Woman feels 'hurt' that the gay men in gay porn aimed at gay men don't see her as a man; "I've been asked so many invasive questions'

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[–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

If she was an actual gay man, she could have cut those ten paragraphs to about two sentences.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"we were being paid to do the scene and stayed professional while working."

[–]alladd 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

LMAO the people commenting "sending hugs"

That shit should be super dysphoric, but they don't know men aren't treated like that, so they seek it out constantly.

[–]LtGreenCo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It feels pretty violating to have had sex with someone who later states your body made them gag and disrespects your gender.

I made the mistake of looking through her other posts, and can confirm I did gag 🤢🤮 and cannot unsee. View at your own risk.

Honestly I'm amazed there's a market for this kind of porn, it's so fucking gross. But then again if the internet has shown us anything it's how completely fucked in the head a lot of people can be.

[–]alladd 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I feel like there's a lot of porn made exclusively for people on drugs who aren't very discerning about what's going on as long as it's extreme.

[–]Jiminy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why do you feel that? Experience?

[–]alladd 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Read a lot of gross posts on Reddit about people's preferences that they are way too happy to share with strangers. Made me realize there's like a whole other group of people who consume porn like almost religiously. It was like staring at the tip of a dark and disturbing iceberg.

[–]LyingSpirit472 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

...I mean, considering how many gay porn stars are doing gay for pay and date women in their private lives, you'd think they could just shrug and fuck trans men - the trans man feels validated and the gay for pay star gets to fuck a woman while still getting the higher gay porn rate.

[–]alladd 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (7 children)

I mean give straight men some credit. We have SOME standards.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I think I'd rather have sex with a gay man than a trans man. I don't want to have sex with either but if you put a gun to my head, at the very least I've met plenty of gay men that I actually like enough to be friends with. Every trans-masculine type I've had the displeasure of knowing has been a little ball of anger ready to explode at any perceived slight.

[–]ClassroomPast6178 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cluster B plus testosterone is not a recipe for a well balanced individual.

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

But a trans man is really a girl right

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Sure but there's plenty of women I'd rather not have sex with.

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

But then you'd rather have sex with a man?

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If there's a gun to my head.

I mean it's better to have the real thing than the imitation off brand?

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a tough choice.

[–]Jiminy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I doubt they'd get paid more

[–]LyingSpirit472 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not exactly- usually male porn stars don't make much at all [like usually the pay for a man in the scene is less than $100, not including having sex with a hot girl".] Gay porn does pay much more for most of the lesser stars.

[–]LordoftheFliesAmeri-kin 2.0. Pronouns: MegaWhite/SuperStraight/UltraPatriarchy 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Firstly and unequivocally FUCK HIM!!! When i filmed with Markus he never let on at the time (at least to me) that he felt this way. We even drove to the scene together an hour there and back? He never said this shit to my face.

Of course not, troons flip tables when someone doesn't agree to their reality. Refusing in person is worse still. This Markus guy is probably a point in his career where he doesn't think the backlash will hurt him any, so he feels safe stating his opinion now when he couldn't back then.

[–]NastyWetSmear 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Also, I manage to get through my day with a lot of people without turning to them and letting them know if or not I'd have sex with them. It's actually how I handle most interactions. Only the rare, odd few do I start by saying: "Hi, nice to meet you, I would certainly put my penis in you."

[–]LordoftheFliesAmeri-kin 2.0. Pronouns: MegaWhite/SuperStraight/UltraPatriarchy 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Only the rare, odd few do I start by saying: "Hi, nice to meet you, I would certainly put my penis in you."

How do those work out for you?

[–]NastyWetSmear 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

One in fifty times? Really great!... I can't talk about the rest, the cases are still being argued.

[–]CheeseWizard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m fucking TIRED and things DESPERATELY need to change!!

We needz chenge rite fuggin nooooow!

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[–]Femaleisnthateful 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't know the whole backstory here (and don't really want to) but if anything, this is a testament to how toxic sex work is. She feels especially vulnerable cuz it's, y'know, sex, and she feels butthurt about other people rejecting her sexually. She experiences first hand how gross this industry is, but it's not politically correct to say that, because Fuck SWERFs amirite, so she blames it on .... gay men.

[–]JYJHFHGEVBFDDSDWDCWG 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know the whole backstory here (and don't really want to) but if anything, this is a testament to how toxic sex work is. She feels especially vulnerable cuz it's, y'know, sex, and she feels butthurt about other people rejecting her sexually. She experiences first hand how gross this industry is, but it's not politically correct to say that, because Fuck SWERFs amirite, so she blames it on .... gay men.

While it's important to respect diverse perspectives on the topic of sex work, it is essential to approach the issue with empathy and understanding. The individual in question seems to associate feelings of vulnerability and rejection with her experiences in the sex industry. This highlights the need for better support systems and safeguards within the industry. However, it is crucial to avoid generalizations and refrain from blaming particular groups, such as gay men. Instead, let's focus on promoting a more inclusive, informed, and compassionate dialogue about the complexities surrounding sex work.

[–]JulienMayfair 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good advice worth repeating: Don't stick your dick in crazy.