Here comes the backlash. Stonewall is a "gay rights organization," and "this is war." by GatitoMalo in LGBDropTheT

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Agreed with the above. Thank you.

This is Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria Awareness Week by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It’s almost Pride month so have some gentle reminders from Aydin's buddy Jaecyn by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The minute they say "reminder" you know it's going to be bullshit.

If the Drop the T movement is successful, would you want the community to return to what it used to be? by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

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i've never seen any other letter actually contribute to the homosexual community

If it wouldn't out my real life details I would happily offer a withering and deeply (for you) embarrassing refutation of this statement. Please kindly remember what this sub is about (unless you don't care and should therefore indeed come under mod scrutiny for how you disparage other members of this group) and be decent. This approach doesn't look good on anyone.

Welcome back everyone!! by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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As long as it's run by our mods and they have thoroughly checked to make sure they closed any security holes that would allow unauthorized people to control content, mess with users, etc.

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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We have either exhausted the possibilities, or are just not trying anymore.

Brave Yuri, who identifies as pansexual... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The insufferable... er, suffering... is real by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I like that there is now an "asexual spectrum"

That caught my eye as well.

The insufferable... er, suffering... is real by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Anything (including diet) that bumps up your serotonin enough (btw, don't play chemistry set with your serotonin; see serotonin syndrome) can tank your libido. I've experienced this and never liked it. Fortunately diet is easy to modify. But yeah, at those times, I would have absolutely no interest whatsoever. So I feel for people who take SSRIs, etc. I see what they mean and it blows. Or...not....

Does anyone else here worry about this? by helloolleh in LGBDropTheT

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Hey there, welcome. We're glad you found us. My thoughts (briefly) about your concerns:

Religion does not confer knowledge or authority and in fact tends to do the opposite when it comes to things like this. It's completely irrelevant. Love is love. Just go with that. <3

I don't even know what's real anymore.

Yes you do, hon. You are a woman who loves women. It's the people around you and the TRAs who are wandering off into the weeds and making up extra stuff that has nothing to do with you or your sexuality. They shouldn't give a rip who you love and should just want you to be happy (and I'm very sorry, and here's a <BIG HUG>, if they don't—we do). It is none of their business and they are the ones with mental health issues if they think otherwise.

It sounds like a vacation from all of these distorted beliefs would do you some good when you can make it happen. That's too much pressure to think things about yourself in ways that simply aren't true or relevant or healthy.

Does anyone else here worry about this? by helloolleh in LGBDropTheT

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How are you gullible enough

Hey. Compassion eh? Come on. Is this how you would have wanted to be responded to if you were in her shoes? She's here asking us precisely because this all feels uncomfortable to her.

Otherwise I agree, u/helloolleh, that getting away from these influences on how you see yourself will be really good for you when you can swing it. Keep your eyes on that prize if it hasn't happened yet. And build your support network. That was easier in the Before (TRA) Times, so it might take longer, but even a friend here, a friend there can add up over time. Don't give up.

"My favorite part of being Trans is I can be misogynistic" This lesbian's reaction to a trans identified male is spot on. She could use more views and suscribers. by linda_senora in LGBDropTheT

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This may be one of the best curses I've ever heard.

Bisexuals fantasizing outloud..again by UselessThought in LGBDropTheT

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The attraction to the same-sex is straightforward, and ever present and works the same as homosexual attraction. but the opposite-sex attraction only pops up when certain qualifications are met

Also me. (Except you know, original parts and accessories.)

Black Lives Matter (organization) sends tens of millions to trans organizations. by GatitoMalo in LGBDropTheT

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Black Lives Matter (organization) sends tens of millions to trans organizations. by GatitoMalo in LGBDropTheT

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What I don't understand about heterosexual transgenderism and no one's been able to answer. by lesbianbarbie in LGBDropTheT

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This appears, upon inspection of the comment history, to be sound advice.

Unprecedented levels of insufferable wokeness incoming by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I can't.

What I don't understand about heterosexual transgenderism and no one's been able to answer. by lesbianbarbie in LGBDropTheT

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So hey, welcome to this sub. We try to stay away from broad, derogatory generalizations here about members of our own group (LGB). I encourage you to consider the parts of your response which appear to be veering into that territory; it is both inaccurate and alienating to others here. It's possible to talk about one's experiences without negating or devaluing others. No one here needs or deserves to have it stated or implied that their sexual orientation is not real, for example.

Thanks for considering. Cheers.

LGB activist Fred Sargeant (who WAS at Stonewall) gets an apology from US trans site by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Biden HHS Redefines Sex as Non-Biological by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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AP News is showing bias, but this article does dig a little deeper

https://archive.ph/tGNq1

Biden HHS Redefines Sex as Non-Biological by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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Literally this is my Grindr bio and yet... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm also getting dude vibes, here.

Literally this is my Grindr bio and yet... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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<tucks this word away for future use>

When I use a word, said Numpty Dumpty the genderqueer pansexual quasiromatic egg... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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They have zero concept of nuance.

Or being contradicted or prevented from taking what they want.

When I use a word, said Numpty Dumpty the genderqueer pansexual quasiromatic egg... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Indeed, they might as well just give up and start grunting and whimpering exclusively. It's all the same interchangeable, meaningless twaddle.

Ellen Page is now recovering from her top surgery by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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I think many of us would try to make that work, but it isn't for everyone. Which some find out the hard way.

TRAs: We need to be fair when reporting on trans issues. Also TRAs: only TRAs can report fairly on trans issues. Still TRAs: this is an LGBTQ+ issue. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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I think it's time for a distinction between left- / right-wing and "abuse enabler."

Hell hath no fury like a transwoman scorned by a bisexual man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Don't point your brain at crazy.

You want this boy pussy or not faggot? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm with you on that.

What would LGB people do without the wisdom of the Zoomers? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I was busy wondering what was going on with her face and didn't let her keep talking. Nor did I get far enough to know which pronoun melange was expected. Color me unconcerned.

You want this boy pussy or not faggot? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The forecast isn't looking good. Maybe in twenty years, but given the general age range, they are just going to be older twits in ten, for the most part.

Saying the quiet part loud: Gender ideologues and mainstream LGBT organisations are now being openly homophobic by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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My pleasure. :-) I know some do it to bypass people giving Reddit clicks, which is also a worthy cause.

TRANSformers. The video has nothing do to with what this sub is about, but I think you will still like it due to it mocking the stupidity of what is going on today. by MatthewofHouseGray in LGBDropTheT

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I'm so glad I wasn't really aware of this turn of events yet in 2016.

You want this boy pussy or not faggot? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Shock value.

You want this boy pussy or not faggot? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Or your dildo...

You want this boy pussy or not faggot? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Or even worse.

Hell hath no fury like a transwoman scorned by a bisexual man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I once dated a person with a certain physical attribute I wasn't a huge fan of (what it was is immaterial), but who also had a lot going for them in other ways. Alas, they turned out to also have a deep pathological narcissism problem. Eventually they hated me for accepting and loving them including that particular physical attribute (something they hated about themselves), i.e. seeing reality. Can't win. Don't try. Compassion from a safe distance is my policy now.

Hell hath no fury like a transwoman scorned by a bisexual man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The object of this game was to be rapey one way or another: Either by coercing consent, or by claiming false victimhood. Mission accomplished.

Hell hath no fury like a transwoman scorned by a bisexual man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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¯_(ツ)_/¯

Hell hath no fury like a transwoman scorned by a bisexual man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Which is hilarious given how often we are expected to want them because we're bisexual.

Hell hath no fury like a transwoman scorned by a bisexual man by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Between last night and now, I think I read that entire thing. I was enthralled by the candor.

Special mention:

There's more projection here than a fucking planetarium Jesus fuck

https://archive.ph/d3MS3

Saying the quiet part loud: Gender ideologues and mainstream LGBT organisations are now being openly homophobic by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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That's not why I post archives; it's in case the original disappears. Click away.

You Can't Ask That: Lesbians by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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What an asshole.

I enjoyed the fact that those clips were way shorter than the ones in which actual women were speaking.

You Can't Ask That: Lesbians by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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Their totally-clueless and out-of-place two cents. Clearly no experience with actually being a lesbian.

Saying the quiet part loud: Gender ideologues and mainstream LGBT organisations are now being openly homophobic by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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And one for the Declaration on Women's Sex-Based Rights mentioned in a comment: https://archive.ph/Jp5Qk

If you won’t fuck us it’s genocide by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I can see it both ways. The problem with forcing and forcing and forcing a coercive agenda on people for years is they have to learn to expect that from you to stay out of the crossfire. Suddenly wanting to seem reasonable after years of abusing people? Good luck being believed about that.

And if you aren't those people over there who've been doing the abusing for years and are no longer trusted, then I highly recommend making that distinction explicitly. Which this meme doesn't do.

If you won’t fuck us it’s genocide by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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For realsies.

If you won’t fuck us it’s genocide by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Soros is also behind a hell of a lot of the non trans woke crap we are wading through socially. He's pushing old school social Marxism hard.

This statement reads like satire. Maybe you have some credible sources to go with it?

The kids can see what's happening, why can't the adults? by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

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Much of that was near the end (which made me wonder who brigaded that post). Plenty of "I'll just walk off the cliff" and other forms of "nope" as well. I didn't see a ton of enthusiasm for those choices.

The kids can see what's happening, why can't the adults? by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

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"god cis gay men exhaust me with their masc-obsessed superficiality" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Yes. That's the saddest part.

They don't understand their own value without all the pomp and circumstance. They think it isn't there.

How would you react to someone telling you "I'm surprised you're gay, I never would have guessed"? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I don't think much of this. I'm already an anomaly and always have been, one way or another. So I just figure if someone didn't expect it, then I'm performing the public service of having opened their minds a bit. I'm used to being in that role and sort of enjoy it. I like helping people cut the crap in their own heads.

What is a lesbian - ad placed by the LGB Alliance that will ignite a firestorm or TRAge. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Good.

"god cis gay men exhaust me with their masc-obsessed superficiality" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Yes. The people who are prone to pathological narcissism. They have unhealthy coping mechanisms which are costly to those around them.

And, drag clearly didn't heal him, it just gave him a way to express symptoms even more visibly.

"god cis gay men exhaust me with their masc-obsessed superficiality" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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He's dressed like a tantrum. You are far more charitable (or subtly facetious) than I; I can't even take that part seriously.

"god cis gay men exhaust me with their masc-obsessed superficiality" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Or...he IS a cotton candy machine...

Out.com: There's a Reported Rise in Discrimination Against same-sex Couples by Taln_Reich in LGBDropTheT

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Okay, this response makes me think we are talking past each other, but I'm a little too spent at the moment to figure out how. Will try to remember tomorrow.

Out.com: There's a Reported Rise in Discrimination Against same-sex Couples by Taln_Reich in LGBDropTheT

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Welp, you should tell that to the government then. :-) All of them, everywhere.

And why shouldn't the state compel people performing essential services to comply with a mandate to not arbitrarily discriminate? Have you never been in a group that was subjected to this? (I ask this rhetorically, because I have not kept track of anything you've shared about your background, but you sure do sound like someone who has been insulated from a lot of the types of harm that others here haven't had the luxury of avoiding. Are you seriously cool with the state rubber-stamping self-important nitwits who think they have the prerogative to deny services that all people in a society at some point might require? Because, I'm not cool with that. And I don't know anyone else who is either. So I can't relate to this sentiment.)

"god cis gay men exhaust me with their masc-obsessed superficiality" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The best part of this is that everything about that selfie is superficiality. When you blast someone with your over-the-top plumage in this way you are denying them an opportunity to glimpse anything but your very loud, needy, narcissistic shell. That is the epitome of superficial.

Barely contained rage at never ever ever being one of the boys by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Female incels. Just as terrible as the male version. Look kiddos, you can't force your crush to have sex with you. Especially not by insulting his intelligence and indeed, his very existence.

This is what would happen if groupies got bitten by stalker zombies.

"god cis gay men exhaust me with their masc-obsessed superficiality" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's clownphobia, and how dare you.

Out.com: There's a Reported Rise in Discrimination Against same-sex Couples by Taln_Reich in LGBDropTheT

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That's both true and not my point. They benefit from the public trust in licensed professionals. People cannot make up licenses privately that carry the weight of one issued by the state. If you want that privilege, then you shouldn't be discriminating against people while you profit from it.

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Well, they always pander to pretend victimhood from other TRAs. Should they take this agreement out into the world and start trying to become child-saving crusaders, then I imagine they'll be in need of medical care soon as well. Smells faintly of natural selection at work.

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Yup. Also, welcome to our little tribe! You are already contributing wonderfully. Great to have you aboard, remember to take breaks before your head explodes.

"god cis gay men exhaust me with their masc-obsessed superficiality" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I feel so sorry for satirists in 2021. All the good jokes are taken.

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Having now seen your other comment(s), I can see why.

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Removeddit archive: https://archive.ph/6Cj4R

Reddit archive list (the earlier archive someone made last week (thanks, someone!) is the intact one with some comments that Removeddit didn't catch): https://archive.ph/https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/n0h467/i_spent_two_weeks_in_the_icu_and_will_need_years/

The TQ+ Takeover is complete by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Wait until you see a few of these switch masks a few times in front of your very eyes. All the world's a stage, and especially the hearts and minds of anyone who has something they want, or is perceived as an obstacle to something they want.

The TQ+ Takeover is complete by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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I wondered if you two knew each other, and I also hope you're using fake names here for your safety. ;-)

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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They tend to overestimate their own competence.

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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who does that?!

Cluster B does that.

MtF Trans Person Interferes With Kid in Parking Lot; Can't Understand Why Mom Gets Upset. Chaos Ensues. by MBMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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I'm gonna go with this: It's likely a CYA DARVO spin campaign. He did something alarming / creepy (such as, you know, act like a kidnapper) to get his ass beat and is trying to be the victim for attention now.

Seen this shit over and over with my own eyes. They will weave elaborate tales of woe when the truth is that they were the perps.

Are trans people trying to copy LGB people? by Ice-Kagen in LGBDropTheT

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trans people getting offended by others telling them they don't look trans

There is really no point in trying to avoid setting off someone who is choosing to feel offended because that's their hobby. I say just tell them all the things to cover all the bases so they get to the point quickly of outing themselves as Cluster B.

Are trans people trying to copy LGB people? by Ice-Kagen in LGBDropTheT

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I remember that article. We probably discussed it here. It had a very "if a tree falls in the forest" existential-crisis vibe. But, that's what having certain personality disorders is like—feeling empty unless other people are around to fill you up with validation.

Ellen Page is now recovering from her top surgery by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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This seems to need to be explicitly stated, so: We weren't there and don't actually know what's going on with her, so repeating this statement actually doesn't make it more true. That's a rather futile tactic to take (and a very TRA tactic). Odd approach to take to dialogue on this particular sub, no?

Narcissistic abusers can reduce anyone to rubble including the rich and famous, and they love juicy targets. That is my point, which I am now repeating with more words attached so it's perfectly clear.

And not every rich, famous person is also psychologically resilient. I refer you to every performer who ever killed themselves in response to the radical reality shift forced upon them by stardom. Try having some empathy for people who are "fortunate" (in quotes, because fame has serious downsides as well sometimes) too, maybe?

Do you also ask "why did she stay" every time a woman doesn't leave her abuser? I bet not.

And that concludes my interest in this subthread.

Out.com: There's a Reported Rise in Discrimination Against same-sex Couples by Taln_Reich in LGBDropTheT

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Registered tax return preparers are federally credentialed by the IRS. As with pharmacists and other health-care providers who have to obtain a state license to work in their professions, if they don't want to play fair and provide such basic, necessary services equally to citizens of their state, they should find another line of work, not be a non-viable business for a select, arbitrary subset of their fellow citizens.

https://irs.treasury.gov/rpo/rpo.jsf

Stop viewing bisexuals and sane human beings and start seeing them as deranged preteen gendernutters instead by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Or...as if we are some sort of equal-opportunity sex dolls.

Stop viewing bisexuals and sane human beings and start seeing them as deranged preteen gendernutters instead by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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That's always been my favorite come-on.

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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Sometimes people tie up their dogs outside. A lot of coffee shops in my town have a bowl of water out there and it's sort of expected. Could have happened here.

Thank you for explaining the reason for that link, it wasn't at all apparent. :-) TMZ is obviously not anyone's first news source, but I'm still glad to see Jenner taking that position. (Though, my vote would very likely go elsewhere. Fortunately, I don't live in that state.)

Ellen Page is now recovering from her top surgery by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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It's the same way I looked after a couple of years with a narcissistic abuser. A few months after getting away from that person my best friend saw me again one day and was surprised by how much better and more like myself I looked.

Which is not to say that's going on here, but that's one reason someone can appear to deteriorate in this fashion.

Ellen Page is now recovering from her top surgery by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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They can. They can also be targeted by predators who actually enjoy bringing them down. They aren't immune.

Tavistock trust whistleblower David Bell: ‘I believed I was doing the right thing’ by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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I have to admit I'm surprised the Guardian remembered they're the Guardian and ran that piece. Excellent read.

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I'd love to see the intended link. Sounds pretty silly from your description. Parscale is evidently a hot mess so that's a rather comical choice.

Gay guys of Saidit, would you bang HIM? by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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I don't think biological males would post there.

<cough>r/actuallesbians/</cough>

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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That sounds confusing and unsettling for sure. You are a sweetie for supporting her regardless. I've had a couple of no-go topics with loved ones along these lines, though not related to TRA stuff (yet). I hope the relationship continues to go well for you. From the sound of it she might be more willing to admit her true stance once the people around her are more comfortable with doing so.

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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That link actually went to a great little clip of Jenner shutting down a question about the fairness of biological males in women's sports. Worth the watch.

AGB user goes on a date with a trans man, but learns the hard way that progressiveness has little to do with reality by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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Same site as archive.ph, archive.vn, and archive.today; I am not sure if there are other domains that also point to this site.

https://archive.ph/jsYXl https://archive.today/jsYXl https://archive.vn/jsYXl

Petition Make Sam Smith's tattoo the new non-binary flag by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Those comments are some gems.

Ellen Page is now recovering from her top surgery by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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Oof.

"Men Can't Be Lesbians" Is Hate Speech Now? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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‘Girl-Dick’ Mafia Takes Over Reddit : (Send Help) #SaveTheLesbians by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I want to just put this in a big dog food bowl and set it in front of so many woke people right now. Saved.

What is with she/they and he/they pronouns? by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

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Thanks for the reminder, yes. Yesterday I was riding the vaccine wave a bit and forgot.

call for opinion: is pornography an LGB issue? by lesbianbarbie in LGBDropTheT

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Following along, this is not something I'd thought about. Thank you for asking the question. Reading that broke my heart.

What is with she/they and he/they pronouns? by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

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More people who need help, in their own way, "detransitioning."

What is with she/they and he/they pronouns? by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

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Given that we've tried to obliterate those, if you are casting about for a way to be unique and special now that you have the freedom to be whatever without worrying about gender role conformity, you'd have to have a way to "other" everyone else again. That means promoting stereotypes. All over again.

Deeply ironic that they elevate themselves, their youth, their supposed wisdom and hipness by going backwards. But that is what they're doing: Dusting off the bullshit from the past to beat people with it again.