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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 31 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

“There are features that you may not find attractive, and a trans person may have those features,” Hamil explains. “But this is different than saying you do not find transgender people attractive. We have to remember that all transgender people, like all cisgender people, are different.”

You know what features I don't find attractive? Vaginas and phalloplasties made from arm skin.

“If you’re genuinely not interested in a certain set of binary genitalia, that’s okay; you shouldn’t have sex with someone that you don’t want to,” Hamil assures. “But if you’re really into someone, are genitals going to be a dealbreaker for you? Or will you try to have a conversation, consider what it is about those genitals that you don’t like, ask how that person likes their genitals played with (if at all), and then see where you stand?”

This person has never had sex.