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[–]FrostyNugs 52 insightful - 1 fun52 insightful - 0 fun53 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I've always found it interesting how they try to push lesbians into having sex with transwomen by saying that they're sooooo dysphoric about their dicks and wouldn't even want them touched, but the second that a lesbian jokes about not needing birth control suddenly they aren't dysphoric anymore. Really makes you think 🤔

[–]peaked2020 31 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Not directed towards you... but I can’t imagine a dick that won’t be touched being a selling point. If you enjoy penises you will probably want to touch it. If you don’t you will want to touch a vagina or maybe just have no sex at all , not just avoid touching the other person’s genitals. What sort of sex is that?

[–]FrostyNugs 27 insightful - 10 fun27 insightful - 9 fun28 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

What sort of sex is that?

Really boring, bad sex. If she doesn't want me to touch her pussy, I'm out lol

[–]blackrainbow 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, it implies that women are just passive sexual objects

[–]knownasness 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

we can't joke about anything that's uniquely lesbian OR uniquely tied to womanhood. both sides of the trans coin are ridiculous. i have a condition that only women can have and there are very little spaces where women with said condition can talk about it.. lately i've noticed more and more threads get deleted or completely derailed when one talks broadly(vs talking about their own self) about any issues that we may or may not face. it's so damn annoying. you wanna walk around with a dick on and grow hair on your face, that's fine.. but it does not change what's going on inside of you. it isn't something that can go away with a surgery or with hormone injections. you can't change biological realities. so ridiculous.

[–]VioletRemi 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

When True Lesbians was banned, /r/PCOS was brigaded as well, and they added there male mods, and deleted "transphobic" posts, at same time censoring language to "use more gender neutral words" for female-specific problems. It i so stupid, no transwoman ever can get PCOS, and they still come to police us talking about it. It is just same song as with consrvatives - men in power want to control women's reproductive system and health.

[–]carrotcake 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Wait... Trans women became mods??? Not even trans men? That doesn't make sense at all. So frustrating.

[–]VioletRemi 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, same as there mods of /r/ActualLesbians who are just men, not even trans, just straight guys, lol.

[–][deleted] 22 insightful - 9 fun22 insightful - 8 fun23 insightful - 9 fun -  (6 children)

Yeah, but what about all of the lesbians who enjoy sex with men and get off having sex with men!? DoN’T ErAsE ThEm

[–]peaked2020 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Lol it didn’t occur to me to connect this topic to those people... it really is ridiculous that we’ve gotten to the point that these women will legitimately claim to be lesbians who like men. I feel like we need a “straight man who likes to sleep with men. all straight men can meet their perfect boy. sexuality is fluid!” to show the absurdity to others.

[–][deleted] 14 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 8 fun -  (4 children)

Some lesbians are married with kids and continue to fuck men forever omg don’t erase them omg

[–]peaked2020 17 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 7 fun18 insightful - 8 fun -  (3 children)

But what about the lesbians who are male-presenting non-dysphoric closeted transwomen in relationships with men? We need to include them too!

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 6 fun14 insightful - 7 fun -  (2 children)

Omg we can’t erase them. Lesbian is a feeling.

[–]carrotcake 15 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 6 fun16 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

You also can't say lesbians have sex with women because non-binary lesbians exist! Don't erase them!

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Non-binary lesbians ArE nOt WoMeN omg you’re right omg...I erased them.

[–]VioletRemi 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Have you read most popular "Lesbian sex guides"?

In all of them there like 80% is about "transbian penis" or "prostate" and that "you can get pregnant in lesbian sex with lesbian penis".

It is so ridiculous, lol. I am not even mad anymore, I am just facepalming at all of this garbage. And I am sad for young lesbians, who can be gaslighted into this and then victim blamed by friends: https://ovarit.com/o/GenderCritical/4582/how-trans-women-prey-on-lesbians

[–]CJLez 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

One of my very first peaking moments was seeing someone post the poem "period, period - go away. I don't need you, I am gay" on AL and being ripped to shreds by people in the comments for a) being transphobic by implying that she wouldn't become pregnant and b) being transphobic because it was mocking transwomen who never get to experience the majesty of menstruation.

When an actual lesbian commented that it was unkind to wish to have a medical condition that caused them severe physical pain they were told by the mods that they didn't get to police language (oh the irony) and that they should be quiet because they couldn't possibly understand how mentally upsetting it was for transwomen to not have periods (this was before they all suddenly starting pretending that their periods were 'every symptom except the bleeding'.)

[–]hunther 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

That's literally disgusting. I hate how that shit hole is the first thing a young lesbian would see on reddit

[–]blackrainbow 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are seconding a delusion lol

[–]MisandryFTW 21 insightful - 9 fun21 insightful - 8 fun22 insightful - 9 fun -  (3 children)

I had a nurse at Planned Parenthood explain to me that "lesbian" wasn't a form of birth control when I was trying to say it was 100% impossible for me to be pregnant since I hadn't had a penis anywhere near me, I hadn't blacked out or lost time, and it wasn't baby Jesus part 2 because I'm not God's type, plus I'm not paying $50 for a test I don't need.

[–]lmaonope333 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

you know the world is in a sorry state when the nurse at a womans health clinic genuinely believes that lesbians can get accidentally pregnant

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I had a male doctor say “girls say a lot of things, and usually they are pregnant” when I told him i was a lesbian and didn’t need a pregnancy test. I was 32.

[–]WildwoodFlower 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In all seriousness, if I wanted a dick in my life, I would just find a regular straight man and be a regular, conventional heterosexual.

Re: Birth control. I was on it for medical reasons a few years ago, so there is that.

[–]lmaonope333 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yup. so annoying. plus I have a medical condition that makes penetration extremely painful, so all the jokes about straps being dicks cracks me up. I cant even get my pinky finger up there

[–]peaked2020 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They don’t even really mean trans women generally... specifically they mean a trans woman with a penis. Meaning that what they are really saying is that you may enjoy a penis one day...

[–]blackrainbow 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"You just haven't found the right man"

[–]hunther 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ikr, there's no difference between that and "you just haven't met my lady penis" barf

[–]florasis 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (39 children)

Almost no chance? Like no chance. Unless you get raped or are so wasted to sleep with a dude.

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

if you're a lesbian and you get "so wasted to sleep with a dude" then there was no consent. It's rape.

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    [–]florasis 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (31 children)

    Yeah, no lesbian ever go to nightclubs or such..

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      [–]florasis 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (26 children)

      Lesbian clubs. Oh please, shoot me now. Everyone girl goes with female friends. I had a close male friend in the past and I'm confident he would have never done it. Not every male is a potential rapist, you know.

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        [–]florasis 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (24 children)

        Because he's a good guy. And was always protective toward me.

        And if both are drunk, that's not rape.

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          [–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

          If both are drunk, I can't see why the guy is blamed for rape. They both people who are doing shit without being fully conscious.

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            [–]VioletRemi 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

            And i both are drunk, that's not rape.

            I'd still call it rape, tho, as you for sure don't want it, and you aren't responding for your body much.

            [–]florasis 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

            Yeah, but both are drunk, not just the girl. Why should the guy being more responsible of his drunk behaviour than the woman?

            [–]VioletRemi 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

            Well, because guys are often drunking down women to get laid, even discussing such stuff. By our laws it will be called rape most likely, tho, as lesbian will not be trying to have sex with man, so it was him insisting or taking advantage off, and she would not want such intercource almost sure.

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              [–]florasis 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (7 children)

              I've never being to the point of being drunk and not understanding what I'm doing. Just tipsy to the point of being loose, but never losing rationality.

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                [–]VioletRemi 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

                Such exist almost nowhere outside of few western countries, sadly.

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                  [–]VioletRemi 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                  Yeah. Or places for lesbians at all.

                  [–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

                  are you insinuating that a real lesbian would never get sexually assaulted by a guy? Or are you saying that lesbians never get wasted?

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                    [–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

                    I guess you're the type to blame the victim. Also, who said anything about bars or nightclubs? What if they're at a work event or something and get wasted there and a male coworker sexually assaults them? Real lesbians never get drunk in the presence of men? lol

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                      [–][deleted] 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

                      You said ""lesbians"" which is why I thought you were saying that women who get sexually assaulted by men are not real lesbians.

                      Anyways, thanks for warning us. Without your great wisdom and goodwill it never would have occurred to me that men might take advantage of drunk women.