Do gay men lust after straight women. If not, why not?

Smolders1 · 2021-07-03T09:10:23+00:00

Do people there not understand that these are clearly bait posts intended to fish out hateful sounding responses so the sub can get banned?

Downvote and move on. Don’t respond. Gives them more ammunition.

Smolders1 · 2021-05-23T21:44:11+00:00

Long story short: We don’t know. This may become a regular thing, however.

Smolders1 · 2021-04-25T21:09:00+00:00

I’m gonna be going to see the new MK movie as well as Godzilla vs. Kong in the first week or so (they’re doing staggered releases and are prioritising newer movies to get the most showings, but even then, those are limited). So I haven’t got much choice as soon as they reopen due to the fact that they’ll also be having far less showtimes than they previously did, but I’ll honestly have to see what stuff they end up allowing you to book for.

There’s a lot of films that released within the last year or so that I’d love to go and see in actual cinemas again, it’s great watching movies at home, but the cinema is just so good lmao.

Smolders1 · 2021-04-25T11:16:03+00:00

Anyone else in the UK excited for cinemas to reopen? A local cinema of mine that I frequented prior to lockdown is gonna be playing both movies that have released this year and films that were released last year that didn’t get many showings.

Gonna be popping in often. Lot of films I missed out on that I’ve been waiting for.

Smolders1 · 2021-04-23T20:53:09+00:00

Yeah, I’m starting to notice the same few people popping up on AGB. u/thesilentchief and u/krenyx (both frequent AHS and are against gay men not wanting to participate in intercourse with females).

I’m also beginning to notice that comments on AGB that make the claims that gay men cannot be attracted to females are getting downvoted unusually fast. Like... almost 3 downvotes within 30 seconds of being posted. Almost as if a certain sub are actively brigading AGB and harassing members whose views oppose their own. Pathetic.

Smolders1 · 2021-04-23T19:23:06+00:00

Is he really a troll, though? He seems way too intent on taking the site down to be a troll. Is there any particular reason why he’s so obsessed with our existence? Does free speech piss him off, or?

I mostly just find it funny because on the SaidItNet subreddit on Reddit he seemed really confident that he’d got this place taken down for good. What a sad individual. Regardless of if he is or isn’t a troll, I hope he finds something more productive to do in his evidently boring life.

Smolders1 · 2021-04-23T19:16:16+00:00

By the way, this place is the only place on any social media platform that tolerates your existence. You’d have nowhere to go if we were to shut down.

Smolders1 · 2021-04-07T21:30:50+00:00

What.

Smolders1 · 2021-02-24T21:36:17+00:00

I don’t mean to be rude or anything, but why should we care about Reddit’s downtime? I’m only still there for a few communities that would never get big as they are on there anywhere else.

People need to stay far away from Reddit. It’s dangerous how much speech is restricted there. Thoughts, ideas, protestations and opinions are becoming ‘hateful’.

Smolders1 · 2021-02-15T08:05:48+00:00

Queer is a nasty, horrible word that should have no place in the modern world.

Smolders1 · 2021-02-12T12:58:44+00:00

I mean, it’s not on my mind constantly. It just kind of annoys me is all lol. People claiming an oppression that they will never understand just bugs me and it’s a bit hard not to think about or get frustrated over when so much of your life has been based around trying to rid yourself of a hard-wired orientation that you would honestly rather not live with.

If there were a button I could press that magically turned me straight, I would press it no questions asked. But I can’t. I am always going to be a male who is attracted to other males. Of course, I’m not speaking for all gay men when I say this, I know a lot of lesbians, bisexual and gay men who are happy with their sexuality, but I am not. I have been put through no end of homophobic bullshit in my life to let mentally ill women fetishise people like me. Not a single fucking gay man wants them and they never will. They can take their homophobia elsewhere, I’m not letting the same homophobic nonsense that my parents said to me years ago be used on other homo and bisexual kids disguised under the mask of ‘trans rights’.

If a person refusing to let regurgitated homophobia stand in today’s world is what the trans community considers a ‘transphobe’, then I’ll happily remain a transphobe for as long as I live, because that definition of transphobe is not a bad thing to be.

Sorry for going off topic a bit, but I don’t care. Just my thoughts.

Smolders1 · 2021-01-26T16:57:32+00:00

Why are you here, then? I doubt you’d be coming into our communities, making comments like these and then proceeding to say ‘we don’t miss you on Reddit!’ If some sort of obsession wasn’t involved.

It’s almost as if censoring opinions on a social media platform doesn’t suddenly erase people who hold those opinions from existence. I love how we’re the exclusionary ones, yet people like you barge into our spaces. Ridiculous.

Smolders1 · 2021-01-26T16:03:24+00:00

No, regardless of what their intent is, I don’t wanna support some janny task force’s mission to brigade subreddits, no matter what they’re doing it for. They literally set up VPN’s and make new accounts and then proceed to post child pornography to subreddits they don’t like.

Smolders1 · 2021-01-16T23:17:04+00:00

They’ll never have lesbian sexual intercourse (or any sort of intercourse in general), so it’s safe to assume their knowledge of the act is limited, stereotypical and ridiculous.

Smolders1 · 2021-01-16T22:48:15+00:00

Unfortunately, I sometimes wish I were straight due to the fact that I cannot ever have my own biological children.

I believe surrogacy is unethical, so I don’t think I’d be comfortable using that method to conceive a child of my own.

I may be fine with adoption or fostering, though. The child would still not be my biological child, but it’s the method I believe to be the most ethical.

I doubt I will ever have kids, however, simply due to the fact that I cannot have my own biological child with my SO. Hope that makes sense. I dunno what puts me off the idea so much, it’d just be off putting to raise a child if it were not my biological child. Like I said, it’s the reason I hate being homosexual. I do want my own child someday, but there’s nothing that I believe to be ‘fulfilling’ available to me.

EDIT: Words.

Smolders1 · 2021-01-01T08:47:41+00:00

The guy in there saying “I’d be fine with a transman” in the comments.

Good, celebrate your bisexuality!

Smolders1 · 2020-12-29T15:16:44+00:00

Smolders1 · 2020-12-29T15:14:58+00:00

Agreed. I was physically assaulted a few years back when a black person randomly accused me of saying the n-word repeatedly, when literally all I was doing was eating food.

He got no into no legal trouble, of course.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-23T17:14:52+00:00

2 of the subs that were marked down as ‘transphobic’ by AHS a few days ago have been struck down, AGB were included in that.

I think it’ll be gone in the next banwave.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-22T19:38:55+00:00

r/askgaybros is next. Mark my fucking words.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-12T20:57:29+00:00

Oh, shit, really?

Sorry, that’s usually a term I’ve seen transmen use to somehow say that their vaginas are ‘male’. I’m an idiot.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-06T07:49:02+00:00

Unfortunately, your best bet is the Wayback Machine on a limited amount of posts.

Some people made ban evasion subs like r/DropTheTea but those are now gone.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-04T15:49:31+00:00

TIA, as a community, hold a lot of GC and ‘anti-trans’ views, which is why they’re all prepping for a ban.

So yeah, I’m guessing the origins of this would be all of them goofing around. I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if this did come out of a trans person’s mouth, though.

Edit: Words.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-04T15:33:43+00:00

Yeah, I, too, thought this was fake at first. I’m having a hard time accepting this is real because of how purely delusional and homophobic it is.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-04T15:24:12+00:00

‘Earned my cred’, the confused heterosexual female proclaimed as she brags about how many ‘gay’ men she has slept with.

At least they’re showing off the fact that a lot of them do transition due to fetishistic reasons.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-01T18:15:51+00:00

No, I believe transmen are transmen, and you need to be a biological female to be a transman.

Also, gay men do not ‘need’ to come out of the closet. I have gay friends who plan to remain closeted for as long as they want to be. Very poor argument.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-01T18:03:07+00:00

OK, so if transmen (biological women) are not females, why do they need to transition?

Since one’s sexual orientation cannot be changed, and the word describing exclusive opposite sex attraction is ‘straight’ or ‘heterosexual’, what are ‘gay transmen’?

Yeah, straight females.

Smolders1 · 2020-12-01T17:40:51+00:00

Sheesh, just came back to this thread to find this absolute shitshow of a debate.

Gay men don’t want straight females using slurs that are used in a morally degrading manner towards their community.

The homophobia is cute, though!

Smolders1 · 2020-11-19T23:50:01+00:00

Saying that homosexuality is 'same sex attraction' is now somehow homophobic.

Please tell me what being 'gay' means to you, Mr. Critfacts, and none of the bullshit 'oh, people should be able to decide that for themselves!' give me a definition of the word 'gay' or 'homosexual' that implies that being either of those two is anything but same sex attraction. There is nothing more to being gay.

Lesbians aren't into penis.

Gay men aren't into vagina. Get the fuck over it. I don't 'hate' vagina, but my orientation excludes women, therefore being with a woman is not sexually or romantically viable for me.

This dude sounds like a classic homophobe from the 1950's. The type of shit my parents used to tell me when they couldn't accept my homosexuality: "oh, it's just a fixation on a body part! you need to get over it!"

Smolders1 · 2020-11-15T21:29:04+00:00

Speaking of debate, I really miss the old r/gcdebatesqt subreddit.

Smolders1 · 2020-11-14T17:44:57+00:00

Yeah, it's 'not cool' to say that men and transwomen are the only people who can potentially have penises.

The 'laughing stock' comment was a response to something I said that went along the lines of: "our willingness to accept our own commercialisation by companies that have no care for our rights makes us look like laughing stocks, like we have to pandered and babied because of something we can't control. It makes us look rather childish."

So, I'm now a homophobe because I disapprove of the exploitation of my community, and a transphobe for stating biological reality (the comment they dug out was made several days before I even made this post, In a discussion of 'genital preferences'.)

Smolders1 · 2020-11-08T22:35:08+00:00

I love when they always pull out the argument: "o-oh, well, sexual orientation labels are actually voluntary to use, so get lost! people can describe themselves however they want!"

Yup, indeed they are. I, for example, could call myself straight 'till the cows come home. Doesn't the change the fact that I'm not fucking straight lol.

The labels are perhaps voluntary (that's even debatable), but existing in a state which fits the descriptor of 'lesbian', 'gay', or 'bisexual' are not. No one has volunteered to be whatever sexual orientation they are. Stop appropriating and stealing descriptors that describe our body's responses to both males and females when it comes to romantic and sexual attraction.

Like, I don't see how this could be any more obvious.

'Gay' is not a descriptor that transmen can use if they are attracted to males because they are not a male attracted to exclusively other males.

'Lesbian' is not a descriptor that transwomen can use if they are attracted to females because they are not a female attracted to exclusively other females.

Objective reality exists and we use words and descriptors to describe said reality and share our experiences with others in a way that is elaborate and straightforward. Attempting to rewrite these descriptor's definitions to include a variety of other things is not only homophobic, but regressive.

EDIT: Words.

Smolders1 · 2020-11-08T17:02:19+00:00

You say that as if pride is not saturated with corporate garbage already.

Whenever Pride rolls around, I just think: "oh, (insert company here) wants to sell me (insert product here) that's decorated in rainbow colours or some shit."

I wouldn't mind if it was simply a time where we could celebrate the rights we've worked to achieve, but I can't say I resonate with the fundamental values of pride anymore. I've tried going to a parade, and it was just fucking weird. It just makes us look ridiculous, at least in my eyes.

EDIT: Words.

Smolders1 · 2020-11-08T08:11:59+00:00

Pride should not exist outside of areas that criminalise bi and homosexuality.

EDIT: I mostly think this because I have no 'pride' about what the Alphabet Club has became.

Smolders1 · 2020-11-07T16:39:05+00:00

Pansexuality is bisexuality but trying to be woke.

Smolders1 · 2020-11-05T16:23:32+00:00

Yeah, I suppose that's true, but it's quite evident that TRA's are making attempts to get it taken down, don't you think? The brigading is almost constant. They want it to be banned so that gay males don't have anywhere to go on Reddit. They want these 'anti-trans' responses so they can convince Reddit that it's a hateful community.

Perhaps Reddit deems the community too valuable to ban and know they'd get endless backlash for banning it.

Smolders1 · 2020-11-05T16:04:31+00:00

I was banned from r/lgbt upon telling someone not to immediately transition after they said that they were confused with their gender identity.

Was banned for 'transphobia'.

Slightly unrelated, but does anyone else have a feeling that AGB is gonna get the hammer soon? That sub is very anti-trans (referring to not accepting straight females into their community, not actual transphobia.)

Smolders1 · 2020-11-04T19:56:17+00:00

1.) Peace. Just fucking peace. Free from the TRA assholes who paint all of us in a bad light, free from the gender nonsense that people associate with the LGBT community.

2.) I think the next issue should mainly be working on eliminating harmful stereotypes regarding LGB individuals (such as "bi people all love threesomes!)

3.) We'll grow bigger, and we shall celebrate our glorious victory until the cows come home.

4.) Stick together. We have to. We can't let the gender bullshit worm it's way back into our community by getting lazy again.

5.) Nothing else.

Smolders1 · 2020-11-01T21:27:30+00:00

Why do bisexual people hate calling themselves bisexual so much?

Like, seriously, it's kinda weird how much people do to 'get out' of being bi. Why is that? Celebrate your bisexuality. It's your label.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-30T15:13:59+00:00

Instantly clockable male, a straight one as well! Y'know, just fucking lesbians over again.

"The lesbian I've always wanted to be."

Yeah, definitely not fetishistic or creepy. Fuck's sake.

EDIT: Words.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-26T18:44:42+00:00

Wow, that's fucked up. Never really saw any such posts as I wasn't there that much apart from making the occasional comment on threads.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-25T22:15:27+00:00

Most of them have Discord servers apart from r/TrollGC, I think.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-25T19:37:16+00:00

I wonder how Reddit mods would act like in an actual vocal argument with someone regarding trans issues when they can't randomly ban you or silence you lol.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-25T17:35:30+00:00

Yeah. It was basically just a sub that took the piss out of r/GenderCynical's views. The two would get into constant debacles.

I'd also like for that particular sub to be recreated, the guys over at r/gendercynical are just narcissistic fuckwads. I dunno if it would gain any traction unless r/gendercritical or other subs on here would be willing to promote it, tho.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-25T16:21:39+00:00

Why was rightwinglgbt even banned? I was a participant there... and it was literally just a subreddit for conservative gay, bisexual, lesbian and trans people.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-25T12:06:22+00:00

It was much more active. I had several posts on there that received a few thousand upvotes. 24K subscribers at the time it was banned, I believe. Had around 2,000 users there at once at it's peak from what I remember.

Suppose not everyone wanted to make the jump to Saidit. Which is understandable, making an account is easy, but getting adjusted to an entirely new platform and the preemptive knowledge that less people are going to be there may turn some people away.

Met a lotta' friends over at the old sub. Wish it was still around. It was so nice to meet other gay, lesbian and bisexual folk who hadn't been brainwashed by the trans bullshit. As much as I hate Reddit these days for what it has became, I kinda wish the old sub was still around. Free speech on Reddit died a long time ago.

Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual people can't have their own spaces but trans people can? Yeah, fuck off.

Same with trans people getting to have their own spaces but not biological females.

Tbh, if I had to give you an answer (just for clarification), these are the subs I miss the most:

r/GenderCynicalCritical (a sub for criticising the views of r/GenderCynical).
r/TrollGC.
r/GCDebatesQT.
r/LGBDropTheT.

Seriously, I miss these subs so much. The communities were so inviting.

EDIT: Added some stuff.

EDIT 2: Grammatical corrections.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-24T20:34:24+00:00

I genuinely respect Blaire White, tbh.

Even though her content is mostly based around trans issues, she just has a very likeable personality, I guess.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-21T06:03:44+00:00

I'm so privileged!

It's not like I've been beat up for being gay or anything.

Or that I've had literal conversion therapy practised on me.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-18T18:58:23+00:00

This topic has always confused me lol.

Wouldn't saying "sex is a spectrum" imply that there is some sort of third sex that exists?

Smolders1 · 2020-10-18T16:25:35+00:00

I can't find anything in the image that makes the claim that asexuality isn't real. I think it's just making fun out of the fact that people make their lack of attraction to anyone their defining characteristic and constantly talk about how 'oppressed' they are.

Asexuals, of course, have their problems they have to go through for their orientation, but I don't necessarily think they line up with that of LGB's, nor do they face as much oppression, at least in my opinion.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-16T06:03:38+00:00

So... I can't exactly tell what she was talking about due to the substantial amount of censoring in the article, though, from what I can tell, she simply doesn't believe trans healthcare should be prioritised over women who have body dysmorphia's care?

How is that transphobic? So people dealing with gender dysphoria can get free surgeries but women who have a mental health disorder in which they literally cannot stop thinking about a perceived defect with their appearance can't? Yeah, fuck off.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-14T16:43:40+00:00

OK. Bye, I guess.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-12T16:13:51+00:00

Knew it from when I was about 15... had crushes on tons of other boys.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-09T18:11:36+00:00

"Trans people should have free surgeries, just saying!"

If gender dysphoria isn't a mental illness (like people who say that bollocks above claim it to not be), then I see no need in my money going towards paying for fucking surgery. Most of the transitioning process is purely cosmetic... and cosmetic alterations have to be paid for! What a shocker!

Smolders1 · 2020-10-06T17:42:23+00:00

They are back-peddling on the 'wrong body' term because they've realised how stupid it is and are getting scared that they are being called out for it. There is no such thing as a 'right' or 'wrong' body.

Same with 'feeling' like a man or a woman, you cannot feel like a female or feel like a male because they aren't 'feelings.'

There are no misconceptions when it comes to biological sex, the sex trans people were born as has not been misconceived, it has simply been observed.

TRA's are now screaming stuff like: "fuck u wrong body is just a metaphor!"

No, it isn't, and you know it isn't. It's very weird how all TRA's on Twitter had to make this clarification on the exact same day, surely it wasn't because they were scared of being called out for it, surely not. How can I even consider 'wrong body' a metaphor when trans people use that as genuine justification as to why they transitioned?

Smolders1 · 2020-10-04T15:19:50+00:00

Since when?

Since the trans brigade got angry that bisexuals didn't want them?

I hate when they say stuff like: "the meaning of words change over time, bigot!"

Yup! They sure do! But they shouldn't change just because you woke up and decided you're offended by the meaning of the word.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-04T09:42:13+00:00

Do you follow AllianceLGB on Twitter?

Smolders1 · 2020-10-03T18:02:01+00:00

According to him, his friend has given him permission to spread his story to combat bigotry wherever it may apply and that the message in this post was 'approved by him.'

Yeah, sure it was. I obviously can't fully say that his story isn't true, but as someone who has been raped, I can't remember going around and telling everyone that they should use my story to combat individuals who are same-sex attracted.

Pretty sure it's just a made-up story lol.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-03T17:37:02+00:00

I strongly apologise for my dismissal of their experiences. I should've been more considerate. I'll delete that comment.

Smolders1 · 2020-10-02T20:48:35+00:00

Do you have the archive on you? I'd love to use this against TRA's who say: "uhm no one says this"

Smolders1 · 2020-10-01T05:54:02+00:00

Sure thing! I'd love to join.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-29T19:23:48+00:00

Wouldn't it be funny if Reddit actually lived up to the 'completely free speech site' title that they pride themselves on having rather than allowing this sort of coercion to continually persist amongst communities meant for those who want to escape this bullshit? AGB will be gone in the next 3 months for opposing this crap. Mark my words.

If Reddit was a 'free speech' site, LGBDropTheT wouldn't have been banned, GenderCritical wouldn't have been banned, ItsAFetish wouldn't have been banned, GCDebatesQT wouldn't have been banned (I was a very active member of that community and both sides discussed with each other in a civil and respectful way, I rarely saw verbal insults being slung around by either party) along with a host of other subreddits.

Fuck Reddit, man. Seriously, fuck them. Isn't it telling how they consistently deplatform those who wish to oppose this pro-trans bullcrap but keep communities that suffer from constant brigading by TRA's alive? Surely they aren't homophobic or anything. That'd be insane!

Also, didn't their new 'anti-hate' rules exclude large groups of people who they didn't consider to be in a 'vulnerable minority', therefore you were fully permitted to speak ill of communities who are actually oppressed? (Y'know, unlike the trans community). Pretty sure women were included in this policy, also, if I'm not mistaken.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-27T20:17:22+00:00

Something like this?

https://www.humandignitytrust.org/lgbt-the-law/map-of-criminalisation/?type_filter=crim_gender_exp

EDIT: Words.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-26T21:05:42+00:00

Ah, that CritFacts tweet is fucking legendary.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-26T08:55:16+00:00

Well, by their own logic... none!

If bathrooms shouldn't be segregated by biological sex, and should instead be segregated by one's gender identity, I see no need for non-binaries to use bathrooms... y'know, if we're going by TRA logic anyway.

Also, I'm having a hard time understanding what 'non-binary' actually is.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-21T21:12:02+00:00

Sigh.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-12T21:20:29+00:00

He's so insufferable lmao.

I can't tell if he's a troll or not, though.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-12T20:55:04+00:00

Probably because of the 240 character limit on Twitter, she probably just thought that everyone would already know what she was saying.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-12T20:10:11+00:00

Why, of course! Lesbians don't deserve acknowledgement! They aren't 'cool and kweer owo' enough for us!

Smolders1 · 2020-09-12T20:09:42+00:00

Sums it up pretty well lmao.

Smolders1 · 2020-09-12T20:08:34+00:00

I genuinely feel so sorry for my lesbian sisters. I'm so sorry your label has been completely stripped of all meaning by these morons.

I wish we could all disassociate ourselves with this brigade of homosexuality being a trend or being 'really kewl UwU'. We just want to live our fucking lives, being attracted to whoever we're attracted to without you assholes constantly redefining the labels we have fought so hard for. No wonder the community we have been forcibly aligned with have the stereotype of being the most childish and obnoxious pricks ever. This is setting such an awful example for what gay, lesbian or bi people are like... y'know, some of them being normal fucking human beings who just want to live their life rather than declaring their sexuality every 10 minutes and overall making a fucking mockery out of the mentally sane LGB people.

Please, just leave us the fuck alone. Enough with the childish bollocks.

I deleted my Twitter account around 30 minutes ago, but I saw a TRA called 'Critfacts' (probably the most insufferable person I've ever had the displeasure of talking to) commenting under someone who QRT'd this who had justified distaste with the message by simply saying: "wHy Do YoU hAvE a PrObLeM wItH pEoPlE wHo IdEnTiFy DiFfErEnTlY tO yOu?" Because it is progressively tearing away all of the meaning from the word lesbian, dipshit.

I hope one day these people can step into the realm of normality and notice that they're fucking stupid. I'm just so sick of being painted out as a joke just because of these fucking idiots who I will forever be associated with against my will as a result of that fucking alphabet club.

Sorry for going onto a substantial rant, I know this comment should be filled with kind words of encouragement towards lesbians to fight for their label, but this shit pisses me off, man.

I hope we'll all be able to live our lives in relative peace someday.

EDIT: Words.

Smolders1 · 2020-08-31T08:59:24+00:00

Most cases of dysphoria could probably easily be solved by simply consulting a therapist about your issues with gender identity.

The only reason surgery and hormones are the promoted treatments for dysphoria is because medical corporations can keep people hooked on hormones and because the surgery is incredibly expensive.

Smolders1 · 2020-08-28T03:22:36+00:00

Ah, apologies. Yeah, pretty much exactly what's happening lmaooo.

Smolders1 · 2020-08-28T02:50:44+00:00

I kind of disagree, but kind of agree at the same time.

I think what got us here (mostly) is us entertaining transgender people's delusions regarding what they believe they are. They are mentally unbalanced, we aren't telling depressed people to off themselves and we aren't telling anorexic people that they look fat in certain clothing, so I have no idea why society decided to humour such a dangerous issue.

To tell you the truth, I don't care how 'harsh' it is (misgendering someone is the fucking paper cut of oppression, if you go into a state of unending mental anguish for being misgendered, you need fucking help), the only way we can get out of this mess is by continuing to say the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Transwomen are not women and transmen are not men.

Smolders1 · 2020-08-27T19:58:13+00:00

I'm so sick of this.

Can things just go back to normal? Seriously? I don't want to be aligned with these confused assholes anymore.

Smolders1 · 2020-08-27T13:32:26+00:00

I got banned from r/lgbt when I told a dysphoric individual to not transition immediately, as hormones and puberty blockers can have devastating effects. I put in the politest way one possibly could, going as far as to direct them to sources that discussed transitioning's positive and negative effect upon one's mental health.

Was banned for being 'transphobic' a few minutes later... that's when I found r/lgbdropthet. Gender identity and orientation are completely differentiating concepts and being aligned with the trans brigade will mean that we're always at the objective increased risk of being subjected to homo/biphobia. The T has to go.

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