I just need to vent, I hope that's okay. I've been on gender critical subs secretly for a while but since the reddit bans I've peaked and peaked hard and I watch our community disintegrate more and more and I'm struggling to cope with it.
With COVID I'm finding myself browsing Reddit and social medias a whole lot and I only see violence. Against LGB people, but also a lot of violence against women in general, like on r/periods or r/pcos. I've been from subbing to all the LGBT and a lot of women subs and I've shed them over the last few months because I can only see trans shit everywhere. I feel like dick is forced down my throat. Very meloramatic but it's been depressing me. It's like everywhere I step online people are waiting for me to consent to my own oppression. I can't have an online community without being reminded that "women have to accept girldick!!" It's awful.
And there's not much I can do IRL. My gf know but don't really care or believe me. She's autistic and thus doesn't believe in gender as a fixed thing linked to your sex, and I feel like it's a divide between us. I have lgbt friends and trans friends and they're fine but they're also not taking a stand against the erosion of the community and the press ganging trans activists are imposing on LGB and women.
It's like nobody is seeing what's happening. I know I hould just stop looking at social medias but it's not just online, and some people mostly have online communities.
What can we do? We can't just hide away on saidit until everywhere else is scorched earth. I find myself wanting to peak people around me, and every day I have to stop myself from posting something denouncing the homophobia and misogyny of trans people on /trueoffmychest or /unpopularopinion. I just want to rouse consciousness... But would it change anything?
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