Transgender Identity Is Associated With Bullying Involvement Among Finnish Adolescents - PubMed by jet199 in TumblrInAction

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Yes sure, bullying was invented to maintain heteronormativity. THAT'S THE FUCKING CONCLUSION YOU COME TO?

It's back to Foucault and the idea that everyone is a blank slate and would be pansexual and non-binary if not beaten down into submitting to the cis-heteropatriarchy.

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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You're not alone. I suspect that more people think all the gender stuff is nonsense in private, but they're afraid of the social consequences of being honest. It's a case study in how a relatively small, but very loud minority can leverage apparent compliance with their demands.

American Anthropological Association releases statement condemning the "Let's talk about sex" session that was removed from their conference program by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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It's time to cue up all the woke fantasists who'll claim that prior to the boogeyman of "Western Civilization," human culture was all a great, big gender wonderland where trans people were "shamans" or "priests" or otherwise leaders of the tribe, based on virtually no evidence whatsoever other than having read Rousseau and lived through the Rebirth of Romanticism in the 1990s.

Being a lesbian is alllllllllllll about gender identity ladies by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm so tired of the cognitive dissonance. Who could look at that face and not instantly think, "Male." It turns out that a friend of mine on Facebook apparently has a daughter who's become a trans man. There was a photo recently mentioning her "son," and I thought, "That doesn't look like a son. Oh . . . " I looked through the photos and thought, "This person is so obviously shaped like a woman from every angle." But we're supposed to act like we're all fooled. Makes my head hurt.

American and Canadian Anthropology Societies decide a panel about biological sex at their conference is “harmful” to LGBTQ+ members and cancel it by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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Translation: "Cancel it, or we're going to make sure you get fired and never get hired again, ever."

Charlize Theron and her son. Transhausen by proxy. We all know who's making the decisions here: it's like claiming to have a vegan dog. by Chipit in TumblrInAction

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Just read up on Charlize Theron's own incredibly fucked-up childhood. Damage like that tends to perpetuate itself if it's not dealt with.

"Louise Redknapp pulls out of Eternal reunion after her bandmates REFUSE to play LGBTQ+ festivals and Pride over claims they are being 'hijacked' by the trans community" - Daily Mail (UK) by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Those pesky women of color, refusing to bow down before the TQ+ gods.

Canine beings rights are... _____ rights? by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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Have they all had their rabies vaccinations?

"Some trans men are women" by Vulptex in TumblrInAction

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I'm a subatomic particle that simultaneously exists in two different states in different parts of the multiverse.

Gender Ghosts by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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With some people, the more they talk, the deeper a hole they dig for themselves.

Oh those crazy lesb… er, “lesbians”… by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Does dye for unnatural hair colors cause brain damage?

We wuz druidz - New children’s book claims that Britain was peopled “slightly differently” in the past. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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I've been observing this inside and outside academia for over 30 years now. I can't avoid concluding that it's almost entirely motivated by self-esteem issues, and rather embarrassingly and transparently so.

We wuz druidz - New children’s book claims that Britain was peopled “slightly differently” in the past. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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The stupid thing is, even if it were true, which it isn’t, what does that have to do with the black population today who are overwhelmingly the result of post-war immigration?

Agreed. Whatever the Neolithic Britons looked like, they were not sub-Saharan Africans.

We wuz druidz - New children’s book claims that Britain was peopled “slightly differently” in the past. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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Thomas Rowsell did a rebuttal of this trend on his YouTube channel. He's an expert in Neolithic Britain.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=904xN8YIQd4

How many more years do you think it'll take for them to look at HRT and its subsequent surgeries the same we look back on lobotomies? by stoptheearth in TumblrInAction

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I think it's already under way. I've heard of some medical insurance companies no longer wanting to insure doctors who perform gender-reassignment surgeries. Reaction against it will intensify as people have to live with the long-term consequences of the treatment they've received over the last 10 years.

Article: Queerness should be taught in pre-school not teaching sexuality to kids this young is a very white middle class thing to do. by PriestTheyCalledHim in LGBDropTheT

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They must have missed the brown & black people recently protesting against teaching kids gender identity theory.

After cutting his dick off, Jazz's mother wonders if he might be asexual by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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It's also the case that if they speak openly about it, they'll be vilified by Trans Inc. So not only do they have to suffer the consequences, they have to suffer in silence -- or only tell a few people they can trust.

After cutting his dick off, Jazz's mother wonders if he might be asexual by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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One of our problems is our era's misplaced confidence in the idea that we're so enlightened that we're somehow beyond being caught up in magical/superstitious thinking. The rise of gender identity dogma shows just how wrong that idea is. Human beings are still vulnerable to believing all sorts of crazy shit if it's packaged in the right way.

After cutting his dick off, Jazz's mother wonders if he might be asexual by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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I know an older transwoman who told me privately that she is de facto asexual due to chronic infection in the surgically-created vagina. She told me she regrets transition, especially the surgery, but is resigned to living with the consequences. And this is someone who did it when there was much more gatekeeping. The medical authorities promoting transition really do not tell people about the long-term outcomes. That's not part of the brochure.

A prophetic Portlandia episode from 2012, before the contagion spread by JulienMayfair in TumblrInAction

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so HR/consultancy grifting/campus administration is their "politics" now--like how you give a toddler a Fisher-Price steering wheel when they're in the car so they can make believe

I agree. It's as if they've reacted to the complexity of the world around them by pretending that their highly-oversimplified concepts about it are reality. I guess Evergreen was the case where it took its most extreme form, where administrators of an already social justice obsessed school were attacked as racist oppressors and transphobes. It showed the danger of producing a generation of political/religious zealots who don't have a particularly firm grasp of reality.

A prophetic Portlandia episode from 2012, before the contagion spread by JulienMayfair in TumblrInAction

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what is it with English profs and radical posturing?

As a former English professor, I can offer some theories. Part of it is compensation for the underlying fact that the study of literature, while important in my opinion, is not really a "revolutionary" activity. Historically, literature has been something consumed, largely, if not wholly, by educated elites. So, as a kind of distraction, academics frequently adopt a posture of radical chic, even though they are, at the same time, deeply invested in an institution that exploits the labor of contract lecturers to give tenured professors more time to write and make secure, six-figure salaries.

Working as a waiter in college, I saw a prominent Marxist scholar treat another waiter like shit. That was an educational moment for me.

Back in the 90s, a friend of mine and I used to talk about how all our colleagues in grad school actually seemed to hate literature. I always thought that these people might better serve their stated purpose in life by going off and being community organizers, but I guess that didn't offer as much job security as it does now when you can know nothing of consequence other than a set of beliefs and get a job as a DEI officer.

A prophetic Portlandia episode from 2012, before the contagion spread by JulienMayfair in TumblrInAction

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I was in academia through ~2010, so I'd present a slightly different narrative. The Oppression Olympics stuff had been gaining speed through the 1990s, mostly in relation to race. At the same time, Queer Theory was on the rise, and one of the victories of Queer Theory was in turning Women's Studies departments into Gender Studies departments nationwide in the 2000s. It was a strange victory because almost no one fought back; Women's Studies simply surrendered, and if any did fight back it was actually the radfems, who were some of the first to sound the alarm. I'd dispute the degree to which the radfems ever had that much control of the academic levers of power compared to the "mainstream" feminists. Then, Tumblr helped disseminate a kind of dumbed-down, incoherent version of academic Gender Theory to mentally-unwell teenagers who took it and ran with it, getting us to where we are today.

The Portlandia skit targets the puritanical uptightness of both feminists and gender crazies, something you could still do in 2012. By 2016, though, gender was becoming more of a sacred cow on the left, and you could no longer laugh about it.

And then, the very feminist bookstore in question closed in 2018. To me, that's somewhat symbolic of the whole feminist project and its purpose, which even self-described feminists could never agree on. The most vicious shouting-match I ever saw in my academic career was between two feminists.

A prophetic Portlandia episode from 2012, before the contagion spread by JulienMayfair in TumblrInAction

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That's about the right timeline for when this stuff went from being something we could still laugh about to The Holy State of Gender.

Remember that teacher with the fake breasts and tight shorts? Yeah, he’s at a new school and dressed as a man. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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I think it's smart of him to keep his mouth shut and refuse to admit it was a troll. It keeps the people talking about it tying themselves up in knots about it and continues to show how vulnerable a policy of self-ID with no gatekeeping is to abuse.

A prophetic Portlandia episode from 2012, before the contagion spread by JulienMayfair in TumblrInAction

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And they run the Women & Women First Bookstore, but they can't define what a woman is. It's master-level satire.

Straight couple has a baby naturally. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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I preferred John Waters movies when they were only movies and not real life.

UPDATE: My GF found out I was trans by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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Actually, it seems you are right. I looked deeper into OP's post history and found one where she's talking about buying a strap-on dick. I think my problem is that I'm part of Gen X, and I can't quite wrap my head around this Gen Z thing of having a relationship that's all about texting and fantasy. I guess OP has been a trans man since she was a teenager since she say she and her gf have known each other since they were teens. And someone gf found out trans man was born a girl.

UPDATE: My GF found out I was trans by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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Take this line:

I was searching for ways to tell my girlfriend that I was different and not a cis man, but I couldn't bring myself to do it.

Assuming that the gf has seen OP's genitals, gf would definitely know if OP had been born a woman. No phalloplasty is that good. Plus, a trans man would be taking testosterone.

The only way to keep being transgender a secret in an intimate relationship is if you still present as someone whose publicly-known gender matches your biology. Say you're a secret cross-dresser . . .

UPDATE: My GF found out I was trans by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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I think people here are misreading the facts of post. The author is male and has apparently been keeping it a secret from his girlfriend that he thinks he's transgender. It's more revealing to go look at his original post and see how many of them are telling him that it's OK that he concealed this from his gf.

Edit: After looking more into OP's post history, it appears I was wrong, but the fact that it's so hard to tell WTF is going is telling.

It looks pretty much like a soft dick I'm told. Will you guys look past my genitalia? by Lovebirds_fury in LGBDropTheT

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I'm a gay trans guy, but . . .

. . . I know nothing about what gay men actually want, even though I could browse a few gay-themed subs, see endless pictures of dick on display, and draw the conclusion so obvious you'd have to be thick in the head not to get it.

“They/them” Twitter user thinks parental rights is a “fascist dog whistle.” by kingc-way245 in TumblrInAction

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I'd go further and say that they do openly embrace the goal of subverting and destabilizing the family. What we have is an educational establishment that has become extremely far-left, and they have a sense of moral superiority that, in their eyes, justifies all that they do. "Parental rights" is about reining them in, although it's going to be very difficult. In some situations, I'd say that everyone involved needs to be fired and new people hired at every level. And it's not just the gender stuff. It's the dumbing-down and relaxation of standards of every kind. It's the tolerance of disciplinary problems.

Lesbian gets called a lady and cries by jet199 in TumblrInAction

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This reminds me of a show I heard part of on NPR this Friday. It was a slog through the swamp of Gen Z neurosis, going on and on about gender, masculinity, identity, and "the patriarchy." We seem to have taught an entire generation to be self-obsessed and introspective to a degree that's unhealthy. It was like listening to a therapy session with someone who doesn't seem to have any real problems, so they have to make them up.

I think some of these kids need to do some actual physical labor instead of staring at a screen all day.

Why are people so obsessed with fake trauma and being overly sensitive? by PriestTheyCalledHim in LGBDropTheT

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This is how they feel important and assert control over other people.

Bingo.

Duke Health is offering employees a “safe space” to process their feelings about North Carolina banning sex change surgeries for minors by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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Since Duke has a Child and Adolescent Gender Care Clinic, I guess they can get together and cry about how they won't be paid anymore to use minors as guinea pigs.

Why are people so obsessed with gender? by Lovebirds_fury in LGBDropTheT

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As a former teacher, I offer this observation: People like freedom, but only to a certain point. People also, generally speaking, want to fit in. They like to be told what's expected of them and to be rewarded for delivering it.

For years, we tried to attack gender roles, but then, seemingly almost overnight, they came back with a vengeance. I can't help but think that it's because conforming to an established gender role gives some sense of stability to people who are looking for some kind of stable reference point for their identity. And I think part of that has to do with the declining role of traditional religion. Gender has become a kind of neo-religion. Compare it to people becoming "born again."

As someone who identifies as a brain surgeon, I know exactly how she feels by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This reminds me of someone buying swampland and then complaining bitterly because they can't build a house on it. You should think carefully about future consequences before committing to a major decision and not expect the world to change to accommodate you.

Black trans women are the backbone of everything in the universe. True. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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When you feel that desperate need to virtue-signal . . .

As a victim of the Holocaust, I’m surprised she’s not also identifying as Jewish by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I guess it's rewarding to co-opt other people's suffering and pretend it's your own. Seems to be a current cultural pathology.

42% of troons(TIMs) are HIV positive. Be aware of deadly girldicks.💀🪦 by Clown_Chan in TumblrInAction

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Yes, they basically picked demographics that have a high rate of HIV infection and concluded that they have high rates of HIV infection. It's like going to a lake and writing a paper about how you've discovered that lakes are full of water.

Thoughts on the theory of LGB orientation and trauma by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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A couple of thoughts: 1) "Trauma/abuse" is very hard to quantify, and you might argue that no one's life is free of trauma, so how do you determine or quantify the nature and severity of the trauma and then establish a definitive connection to sexual orientation? 2) Lots of children do experience trauma and abuse during childhood, and the majority still turn out heterosexual.

It's one of those arguments that doesn't hold up on any kind of strict scrutiny.

Lia Thomas can't harass women swimmers anymore—"World swimming bans transgender athletes from women’s events" by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

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The peakage seems to be gaining momentum.

Being a hypocrite for wanting cis dick. FtM not told to rethink her genital preferences and blatant transphobia by Chocolatepudding in LGBDropTheT

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"I want a real dick, you know, like the kind I don't have."

The pro-gender identity theory article accompanying Richard Dawkins’ gender critical article is insane by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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Being tired of this was one reason why I left academia. They use intelligent-sounding language to make the most idiotic claims and then act like they have some deep insight into culture and history that the rest of us lack. In reality, they're making most of it up, and cherry-picking whatever actual facts they reference.

(USA) House Judiciary Subcommittee hearing yesterday on "gender-affirming care" for minors—full video (C-SPAN) by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

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Years ago, I went to a talk by Anne Fausto Sterling where she was arguing the point that there were really "five sexes," an idea I've heard some biologists refute in a way similar to the way you've gone about it. I think her most worthwhile contribution was advocating a "wait and see" approach for the very small number of intersex people who actually have ambiguous genitals at birth -- as opposed to doctors who used to recommend immediate surgery to try to make them appear unambiguously male or female.

But, as you point out, that is a very small number of births.

Another fine male specimen that troons out to unfuckable incel. Tell me this trend isn’t erasing homosexuality; when a guy is “confused” or is considering exploring their sexuality, they automatically assume they’re non binary or trans by BenitoGreen99 in TumblrInAction

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This is like when someone buys a nice house down the street from you and ruins it by making every wrong aesthetic decision possible.

Andrew (Lilly) Wachowski explains how the fearless performers he saw in trans porn unlocked something in his brain by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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I love the body language of the other two people onscreen with him. You can tell that they're leaning as far away as they can without falling out of their chairs.

As I had hoped - Trans attempted murderer who called for women to be punched in the face is recalled to prison for breach of licence and sent to men-only prison. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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Use duckduckgo instead of google. I just did and found several instances of it. I think the term may have originated on the Gender Critical subreddit when they noticed a pattern that anyone accused of doing awful things seemed to get a free pass out of it if they were trans.

This Canadian detransitioner's lawsuit could change everything by hfxB0oyA in TumblrInAction

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Hardly any trans people I know have genuinely been happy with the results long-term, and I mean 20 years post-transition. They may feel better in the short-term, but it fades.

Detransitioner who thought he was trans girl says he bitterly regrets taking puberty blockers from 13 and having testicles removed at 19 because he didn't want to be gay by DrRaccoon in TumblrInAction

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So the only practical approach may be to restrict medical transition legally for those under the age of 18.

Researchers horrified, decry rise of 'fascism' as students send mocking responses to woke survey. 'Malicious responses' to the survey included identifying as 'illiterate' and as an 'attack helicopter'. by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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It sucks when you live in a tiny bubble of enforced intellectual conformity and then you find out what people really think when you can't punish them for it.

Detransitioner who thought he was trans girl says he bitterly regrets taking puberty blockers from 13 and having testicles removed at 19 because he didn't want to be gay by DrRaccoon in TumblrInAction

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The First Amendment protects freedom of expression, including the freedom to be a bad influence, so you couldn't -- in the U.S. at least -- charge someone under current law. It's like cults. You can't charge cult leaders with the crime of being a cult leader, because it's not a crime, no matter how much actual damage they do to other people's lives.

Doctors, on the other hand, are bound by professional ethics, the first and foremost of which is the famous, "Do No Harm." If they are harming patients in their care, they should be sued for malpractice. I think I remember hearing recently that in some states, insurance companies providing malpractice insurance for doctors were refusing to insure doctors who practice "gender affirming care." I think the insurance companies see which way this is going.

Does anyone notice that trans people get defensive when you ask about how to interact with them? by chris3991m in TumblrInAction

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the logical inconsistencies of their position

That's part of the point. If they can force you to accept illogical positions for their benefit, it makes them feel powerful.

Troon demands her lesbian girlfriend no longer calls herself a lesbian after she “comes out as a [trans] man” by BenitoGreen99 in TumblrInAction

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they'll probably accuse you of homophobia.

No, that's not how it works. You see, in the woke hierarchy, trans currently ranks higher than gay or lesbian, so you can be as homophobic as you want as long as you're being pro-trans.

Reddit tries to explain male cramps by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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This is all just such an insult to women I've know who had serious reproductive health problems, like severe endometriosis or life-threatening complications from pregnancy.

Do you know any good trans people? Most that I know are anywhere from creepy (even though they are nice) to outright intrusive. by chris3991m in TumblrInAction

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I know one relatively chill trans person, but most I've known over the years have been pretty odd in one way or another. At best, they are difficult to deal with.

The one that peaked me was someone I worked with one evening doing poll greeting at an election site. This was a large man in an ill-fitting dress with a bad wig on. I was dressed professionally, trying to make my best impression on potential voters. He would loom over them and was obviously making people uncomfortable. In-between handing out voter materials, he talked about his various mental illnesses. He probably did our party more harm than good. There was NOTHING about this person that was remotely feminine, not the way he looked, not the way he talked, not his body language. I walked away thinking, "Why would anyone take this remotely seriously?" That led me to the Gender Critical subreddit and, eventually, here.

As I had hoped - Trans attempted murderer who called for women to be punched in the face is recalled to prison for breach of licence and sent to men-only prison. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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The phenomenon used to be known as "teflon trans," the idea that because they're so oppressed they can't be held responsible for anything they do. Nothing sticks. That's why the T were so paralyzed when it came to the Jonathan/Jessica Yaniv situation. And it happens every time a trans person is arrested. They focus on "misgendering" in any news coverage, like the couple of shooters we've had over the last couple of years.

First time wearing a dress yesterday. Left me really confused. by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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"Guys, I'm thinking of leaving the cult."

"No, you're still one of us!!!"

Pink-haired Portland surgeon who performs sex-change surgery on trans CHILDREN admits they face lifetime of infertility, incontinence and sexual dissatisfaction, in now-deleted video by [deleted] in TumblrInAction

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"We're kind of learning and figuring out what works."

Translation: "I'm experimenting on a generation of guinea pigs."

Fearmongering and cult tactics by Lovebirds_fury in LGBDropTheT

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It's the TQ+'s way of denying their responsibility for provoking the current backlash and trying to make us forget that things were going well for us before they rolled out all the gender demands.

Reminds me of former friends of mine with addiction problems who constantly blamed all their problems on someone else. It was never their fault, and they'd never take responsibility for the consequences of their actions. And they constantly use all their friends to try to bail them out of their latest fuckup.

Equity activists outraged at Disney, Netflix for forcing DEI chiefs out by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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Ultimately, you can't stop the general public from voting, either in the polling booth or with their wallets.

Equity activists outraged at Disney, Netflix for forcing DEI chiefs out by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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I know it was the Golden Globes and not the Oscars, but Ricky Gervais was the best thing to happen to any media awards show. The way he mercilessly deflated their pomposity was genius.

South Carolina Trans Teen Killed; Man He (no, SHE) Met for Date Charged With Murder by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Journalism is not in a good place these days, to put it mildly, so you're going to get a lot of low-effort reporting and clickbait. Some facts might emerge in the trial of the killer, especially if his girlfriend agrees to testify against him in exchange for leniency. Also, any digital communication between the killer and the victim might come to light in court. You just have to wait.

My classic example of this is the Duke Lacrosse case back in 2006. A black woman accused white athletes of sexual assault, and everyone piled on with the perceived underdog against the privileged athletes. But then, as the case progressed, it all fell apart. It turned out the accuser had lied, and, even more, the district attorney prosecuting the case was eventually himself charged with criminal misconduct for attempting to suppress evidence and disbarred. The accuser later went on to kill her boyfriend.

Whenever I feel like jumping to a conclusion on minimal evidence because it fits some narrative, I take a step back and remind myself not to get ahead of the facts.

A pair of homophobes walk into a gay bar... by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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Meet the TQ+.

Just accept lesbians with penises and shut up now by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I AM FUCKING AUTISTIC.

Yes, and probably narcissistic as well, since narcissists experience distress when anyone challenges their fragile self-image. They expect their whole world to revolve around their feelings.

Jailed male sex offenders ‘faking trans identities’ to move to women’s prisons by [deleted] in TumblrInAction

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Who would EVER have suspected anyone would DO such a thing???

South Carolina Trans Teen Killed; Man He (no, SHE) Met for Date Charged With Murder by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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All your points are valid in the abstract, but we really don't know for sure that that's what happened here. We have no idea what transpired between the victim and the killer. We don't know their specific motivations. I just don't like the idea of jumping to conclusions without knowing for sure or of co-opting someone's murder to make a point.

South Carolina Trans Teen Killed; Man He (no, SHE) Met for Date Charged With Murder by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I looked it up in other news outlets, and they're all saying that it does not appear to have been a hate crime. In fact, most mainstream new sources are reporting that a 'woman' was murdered. A couple mention that she was in the process of transitioning.

South Carolina Trans Teen Killed; Man He (no, SHE) Met for Date Charged With Murder by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm not really sure why this article is posted here. A trans man met a man online, and he turned out to be a murderer. Who knows? Maybe it wasn't his first murder. It could happen to anyone getting into a car with someone they don't really know.

This is our world now, bitch by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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I was having a hard time telling, but yeah.

Father goes on furious rant against doctor who asked his nine-year-old son whether he "identified as a boy, girl, genderfluid, or non-binary" during routine physical by [deleted] in TumblrInAction

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In every medical situation I've been in over the last several years, you have to fill out endless forms that include all the basic stuff like your sex. Some may ask for your gender identity. For a nine year-old, you'd think the parents would have already filled that stuff out. Why would a doctor be double-checking that during an appointment?

Man has trouble finding a therapist who will tell him his delusions are valid, stunning, and brave by BenitoGreen99 in TumblrInAction

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These types expect to walk into a professional psychotherapist's office and have them immediately accept and validate their self-diagnosis.

Imagine if all professionals behaved that way. The auto-mechanic says your brakes are dangerous, and you say, "There's nothing wrong with my brakes. I'm done with you!"

Another lovely trans activist by Rage-Xion in LGBDropTheT

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Nothing says 'progressive' like encouraging violence against women who refuse to validate you.

Since the beginning of time by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I went to a highly-ranked university in the 1980s, and I never even heard the concept of being transgender mentioned once. And I had some bleeding-heart lefty friends.

Since the beginning of time by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Funny how I lived through most of the 80s, 90s, and 00s without running into many trans people involved in gay activism. Actually, for the 80s, the count would be zero.

But I suppose that youngsters like this one just believe what they've been told by other TRAs.

And, for that matter, most LGB goals of the time were also of benefit to trans people, like getting rid of sodomy laws, so if trans people were involved, it's not it was some sort of selfless effort.

"I acknowledge (though don't understand) that some gay men are conservative" 😂 "Many of them have no link to being gay at all" 🤣🤣🤣 by bucetao6969 in TumblrInAction

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"wHy r u sO oBesSeSed wItH tRans fOlx?"

"Now, if you aren't completely on-board the gender train, you will be immediately fired and blacklisted."

TRAs on AGB congratulate themselves that all LGB people who legitimately disagree with them are really right-wing trolls pretending to be gay. by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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It's all self-congratulatory self-righteousness.

"Sigh. I know there are people who disagree with me. I can't IMAGINE why they do because I hold all the CORRECT opinions on EVERYTHING."

University of Cincinnati prof's reprimand for failing student for using the term "biological woman" has been reversed by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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I don't know if there's a single college administrator with a spine left in the United States.

Mermaids gets defeated by LGB Alliance in court - Ruling:'We found Mermaids has no legal right to operate free of criticism.' by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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"Mermaids" is a hilariously apt name for a tranny organization.

Because mermaids are fictional products of the human imagination and don't really exist?

Putting your pronouns on your CV/resume/job application hurts your chances of getting the job. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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It's a warning label, like the biohazard symbol.

LGB Alliance wins case against Mermaids by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

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The Good Law Project appears to be an organization completely captured by trans activists. For instance, they brag:

We funded the successful intervention against the Keira Bell decision and we funded the successful AB case which established that parents could consent to puberty blockers for their children.

And it looks like they may appeal this decision in the LGB Alliance case.

Another trans mass-shooter by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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Cluster B Personality Disorders -> Rage

Every gay man who lived through the AIDS crisis and all the friends, lovers and family of those who did not should be incandescent with rage over this by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Well, I suppose if you turn yourself into something few people want to have sex with, it could reduce your chances of acquiring and spreading HIV.

But mostly he just sounds like an idiot who's not used to public speaking. Maybe he left out a paragraph.

Terf meme by Musky in TumblrInAction

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Is this a serious Twitter account or a troll account?

Example of "forced teaming" - r/lgbt post with 1.7k upvotes claims, "not a single one of us has rights til all of us has rights" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Well, of course, they argue that restricting transition of minors is "genocide" because they're all going to kill themselves if they can't transition, notwithstanding the fact that it's unclear whether transition affects suicide rates or not.

I find myself using the word 'hysteria' a lot now because it is a lot of collective, contagious hysteria.

No, actually it is us. The real actual US by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's always some evil conspiracy. We're not capable of having thoughts of our own. We're just unwitting pawns being programmed by the right-wing to divide and conquer the glorious, united LGBTQIA+.

And who sounds more delusional? Who constantly repeats the same slogans and statements of faith? Who is really programmed?

Recording shows white Berkeley Law dean appearing to tell class he illegally discriminates against potential hires to boost diversity - and bragging he'll deny it if deposed by [deleted] in TumblrInAction

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This shouldn't surprise anyone. Admissions departments at UC campuses have been investigated for continuing secretly to practice race-based affirmative action after Prop 209 banned it. They would use indications of an applicant's race to help certain applications even though it was against official policy. Can you imagine true believers in wokeness doing anything different? Would you trust them at all NOT to practice secret race-based affirmative action?

Boston University law students offered therapy in response to recent Supreme Court decisions by [deleted] in TumblrInAction

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Even critics of Crenshaw have given her credit for pointing out that a company could have policies designed to help women and policies designed to help blacks that could be implemented as designed without helping black women. She wasn't wrong. The problem was when the model of intersectionality was expanded far beyond its original application.

It's like the concept of safe spaces. The idea of a safe space was originally conceived as a way for college professors to let gay or lesbian students know that it was "safe" to talk to them in their office about issues they were facing, back before campuses had other resources for these students. In the 1990s, it made sense. You could get a "Safe Space" sticker for your office. Then it was expanded to the classroom and eventually to the entire campus as the idea that no one in an "oppressed group" should ever be exposed to an idea they don't want to hear. And people can go into hysterics and claim that the mere presence of someone who holds opinions they don't like makes them "unsafe." It's a complete perversion of the original intent.

JK Rowling warns that girls' safety is being 'sacrificed to an incoherent trans ideology' after teenage boy is arrested over 'sex assaults in gender-neutral loos in Essex school' by [deleted] in TumblrInAction

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The first unofficial, in-practice unisex toilet use I encountered was women coming into the men's room because the line for the women's room was too long. Yes, urinals are quicker.

Boston University law students offered therapy in response to recent Supreme Court decisions by [deleted] in TumblrInAction

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Remember that a lot of wokeness can be traced back to law schools. Many of them are completely ideologically captured at this point.

Example of "forced teaming" - r/lgbt post with 1.7k upvotes claims, "not a single one of us has rights til all of us has rights" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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What you have to realize at this point is that none of this rhetoric is rational. It's all intended to keep the forces riled up and stoke the fires of hysteria. Unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be a very good way to respond to it. Because it's not rational, you can't reason with people in the grip of this mindset. What you can do is speak to people who have not yet fallen into the hysteria.

These posts also serve to distract from the stupid things that "we've" done like the wedding cake case. No one needed to bring a discrimination case against a religious baker who didn't want to bake a gay wedding cake. It was petty and vindictive. And it made us all look bad.

A discrimination test case like that should have been reserved for something serious, something most people could sympathize with, like something that threatened someone's housing, job, or medical care.

Just Stop Oil comes for Pride by xoenix in TumblrInAction

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They're not the first. BLM blocked a Pride parade in Toronto in 2016 demanding that they be "centered."

It's forced intersectionality.

Trans-Identified Chaplain at Children’s Hospital decorates Chapel with LGBT flags, wonders why people are upset. by ClassroomPast6178 in TumblrInAction

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The gender theorists are now all over divinity schools, aided by the fact that the Bible doesn't really have a lot to say about it since most of it was made up in the last century. Oh, I know there are things in it about cross-dressing, but that's not quite the same thing as claiming you have some kind of female soul trapped in man's body or vice-versa.