Oh those crazy bisexuals by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
The phobia nonsense is also kind of insulting to people who actually have issues with phobias... My aunt has very bad anxiety and OCD and some damn specific genuine phobias, for example of buses and and a specific fast food joint. Her reactions to those things are very extreme and entirely illogical. Putting "phobic" onto everyone who ddisagrees with you is such a fallacy and frankly rude
r/AMA - I was exclusively a lesbian before i met my current boyfriend (This is old but had to share... The comments make me lose faith) by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Yeah, this is my biggest gripe with it too. It gives the vibe that this guy "turned" her, which feeds into conversion therapy rhetoric. People are allowed to be bisexual, and I'm sure many kinsey 5.5s genuinely think they're lesbians until they're incidentally attracted to a man one time. But that means you were never a lesbian - guess that doesn't sound provocative and shocking enough though. "I used to be a lesbian until I met this one guy who rocked my world" is such a straight male fantasy, while "I didn't realise I was bisexual until I was in my late 20s" isn't really
r/AMA - I was exclusively a lesbian before i met my current boyfriend (This is old but had to share... The comments make me lose faith)
1 year ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/Lesbians from reddit.com
“Abandoning the lesbian label and create something else” by windrunner in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Ugh, I miss r/TrueLesbians. This is bottom of the barrel sort of stuff... Those were the days when you had dozens of new posts to scroll through daily :/
Trans woman in real life is trying to date me after finding out I'm a lesbian by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT
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Mace is illegal, just checked :/
I'm definitely going to tell someone after all these comments... They've made me realise its more serious than I thought. I'm so used to having this sort of thing dismissed, tbh, and told it's not a big deal and I should ignore it. Not relating to a situation like this but relating to creepy men being creepy in general. I've always been encouraged to ignore cat calling, let men down easy, even go on dates just to be nice so I guess because of that socialisation I'm more accepting when I should have probably reported this weeks ago.
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Thank you for this comment. I've told my lesbian friend to avoid him like the plague and not let him find out her sexual orientation, I'm really worried about him finding other people to victimise and doing the same thing. Will definitely document everything. I'm mostly scared of not being taken seriously, because he's not done anything violent or that "bad" (yet) and I don't want it to seem like I'm overreacting. But it's better to report it now as a preventative thing than waiting for it to maybe escalate, right? I don't want to exaggerate but this whole thing has genuinely made me feel unsafe at school. I mean I'm 5'2" and physically I'm no way his match, and I feel really intimidated because I know I couldn't defend myself if he actually tried something, and I get this panicky fight or flight response whenever I see him now like my instincts are telling me he's dangerous. Maybe it's just in head but my body is giving an intense fear response. I should carry around some pepper spray
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
That really sucks that you've read similar stories so many times, it's dreadful. People like him are so obviously mentally ill but no one wants to address the elephant in the room. It feels almost like when men would try to convert lesbians and say they just haven't found the right dick yet - only now the argument is that I should date a male BECAUSE I'm a lesbian, not because I'm secretly not or because sexuality is fluid. It makes it so much worse. He literally showed absolutely zero interest in me before finding out, probably even negative interest tbh. Other lesbians should be wary when interacting with trans women in any context
Trans woman in real life is trying to date me after finding out I'm a lesbianTargeting / Harassment
1 year ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/LGBDropTheT from self.LGBDropTheT
I hate queer lesbian culture by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 35 insightful - 4 fun35 insightful - 3 fun36 insightful - 3 fun36 insightful - 4 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Actual, real lesbians can say whatever slang they want for women's bodies. It's men using those words that bothers me and getting turned on by their own male chesticles
I hate queer lesbian cultureRant
Do you believe in compulsory heterosexuality? by QueenOfTheNorth in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Just wanted to butt in and say that as someone who has dated and kissed a male, I also felt nothing. I attributed it to him just being a bad kisser and my own inexperience, or people overhyping kissing. I even googled "people who don't like making out" to look for similar stories and came across some, but they were mostly germaphobes who didn't like it because they thought spit was gross. I thought I was just broken and would just sit there while being kissed, completely inactive. You know, like the scene from But I'm A Cheerleader? Literally, lmao. It just felt weird, wet, gross and unappealing
Let's just say that making out with a girl rocked my world...
In 2021, what are your honest thoughts and feelings when you see a woman with hair dyed an unnatural color? by AndiOop in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
It depends... I've seen some women really pull off an unnatural shade of red, or a subtle purple-black with their natural hair colour being dark brown so it looks natural. But if it's neon and bright and the roots are obvious, bleh.
"Aww, they're so cute together!"
1 year ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/Lesbians from self.Lesbians
Why can’t lesbian just be female homosexual? by CuntWorshiper in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
The reason why I tend to be skitty around misandrist lesbians is because hatred is such a strong emotion, it gives men way too much emotional and mental real estate. I'd rather be with a woman who's completely apathetic towards men because discussion of men in almost any context bores me. I don't care if it's talking about how much they suck, they're irrelevant in a lesbian relationship and I'd like to bask in that freedom
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Right, I don't mean people who just find certain males handsome. Women can find other women beautiful without being bisexual. But, when you're constantly talking about how hot a male celebrity is and you don't do the same with women it just leaves a bad taste in my mind. Personally I don't find any man aesthetically pleasing and I just don't get why anyone would, I'm always looking at the women on the TV screen. But when it comes to purely aesthetics it's like debating which painting is prettier, it's subjective and doesn't have much to do with sexuality. Your own body tells you if you're sexually attracted to men you find beautiful and repulsion is a sign a woman is a lesbian.
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Women are beautiful, just imagining the concept of waking up next to a faceless woman or being held in a women's arms makes me so warm and maple-syrupy inside, the mere thought it simply amazing. Looking at even a picture of a woman I'm attracted to just makes the attraction so strong and apparent, it's insane. I cannot deal with people who feel so tepid and shallow for women and claim to be lesbians all while gushing over men, celebrities or otherwise. Ugh
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Yeah... I completely understand. I don't know any real lesbians in real life, only women who claim to be lesbians while still dating and hooking up with men, women who claim to be lesbians but think vulvas are gross, women who claim to be lesbians but constantly talk about their male celebrity crushes... It's honestly just gross, disheartening and as you succinctly put it, alienating. I don't trust anyone who says they're a lesbian anymore because 9/10 they're not actually homosexual. I'm beginning to think true homosexuality is even like 0.5% of women or even less, as in the true homosexuality of never having thought of men sexually AT ALL. With most lesbians I speak to they all seem to have exceptions, or would fuck Leonardo dicaprio, and no one seems to get that I have the same amount of sexual interest in any man as I have towards roadkill. People just don't get the total lack of anything there, and they think they must be lesbians because they like women, or even like 99% women but true homosexuality is pretty rare in my opinion...
Would you personally date a bisexual woman? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I feel this 100%. Last year I was completely in love with one of my bi friends, asked her out and she actually said yes. I was ecstatic. Because of lockdown we didn't see each other all that much but we texted constantly and face timed, we'd go to sleep together while on call to one another. Anyway, after a while when lockdown stopped for a few months over here we visited each other, spent lots of time together but she didn't want to go past holding hands, not even kissing. I respected her boundaries and it was her first relationship ever, and we're only young, I was 17 then and she was 18 but after a few months more of refusing to act like a couple and just treating me like her best gal pal I gave up. Now she's dating some dude, posting pictures of them kissing online and raving to everyone about him while she tried to keep our relationship on the down low. It really hurts, not doing that again
Would you personally date a bisexual woman?
Lurkers, I see you 👀 by TalerTest in Lesbians
I also joined when the sub was new but I don't feel like I can contribute that much to most of the discussions since I'm chronically single and newly-out. It's nice to read other people's stories but I don't have many of my own
Is this for real? by [deleted] in Lesbians
This is so disappointing and gross. You are NOT A LESBIAN. YOU ENJOY SEX WITH MALES. I don't care if it's only this one male, I don't care if you prefer females, I don't care if you really want to be a lesbian - the moment you experience sexual attraction to a man, let alone sleep with one and loooove it, you are bisexual. It's that simple. It isn't complicated, it's not millitant or exclusionary, it's common sense.
At what age does your attraction to women "peak" at? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Yeah I kind of worded my question wrongly, sorry. English is not my first language lol. I meant which age group you find most attractive in relation to your own age and if it changes
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Exactly this study, yep. Grossed me out so much. One of the best things about being a lesbian, apart from women, is the fact that we don't have to try and mold ourselves into a model of what men find most attractive... Yuck. I would rather just exist for myself, thanks
Polish parents won't accept me because of trans parades in PolandLifestyle
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
That's awesome, hope this isn't weird but it gives me hope to hear about the experiences of older lesbians. So many people who are LGB nowadays are kind of whacky, and knowing there are people out there who remember what it was like before TQ ideology is comforting
At what age does your attraction to women "peak" at?
"Book about lesbian sex - Girl Sex 101" - on cover 40% of "lesbians" are men, book have whole chapters about PiV and PiA sex by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT
This makes me so sad. A book like this has potential to myth-bust things commonly seen in porn and teach how to have safe lesbian sex (since STDs are still a problem and protection is often disregarded since there isn't a risk of pregnancy.) Instead this is a joke... It's too much.
It's totally fine to create a sub for transbians but if real lesbians want an exclusive space? Actual genocideLesbian
1 year ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/LGBDropTheT from reddit.com
What do all lesbians have in common? by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 25 insightful - 7 fun25 insightful - 6 fun26 insightful - 6 fun26 insightful - 7 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Wow, that is so gross. The reason I mentioned tops and bottoms in the first place is actually because a girl I was talking to described herself as "a total bottom" to me recently and my interest dropped to minus numbers, lol. That makes it even worse.
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
This. I feel really uncomfortable being grouped into the LGBT or even LGB community solely because I'm a lesbian. I didn't ask to be gay, I just am, and I hate that I'm inherently part of some group solely by existing. I can't think of any other group that gets treated like this. Grouping all other minorities into fun little clubs is seen as regressive, but putting all homosexuals together and even assuming they have enough in common to want to be together is apparently just fine? I have absolutely nothing in common with a homosexual male even as far as homosexuality goes, you have a completely different relationship with attraction and male homosexuality is also seen much differently on a societal level. And the bullshit about LGBT being necessary because people "fought for our rights" makes me so mad. No American gay activist has ever given me ANY rights. Like America is the only country in the world
What do all lesbians have in common?Lesbian
Any comebacks to "if a gay man likes penises, why not be with a woman that wears strap-on dildos"? by Not_a_celebrity in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I thought it was because a hunter cut himself on a contaminated spear?
Did I just whoosh myself? :p
The lesbian’s journey by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT
I'd love it if lesbians could just be lesbians in peace for once
Irreversible damage excerpt by xandit in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I feel kind of bad for being an actual lesbian my age now. Being 16 a lot of people my age buy into this ideology - I've met girls who identify as aroace (with a long dating history of boys...) and even "nonbinary" people. I've met more bisexuals than I can count on both hands since I started college and somehow I always find out they're bisexual 5 minutes into the conversation because they'll tell me or have an obnoxious pride pin of some sort. Statistically they can't all be telling the truth! I feel like I have to keep my sexuality a secret to not be associated with this craziness. I have an actual personality and I don't want that to be overshadowed and to become LGBTQ+ in people's heads, same basket as the girls with bad hair styling who put their pronouns in their bios.
Small rant but I feel like we've taken 2 steps forward and then a giant running leap into crazy land.
Trans women not being safe in men's spaces as an argument for them being let into women's places
2 years ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/GenderCritical from self.GenderCritical
How it is like with intersex attraction? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I mean, why not? Intersex people are still male or female. They're not some otherworldly third sex. So homosexual women would be attracted to intersex females, and homosexual men would be attracted to intersex males. In 99% of cases it's very clear what sex an intersex person is even if they do look androgynous.
Thoughts on fragrance? by begonia_skies in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Sadly I'm allergic and they give me migraines, I haven't come across a fragrance that doesn't yet make me itchy all over or give me a blotchy rash when I put it on. I can get both of those symptoms when I'm near someone who wears it too, depending on how much they put on. I hate it! I have to buy hypoallergenic stuff for every skin product.
does anyone have a screenshot of the TL subreddit overlap results? by verystablegenius in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I don't but I remember Periods and PCOS being some of the top results, which was nice.
Penis-averse lesbian asks for advice on ask transgender by Mangomart in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
This makes me feel sick. That is a MAN. All this talk about him possibly not wanting to use "his equipment" so she should be fine with it... 🤮
What Were Your Best/Worst Subjects at School? by CJLez in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I'm still in school, and I'm not particularly bad at anything but my favourite subjects are English, Biology and Psychology. I love learning about the human body and the brain and I've always been a huge bookworm as well as very into writing.
I'd just like to remind y'all that lesbians can still get pregnant!Colonization
2 years ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/LGBDropTheT from i.imgur.com
Phobias and fears by [deleted] in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I'm so glad someone else relates! I've woken up in cold sweat before from nightmares about pregnancy, it's honestly horrifying to me. I looked up resources on it now that I know the name and it's all about how it's an "obstacle for women who really want a child" and all this bullcrap, yeah nooo I'd rather not get patronised thanks.
Does anyone else struggle with being out to straight women? by SickOfThisShitNow in Lesbians
So I'm only 16 and people are particularly judgy at my age, so it's slightly different, but I relate. I recently started college in the UK and I haven't come out to anyone there. The topic of boys has naturally come up numerous times, I've had girlfriends but when they ask me about my dating history I just vaguely say "oh you know, a few short term relationships in the past." I feel like it's a bit of an elephant in the room but I don't feel comfortable coming out at all, since even if they don't think of me badly they'll think of me differently and I don't want that.
"You can still get pregnant even though you're a lesbian" A RANT by me
2 years ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/Lesbians from self.Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Pregnancy. A pretty illogical fear considering it has a much smaller chance of ever happening to me than to the average (straight) woman but I've had nightmares about being pregnant since I was a young child. Seeing pregnant women also freaks me out, I can't spend a lot of time around them and feel like a huge jerk but it activates my fight/flight response.
I hate how lesbianism is seen as inherently political by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Thank you for this reply, a lot of this makes sense. It just sucks, all we want is to be left alone so we can love women in peace, but I guess all the BS comes with the territory of being a minority.
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Fair point, what's more annoying is that everyone has their own idea of what women's rights/gay rights should be, and you're automatically lumped in with the LGBT community. I honestly don't think I'm part of that and if I somehow automatically am just because I'm same sex attracted, I'd like to sign a waver to opt out lol. I don't feel like those people represent me or having anything in common with me. I also hate how some people consider real lesbians "bad lesbians" if their political views aren't as expected. I mean, this part of my identity and me also being an immigrant in this country just alienates me from a lot of people because they immediately perceive me a certain way.
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 15 insightful - 5 fun15 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 5 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Not-so-subtle lesbophobia that lesbians aren't actually strictly homosexual but just doing it to turn on men, reinforced by the bi women going around fucking men and calling themselves lesbians? Just a hunch lol
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Yeah absolutely. It's not homophobia or fear of being rejected that's keeping me in the closet, it's just the fear of being seen as "the lesbian" permanently because I'm such a minority and everyone assuming that I'm speaking for all Lesbiankind for the rest of time. There's so much more to me than just who I find attractive. I guess it's a small form of the soft bigotry of low expectations, once people know you're a lesbian that's all they expect you to be.
Being single is making me feel so lonely by villeknox in Lesbians
Work on self improvement so that you're a really banging person to date when someone finally comes along?
Even though looks and attraction are obviously part of it, I think people swipe for the looks but stay for a vibrant and interesting personality. Unless you're particularly unlucky I also think everyone has the potential to be at least average and someone's exact type, so don't get down on yourself. Most "ugly" people you see just need a haircut, maybe some weigh loss and a better skin care routine. Maybe you're getting such few matches because all of the actual lesbians avoid dating apps like the plague nowadays (they tend to be overran by men in dresses and bi women looking for a third) or because of COVID, too.
I get being lonely, it can really take a toll on your mental health. What I've found helps me is getting really into a hobby, multiple if possible, and at least one being a social one. I do martial arts in a club with the same people every week and although I haven't found the love of my life there, it gives me a sense of community that keeps me stable lol. Maybe also get a dog for unconditional love
I hate how lesbianism is seen as inherently political
Heterosexual shenaniganry by [deleted] in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
It doesn't really bother me, I don't expect the rest of the world to bend over backwards to always accommodate what ends up being a very small minority. Culture reflects the majority, as it always will and as it probably should, and we're outliers here. What we really need is our own communities in real life again that haven't been taken over by the TQ
If (according to the trans movement, I'm not an idiot) lesbians are attracted to penises and gay men can be attracted to vaginas... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
You can't argue rationally with emotion or narcissism. The vast majority of the population has zero interest in trans people and they can't stand that, and bisexuals who do aren't validating enough because they're attracted to both sexes. They need a lesbian because lesbians can only be attracted to females, so this validates their autogynephilic fantasies to the max. All these arguments were made secondary to them having uncontrollable boners for the idea of a lesbian fucking them.
Has anyone here EVER thought this? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Uhh... No. I don't feel like a lesbian, I just am one. This is such BS lmao
"vaginas aren't inherently female" by Beth-BR in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I love how "identity being invalidated" is seen as this huge transgression by these people. Real lesbians don't need to be told by anyone else that they're lesbians while these people only exist in echo chambers of endless reinforcement. It's no wonder they react like this lol, invalidating them is literally shattering the illusion.
Am I transphobic if I don’t want to have sex with trans women? The answer is "complex" and somewhat rapey. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT
So this is rape culture... Which is inherently excused and ignored by those in power. All of these demands and rapid changes almost makes it seem like trans women actually aren't oppressed at all and have all of the privilege of a straight man. Hmmm
Discord for the lost lesbians of the queer generation by HelloMomo in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Realising I'm a lesbian made everything make sense by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
That's adorable! I had a lot of dreams about women before realising I'm a lesbian and while questioning, like my subconscious was screaming "Yes, you're a lesbian, you idiot!"
What doesn't help is if you Google why you're having such dreams, Google is quick to tell you that it definitely doesn't mean you're gay and that it's symbolism for conflict in your life or something else vague that can apply to anyone. Turns out it meant I'm gay.
Realising I'm a lesbian made everything make sense
I cannot escape... Gender nonsense on a BASS GUITAR subreddit! by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Damn. I wonder how many of the so called females are even real women?
How Do I Stop Being a TERF? An article Google recommended to me. Thanks Google.
2 years ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/GenderCritical from persuasion.community
Lesbian on /r/offmychest tries to find conversion therapy because she thinks her lack of attraction to girldicks is "toxic" by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
I listen to my elders lol. So I believe you. I find it kind of hard to relate to most people my age, I think my introversion has also made me socially stunted in a way. So it's not all great, but I think mostly positive as opposed to being totally controlled by groupthink.
Right, I think it's just because I'm introverted to the extreme, not particularly maturity. I feel for people my age who do just want to fit in, I was only pointing out that not all of us are like that.
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I'm 16 right now and stuff like this is what had me running for the metaphorical hills when it comes to online lesbian communities.
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I'm a teenager growing up just as this TQ stuff is at its peak and I've literally never felt bad for not liking dick or for being a lesbian, I've never been super concerned with what my peers think of me either. I just live my life and don't care. Just being a teenager doesn't mean you're weak willed and have 0 critical thinking skills. Someone who is this easily influenced would have also been susceptible to dozens of other harmful trends had she been born a bit earlier, such as cutting.
I wish there was less lesbian representation
TiM: "I am a biologically entity and I am female, therefore I am biologically female" there is no arguing with this level of batshit insanity by [deleted] in GenderCritical
Because guys with moobs aren't a thing and women who have had mastectomies due to medical reasons clearly aren't women anymore... Let alone women with a naturally flat chest!
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
The bass subreddit is one of the last reasons I use reddit since the advice and resources have saved my ass many times as a beginner, thought it was a pretty safe bet when it comes to gender ideology.... Nope. It's everywhere. Of course, any male-dominated hobby is also going to be choked full of transgendered males... That women just wanted to find other women and it had to turn into people soap boxing. What a world.
Trans people need to be the centre of attention at all time, even on a bass subreddit, or else they will literally die. by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Trans redditors: Hey I noticed we weren't talking about me for one (1) second
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Right?? The bass subreddit is one of the only reasons I'm even on reddit at all anymore since there are so many good resources on it, but this sort of stuff is damning... Can't escape from trans rhetoric anywhere.
Trans people need to be the centre of attention at all time, even on a bass subreddit, or else they will literally die.
2 years ago by RedditHatesLesbians to /s/LGBDropTheT from reddit.com
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Linking the thread because it's a wild read... It just keeps going!
I cannot escape... Gender nonsense on a BASS GUITAR subreddit!
Height difference when dating by [deleted] in Lesbians
I'm 5'2" and my girlfriend is 5'8" and loves wearing boots. She's probably like 5'10" in her highest ones. Although on paper that seems like a crazy height difference, it's actually not. I mean with straight couples a height difference this big is the norm, and if anything straight girls like their man as tall as possible, there aren't any practical issues. I love her long legs and I basically swoon when she's towering over me, lol. I also love feeling her hair tickle my neck when she bends down to kiss me, I love it when she raises my chin up towards her. No downsides.
Students: How are you doing? by [deleted] in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Returning physically on Monday! First day of UK college so I'm excited. I'm glad for the disruption in mediocrity, above all else!
Selfless bi woman advises lesbians to be nice to MTFs who surprise them with pulling out a dick before sex, because ''frustration is guaranteed'' when you have sex with men, lol by a_blue_bird in LGBDropTheT
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Repeat after me. When it comes to sex, anyone can say no AT ANY POINT for ANY REASON.
If, during sex, you don't stop because you feel like that person owes you sex since you got that far, that is rape.
If you coerce or blackmail or manipulate someone into having sex with you, that is RAPE.
No one OWES you sex. You goddamn rapists and rape apologists. Jesus Christ.
A tweet that I saved. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Probably Girl in Red and some other LGBT musicians? That's what I'm assuming. I'm sure they probably shoved a lot of niche trans and nonbinary musicians in there too.
The amount of ass-kissing on AL is not good enough for a transwoman who’s suffering from disapproval of actual lesbians on the sub by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
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Boo fucking hoo. Grow up and get out into the real word. Literally do anything but spend all your time online getting offended and upset by meaningless microagressions you imagined in your own head. This is so pathetic.
Newly peaked because of Mulan. by tript in GenderCritical
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Women can't be fearless and strong, everyone knows that!
Hey, wanna read an horror story ? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
This is an oddly chill recounting of events considering he RUINED HER LIFE. She's kind of like "yeah I didn't get into university and I felt too scared to get into school, shit happens." Makes me think this is fake
TERFs 😤 Stop downvoting trans people because it hurts their feelings! (I find this hilarious, I mean really?) by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT
It's a term for bisexual women with internalised biphobia to use instead of bisexual to describe their attraction, from what I've seen. It's synonymous with lesbian used as an adjective but it's generally used as a more umbrella term for womanly love for women, and of course fits snugly into queer theory because they can make it include transwomen.
r/ftmcirclejerk is not unaware of the fact that trans women are men trying to silence all women and who don't care about anybody other than themselves. They arrive to different conclusions but they do see the truth, deep down. by Dravidian in GenderCritical
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 48 insightful - 1 fun48 insightful - 0 fun49 insightful - 0 fun49 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Hot take but I'm beginning to hate this unconditional sympathy/empathy for trans men. They're not just poor confused women, many of them fetishise gay male relationships and clearly show signs of autoandrophillia. They also infect spaces for gay men like r/askgaybros and purposefully try and stir up so called transphobia to get the sub banned. There's malice there. Just because they're women doesn't make them any less shitty, even if they are just masculine women trying to opt out of womanhood, I don't feel like they should get a pass for that either if they're upholding TRA ideology anyway - it hurts all other women, it hurts lesbians, it hurts gay men. Maybe some of it is confusion but then again maybe some trans women are just confused, too.
COMEDY GOLD! TIM in glitter makeup complains about "Transphobic Micro-Aggressions" like women having periods... by BEB in GenderCritical
Ugh I hate it when they call that movie transphobia! It's even mentioned IN THE MOVIE that he isn't a true transsexual, but pretends to be one and fancies himself as one instead. But oh wait that's all you need to be trans nowadays so that's why they're offended. 🙄
Surprisingly only one person on the trans surgeries sub objected to the "female centric" language used in the linked scientific observational poster of vaginas, and that person was actually downvoted. When they are reassuring themselves that they look "real enough" they tend to drop the pretense. by BettysBitterButter in GenderCritical
The attachment provided is really informative and beautiful!
Pros of being a lesbian? by Shroomba in Lesbians
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Well first and foremost, no men!
A lesbian couple in a lesbian subreddit, 2020 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Well that's disappointing. You should always expect the worst with these types I guess
All male bonding is rooted in the destruction of women by ghostprototype in GenderCritical
Ever read The Second Sex? A good point the author makes in that among many is that where there is one, there is also the other. Locals and foreigners, family and strangers, hot and cold, gay and straight, men and women. We naturally form groups socially and define others outside of those groups in relation to ourselves. So it makes sense that some of us sometimes bond with our "in" groups by antagonising the Others, since the distinction between the in group and the others is what creates the in group. But by no means does it mean that that's the ONLY thing those groups bond over or that its unique to men. This quote is ridiculous lol
What do you think of the new lesbian flag? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Labrys flag ride or die. The lesbian flag is the only one being rebranded every 3 fucking seconds, sick of it.
How old were you when you found out your were LGB? by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Figured it out much sooner but I also thought all women pretended to like guys and weren't actually into them, I have no idea why I thought that but it proves how we all sort of assume everyone thinks like we do even when it's ridiculous since we only have access to our own perspectives. Still can't comprehend how anyone can actually be into men, or even more weirdly how they can not be into women at all. It's like not being able to "get" how someone hates the taste of your favourite food even though intellectually you know it's possible lol
First crush on a girl was at age 8.
First proper, over-the-moon serious crush on a girl was at 14. Also my first relationship.
I'm only 16 now so that's all there is to it, but I figured out I'm a lesbian last year, knew I wasn't straight when I was about 11 but figured I'm probably bisexual. Nope, definitely not.
Nothing but facts 💜 by SausageFanatic in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
"Actualy, yes, a penis and a vagina have almost the same anatomy if seen from above, so a vagina is just an inner penis, and a penis is just an outside vagina
The only main diferences are the X and Y, and witch hormones they would produce"
OMG, how stupid can you be?? You begin your life as a clump of cells, is your head the same as your knee? This is so dumb I literally have no words. In no world are a penis and vagina the same, they literally function COMPLETELY DIFFERENTLY. You've seen enough porn to also know they look nothing alike!
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
They look happy and cute together tbh. Just two effeminate gay men in a loving relationship. The story is also adorable.
I wish they could just accept that they're gay men and be okay with that. This reminds me of the two trans men who eventually detransitioned and accepted themselves as lesbians, I sincerely wish them all the best.
TERFs 😤 Stop downvoting trans people because it hurts their feelings! (I find this hilarious, I mean really?)Women's Issues
Actually, good point Rose... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT
I actually love the labrys flag because of the history behind it, personally.
What the fuck is this supposed to even mean?
Every. Single. Time. by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 17 insightful - 10 fun17 insightful - 9 fun18 insightful - 9 fun18 insightful - 10 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
They want to be 15yo anime cat girls 🤮
Big distinction between all of us but LGBT is an umbrella so we're all associated together. Another reason why we need to drop the T
[–]RedditHatesLesbians 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
Disassociation. Nonbinary lesbians are lesbians because they're afab which would mean your sex determines your sexuality but transbians are lesbians because of their gender identity, which means gender identity determines sexuality. Both contradict each other and are an example of double think in TRA ideology
Still, does it function anything like a penis? That's really interesting but even that's a huge stretch