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[–]TarshishJupiter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Same. I used to dread getting married. I dreaded the wedding night too. (But of course I thought it would have to happen, because of how I grew up.)

I kept having dreams where I would walk down the aisle, get married to some dude, feel weird about kissing him, and then immediately regret it and cry afterwards. Or dreams where a man and I were going into the bedroom on our wedding night, and I would always back out and run away. I had at least five or six of those dreams that I can remember.

Now that I know I'm a lesbian, I can't wait to get married to the right woman. I know marriage and weddings are a little silly, but I have stars in my eyes at the thought of them. The old dreams have stopped, and instead, I'll occasionally have a dream that I'm marrying a woman - and the only reason I'll be upset is when I wake up, lol.

[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

That's adorable! I had a lot of dreams about women before realising I'm a lesbian and while questioning, like my subconscious was screaming "Yes, you're a lesbian, you idiot!"

What doesn't help is if you Google why you're having such dreams, Google is quick to tell you that it definitely doesn't mean you're gay and that it's symbolism for conflict in your life or something else vague that can apply to anyone. Turns out it meant I'm gay.

[–]TarshishJupiter 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I had dreams about women too before I knew I was a lesbian. And yes, Google is no help! Dream sites are usually like, "You need to connect with your femininity." Like... ok??