After reading AIDS obituaries all week, finding this was surreal.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-29T22:11:37+00:00

Sorry OP, but you're gonna need to give a little more detail and reflection in a text post if you plan to link to r/transtimelines.

Otherwise it has no bearing on us because of rule 2, and the entire thread will just turn into everyone breaking rule 3.

You're welcome to repost with a little more information of your thoughts and the correlation.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-26T17:01:58+00:00

For anyone who missed it, here is the Lesbian Masterdoc: https://archive.ph/R45Mi

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-23T18:32:49+00:00

Yes, it's your other username. I'm really surprised I haven't seen more, whether red or green. They're slacking on the job by not tagging any mods.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-23T15:21:49+00:00

Oh hey, guess what u/xandit?

Now that I finally have the extension working, you're the first user on Reddit I came across who has the naughty red name.

Good thing it's hardly visible for me because of the bright green RES tag and huge number of upvotes I've given you ;)

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-22T21:29:30+00:00

Your submission has been removed due to:

Rule 4. Disallowed Language

Our sub seeks to champion LGB people of a variety of backgrounds, and want all of our LGB users to feel welcome. We do not allow specific ideological slang/terms to be used which may be used in a negative or divisive context. These include, but are not limited to: TIM/TIF, Timmy/Tiffany, MTT/FTT, etc

We suggest using the following terminology instead: trans-identified (fe)male, trans (wo)man, trans natal (fe)male, trans people, FTM / MTF

If you edit your submission to remove the phrase, or you feel this removal was performed in-error, please let the subreddit Moderators know by sending ModMail so your submission may be re-approved.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-22T19:15:44+00:00

Mark helped me figure it out, it's working now!

Apparently BabylonBee is tagged as "anti-trans", LOL. Can't wait to see what other sites are on their shit-list.

None of us mods are tagged, surprisingly.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-22T18:53:22+00:00

Says "professionally diagnosed since 2014".

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-22T18:51:43+00:00

has site access "On all sites".

OMG I'm an idiot. <facepalm>

I don't know if I deselected that, or the pop-up didn't appear before, or what. But that's all it was. Thank you!

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-22T17:42:51+00:00

Removing for rules 2 and 3.

This would be better suited for one of the GenderCritical subs or s/ThereAreTwoGenders

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-22T15:57:23+00:00

Yeah, I've never been able to see names in any other colors, I dunno what I'm doing wrong.

Last time I tried it, either AHS or the Masstagger subs had pictures of a couple "transphobic" accounts on Twitter, so I installed the extension and went to those Twitter accounts, and nothing changed for me. Still black text for their user names instead of red.

Do I need to tag a user first, and then the floodgates open maybe?

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-22T15:49:31+00:00

Twitter user got the internet hug-of-death, Tweets are now protected.

In any case, lets keep focused on the LGB/DropTheT-related stuff like u/MilkTea and u/RedEyedWarrior are noting below, and not delve into attacking this person.

While the whole thing sounds absurd initially, this is a 19 year old with DID (dissociative identity disorder): https://nebulaesystem.carrd.co/#main. This is much much more than "woke gone wild", this is legit mental illness.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-21T15:14:00+00:00

I've tried using that browser extension just to see if I or any other Redditors I'm familiar with are tagged/red, but I can never seem to get anything to change color. Does anyone know how it actually works?

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-13T16:17:57+00:00

No need to add it at all. RES (Reddit Enhancement Suite) is only for Reddit, and adds a ton of features and usability to the Reddit user experience. However, mods have to implement specific CSS to make sure subs are usable with all those features. SaidIt tried to do a port of the browser extension in the early days, but it's not working correctly, and will actually overwrite any RES settings.

The good thing though is that SaidIt has actually added some of the RES features into this site natively. For example, dark mode/night mode. Users of New Reddit have dark mode, but then you have to use New Reddit, ugh. Users of Old Reddit don't get the option for dark mode at all, and instead have to use RES.

Anyway, enough about that, haha.

For flairs, it sounds like you're doing it right, and maybe either your internet connection or the site here was lagging. It should eventually stop showing "submitting" and refresh to look like this: https://imgur.com/a/RZHeEDq

Also, just to be sure ... up above in the flair settings/options, does yours look like this? https://imgur.com/a/p7xkIdo

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-13T15:32:37+00:00

Yes, reports are anonymous to mods. SaidIt Admins can see which users do them though.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-12T19:36:32+00:00

I'm happy to help! u/TumbleweedFireflies created our flairs originally but I've tinkered here and there.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-12T16:46:38+00:00

From the "about" section of their YT profile:

Your neighbourhood gay trans fairy.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-12T16:37:33+00:00

Removing for rule 2. This would be best suited for s/GenderCritical or s/GenderCriticalGuys. Or potentially s/ThereAreTwoGenders

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-12T16:34:12+00:00

Whoever reported this ... OP, your thread is fine. Just because we're all here on LGBDTT doesn't mean there isn't some dirt in our own houses to clean up.

I will remind everyone though, this isn't your invitation to summarily lump ALL BISEXUALS TOGETHER under one big umbrella just because of the TQ+ craziness infecting our communities. Remember that there are plenty of bisexuals here who AREN'T doing that, and who are just as frustrated by the misrepresentation and homophobia.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-12T16:00:45+00:00

I've been wondering what happened to r/TrueBisexuals. Any dramatic juicy screenshots to share?

I made s/bisexuals for them here and a couple of their mods came over, and have since abandoned this site, so I couldn't get any updates.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-08T17:26:35+00:00

Removed for rule 3.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-02T15:51:25+00:00

See if this will get you past the prompt to use the app:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TransyTalk/comments/obqv8l/i_think_genital_preferences_are_okay

Maybe using Old Reddit will force it to open in a browser instead?

Here's an archive for ya though, just in case: https://archive.ph/HJWie

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-07-01T19:13:04+00:00

Archive: https://archive.ph/A9Gxm

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-29T15:13:57+00:00

Anyone get an archive? Doesn't seem to be coming up for me, I think they deleted?

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-28T23:27:53+00:00

On another thread I posted an album with some photos, I don't speak French so I just used Google Translate for those: https://imgur.com/a/sqQBx9Z

Lesbians need feminism not mutilating transition
Lesbians don't like penises
"Genital preferences" are natural not transphobic

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-24T23:27:05+00:00

Removing for rule 2. This would be best suited for a Gender Critical sub, or perhaps s/ThereAreTwoGenders

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-24T22:17:34+00:00

LMAO, well done and thank you!

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-24T15:06:21+00:00

Sorry, your post got caught in our ModQueue, just got to it! Looks like you posted twice, so I've approved the other one and am removing this one as a duplicate.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-23T15:54:42+00:00

lmao, I was sharing this article with our other mods while SaidIt was down, and I shit you not ... that quote was the one that stuck out to me too.

Selfish little whiny asshole, "LGB robbed us of our chance to completely colonize their events, how dare they!"

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-23T15:38:27+00:00

BONUS MATERIAL

The "offensive" Facebook post: https://i.imgur.com/YWBJuYj.jpg
The apology: https://i.imgur.com/ZwYASUq.jpg
Disbandment announcement: https://i.imgur.com/eMLwM2Z.jpg

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-23T15:29:14+00:00

I notice that they do that most often under 2 conditions:

1) If I've been mass-archiving things back-to-back (like 5 or 6 articles within seconds of each other)
2) When they have THOUSANDS of items in the queue to be archived (I JUST went to archive something, and it's registering at number 12,642 in the queue)

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-23T15:25:11+00:00

Anyone else's gaydar going off like crazy just looking at this dude?

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-23T15:21:30+00:00

Removing for rule 2, this would be better for a Gender Critical sub or s/ThereAreTwoGenders

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-18T18:15:04+00:00

Good lord!

This isn't quite appropriate for our sub though, it would be better suited for s/GenderCritical and s/ItsAFetish

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-17T15:42:37+00:00

Hey Julien, I've got to keep this removed. It's a little too "witch-hunt"y to be calling out another user like this, even someone on Reddit, and could ACTUALLY incite the brigading behavior that the user frequently says we're guilty of.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-17T15:29:27+00:00

Thank you TAM, very much appreciate your help and insight!

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-14T23:11:20+00:00

Oh hey, I was just reading that whole thread on AGB and was wondering why your account was suddenly suspended. RES shows me I apparently upvoted you a lot, haha

If you told LGB people 10 years ago that gay marriage would lead to a world of male lesbians and penis-in-vagina being considered gay sex, they would have rejected it.

I don't believe gay marriage was the cause, but I do see how once gay marriage was legal, everything shifted and TQ+ started ramping up.

I can't comment on whether LGB would have rejected it though, knowing then what we know now. As an unmarried person who doesn't ever plan to do so, I don't think I'm quite qualified :)

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-03T15:45:45+00:00

I think LGB Alliance really shook things up, and now that they're a proper charity, the tides are turning. Media and lawmakers are starting to notice the shit-flinging that TQ+ orgs are doing, especially since they're getting loose and sloppy with it now.

They may not have opened their eyes to the full extent of what's gone on over the past decade, but it seems like people are beginning to ask themselves "why does everyone seem to hate this LGB charity, what's going on here?". Whereas before, they figured we were all just one big family bickering among ourselves.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-02T16:00:30+00:00

FINALLY! I've been waiting for the opportunity for my clothes to express my sexuality to everyone in the world!

All my life I've struggled to find trousers with a 29-inch inseam, and tops that fit both my waist and my large bust ... formless, shapeless, neutral-colored clothing is exactly what I've needed. Now my true bisexual self can shine outwards, among my peers and in my professional life.

Thanks Bonds! You've truly outdone yourself, and just in time to support LGBTQIA+ Pride Month.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-02T15:52:58+00:00

Glad to see a sub still able to have a little fun with it all.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-06-02T15:47:10+00:00

Congrats to them all!

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-28T23:30:58+00:00

I made myself watch the whole thing. Goddamn, that was some woke garbage.

Also confused why the BLM fist is so prominently displayed here? Like nothing against actual legit BLM activists but seems so out of place for just a pride segment?

Do you mean on the microphone? I think that's just meant to be a general activist fist, not necessarily BLM

That not really wanting to acknowledge bi because bi means 2 is showing

Oh hey, we got a shout-out in #6 ... combined as "Ace, Bi, and Pan". I don't know what that creature is supposed to be that represents us, but it reminds me of the pink vomit monster from r/place

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-28T19:23:53+00:00

Here's some original-source articles:

Yep, homosexual male who continually refers to "gay" and "sexual orientation".

News reporters, and of course, all the ~~LGB~~T orgs are the ones saying he identifies as trans and changing pronouns to "she". I can't find evidence of him or the family saying it at all.

Look at how The Advocate even editorializes what his aunt said:

“[She] wanted to kill [herself] because they keep bullying [her]. Hearing that, it just makes me cry,’” said Sanford’s aunt Raquel Showers.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-27T22:01:42+00:00

The OP of that thread is an admitted former-TRA who only recently stopped, and is coming to terms with himself being "gay-identified" and critical of gender as a construct. He's gonna be a hot mess for a while.

I'd be wary of OP, but not necessarily take the post as an indication of s/GenderCritical leaning into homophobia overall. Pretty sure mods will give the OP the boot once they're back online and see all the "mansplaining" in his (currently removed) comments.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-27T17:26:35+00:00

WTF Reddit. Who knew the word "gay" is now considered hate speech.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-25T16:48:40+00:00

Probably can't even call them a 'suspect' any more. Maybe person of interest, but what if they don't identify as a person.

You joke, but check out this malarkey: https://www.sfchronicle.com/bayarea/philmatier/article/SF-Board-of-Supervisors-sanitizes-language-of-14292255.php

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-25T16:44:01+00:00

Removing for rule 2. Discussions about the trans murder rate would be better suited for a Gender Critical sub or a trans-specific sub.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-25T16:14:42+00:00

I'm enjoying these "experiences" being shared by "working class queers":

Daisy, 18: “Freedom of gender is usually sold to us in the form of middle-class cisgender men/women in non-conventional clothing”. This shows that if we do not see representations of queer working-class people we start to believe they do not exist.

Khaleel, 21: “Conversations around queerness were never had in my area,”

You know why "queer working-class people" don't exist? Because regardless of our sexuality, the actual working class doesn't give 2 shits about this nonsense.

Rent is due, we've got bills to pay and mouths to feed, our trainers/sneakers are held together with prayers and Shoe Goo until next month's paycheck, and we're worried that our POS car might break down again and we won't be able to get to work. We don't have the luxury of being concerned about whether our clothing choice accurately reflects our personal ~~corporate brand~~ identity to anyone else.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-25T15:54:52+00:00

Archive, for users who don't want to click through the cookie settings/preferences: https://archive.ph/XWNXH

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-25T15:49:29+00:00

Here's the details from her website also: https://allisonbailey.co.uk/updates/update-6-trial-moved-back/

(archived)

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-25T15:48:09+00:00

We can thank u/PeakingPeachEater for that! I was stumped trying to figure out how to NOT make them look like a rainbow vomited all over words, and her creativity saved the day!

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-25T15:41:26+00:00

To all our UK friends, I hope for your sake that this doesn't go through... this nonsense already passed for us in California, but at least it's not federal:

RECORDING GENDER
birth certificates, passports and driving licenses, along with all forms of identification ... the option to select an "X" gender marker

It's makes no fucking sense at all that legal IDENTIFICATION is being allowed to go off of what's in someone's head. If a LEO is chasing a suspect, how are they supposed to communicate to other LEOs who to look for? "A white suspect of indeterminate gender identity, approximately 5'4"-5'8", 150 lbs, green shoulder-length hair". And healthcare, how are doctors supposed to treat "non-binary" ailments and illnesses that are male/female specific? "Patient X, I'm afraid you have testicular cancer and we'll need to remove your scrotum. I can recommend you to a support group for ~~male~~, I mean ~~assigned male~~, oops, um ... gender non-specific cancer survivors". Ridiculous.

Also, can anyone explain what the "spousal veto" thing in the FAMILIES AND MARRIAGE section is all about? I don't get it. I found this explanation of what it means, and I don't see a problem here?

Consequently, where one party transitions, the non-trans party must give their consent to the change of marriage status before a full GRC can be issued. If such consent is withheld, the marriage must be dissolved by divorce or annulled before a full GRC can be issued.

If someone doesn't want to be in a so-called "same sex" marriage with a transitioning person, then yes, they should have every right to say so. It's not like the trans person can't still transition, it just means the marriage is over if they do. Actions have consequences, who woulda thunk.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-24T23:04:09+00:00

Not really sure what you were going for with this OP.

Sure, Ellen is a lesbian and victim of trans ideology, but there's nothing of substance for us LGB to discuss about her shirtless selfie, and comments are devolving into breaking rule 3.

If you send us ModMail, we can discuss reinstating the post.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-24T20:27:00+00:00

We need shelter on a website that can't be taken offline by its bank, server host, Cloudflare, professional trolls, lobbying groups, threats to the site owner or their family, politicians, etc.

The only people I can think who have that type of ironclad site hosting aren't anybody DroptheT wants to associate with

Exactly.

Believe me, we've thought about it too ... the alternatives that exist would reflect negatively on us and our goals, if we were even allowed to be there at all. We're already called nazi sympathizers and puppets/socks of the alt-right. Do we really want to cement that opinion?

Also, sidenote about .win ... it's my understanding that we would still be required to host our own instance of a .win community. And then if the creator of https://communities.win were so inclined, we could be added to their sidebar roster, but no one has been added there for quite some time. I think IP2 or maybe KiA2 were the last ones added, and that was 10 months ago or so.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-24T19:57:00+00:00

Sorry, I have to remove this under rule 2. I watched the entire video, and the wasn't a single mention of LGB or the impact this is having on our community.

Would be great for s/GenderCritical or s/detrans though!

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-14T22:05:13+00:00

Papers, please.

Glory to Ameristotzka!

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-12T15:17:50+00:00

Stop stirring the pot. You and the other user clearly have different views, and going out of your way to target her will earn you a permaban.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-12T15:16:51+00:00

I don't know if you've blocked the user already, but if you haven't ... please stop responding. This conversation is going nowhere, and it doesn't appear the other user is participating in good faith with you.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-11T15:34:30+00:00

Removed. Without context, there's no way to say if this is fitting for our sub.

You're welcome to repost with more context, as long as it fits within our rules and goals of the sub.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-07T17:23:48+00:00

They're legislating this shit without one single example of how this plays out

ORLY? Not one example to be found, huh Sarah?

Hannah Mouncey
Laurel Hubbard
Fallon Fox
Rachel McKinnon (aka Veronica Ivy)
Andrea Yearwood

That's just what I can think of off the top of my head without even the slightest bit of effort.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-06T15:15:00+00:00

While "IT'S MA'AM!" 2.0 is certainly hilarious, this isn't right for our sub. Removing for rule 3. This may be better for s/ThereAreTwoGenders, or one of the GenderCritical subs

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-04T16:33:59+00:00

There's a thread on Kiwi Farms about all sorts of trans people in general, and this user is in it.

And someone there said nearly the exact same thing, that they really hoped it was a TERF behind the account saying all the worst things just to see how far Reddit will go to support it.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-04T16:25:15+00:00

I took one for the team and watched.

I'm not familiar with what "Salad Fingers" is as a series or genre or whatever ... but this particular video is an animation. It's creepy and disturbing, demonstrating the insanity of the mind of a violent psychopath, but no gore (unless you count cartoon blood).

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-04T16:10:46+00:00

I like how they brought our SaidIt sub into it, as if that's somehow evidence of us being this little fringe movement.

(Also, hello stalkers! Looks like you didn't get rid of us after all!)

Sure, we're small here, but we started out small on Reddit too. In 16 months, we went from 0 to 23K users.

r/LGBT has been around for 13 years with 729K users. While that gives them an average of 56K each year, more than us ... lesser doesn't mean insignificant.

We were HALF of what they are, even with their hundreds of identities and inclusiveness bringing in non-LGBT members to falsely inflate numbers. I'd be very curious to see their subscriber count if they removed everything after the T.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-03T16:43:12+00:00

This is so creepy, I'd love to hear the mom's side of it too.

I mean, even IF she was the trashiest most obnoxious mom in the world ... THAT'S HER KID. If you're concerned about a child's safety, alert the authorities, don't get in-between them and block their access to each other like a kidnapper.

I was just re-reading this part:

I noticed a fear in her voice and she went wide-eyed when her mom pulled up. I asked again if she was really okay and she started crying. Her mom gets out of the car and yells at her to get in.

It never even occurred to this man that the little girl may have been scared by a stranger continually talking to her while she's all alone waiting for her mom.

This woman started screaming the girl’s name and tried putting her into the car. I held the girl back because the woman was getting more upset and more handsy.

This mom can get as goddamn upset and handsy as she wants when she's pulling HER CHILD away from a stranger.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-03T16:42:02+00:00

Removing per user request (re-submitted).

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-03T16:13:50+00:00

You can edit your post text, no need to resubmit.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-03T16:09:11+00:00

This is so creepy, I'd love to hear the mom's side of it too.

I mean, even IF she was the trashiest most obnoxious mom in the world ... THAT'S HER KID. If you're concerned about a child's safety, alert the authorities, don't get in-between them and block their access to each other like a kidnapper.

I was just re-reading this part:

I noticed a fear in her voice and she went wide-eyed when her mom pulled up. I asked again if she was really okay and she started crying. Her mom gets out of the car and yells at her to get in.

It never even occurred to this man that the little girl may have been scared by a stranger continually talking to her while she's all alone waiting for her mom.

This woman started screaming the girl’s name and tried putting her into the car. I held the girl back because the woman was getting more upset and more handsy.

This mom can get as goddamn upset and handsy as she wants when she's pulling HER CHILD away from a stranger.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-03T15:47:38+00:00

Sorry, we can't do anything to edit another users posts :(

You have way too many > symbols in there, you only need it at the start of each paragraph you're quoting.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-05-03T15:41:28+00:00

Removing, rule 3. We're not here to mock and antagonize trans people.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-04-30T18:39:13+00:00

And remove the spam. Admins will take it from M7 for that alone.

Maybe he can make you and u/d3rr additional mods to help with that at least, in case something like this ever happens again?

If he restricts it, then only the three of you can post there as-necessary, so it doesn't become a honeypot for all the r/AHS losers to target.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-04-30T18:23:09+00:00

Express yourself in a civil manner (hint, not calling people names for having a different opinion is a good start) or you're getting banned. Again.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-04-29T22:42:47+00:00

Please don't feed trolls, it clogs up our ModQueue because everyone's reporting everyone else.

Both of you are breaking multiple sub rules by continuing these shenanigans, and both of you are breaking SaidIt rules by dragging down discussion on the Pyramid with this slap-fighting.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-04-29T20:57:23+00:00

I dunno about that, an Admin specifically said "trans women are women": https://www.reddit.com/r/ModSupport/comments/hk0w7x/request_for_clarification_on_selfreferential/fwq5jlg/

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-04-29T20:03:57+00:00

When she started showing Reddit comments about AL and TL, I was SO HOPING she would also feature one of us or someone mentioning our sub.

Alas, no she did not. But she did show a post by u/annatheginguh, who's been a member of our sub both on Reddit and here! I think Anna may have vacated SaidIt though :(

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-04-29T19:25:29+00:00

Probably the most despised mod on Reddit after Gallowboob, but for different reasons.

Bloviating pedo windbag who thinks far too highly of himself and the righteousness of his crusades. Runs a sub called "AgainstHateSubreddits" that targets and harasses other subs, and encourages users to report them to Admins so they get banned. Runs a sub called "MassTagger", which is a browser extension used to track users who commit the terrible crime of wrongthink across Reddit.

See s/AgainstHateSubreddits here for more info.

NutterButterFlutter · 2021-04-29T17:11:03+00:00

Here's another one!

Booktown fan Phil Quin of Wellington, who identified as a cisgay man

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