Ah, now it makes much more sense!

xandit · 2021-07-31T16:53:25+00:00

Someone who only likes women with a penis I think.

xandit · 2021-07-31T16:51:58+00:00

I hope you're training yourselves to speak and write in a proper manner

Nope.

if the situation get really badly out of control.

They are telling us sex is a construct and homosexuality is a fetish, how much worse can it get?

So try to be smart about what you're posting here, and how you're doing it, and why. Try as the best as you can to be reasonable.

Reasonable to who? The people who hate us? Wanna punch us?

Blaming the kids with "blue hair and ugly clothes" won't do any of you any good.

Sjw’s are the reason we are in this mess. They amplifed the queer theory gender nonsense into a pseudoscience.

I truly suggest you to try and see how you can be more revelant, less insulting

You can ask jk Rowling about whose side is more insulting.

This place became a collection of everything TQ does wrong, instead of focusing how WE could do things right as LGB people.

What should we be doing? The people at Lgb alliance tried to be heard for a year before they had to break off from stonewall. Tra’s don’t want to listen, they want us to conform to their beliefs. So what do you suggest besides “being reasonable” whatever that means?

xandit · 2021-07-31T16:30:32+00:00

Do they really not know why organisms have sexuality?

xandit · 2021-07-31T16:28:00+00:00

For sale by owner: pair of brown eyeballs, slightly used, recently gouged out.

xandit · 2021-07-30T09:31:25+00:00

He’s from the same home planet that the Q+ is from

xandit · 2021-07-30T09:27:57+00:00

Such big hands you have, my dear

xandit · 2021-07-29T23:56:09+00:00

I suppose she could have said their are males here... but they would have jumped on her anyway.

xandit · 2021-07-29T18:32:25+00:00

don't you dare use the pride flag or attend pride OR ever come to ANY QUEER SPACES!!!!

I wanna send him a picture of me wrapped in a pride flag.

xandit · 2021-07-29T03:17:25+00:00

Link please please

xandit · 2021-07-29T01:39:17+00:00

Yeah I thought it was more complicated, with needing the right balance of hormones etc that only a woman could provide. But they are saying it’s possible to just stick a uterus in there?

xandit · 2021-07-29T01:32:48+00:00

I think we should all, and I mean heterosexual people too, click on prefer not to disclose.

xandit · 2021-07-29T01:29:10+00:00

Imagine being this nuts at only 16

xandit · 2021-07-28T04:44:04+00:00

tell her what? that she's an idiot?

xandit · 2021-07-26T10:29:48+00:00

homo is just as bad as queer.

xandit · 2021-07-26T10:26:39+00:00

only men say breedable.

xandit · 2021-07-26T10:24:56+00:00

I think we need a link for that fight...

I realized terf was meaningless when they started to describe ideas as "terfy"

xandit · 2021-07-24T22:28:40+00:00

i skimmed it, it was the usually nonsense.

xandit · 2021-07-24T21:44:26+00:00

Neither of them is an asshole or spewing TRA bullshit so mostly I feel protective of them and cringe on their behalf about what's going on in their neck of the woods.

if they aren't actively fighting it, its still a problem. their kind are the ones in control now.

xandit · 2021-07-23T18:29:21+00:00

to be fair, we did this too, but the sjw's really like to milk it.

xandit · 2021-07-23T18:28:00+00:00

you mean recurring heterosexual character haha

xandit · 2021-07-23T18:23:24+00:00

I'm a different username over there, is that the one you see? Good to know I am famous. They really liked my movie idea.

xandit · 2021-07-23T14:19:47+00:00

Be sure to check their comments, they are fully insisting that sex doesn’t matter either.

xandit · 2021-07-23T14:14:46+00:00

The entire comments section was about trans men being female, and homosexuals don’t date females or men with vaginas. I doubt their friend committed suicide over that.

xandit · 2021-07-22T18:47:08+00:00

Actual DID, or self diagnosed via tumblr?

xandit · 2021-07-21T05:24:31+00:00

I read one in my late teens from the library but I could see it was pushing casual sex and open relationships to teenage gays.

xandit · 2021-07-20T03:53:13+00:00

I don’t get it, why would gay men care about this emoji?

xandit · 2021-07-19T21:57:06+00:00

I was wondering about the girl and her thing among gay men, seems like they won’t be able to do it going forward.

xandit · 2021-07-17T23:22:46+00:00

Gotta agree, this is in no way an “in sickness and in health” situation, wher you are sticking through your partner through adversity. They are radically altering their body to the point of it affecting things in the bedroom, AND also requiring the trans widow to completely alter their own language about themselves, as far as sexual identity, and their relationship.

xandit · 2021-07-17T17:49:17+00:00

whats in the water in Scotland?

xandit · 2021-07-17T17:42:03+00:00

Heartbreaking story. I don't know how we will ever escape this gender madness.

xandit · 2021-07-14T21:32:06+00:00

THe slippery slope from gay marriage was men marrying dogs. No one saw the gender stuff coming. If we hadn’t merged with th we would have just moved on to not getting fired for being gay, and then maybe international laws. I don’t see how marriage leads to gender ideology.

Homosexuality doesn’t cause you distress unless it’s coming from external pressure to not be gay. Younger lgb have less and less of this societal pressure. Trans with disphoria, they really have distress over their own selves, they see their bodies as wrong. Those that aren’t dysphoria are just playing with gender because they believe in the gender religion. Not sure if they count as mental illness though.

xandit · 2021-07-14T05:56:32+00:00

I get it, she may just want someone to relate to, so I can't be too mad, but I think it is disrespectful.

Anyone trying to make you trans should make you mad, doesn’t matter the reason. She’s ignoring who you are as a person.

why can't I just be a lesbian?

you can ask your friends that. They should respect your identity since you go out of your way to respect theirs. let them know you know who you are already. Transitioning doesn’t make weight issues disappear.

I don't want to make this a book

This is the place to rant so go ahead.

Don’t let people misgender you, even if you don’t care. You can let them know you don’t do the pronoun thing. I’d like to say it gets better at college, you’d have to ask someone in there now, but from what I see it won’t be. Just keep true to yourself, find people who think like you for friends, and stay strong. Also, stay away from sjws

xandit · 2021-07-14T01:45:44+00:00

The compatibility of the "community" was based off gender nonconformity. Gay people are by definition gender nonconforming

Just that I don’t agree with the idea of gays as being non gender conforming by default. It seems like a stretching of the the definition of gender non conforming. Are married gays gender conforming?

I think it’s more about societal rules than gender rules, IMO.

xandit · 2021-07-13T23:17:37+00:00

maybe it’s because they are cute little girly girls like they wish they could have been when they were younger.

xandit · 2021-07-13T23:12:59+00:00

I read the comments by the bi guy and i really don’t think the issue is bi guys in gay spaces. As long as they know it’s for same sex and not opposite sex discussions. That said, I have read the bi Reddit’s but I wouldn’t really post in their space.

I think the real problem is the sjw types. The gender ideologist. The ones that believe gender matters and not sex, and that a vagina is a normal part of the male body. This is the nonsense from queer theory that’s infected our community. Its not just bi guys who will lecture us, it will be other gay guys, and even lesbians. They have swallowed the gender ideology whole and we are battling uphill to maintain the old language of sex and not gender attraction. I agree though that a lot of the woke bi don’t get monosexuality and can’t fathom why genitals matter. Or they they think it’s some kind of higher state of being to not care about genitals.

xandit · 2021-07-13T22:49:54+00:00

What bisexuals can do is not say they are gay or lesbian or even heterosexual if they are mostly one or the other. Having the desire, even if you don’t express it often, for more than one sex is not homo/heterosexuality. Bi should have pride in their sexuality like the rest of us. If it’s difficult to be out then that won’t be fixed until B does the some work L and G did. It’s up to LG to have your back though, and support you in that.

xandit · 2021-07-13T14:36:32+00:00

Again, an unmarried straight women, maybe a certain type of feminist may decide she doesn’t want to be in a relationship, and rejects it, by choice would fit your definition.

xandit · 2021-07-13T02:15:47+00:00

i have no idea whats going on here

xandit · 2021-07-13T01:36:36+00:00

under that definition unmarried straight people are gender nonconforming.

xandit · 2021-07-12T19:06:16+00:00

So xenogenders aren’t actually genders? What the hell are they talking about?

xandit · 2021-07-12T08:52:51+00:00

So I always thought of nb as a sort of philosophical belief, personal belief about sex roles and such, but someone said they also experience gender dysphoria, like trans people. Did you?

xandit · 2021-07-12T03:17:15+00:00

Wow! I joined the last one... was there one before? I know there was a mod who left who was really nasty about trans people. Wanted a hate sub I think.

xandit · 2021-07-12T03:11:59+00:00

There’s a bi guy in there telling a gay man to kill himself.

xandit · 2021-07-11T00:21:39+00:00

When is the anniversary of the founding of the group though? Is must be close to three years...

xandit · 2021-07-11T00:19:19+00:00

Oh we can never forget trans people exist, they remind us about their status as most marginalized of all time. I can’t wait for September to arrive so I can celebrate trans appreciation month #4. I plan to center them all that month.

xandit · 2021-07-10T22:06:16+00:00

There are some people who as they go through puberty they have issues with their body, and they think they are trans. So there are therapies to help them deal with their body issues, to help them to see and feel (relatively speaking) good about their body like most people. If it works then the person usually sees it isn’t about needing to transition. The radicals see this as conversion therapy, as if you were converting a trans person to cos, which makes no sense.

So anyone who tried to work out their issues without transitioning, are considered to be like trying to convert a gay person.

xandit · 2021-07-10T01:03:03+00:00

3 years ago I would have agreed with this, that homosexual sounds too clinical, and only the evangelicals call us homosexuals and not gays and lesbians. But I know now this is not about that, these organizations want to erase sexuality based on sex, and move it to based on gender, so they can be inclusive to trans at the expense of the lgb. So online I will often say homosexual even though I prefer gay, because we can’t let the sex be taken out of a movement started to fight discrimination based on choice of same sex partners.

xandit · 2021-07-08T22:03:52+00:00

Is the lgbtq community nuts over there too?

xandit · 2021-07-08T00:12:50+00:00

Sjw? RUN

seriously though, sjw’s are like a cult, with all their religious beliefs, so it’s not like you are dealing with a normal situation of “let’s agree to disagree.” He might be thinking less of you if don’t “get check your privilege and get educated.” He wants to convert you to his side not have an adult discussion. So you have to keep that in mind going forward with him. You might gradually get him to see things as they are, but he’s got a lot of society telling him he’s right. So you need to balance the strength of the rest of the relationship against never agreeing on these things.

xandit · 2021-07-08T00:12:50+00:00

Sjw? RUN

seriously though, sjw’s are like a cult, with all their religious beliefs, so it’s not like you are dealing with a normal situation of “let’s agree to disagree.” He might be thinking less of you if don’t “get check your privilege and get educated.” He wants to convert you to his side not have an adult discussion. So you have to keep that in mind going forward with him. You might gradually get him to see things as they are, but he’s got a lot of society telling him he’s right. So you need to balance the strength of the rest of the relationship against never agreeing on these things.

xandit · 2021-07-07T03:10:10+00:00

Who does she think is pushing the trans stuff? Right wingers?

xandit · 2021-07-05T16:10:22+00:00

I remember bill maher and the Prague u guy of all peopl having the same conversation about men and vaginas... they laughed at the “silly” conservative but that’s because they don’t deal with it like we do.

xandit · 2021-07-04T22:54:23+00:00

she's still on youtube, but i think demonitized

xandit · 2021-07-04T04:53:08+00:00

Well done, whoever was carrying that Rainbow Flag banner - you single-handedly probably set back gay rights a decade or so in the minds of those who view the footage.

yep, they associate us with defending naked men in front of little girls now

xandit · 2021-07-04T04:51:31+00:00

https://twitter.com/MrAndyNgo/status/1411391998649532418

THAT is what needs to go viral.

Drop the Q fascists too.

xandit · 2021-07-04T04:48:09+00:00

how does one decolonize oneself?

xandit · 2021-07-04T04:42:37+00:00

can't unsee

xandit · 2021-07-04T04:40:45+00:00

yeah in one of the videos you can here them say "they stole that gay guys flag!" as if that was the worse thing that happened. one guy in the video go hit with what they said was a pipe.

xandit · 2021-07-04T04:37:56+00:00

he is gay, yes. Antifa attracks trans because they are very pro trans, supporting therm over women.

xandit · 2021-07-04T01:48:27+00:00

Sadly, it’s correct either way.

xandit · 2021-07-03T23:30:06+00:00

Yeah changes in law is one thing, changing how people feel about us is a long term project. They still don’t get us because the public face of us keeps changing. Now it’s all about gender. “Lgb are the ones concerned about gender”

xandit · 2021-07-03T23:25:53+00:00

Even with them deleted I can easily guess the SJW’s arguments that they are giving you in this thread...same nonsense about colonization of gender identities lol

xandit · 2021-07-03T23:17:56+00:00

Makes me think their a kid without all the details about what it really is.

xandit · 2021-07-03T23:15:59+00:00

Of course antifa has to show up...they’ve got to stop those fascist females from harming those poor trans women... btw where did you see the footage of the protest?

xandit · 2021-07-03T00:26:18+00:00

This is exactly where we are now, how far we have seceded language. I just saw in askgaybros some guy used the term “attraction to same sex” and he was accused off using a “heinous” dog whistle. So anyone he says same sex and not same gender attraction is dog whistling to terfs/Alt right/nazis/hitler himself.

xandit · 2021-07-02T17:26:34+00:00

Liking certain genitalia is as valid as sexual orientation,

Its not a sexual orientation, its just "like one"

but the "Oh I won't have sex with any trans people because I put them all in a box" are the superstraights of genital preferences (Well they are the same people) and have to ruin it for everyone with their made up sexualities to ostracise certain groups of people, just like saying you're "asiansexual" will never be a valid sexuality

Homosexuals are made up sexualities I guess.

xandit · 2021-07-02T17:11:14+00:00

everyone who is LGB has to be part of the lgbtqia+ community regardless of whether they want it or not

what does that mean has to? what does it mean to be in the community? sending money? protesting>

xandit · 2021-07-01T18:40:42+00:00

Kink and sexuality are linked for them so it must be for all of us.

xandit · 2021-07-01T18:38:27+00:00

Doesn’t international pride month start now?

xandit · 2021-07-01T06:02:55+00:00

the neighbors are complaining about the late night noise and the trash, the park has a curfew that gets ignored.

xandit · 2021-07-01T04:27:03+00:00

Did they say why he was attacked?

xandit · 2021-07-01T03:44:35+00:00

I can run across it with a link hint hint

xandit · 2021-06-30T21:53:32+00:00

its the modern sjw movement, and lgb and t are brainwashed by it. lived experience is a counter argument, and the narrative is more important than the historical facts. They aren't taught how to think, but what to think. And to shut out anyone who thinks different.

xandit · 2021-06-30T21:40:53+00:00

my comment there got a gold award :)

xandit · 2021-06-30T14:41:58+00:00

I hear people say a ton, "sort-of gay" or "very gay" as if being gay were something a person could have in varying quantities.

I hate when they do that... it makes us look like we are all pansexual. I don't want an opposite sex experience, if somone likes them even occasionally then your not homosexual.

I assume most people who say that are just referring to same-sex attraction rather than homosexuality, but it really sends a mixed message about what bisexuality is.

That's why I tell Bi people who don't wanna infringe on the lgb community because they are in opposite sex relationships that for the sake of their own identities they need to be "out" as bi.

xandit · 2021-06-30T13:36:06+00:00

It’s a lack of focus, spreading your message to thin. This is happening to our community too, where we are fusing BLM into it.

xandit · 2021-06-30T13:21:53+00:00

No credible queer person would say it but an l g or b person would. Rights don’t fall from the sky just because you marched and protested a lot.takes work behind the scenes.

xandit · 2021-06-29T17:28:37+00:00

So you don’t forget trans women of color EVER

xandit · 2021-06-29T17:24:19+00:00

We take a stand against: the porn-prostitutional and pedophile system, patriarchal religions and ideologies and the political system created by men. We are anti-capitalist and anti-racist. We support the struggles of decolonial feminists and racialized [meaning people of color] and / or working class women. We denounce the communitarianism [french political concept that doesn't translate, read: ethnocentrism] of white and bourgeois men in power.

So selfish, they aren’t going to fix climate change too? They are gonna be some very busy lesbians.

xandit · 2021-06-29T11:21:59+00:00

I really wish he had mentioned his dick more, i'm still not sure how big it is

xandit · 2021-06-29T11:13:07+00:00

we all know who put lesbian on the banned words lisT

xandit · 2021-06-29T11:08:10+00:00

they left out the intersex circle

xandit · 2021-06-29T11:06:04+00:00

I imagine "in a gay way" would be something like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLdKU4JCYqg

xandit · 2021-06-29T05:38:02+00:00

Why would you frame your thoughts around anyone else? We're done with that, aren't we? BE YOURSELF.

You interpreted what she said as homophobic, I was trying to say it wasn't by explaining what I though she meant. I didn't see anything she said as homophobic. She said maybe you would not care if there is a woman in the mens room because your not interested in woman. That it wouldn't be a sexual situation. Are you saying its homophobic that she brought that up at all?

We are here for LGB, not to represent women's rights and shit all over T and various men when a misstep is made. LGB is the focus here.

I understand that, and why you would pull this video off, and also that you left it up to talk about what did apply to us, in your eyes, the homophobic part. I never wanted it to be GC 2.0 on reddit, or here. Anyway, I read somewhere there is a longer video of her saying it was a "cis" man in there, but I cant find it,and I don't use instagram. So it may not even be trans related. Do you see it as shitting on T? Theres a two year old review by another woman saying a guy was in there and she was fine with him being trans but she really felt he wasn't by his behavior and it creeped her out, so its happened there before. This is about no gatekeeping, self I.d., I say I'm a woman and I can enter any female space. The woman making the video, IMO doesn't realize loss of sex based rights also means dicks in the changing room, until it happened to her. That might just be me projecting though.

shit all over T and various men when a misstep is made

His first mistake was opening his mouth, it went downhill from there. But seriously, he is an sjw doing what they always do, come up and educate you about why you are wrong and a bigot as well. Not really a misstep.

Me: I'm not sure why you quoted me because you reversed the scenario with your question, so I just answered your scenario, of men in women's areas. You: This isn't Reddit. I asked you, specifically, because I believe you will give real talk. Don't pander to me, I know you, shut up. Be real and talk for real.

Your question confused me honesty, you quoted me talking about women in mens rooms but then YOU asked me about men in women's spaces. So I didn't know what you were asking me. As I responded before, yes, just like the libfem handmaidens, plenty of gay men (and women and bi's) are pushing the trans narrative hard, because they are lgbtqia+++ and think its their job as sjw's to protect the T. Like this shmuck https://twitter.com/Slatzism/status/1407365543309492232

Don't pander to me, I know you, shut up. Be real and talk for real.

What did i say was pandering? Btw you look lovely in that outfit. Anyway if I didn't answer your question, maybe rephrase it for me. I hope this thing is formatted right

xandit · 2021-06-29T03:53:42+00:00

this is about what she thinks, so i was framing it that way. He was defending a trans woman in the bathroom, because many sjw gay men do do that. He rushed over and his first thought was not the possibility that there was an actual man in there, who identified as a man, but that it was a trans woman and this black women needed to be "educated."

also, I'm not sure why you quoted me because you reversed the scenario with your question, so I just answered your scenario, of men in women's areas.

xandit · 2021-06-29T03:23:44+00:00

I agree with homophobia being subtle sometimes, but I really think she was just saying he might be fine with women in the men's room because he is gay and therefore not interested in the female body? Also the asian guy brought up sexual orientation (incorrectly) and she said that had nothing to do with it. She makes a crack at the end about his manhood, but she seems to be the type that feels men should be confronting and dealing with "perverts" in the changing rooms.

xandit · 2021-06-29T03:18:05+00:00

never heard that phrase i think she was just saying he's got his priorities all screwed up.

xandit · 2021-06-29T03:07:58+00:00

yeah if your not familiar with trans and then someone tells you about girldick, that's gonna be a tough one to understand.

xandit · 2021-06-29T03:02:22+00:00

they gonna cancel him to death

xandit · 2021-06-29T03:00:37+00:00

that video where the woman is complaining about a man in the spa, the asian guy quotes sexual orientation as to why he's allowed in there, I don't hear him say because of the gender laws.... i've heard it in other places, I know its probably accidental but sometimes I wonder if people are just confused because its always sexual orientation and gender lumped together.

xandit · 2021-06-29T02:57:21+00:00

I don't think the doctor assigned you gay at birth...besides me of course.

xandit · 2021-06-29T02:55:32+00:00

lgbt attack vendor

https://videos.dailymail.co.uk/video/mol/2021/06/28/1538515599704084063/960x540_MP4_1538515599704084063.mp4

xandit · 2021-06-28T23:11:05+00:00

The Hungarian law bans all educational materials and programs for children that are considered to promote homosexuality, gender reassignment and the concept of sexuality deviating from the one assigned to a person at birth.

I keep seeing people talk about gender identity and transitioning when they clearly mean sexual orientation, and visa-versa. Here it is in print on cnn saying sexuality is assigned at birth. Wut??

xandit · 2021-06-28T23:07:22+00:00

Your mind says ooh that guy is attractive but then you remember they have a vagina and that makes it go away lol.

xandit · 2021-06-27T20:04:13+00:00

is that male or female?

xandit · 2021-06-27T07:33:32+00:00

big crowd?

xandit · 2021-06-27T07:24:37+00:00

a month seems too long.

xandit