Contra Points by DR373737 in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You'll find receits on Kiwifarms, I'm pretty sure.

You Might be a Transbian If - the fact that the pinned comment is him saying that if straight men are relating to this says enough by powpowpowpow in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 37 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 0 fun38 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why isn't he downvoted to oblivion? Have people lost their collective fucking mind??

"Book about lesbian sex - Girl Sex 101" - on cover 40% of "lesbians" are men, book have whole chapters about PiV and PiA sex by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 11 insightful - 9 fun11 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Lesbian dogs exist you bigot.

AL: Transbian complaining that /actuallylesbian is a terf sub and centered on cis lesbianism, another transbian chimes in that it's exclusionary that jokes about lesbian sex is considered lesbian culture by winterwillow in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 32 insightful - 8 fun32 insightful - 7 fun33 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

God forbit lesbians make a FINGER JOKE. Lord I want to flip tables. This is our culture, go kick rocks if you're not happy about it.

That B is getting a bit above its station in life by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Probably going to come out as nonbinary any day now

Gay men twirling fabulously on thin ice by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

So much neckbeard and yet you can still obviously see it's a woman.

Philosophy Tube is coming out as a woman. Do heterosexuals outnumber homosexuals & bisexuals in the LGBTQ movement yet? by SnowAssMan in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

AGPs are rarely effeminate before they transition.

PinkNews CEO, Ben Cohen, gets Stonewall Vet and Gay Pride founder suspended from Twitter. Says he's "proud" of doing so. by motss-pb in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The disrespect...

Gold star lesbian confirmed! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Love to see that every top comment is a trans. Wow, men objectifying women? For spring? Groundbreaking.

r/AreTheCisOk - The mUh tRaNspHoBiA series by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same with /menwriting women or /badwomananatomy... All gone to shit

r/AreTheCisOk - The mUh tRaNspHoBiA series by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was on that sub at the start but once the gendies got wind of it it started to become a shitshow. Who would have known.

Videogame characters who are LGB? by PeakingPeachEater in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Mae from Night in the woods is bisexual.

I remember some important characters in Guild Wars 2 being a lesbian couple.

The Malkavian CEO in Vampire Bloodlines is lesbian I think. Been a long time for this one.

Really not much, huh?

Am I needy or is being a lesbian in a predominantly hetero society that hard? by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Femme into other femmes checking in, and that might be the hardest part. I feel like every femme likes more masculine women for some reason. Probably confirmation bias but still...

Can someone tell me what on a subreddit specifically for bisexuals there are suddenly trending memes about trans people? by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Nothing else to do, and a whole lot of power in the moderating community. I'm still waiting on Spez or other top reddit admin to declare themselves a wimin.

r/askgaybros -Gayden is convinced he's a biological man and has a male vagina. Also proceeds to call me froggie. I'm tired of those trolls. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a biological male because I look like a male.

Oh my good lord every single cell of yours has a double X chromosome. You're ENTIRELY female.

#LesbianNotGay - Political lesbian anti-gay solidarity campaign by LesbianInExile in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I mean there's so much you can do when faced with as much self hatred as you seem to have for yourself, which radiates out of every post you make. They probably tried in clunky words to encourage you to love yourself, being gay being a part of it.

I want to get off Mr TRA's Wild Ride (personal vent) by TransspeciesUnicorn in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The orphanage director is a mtf

Disgusting sub made by men and women fetish corrective rape on lesbians by babouch in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The creator of the sub is trans. What a fucking surprise

Uh... Is any sub on reddit free from this shit? by powpowpowpow in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hobbiedrama only talks about that now, I used to love this sub for low stakes, soup recipe dramas... Not presumed "transphobia" ugh.

r/actuallesbians demographics survey (1802 responses) by censorshipment in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah this is the correct statistic to look at when trying to guess what percentage is trans. The answer is an overwhelming majority. More people in actuallesbians (55 times) are also posting in mtf than there's people from /lgbt posting in /trans (46). Seeing that /lgbt is already overwhelmingly trans... God. This is so upsetting.

Sad watching so many lesbians and bi women rejecting womanhood by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hey it's called "petite fille" on the channel "Arte".

And I hope so... I hope so.

How do you deal with TRA friends? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I tried to turn them gc, didn't work, so I bailed. I'm now officially a terf.

Sad watching so many lesbians and bi women rejecting womanhood by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hello ! Love your name :D !

Sad watching so many lesbians and bi women rejecting womanhood by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've been very depressed since Ellen came out. That and I just... see trans stuff everywhere all the time. Facebook, Reddit, everywhere I like to scroll mindlessly there's trans stuff every six posts it seems. Meanwhile who is talking about lesbians ever? Nobody, unless it's to tell them they suck and they should accept dick in their lives.

A documentary about a 8 years old transed little boy just came out in France and it's absolutely mind bogglingly outrageous. The mom has had a couple of girl foetuses miscarriages and she outright said she would be happier if her son was a girl. So of course the poor baby wants to please his mom. So he's being indoctrined into being a little girl and in the documentary. And people drink it up.

I'm just so mad. it's starting in my country, nearly none of my friends agree with me, I feel immensely alone and discouraged. How long until they realize how harmful it is for women, lesbians, gnc women, and children? Why is everybody so blind??? How did that fucking happen? A friend of mine compared terves to policemen beating up black people. I yelled at her. At least she understood she went too far but man, it really shows how people have no fucking idea what gender critical people's points are.

Lol looks like I'm doing all my christmas shopping at lush by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Short Interview of Ellen (Now Elliot) Page in February 2019 - What’s going on here? Mental health breakdown as a result of misogyny and homophobia, grooming by the Human Rights Campaign, both, or something else? by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh yeah she's aready thinking about transition in this video. I'm pretty sure. the vagueness. The mention of pain and non representation. No mention of gay or lesbian or sexual orientation.

Average Redditor by [deleted] in MeanwhileOnReddit

[–]Dravidian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

the pussy hats are transphobic, didn't you know? They wouldn't be caught dead wearing that!

Ellen Page is claiming to be transgender. What is going on?! by socialistrobot in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Course they will. Nothing better than trans representation that is still heavily clear that she's a hot woman underneath

Ellen Page just came out as trans by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am genuinely upset. transgenderism is a cancer that is taking all the lesbians one by one for no fucking reason. I just can't fucking comprehend it at this point. Trying not to cry of frustration in the same room as my pro tra girlfriend, I want to break plates.

Edit : I'm not upset that Ellen Page is trans, I'm upset at the all encompassing seemingly inevitable fate of all lesbians to be swallowed in this bullshit. Our culture and community is weaker and weaker every day and it feels like a fucking extinction.

Living with trans ideology by themiserychick in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would advice against staying with him honestly. Something you will see time and time again in trans widows stories is that all the savings of the household went through gender affirming crap like dresses, manicures, way more lingerie than you'd ever allow yourself to buy becuse there's more important stuff to be bought, like nappies, and then down the line, surgeries. Some transwomen get as many as twenty surgeries and revisions. Multiple facial feminisations, adam's apple shaving, hairplugs, electrolysis for their hair, vocal cords shaving, boob job, and eventually, some do get the penile inversion. This is the money that is not going to go towards your children's future and your wellbeing as a family. Please flee.

Thoughts on “Happiest Season”? by Lesbianvodkaaunt in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I've watched it with a lesbian GC discord server. We all agreed it sucked and we wouldn't have taken Harper back and it made no sense. And that it was so annoying that there had to be an ex boyfriend or a dude in the mix every time, can't have two lesbians, can't have something that strays too much from the heteronormative "hey, do you like your ex dude better actually?"

So... yeah. Go watch saving face! They're both lesbian.

Anyone notice how no real bi or homosexual comes out with as many homo/biphobic slurs as trans people do? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aah. Spot on. Of course that's why. Sometimes it's so painfully regressive and narcissitic it's just hard to believe it's true.

Why I think men (gay & heterosexual) avoid the important task of standing with women against TRAs by pacmanla in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm of the belief that if you see an injustice or oppression and you're a good person you'll stand up for the oppressed people even if the individuals sometimes say unsavory things. People are human, and they're pretty dumb, but a group of people shouldn't be left to suffer because some of the individuals run their mouths, even if it's against you.

How are we supposed to be feeling when we open a saidit thread that says "yeah you are being dicked over but I won't help cause some of you are mean. If nobody helps it's your own fault and I felt strongly enough about it to come tell it and make sure you knew" wow

"Male Vagina" girl went back to her trans echo chamber - commentors are homophobic asshats as usual by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I don't agree with that, no.

LGB Alliance trying to get more men involved by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

All I'm reading is thinly veiled woman hating, my dude. When was the last time you helped with women's rights yourself, donated or advocated directly for something that benefits women but not you, before throwing the first stone? Cause that's what you're asking of radfems, in addition with mixing them in with as many "women bad because antivaxx and karen" clichés you can come up with.

Annoying TIMs in makeup subs by wecandobetter in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you. So many men with extremely mediocre skills and a gigantic need for validation from the WOMENZ made me unsub from most of the make up subreddits. couldn't stand their ugly smug faces anymore.

that and my itch to point out Nikita Dragun isn't just a black person impersonator but also a woman impersonator (on his latest controversy about darkening his skin and doing I don't remember what else), and that most famous make up people are men, Nikkie included, and how is that fucking fair.

"Male Vagina" girl went back to her trans echo chamber - commentors are homophobic asshats as usual by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 43 insightful - 9 fun43 insightful - 8 fun44 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

...So she's... A straight woman. Dating other straight women, that she's not attracted to, because she thinks she's gay and that the other straight woman in also a gay dude. But they have vulvas they're not into. They're mutually dating women while persuading themselves they're dating men and that they are men.

The... Fucking cognitive dissonance makes my head hurt.

"Anti TERF Flag": TumblrInAction by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Let's make a cool terf flag with nice colors like teal and petrol blue and lavender. We should hog all the cool colors for ourselves.

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Got banned from /offmychest because I commented on tumblrinaction. Love that.

Dating profile details that immediately make you swipe left by lovelyspearmint in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well I'm a big believer of the fact you need some kind of common ground with your SO. Of course being supportive is a plus, but I'd struggle to find things to talk about with someone who doesn't share my nerd culture, I guess? My girlfriend don't share my taste in music at all and I already struggle a bit with that haha.

Dating profile details that immediately make you swipe left by lovelyspearmint in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Talking too much about booze and going out clubbing.

If all their pictures are outdoors in amazing vacations on the other side of the world (it's just not compatible with my lifestyle, I'm very poor and I'm not going anywhere anytime soon, I wouldn't interest any of these wanderlust gals so why bother).

If they look like they have zero nerd interests (I've been considered weird so many times for harmless shit like liking LOTR or playing tabletop rpgs, I have to time to waste with people finding my interests abnormal).

Bad grammar, can't help it.

Also if they have children and there's a picture of their kid on their dating profile. I think it's just so fucking weird. Why are you putting your child's face on a dating app? Just why?

What do you gals like about women that straight men usually don't? by Gynephile in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 22 insightful - 5 fun22 insightful - 4 fun23 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Quirks. Men just seem to hate women with passions, interests, collections, stuff they do in their free time. I love being talk at about plants, collections, birds, video games, books, studies, by passionate and driven women. They are so cute and so enthusiastic about it. Meanwhile men are there on AITA being "I threw away my girlfriend's mason jars/yarn/collection of stuff because she didn't devote enough time to ME, am I the asshole? I'm not right???" Ugh.

Really sad when a GNC woman goes trans by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In France there was this woman stand up comedian, "Océane Rose-Marie" who did a show called the invisible lesbian, because she was a lipstick lesbian etc. Also made a lesbian cookbook, and was overall a positive force to push back "lesbian" as a taboo word.

Well now "he's" "Ocean" and he's a trans dude and the only French lesbian stand up comedian under 60 is no more, and that pisses me off so fucking much. He's saying he was always gnc and stuff but that was simply not true.

Everett: trans movement has 'overshadowed' gay rights by RedEyedWarrior in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sorry but as a lesbian women I don't think gay men are much better than straight men. They're as sexist, misogynistic and racist as straight dudes. But also I received a lot more comments about my looks, my make up, how I dress, and how fit or unfit I am from gay friends than straight friends, because they think they get a pass to say shitty things because they're not attracted to us.

Graham Linehan Appreciation Day! Before JK Rowling, Irish/UK comedy writer, Graham Linehan, took a stand for women! by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was forcing myself to be pro TRA despite my doubts at the time. I was nearly only friends with queer people at the time (I've... Let go of them this month finally and it's not fun.) and felt like I was horrible if I didn't. Also I was especially depressed at the time and feeling like I was part of "something great" made me hold it for a long time. I really liked Hbomberguy, too, I connected a lot with his work, like his video on the outsiders for example, so I was certain it was my civic duty.

... Since then I dated a trans woman and in trying to be a better ally I fell into all the trans subreddits and saw how vile they were and I peaked violently finally. So yeah. Live and learn.

Graham Linehan Appreciation Day! Before JK Rowling, Irish/UK comedy writer, Graham Linehan, took a stand for women! by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel like out of all the self proclaimed gender critical men he's the most genuine. He interviews women and as far as I've seen he let them talk, he's not trying to push himself forward. To think I once donated money to that wretched donkey kong stream against him and in favor of Mermaids, ugh. At least it only was 5 dollars.

Thoughts on fragrance? by begonia_skies in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The perfume I'm talking about smells like wood and candied chestnuts!

Thoughts on fragrance? by begonia_skies in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I love perfume but I hate white musk. I hate most of the men's perfumes because of that. A notable exception is Armani "Stronger with you intensely" which is my new favorite perfume.

Anyone kind of afraid that they'll never have a positive outlook on the trans community? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It makes me wonder about the dudes I did tabletop RPG with te years ago. I really wonder if some of them are trans now. Especially two or three who always only played girl characters in falsettos and were weird neckbeard types. Not crazy ones, generally amicable and nice (and I'm a girl, so), but still... Anime and Jrpgs obsessed, unhappy in love and just weird.

Eddie Redmayne gets cancelled for saying the abuse towards J.K. Rowling is too far by HarlanRogers in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It makes me so mad about Evanna. She's pretty vocal about how JK Rowling basically saved her life. Of course she's going to defend the woman who gave her a will to live over the feelings of some dudes online, for fuck's sake. I hope she's okay.

TRA's Continuating bridage of askgaybros by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We need a "it's a fetish" version of this.

TRA's Continuating bridage of askgaybros by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Noticed that too? Like nobody who's male talks like that on reddit, bro.

I'm struggling with something I've noticed about female-dominated hobby spaces. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Multiple theories about that, as I've seen it unfold exactly like you have. I've also frequented that sort of people but I'm someon with ten thousands interests and no big huge all consumming passion, so I dab a little bit in everything and mostly do nothing.

My theories :

  • Time efficiency. The more you focus on one very special subject the less time you have to stray off it. So the more precise your hobby the less you're wasting time puttering about. Might make sense when your job is very demanding. Turns into obsession. Probably the least likely in most cases, though. But also makes sense when you have one buget into which you can pour money in.

  • Credibility and misogyny. Women's hobbies have always been seen as frivolous. Being a litteral expert in something might be a response to men mocking you, not trusting you or not believing in you. Usually ends up being unsufferable because so highly opinionated by defense. This encourages conformity because anybody who strays from the accepted praxis is seen as weakening the credibility of the whole group. When it comes to old timey things it obviously encourages a desuet femininity.

Finally, just trends. Corsets made a huge comeback ten years ago, then it was Rockabilly, extremely femining BJDs and dolls in general, then there was a huge make up industry boom. We're currently highly encouraged to be extremely feminine and that can push passions into the kind of things you've seen. Also there's more men that feel comfortable dabbing in fantasy clothing too, and with that comes to pressure to fall neatly into gender roles all over again.

Hope I've not missed your point entirely!

[Spoilers] Saving Face (2004) — Film of the Week by piylot in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Saving face is my favorite! It's so cute.

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Where were you when women out of state were offering to lend their couches left and right to women in need because one state (I don't remember which one) was in the process of banning abortion?

Who are you voting for? You can be anonymous, I'll make comments in the post. by 100_percent_truth in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The wording is awfully biased, don't you think? When has Trump ever fought for women's rights?

Some happy news by lefterfield in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Did that with a friend of mine. She expressed interest in starting the series. I'm so relieved too.

Welp, time to cancel horses by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Those damn right wing horned toads

#RIPJKROWLING is trending on twitter. by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

the more I think about it the more I think Rowling made a mistake here. Now all criticism can be redirected to "but she only said it to promote her book" and "yes but she wrote a transphobic character in her book". She helped peak people and I'm worrid they will now think it was just a ploy.

How can you say to people "she has valid concerns" when all they'll see is the man in a dress in her book?

Married straight man puts on lipstick, dress, and fake boobs and tries to get his wife to have "lesbian sex" with him. Fetish gradually consumes his life, and she's horrified. by [deleted] in itsafetish

[–]Dravidian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Google Autogynephile". Hah, perfect response.

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're really true to your name, aren't you?

Gina Carano, an MMA fighter and actress for the Mandalorian provides a strong response to TRA harassment by fuck_reddit in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What a perfect gal.

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You think US politics have no repercussions in Europe?

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Literally burning cities down, are you serious? Maybe you should stop being spoon fed by Fox news.

I'm French, I don't watch your garbage news channels, and you shouldn't either.

Trump is done for, we got anal lasers now by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 9 insightful - 8 fun9 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Wait you don't have an anal laser?

Would you guys vote for... Trump? by joy1090 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Boy do I feel weird about sharing a sub with people who are considering voting for Trump. Are you seriously considering a dude who is letting 200000 people die of COVID, is doing his best to be a traitor and a dictator, is a rapist and a child abuser, better than a dude who might, MIGHT listen to TRAs on one or two points MAYBE??

You all really sound entitled. Please think about your fellow lesbians and bi girls and gays of color and don't vote for people who are going to ban abortions rights, women's rights, willing to deport brown people and park children in cages just because YOU don't feel threatened by the orange menace.

I wish people who freak out about "deadnaming" would pay half as much attention to not screwing up women's names by NDG in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Why is it even still a question?

What peak-transed you? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 38 insightful - 1 fun38 insightful - 0 fun39 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Long ago I posted on actuallesbians that I loved a lot of very different bodies, describing narrow hips and small tits and boyish figure - with my girlfriend in mind. I don't exactly remember why I said that, I feel like I was trying to reassure someone. Cue a trans woman telling me it's triggering to talk about that, thank you very much, etc. I was trying to be nice! You should be happy it read like I could like your flat hairy man's ass, yet you're still whining!

Actuallesbians really helped peak. The constant "lesbians CAN get pregnant", to me who is very child free and pregnancy repulsed, really feels like indoctrination. Like they WANT to get the lesbians pregnant. Ugfhjfh makes my skin crawl.

lol, pretty accurate. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, that's me! I'm ace! Also lesbian. I don't know how much I would promote being ace if I was straight, though. And I'm not that fond of aros. Like, isn't an aro man just a danger to society? Someone who have sex with women but won't ever have feelings for them?

Don't you hate women LARPing as men being full of toxic masculinity? Poor straight woman struggling to see her FTM partner as a dude is a "hoe" apparently. by Dravidian in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Found this charming person in r/pointlesslygendered :

Tbh I'm still not entirely sure they're not a troll. But there's normal posts between the batshit insane takes, and you really never know with some people.

A lesbian couple in a lesbian subreddit, 2020 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 15 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine having THIS in your dating pool but not actual lesbian women.

As a lesbian I'm incredibly distraught with everything that's been happening. Is there solutions? by Dravidian in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So far it doesn't peak her. As I've understood from her position she doesn't get what a woman is supposed to be and doesn't "vibe" (sorry, not English and very tired, so approximating here) with the concept. She doesn't care about it much, or nearly at all, but she also considering herself not technically cis because she has no idea what a gender is so she can't in good faith say she's a woman, even though she never says anything else either and isn't trying to say she's genderless or non binary or whatever. As far as I understand what she's vaguely told me years ago, at least. And of course I understand autistic people usually have each their own definition of stuff and sensitivities and aren't one whole thing with the same believes and views and perceptions or lack thereof. It doesn't help that she never has to interact with men except her own father, which she does only at arms' length, and was, and still is, very sheltered. So she doesn't feel like there's any tangible threat on women or lesbians. I gave her the google doc links about the compilations of tweets and stuff, and talked with her a lot, but she mostly shrugs and tell me to get off twitter. Frustrating. But she also doesn't care that I hold these beliefs, so... At least i'm not going to loose her, I guess.

Biggest turn off? by ColdSoup in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh, closely related for me - someone that isn't out and that cares mroe about what her family thinks than how to be happy living her life with me. I've been with hesitant lesbians or bi girls that only wanted to live in the shadows and tell their parents they were dating a dude. I hated every damn minute of it.

My current fiancée told everybody that didn't accept her to fuck off and crossed the country to be with me. No pussyfooting about moms not being open minded.

Favourite hot beverage? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I have a blend that I found in a store specializing in end of stocks and short expiry dates. It's whole leaves black tea with cinnamon, cloves, cardamom, and other spices, named "African Christmas tea" from a company focussing on tea strains and blends from Africa. It' the absolute best "chai" adjacent tea I know. With soy milk it's to die for. My stock is dwindling very rapidely, though. I'm gonna be so sad.

Also coffee with two opened cadamom pods in the grounds, and soy milk. It takes all the bitterness and roughness of "meh" coffees away and it's so smooth and amazing.

Oh and Yogi teas makes a herbal tea called "choco". It's carob, cocoa, cinnamon ad other sweet spices. It's incredible.

"Straight Gays are valid"... what? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes but middle class white privileged young people who have nothing better to do than get all bothered by gender politics and skirts go spinny are probably the ones that also have the time to vote.

"Vanilla shame" - yet another byproduct of liberal feminism? by vitunrotta in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I want to make a jar of vanilla sugar, which I would need one vanilla pod and a kilogram of sugar for, but it's so expensive!

"Straight Gays are valid"... what? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But now half of them are adults, vote, and are listened to.

Riddle me this - where are all the women in their 40's and 50's who suddenly become trans? by Cacator in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Where are they now? Still thinking they're men?

If I was a millionaire i'd build a lesbian pub for lesbians only. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've been dreaming of making a book store/tea room for Lesbian for a while. In Paris or Lille, where there's a lot of lesbians. I don't care much for night life, I just want somewhere cozy to have book clubs, knitting sessions, LANs and tabletop game nights. I'd make the drinks and my girlfriend would curate the books and the art. There would be no men allowed.

aaaahhh. the dream. Th fucking dream.

Only way to be actual homosexual nowadays seems to be trans and date other trans by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a damn shame honestly.

Only way to be actual homosexual nowadays seems to be trans and date other trans by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're right. Men will never understand the unique problems that women face. How can gay men, who aren't even interested in women for dating, be better at understanding women than straight men? In my experience they don't give a fuck and don't fight for us.

Came across this graphic which illustrates just how fetishised lesbians are... And how no one has a problem with this. by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No wonder we have a transbian epidemy with those search result. We're the ultimate fantasy. But now with loopholes to "join us"! yayyy...

Trans activists think lesbians liking pussy and gay men liking cock is controversial by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Dravidian 52 insightful - 1 fun52 insightful - 0 fun53 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Literally conversion therapy. They're that close to corrective rape by girldick, and they sure do claim terfs should be raped on twitter, so if that's what they deem acceptable to share in public, what do they really think deep down, huh?

Manga recommendation: My Lesbian Experience With Loneliness by haveanicedaytoo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

ah I just read it then went for a sad shower with string music. thank you!

As a lesbian I'm incredibly distraught with everything that's been happening. Is there solutions? by Dravidian in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Done that! thank you!

Another creepy male (transwoman) on r/AL by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 40 insightful - 2 fun40 insightful - 1 fun41 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Everytime I see some weird shit posted by supposedly "a woman" without fail they post in trans subs. They're so cliché it's painful.

It's not ok to make trans "lesbians" sad by pointing out that men often say "You haven't tried a good dick yet" by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian 44 insightful - 11 fun44 insightful - 10 fun45 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my god stop whinning about your dick, nobody cares about your dick and your feelings

As a lesbian I'm incredibly distraught with everything that's been happening. Is there solutions? by Dravidian in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am definitely. How can I get an invite code for it?

As a lesbian I'm incredibly distraught with everything that's been happening. Is there solutions? by Dravidian in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Gay men are getting bullied by trans men, who are quite harmless outside of smear campaigns, that's true. But on reddit they're still backed up by the AGP powermods.

As a lesbian I'm incredibly distraught with everything that's been happening. Is there solutions? by Dravidian in LGBDropTheT

[–]Dravidian[S] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You are sadly right. But I don't see them going after men, except gay men. They very well know they'd get hit and insulted and laughed right out of their dellusion while women will coddle them.

Is romantic orientation legit? by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well you did spend an hour telling me it was strange, so. shrug

Is romantic orientation legit? by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

well I don't know what to tell you. Some people wouldn't be happy to date me because I'm fat, either, doesn't make it something that I should care about. I've never struggled to find partners and I did make them happy. I'm sorry you can't think of having a relationship with no sex and I hope it won't happen to you.

Is romantic orientation legit? by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

[–]Dravidian 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well I exist, and I'm far from the only ace on the planet, so that's not an universal truth.