraction are not attracted to the opposite gender. Hence, not to trans-women.

Yes, trans-women have penis, but it's attached to a woman. Enjoying being the recipient in penetration (whether oral or anal) has nothing to do with sexual orientation. But with whom it's being performed, that might be indicative of sexual orientation. There are absolutely, men, who enjoy being pegged by their female partners but are exclusively heterosexual (do not experience attraction to the same gender or a wish to ever engage sexually or romantically with same gender)

It's just the societal emphasis on cis-het penetration as such, that restrictively defines the active (penetrator) and passive (recipient) gender roles and the ubiquitous practise of “gendered-sexuality” Now, having discussed all that, there might be good chances of these men being in denial (discordance). Cuz no matter how far we've progressed, the stigma, hostile prejudice etc. still exists, till date, stopping people from being their authentic selves.

"Trans girl attacked at school" - except he is not trans. He is gay! Why are they transing people in the headlines? by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He's gay, therefore he's a girl in a boy's body /s

Blues Clues Pride Parade by Mangomart in LGBDropTheT

[–]lovelyspearmint 21 insightful - 7 fun21 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I lost it at the Muslim owl waving a rainbow flag.