L/G/B people - would you ever want to have kids and if so, through what means? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Eventually if I get married I wanna adopt, although I'm worried that I wouldn't be the best father :/

Uncomfortable LGBT "representation" in Star Trek: Discovery by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Adira felt really forced, but I don't really care about grey. they never really address the characters "trans status" I guess at all. I guess they're gonna explain away about grey coming back that adira's a human so some fuckery's gonna happen with the trill. hell in DS9 ezri brought back one of Dax's hosts in like some sort of ritual thing to solve a murder (field of fire season seven episode thirteen). I'm up to date on the series and they don't like talk much about Adiras gender identity much after that episode, although "they" are still a mary sue. also this is a bit of a tangent that doesn't have much to do with anything but I think that paul and hugh make a wholesome couple even if it is a bit over the top sometimes

Checkmate all you cis gay transphobes. You're out of excuses now. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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lol. the key word here is transplant. as in, you know, the veteran already had a dick. on a trans person that would be an implant

Why do people think LGB drop the T was right wing? Look at #8 reason and the bulleted points. I want to go to the discussion since I have an account, but I'm not sure. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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You're forgetting the whole mandate of libertarianism which is "do whatever you want as long as it doesn't fuck with me ". a lot of the woke shit forgets that last half.

How do I tell my gay friend dating a transman that he is bisexual? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Just don't say anything lol. Not worth the trouble

We've had threads on asexuality, what about demisexuality? by hyunnahh in LGBDropTheT

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The vegans of sexuality. It seems to exist just so they can talk about it.

I am literally heterophobic. by ExecuteHomophobes in LGBDropTheT

[–]Willpoll 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

yeah, you're a troll kek

I am literally heterophobic. by ExecuteHomophobes in LGBDropTheT

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bro. out of pocket.

I am literally heterophobic. by ExecuteHomophobes in LGBDropTheT

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Did you not see the part where I said in the west???? jeez of course there are some shitty people but that's not indicative of all. I guess every german wanted to gas the jews.

I am literally heterophobic. by ExecuteHomophobes in LGBDropTheT

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That had nothing to do with the heteros though. Like most hetero people in the west at least don't give a fuck if my boyfriends pounding me because they have better things to do

I am literally heterophobic. by ExecuteHomophobes in LGBDropTheT

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OK and? hetero's =/= trans lol. heteros aren't going to destroy homosexuality because it's literally impossible to do that. I'm halfway convinced you're just a troll

I am literally heterophobic. by ExecuteHomophobes in LGBDropTheT

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They aren't going to "destroy homosexuality all together". if that really was the case do you think we would've ever achieved marriage equality?

Be careful when trying to join r/TrueLGB! r/LGBT is trying to set a trap for you. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Study and article use LGB as a separate category from LGBTQIAOHSGHIOS (not a postitive study - we're more likely to get dementia) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Never been more happy to be told that my brain is more likely to decompose due to the sad juice

"Male Vagina" girl went back to her trans echo chamber - commentors are homophobic asshats as usual by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

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Any sources on Kamala Harris? by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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She purportedly put TW in mens prisons and also blocked a sex change when she was a prosecutor. purportedly

Apparently we aren't really gay, we're invading our own subreddits because we're 'transphobic'. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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Yes officer here is my gaydentification card

Has anyone debunked the split attraction model? Are romantic and sexual attractions separate from one another as the TQ believe? Are there really such things as 'heteroromantic', 'biromantic', and 'homoromantic'? And if not, can you explain why romantic and sexual attractions are not separate? by MarcelineKnows in LGBDropTheT

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except.... it's not lol. Not every gay man does hookups or are "perverts" lmfao. It may be a foreign concept to someone like you but I've certainly felt love for someone before and I know thousands/millions of others have as well.

AskGayBros: Would you rather get fucked by a trans woman with her real dick or a trans man with a strap on? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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I'd rather blow my brains out with a 20 gauge

What happens next after the T is dropped? by PeakingPeachEater in LGBDropTheT

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  1. Not too much changes beyond hopefully less of the queer theory bullshit being pushed into the mind of the public
  2. In the majority of the world it is still criminalized to be gay. We need to change that and hopefully nab marriage rights on the way.
  3. well my personal hope is that the group becomes less commercialized and more of an actual community as a whole
  4. LGB groups should definitely stick together even after it seems we've won equal rights worldwide. While the laws on the book may allow us to exist, personal bigotry is never going to go away. there needs to be a support network for kids who's parents will hate them, or for people going through hard break ups, or just all sorts of things.
  5. Not much except that I hope yall have a good day!

Actuallesbians: Does anyone else feel attraction toward gay men? by millionssomething in LGBDropTheT

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what the fuck lmfao

Oscar Wilde - trans icon. Pronouns xe, them, posthumouself by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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What the fuck lol. Just because people like wearing dresses or like cooking instead of cars doesn't mean their trans. egg culture just needs to die.

I Signed Up to Study Sexual Health. What I Got Was Gender Ideology, Fetishism, and Porn by IridescentAnaconda in LGBDropTheT

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What the actual fuck was that shit about BDSM???? That shit shouldn't be taught about in any classroom for fucks sake

Why do TRA's continually deny that they are homophobic when they describe our orientations as 'genital preferences'? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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The only possible explanation I can come up with is that the people who unironically use the term genital preference simply cannot comprehend the basic concept of trauma/repulsion to a certain set of genitals. Like they cannot for the life of themselves wrap their mind around the fact that some people just can't do vag or can't do dick.

Toronto University spiraling by insta in LGBDropTheT

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of course. Can't have meritocracy anymore. no, 2020 is the age of nepotism supposedly

Wasn't Grindr supposed to be an app for gay men? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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lol I don't even use grindr because of just like the perception around it. It's the perfect stereotypical "gay guys do ten hookups a week" app that you just know was gonna eventually start having them trickle in. Also, a bit unrelated isn't grindr owned by the CCP?

Cis gays, you just need to work on your attraction to transmen by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The thing about the person losing their dick in an accident is theirs always the subtext that theirs already a blossoming relationship happening before it. Yes, if someone lost their dick before I met them it would possibly be a deal braker, but if we were already going steady before then then we could probably work through it

This "trans man" thinks mulan is a "trans man", I thought maybe you'd want to see this thing I found too 😞 by EverydayIsSad in LGBDropTheT

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lol wut? Theirs one glaring issue here and it's very obvious. "he" missed Mulan's entire motivation. Mulan did it to save her father from dying at the blade of a Mongol because she was utterly committed to family first and foremost. there is no "dysphoria" because she would've never run to the army if her father was healthy or if she had a brother of age.

Cis gays, you just need to work on your attraction to transmen by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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How do people not understand that sexuality isn't fucking fluid?? Like people act like genital trauma or repulsion doesn't exist. it's so fucking infuriating

Does the CBC just hate gays? by Femaleisnthateful in LGBDropTheT

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what the fuck is "white gay culture" lmfao

"It's transphobic to say you wouldn't date trans people" by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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So... what their saying in the first panel is that I could save twenty bucks on a dildo? why would I get into a long term relationship to save twenty bucks?? also eww to the whole art style. It has a sort of slimy feel to it.

I'm really glad this sub is bipartisan by Lesbianese in LGBDropTheT

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One for all and all for one!

If you haven't already cancelled your Attitude subscription - now would be the time by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Ay yi yi

Francis becomes 1st pope to endorse same-sex civil unions by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Isn't the new thing with the catholic church that attraction to the same sex is all right but if you do feel it you should remain celibate? at least that's what I thought.

How to create a fujoshi by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Nobodies insinuating that really. or at least that isn't the intention. The critique obviously doesn't apply if people realize that all the shit that goes on in yaoi begins and ends on the page/screen. The problem is that theirs a very vocal amount of people who don't understand that.

I don't want to be out by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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no worries for not understanding it lol. I was asking if you see those guys anywhere besides the classroom because it stands to reason that if you don't see them out and about too much you could safely come out to a couple close friends if you feel like it.

I don't want to be out by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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Alright. The first thing you have to realize is that all that matters in this situation is how you think. you don't owe anyone the knowledge of you being a lesbian and that knowledge is yours to do with as you will. If you don't feel comfortable being out to anyone right now then you don't have to be out to anyone. Is it just alot of straight guys in your degree, or do you know them well enough to point them out outside of the classroom?

Can I serve you a cup of used tampons tea? by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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There are some things that make me wish I could never learn new things. this is one of them

Privileges of transitioning... by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah it does. thanks!

Privileges of transitioning... by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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"you must be logged on to do that" :(

Askgaybros Uwu acceptance post #267488 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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OK first of all what the hell with "hallmarks of gay culture"??? there is no "gay culture". Secondly, of course no ones going to hook up with them on grindr. that seems painfully obvious 🤦‍♂️

How did you discover that you are LGB? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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There wasn't really anything to discover for me. I always liked guys then one day found out there's a word for it.

Sorry my gay brothers, you will no longer be able to use your transphobic genital preferences as an excuse by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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first of all wouldn't it be a implant? since, you know, the female body wasn't designed to have a penis? Which of course brings up the next logical step, what if the body rejects the implant? also that's a fucking huuuuuugggggggeeeeeeeeee price tag. for the actual male who's had the surgery the cost was 300,000 to 400,000 dollars for crying out loud. I could use that kind of money to go on a very fancy vacation or hell, buy a goddamn house! Also the article does cover that lifetime immunosuppression is needed for this to work otherwise the penis is just outright rejected by the host body. Finally however, it's still the same as a phalloplasty besides the fact it looks better and can get hard. It's not like their sewing in the whole shebang. is that really worth almost half a million????

'Brokeback Mountain' - the queer story of a trans romance by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Now I know it seems a tad small but this has me genuinely fucking mad. It was one of the first mainstream gay romances and also tackled alot of the difficult emotions that come with accepting yourself. It was the first big bits of representation, or it seemed that way to me. Fuck off with the "trans romance" shit already and just let us at least have this one thing.

Ah, another argument I've seen coming from TRA's as of late: "The gay and lesbian labels are voluntary self descriptors!" by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Voluntary self descriptors don't make sense because being gay isn't voluntary. I didn't choose to be attracted to men exclusively, it just happened. They really don't get it do they?

why is gatekeeping considered bad? by babystud in LGBDropTheT

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It's not lol. If you look at the people who discourage gatekeeping, it's usually the same people with the toxic behavior that would have them gatekept

On the push to reverse Obergefell by Willpoll in LGBDropTheT

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I agree with what you said about the cake shop. I was just using it as an example of how these things should be settled differently in the private and public sectors.

Colonizing "Proud Boys" with "nonbinary/gender fluid" girlfriend receives applause on r/lgbt. The word "boys" is "gender neutral". by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah exactly. I think proud boys are even using it as like a new ad campaign. People never think through activism anymore

Girl wonders why gay men don't see her as a man 🙄 by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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She says "gods greatest gift to gay men" ironically but it's the truth lol

Everett: trans movement has 'overshadowed' gay rights by RedEyedWarrior in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah. back in july of this year I think :(

Everett: trans movement has 'overshadowed' gay rights by RedEyedWarrior in LGBDropTheT

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Out of pocket in the US, PrEP at least used to cost like close to two thousand bucks a month which is crazy, especially with the emphasis in the US about being "open minded" when it comes to sex and people with stds.

SRS on the other hand has a starting cost of about 15K but usually ranges closer to 25k or about one thousand dollars more then a years worth of PrEP by US standards. However you also have to crunch the numbers on HRT which I think has a median rate of around 15 thousand dollars. so that's around 40K for the full treatment minus facial reconstruction.

However most people paying for PrEP will be likely receiving some help whether it be from the gov, job benefits, or health insurance. The PrEP market is delayed gratification for big pharma while full srs gets you all the money at once

edit: it's two thousand bucks a month for PrEP, not two thousand a year

A transwoman's objection to gay male spaces by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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To answer this question, well it's quite simple really. there is no single gender space for straight people. they wouldn't be straight if they looked for people who identified as the same gender. So there is no need for straight women's spaces at least when it comes to the dating scene. The only spaces available when it comes to straight dating are mixed spaces. if a trans woman is trying to date a man, then there is never a need for a single gender space. I can say that they shouldn't be allowed in gay men's spaces because it's a matter of mindset. If you are effectively straight and identify as a woman why is there a need for gay men's spaces when literally everything about straight dating and interaction is this third space??? the men vs women's spaces is an entirely different argument. And as for whether or not your men I am as of yet undecided for the most part on that. I am not saying you should be banned from men's spaces but that's sex segregation, not sexuality segregation

A transwoman's objection to gay male spaces by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Well no. Bi men are still men loving men. If a trans woman is attracted to men wouldn't you consider that to be straight? Your conflating men's spaces with gay men's spaces. I have no problem with trans women in men's spaces. however trans women in gay men's spaces is a different matter entirely.

I'm coming from the perspective that if a trans woman is attracted to men and at least tries to present themselves as a woman, why would they think that gay men would be comfortable with someone who presents as a woman in their spaces. The main roadblock here is that you are conflating gay men's spaces with men's spaces in general. Spaces are created by people to feel, well safe and to meet people who are like each other. the typical reason for gay men's spaces is for men to go find other people attracted to men who consider themselves men. you said gay men's spaces in your first sentence but since then all you've been saying is men's spaces. Trans women in men's spaces are fine imo but to expect trans women who are attracted to men, someone who is effectively straight by societies standards into gay men's spaces is a tad over the line. sure you need men's or women's spaces but you don't need gay men's spaces especially when by your own logic your straight

A transwoman's objection to gay male spaces by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Well my logic is this: let's say a trans woman is attracted to men. therefore they could either be really a lesbian, straight, or bi. in none of these scenarios does this trans person really have the how should we say opportunity to go into gay men's spaces. The closest thing would be straight spaces which aren't really necessary since the majority of the world are straight anyways. I think the biggest issue however other than arguing if a trans woman attracted to solely men is straight is presentation, especially when that presentation appears to go all over the map according to the paragraph. Of course gay men are going to be uncomfortable with someone who presents as a woman coming into our spaces you know? In your second sentence you talk about men's spaces. that's not what we're talking about here. we're talking about a subset of mens spaces, gay mens spaces. It's not that we don't want you in men's spaces but rather that people are going to uncomfortable if someone who effectively looks straight goes into gay men's spaces From an outsider prospective I would figure it would feel sort of invalidating wouldn't it? Being a trans woman attracted to men so technically straight but being a top for gay men???

Homophobic Witch Hunt by midnight305 in LGBDropTheT

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I'm really sorry you have to deal with all this shit. I know a smaller discord server where there are similar minded people. It's not always super active but it's better then something. I could DM you an invite link if you want although the admin isn't always on so it would take a bit to get you verified or whatever. Or heck, I'm here if you don't feel comfortable talking to that many people. I just want you to know your not alone in this and you have people who are here for you. we're all in this together and we'll all get through this together.

Queer Theory by goatmeal in LGBDropTheT

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So word salad: the course

Why are "lesbian" and "bisexual" both an adjective and a noun, but "gay" is only an adjective? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I honestly have no clue lol. when I search for the definition it gives it as being both an adjective and a noun. I guess where it became offensive to say stuff like the gays is maybe cause it's a bit dehumanizing? I never thought of it that way though

Posts like this is why support for the lgb community will continue to decrease. by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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I can't tell if he's serious or not. Sure two years jail time may be a bit excessive but come the fuck on man. the laws are changed. Just get a room for Christ's sake. there is literally no reason to label this as homophobia.

NOT ALL GAY MEN ARE GAY! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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oh god, where's the unsee button????

A transwoman's objection to gay male spaces by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Strange days indeed

Homophobic Witch Hunt by midnight305 in LGBDropTheT

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I know it feels super bad right now but you gotta hang in there. for the tiktok stuff I wouldn't pay it much heed. shitty people are gonna be shitty people. Those people harassing you over print is really over the line and I'm sorry your going through that. My best advice is to not engage with anybody who spends their time doing that crap. Believe me, I know emotions can get bottled up by your mental wellbeing is the most important thing first and foremost. first have you tried to maybe contact school officials about whats happening? If you feel your not in a safe position to do so that's totally OK. Maybe finding some communities online where you can express yourself safely might help with how your feeling

A transwoman's objection to gay male spaces by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Good lord lol. that paragraph is so confusing. So I am to understand that the person who wrote it is mtf and attracted to dudes? if so, why are they on a site for gay men? can't speak for other guys here but if your trying to be a woman I don't really think you should be in gay male spaces. after all, they are for gay males Also why would a trans woman help with a "top drought"???

NOT ALL GAY MEN ARE GAY! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The thing about "some gay men are jealous of trans-men for having a self-lubricating hole". A.) I doubt theirs that many. B.) even if that were the case that doesn't mean that they would want to have sex with one

Now that's a new one: a gay man refusing to date transmen is on par with racial genocide by 8bitgay in LGBDropTheT

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"(unfortunately) for some gay guys anatomy matters" They can fuck all the way off. We've heard this shit before with the Christian weirdos and didn't take it then, and I'm not gonna take it now.

Were the "slippery slope" homophobes right? by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

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First off, let me get it out of the way that it doesn't matter if they were right as we still deserve the same rights and accessibility as everyone else. It's like the first amendment. Freedom of speech will of course eventually lead to some wack jobs going crazy but that does not erode the legitimacy of free speech.

The TQ bullcrap isn't our fault in that a good chunk of us in that we weren't and aren't perpetrators of it . While LGB will be blamed for the crap going on with the TQ but the action of said blame is like blaming the dog for a parasite latching on. I really think that the TQ crap would've developed at maybe just a slightly lesser pace even without the landmark of legalized same sex marriage. After all, at least to me it seems like it really sprung up in the early 2010s. In my opinion our struggle was coopted after major wins in the west. Remember, we're not at across the board bestiality yet. We still have time to prove them wrong and I know we will

The trans identity movement is making me feel judged for being gay. by sk8student in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah the TQ is dragging LGB with them . I remember reading something about how across practically the entire world acceptance rates are dropping after going up for the past couple years. I'm sorry your feeling judged just for who you are man. Nobody should have to feel that way. It's a crappy situation but we all just have to keep on keeping on. Try to counter that argument whenever you can and try to remove that illusion from peoples minds. Hopefully we'll make it through this.

You can't make this crap up. It's now "problematic" to say that just because a kid is gender non conforming, it doesn't mean their trans by Willpoll in LGBDropTheT

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Sorry about that lol

For most of my life, "gender" was simply the everyday synonym for "sex", for contexts where saying "sex" would feel inappropriate by dilsency in LGBDropTheT

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As I remember the original meaning for gender referred to gendered language where the same word would be spelt differently depending on if you were speaking to a man or a woman. It wasn't till the 50's that gender as a synonym for sex started taking off. Now we have the current day convoluted meaning

Didn't knew that crossdressers and intersex males/females are trans now... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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God I hate egg culture

How to misleadingly report a crime by GLAAD. ''tRaNsWomEn aRe WOMEN bIgOt!1!'' by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Sorry, but trans status is relevant in reporting a crime. literally everything is

We're on a road to nowhere, come on inside by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The day they start adding symbols.... shudder

TRAs' favourite go-to argument by bastetkat in LGBDropTheT

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I too think that melanin count and having a Y chromosome are the exact same thing

Northalsted chamber drops Boystown name for neighborhood by SuperGay in LGBDropTheT

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This stuff really pisses me off. So shit made by gay men for gay men isn't inclusive?? boo fucking hooo aiden. It's erasure of gay history and it makes me sick. Even when we make our own spaces that everyone should know never had the goal of inclusion we have to deal with these people????? We need to make a stand. draw our line in the dirt and say "no we're not budging" all this genderspecial uwu feelings bullshit can fuck right off

Conservative vs Woke Homophobia by oh_hello_satan in LGBDropTheT

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Sorta miss the good old days now.

Gives me hope that I came across a couple of people holding down the comments section defending gay and women's rights in yet another story raging about JK Rowling. by Q-Continuum-kin in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah I totally get you man. We really gotta get the ball rolling on this, but we're at a good place right now.

Gives me hope that I came across a couple of people holding down the comments section defending gay and women's rights in yet another story raging about JK Rowling. by Q-Continuum-kin in LGBDropTheT

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I think alot of the time we all get sunk in a pit of despair and think we're on our own in this fight when we do hold ideas that a good chunk of people do find sensible. It's all too easy to get lost in a sad state of mind. We just need to remember that we got this and that we do have allies

Are there any other Gay men here who don't believe in Trans Ideology? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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You certainly aren't the only one out there. The whole thing just seems deeply homophobic with it's use of terms like "genital preferences" and how we need to "work on that". Almost all of it is just the old homophobia with one or two words changed. The ideology just seems like conversion therapy but now inclusive™

Opinions on same sex marriages and adoptions by Wos290 in LGBDropTheT

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Well on marriage, in the US at least it's tied to the feds. So that means you get certain benefits like tax breaks and other crap from being married, so I guess that's a good thing. Marriage to me at least also has some performative value to signify commitment.

On the topic of adoption I haven't really looked into the effects of kids being raised by same sex couples, but I guess I could see how not having a mother (or father) could mess up a kid. But then again maybe it's possible for a man to fill a mother figure role and a woman to do the same with a father figure role? I think that might be possible. I'll echo a lot of people in the replies and say my first and foremost worry in adoption though is making sure that the adoptee is competent to take care of the kid.

Gay = white supremacy by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

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Yes because needing your partner to have the right equipment is totally the same as joining the klan 🙄. Also aren't the vast majority of trans people white?

Hey, sorry if this doesn't belong here, but can someone explain to me what 'queer' is supposed to be? Why is it a letter in the alphabet club? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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queer is such a disgusting word that really should have no place in this day and age. And of course it's usually the same people with the homophobic "genital preference" shit that use it to describe themselves. Either that or uninformed somewhat sheltered people. As for "faggot" people have already taken it upon themselves to "reclaim" it :(

Why are some gays so brainwashed into dating/sex with trans people? by Eurowoman24 in LGBDropTheT

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It's the uber woke ones who tiptoe around everything imo. Anything to not be seen as bigoted

Is there really a difference between "How do you Know that you're homosexual, have you tried my dick?", and "You homosexuals should experiment with the opposite sex (trans), so that you can be sexually available to us."? by dilsency in LGBDropTheT

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I think it might be because the tras who "become gay" and say stuff like "genital preferences" really fetishize being gay because it's this special thing to them. I think that's because unlike straight relationships, The vast majority of easy to access representation of homosexual relationships, especially online, is usually crap like porn while with straight relationships you see generally a greater mix sexualized and "normal" content out there. So I think trans people who are "straight" are more likely to not expect a more sexualized atmosphere in straight relationships from what they see online.

Weird feeling about marriage equality by Lesbianese in LGBDropTheT

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I could be wrong but as far as I know almost every culture has some form of union. Marriage in a western sense I feel has lost it's religious value decades ago. Marriage these days, especially in secular cultures really just is a show of commitment.

Another "do gay men date transmen?" thread. Although this comment was downvoted, notice it got gilded 3 times by 8bitgay in LGBDropTheT

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I don't think that people who post these sort of comments that repulsion for the opposite set of genitals can come along with homosexuality

How come trans people can separate from us but we cant separate from them? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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The problem is that we've been going on asking permission. We need to draw our land in the sand and stay there

"vaginas aren't inherently female" by Beth-BR in LGBDropTheT

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The lack of self awareness is astounding in these tweets

Gay men should work on their pussy biases by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

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No 😡

Has anyone here EVER thought this? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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I never did that... but then again I guess it's cause I'm not queer.

Trans-Identified people lying to Straight & Gay/Lesbians by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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If someone dose not disclose trans status to their partner it is most definitely rape by deception imo. While the dude may be dating what is effectively another dude, then he's probably bi, but I wouldn't push the issue too much, but hey that's just my 2 cents

Insanity! - Gay man is surrounded by police because he hurt trans feelings! by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

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If the police have enough resources to stop a dude for saying a mean word while actual crimes are still going on, they have too many resources

Based J K. by CheesyPeas in LGBDropTheT

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I saw everyone on twitter has up in arms about this. Wait till they find out about silence of the lambs

Meanwhile on r/lgbt: by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I wanna say it's a joke just cause of the huge number of pronouns, but it's r/lgbt

Ronald McDonald and the Burger King Make Out in New Ad by BiHorror in LGBDropTheT

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Fair point. Didn't really think too much of it.

This makes me want to become straight. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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because burgers = yummy.

that's why