Lesbians these days uwu by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Instantly clockable male, a straight one as well! Y'know, just fucking lesbians over again.

"The lesbian I've always wanted to be."

Yeah, definitely not fetishistic or creepy. Fuck's sake.

EDIT: Words.

Lesbian comes out of the closet but r/lgbTTT members think only about trans women. by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

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'It's not a transition pic.'

'Awh that's a shame.'

I beg your fucking pardon?

Like straight couples? Might be trans (r/actuallesbians) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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This is fucking disgusting. LEAVE THE KIDS ALONE. STOP BRAINWASHING THEM, PLEASE. THEY ARE CHILDREN.

All of those who are celebrating the ban of r/lgbdropthet are objectively homophobic; they are celebrating the erasure of gay, lesbian and bisexual people, along with their culture. Imagine turning on the people who made your fucking community. You weren't asked to force yourselves into our group. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Yes, please do. I think the LGB community needs to know that there are safe spaces for them. Thank you for making a backup for us, otherwise we wouldn't have anywhere else to go. Everything is gone, all communities for lesbians, gays and bisexuals have just disappeared.

Back to panhandling for surgery by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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"Trans people should have free surgeries, just saying!"

If gender dysphoria isn't a mental illness (like people who say that bollocks above claim it to not be), then I see no need in my money going towards paying for fucking surgery. Most of the transitioning process is purely cosmetic... and cosmetic alterations have to be paid for! What a shocker!

WAAAH! Why wont anyone believe how special I am? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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They try so hard to be a part of the LGBTQ+ community like it's some sort of 'club' that holds a higher social status compared to people who aren't members.

EDIT: Spelling.

...But you just categorized it as a gender? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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What the fuck is this.

I want gender to be abolished.

Tiktok Lesbian Cancelled for saying its not transphobic to not like dick by Gearbeta in LGBDropTheT

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Heard that she's already apologised and made a video of her sobbing due to all of the harassment. She's unfortunately already given in.

So sad to see young lesbians and other women being told their sexuality is not considered 'inclusive' and that they must conform in order to not be transphobic.

“Why is this lesbian refusing to suck Girldick™?!😡” : TumblrInAction by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I wonder how Reddit mods would act like in an actual vocal argument with someone regarding trans issues when they can't randomly ban you or silence you lol.

Question About Old Subreddit for LGBDropTheT by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Smolders1 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It was much more active. I had several posts on there that received a few thousand upvotes. 24K subscribers at the time it was banned, I believe. Had around 2,000 users there at once at it's peak from what I remember.

Suppose not everyone wanted to make the jump to Saidit. Which is understandable, making an account is easy, but getting adjusted to an entirely new platform and the preemptive knowledge that less people are going to be there may turn some people away.

Met a lotta' friends over at the old sub. Wish it was still around. It was so nice to meet other gay, lesbian and bisexual folk who hadn't been brainwashed by the trans bullshit. As much as I hate Reddit these days for what it has became, I kinda wish the old sub was still around. Free speech on Reddit died a long time ago.

Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual people can't have their own spaces but trans people can? Yeah, fuck off.

Same with trans people getting to have their own spaces but not biological females.

Tbh, if I had to give you an answer (just for clarification), these are the subs I miss the most:

  • r/GenderCynicalCritical (a sub for criticising the views of r/GenderCynical).

  • r/TrollGC.

  • r/GCDebatesQT.

  • r/LGBDropTheT.

Seriously, I miss these subs so much. The communities were so inviting.

EDIT: Added some stuff.

EDIT 2: Grammatical corrections.

"Hormone blockers are fully reversible" says Mermaids while linking to the NHS statement who says that the effects of hormone blockers are not known. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm honestly beginning to think that these medical corporations are downplaying the sometimes disastrous results that stem from the utilisation of these hormone blockers because people experiencing dysphoria will pay insane amounts to solve a problem that could be cheaply solved with actual therapy.

TRA's constantly bring up the argument: "oh transitioning is therapy, shut up!" No, it isn't. This 'therapy' they speak of is just filled with constant reminders that transitioning is available.

Hormone blockers are dangerous as fuck. People need to do research before going through the procedures that use them, because people's lives are being destroyed as a result of them.

There is no such thing as a hetero or bi lesbian. Please stop with this fucking nonsense. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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I genuinely feel so sorry for my lesbian sisters. I'm so sorry your label has been completely stripped of all meaning by these morons.

I wish we could all disassociate ourselves with this brigade of homosexuality being a trend or being 'really kewl UwU'. We just want to live our fucking lives, being attracted to whoever we're attracted to without you assholes constantly redefining the labels we have fought so hard for. No wonder the community we have been forcibly aligned with have the stereotype of being the most childish and obnoxious pricks ever. This is setting such an awful example for what gay, lesbian or bi people are like... y'know, some of them being normal fucking human beings who just want to live their life rather than declaring their sexuality every 10 minutes and overall making a fucking mockery out of the mentally sane LGB people.

Please, just leave us the fuck alone. Enough with the childish bollocks.

I deleted my Twitter account around 30 minutes ago, but I saw a TRA called 'Critfacts' (probably the most insufferable person I've ever had the displeasure of talking to) commenting under someone who QRT'd this who had justified distaste with the message by simply saying: "wHy Do YoU hAvE a PrObLeM wItH pEoPlE wHo IdEnTiFy DiFfErEnTlY tO yOu?" Because it is progressively tearing away all of the meaning from the word lesbian, dipshit.

I hope one day these people can step into the realm of normality and notice that they're fucking stupid. I'm just so sick of being painted out as a joke just because of these fucking idiots who I will forever be associated with against my will as a result of that fucking alphabet club.

Sorry for going onto a substantial rant, I know this comment should be filled with kind words of encouragement towards lesbians to fight for their label, but this shit pisses me off, man.

I hope we'll all be able to live our lives in relative peace someday.

EDIT: Words.

Why the hell do some trans-focused "lesbian" communities talk about being a "top" or "bottom"? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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They’ll never have lesbian sexual intercourse (or any sort of intercourse in general), so it’s safe to assume their knowledge of the act is limited, stereotypical and ridiculous.

"Cis lesbians and cis bi's [sic] are the most toxic part of the community" by diapason in LGBDropTheT

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I'm so privileged!

It's not like I've been beat up for being gay or anything.

Or that I've had literal conversion therapy practised on me.

Nothing makes me cringe and want to scream at the top of my lungs more than glorifying the word “queer” by nbailey73 in LGBDropTheT

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Queer is a nasty, horrible word that should have no place in the modern world.

Only I get the feeling that this sub is HELLA inactive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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People are waking up everyday in the thousands, the minority who oppose TRA views are growing stronger everyday; but I agree, this place needs to be advertised.

So, I made a post on r/ChangeMyView that received several hundred upvotes, the post was simply expressing my distaste with the modern LGBT community's willingness to be knowingly commercialised for monetary gain. I get accused of transphobia and internalised homophobia somehow. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah, it's 'not cool' to say that men and transwomen are the only people who can potentially have penises.

The 'laughing stock' comment was a response to something I said that went along the lines of: "our willingness to accept our own commercialisation by companies that have no care for our rights makes us look like laughing stocks, like we have to pandered and babied because of something we can't control. It makes us look rather childish."

So, I'm now a homophobe because I disapprove of the exploitation of my community, and a transphobe for stating biological reality (the comment they dug out was made several days before I even made this post, In a discussion of 'genital preferences'.)

TRA trys to police AGB, Gays fight back by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Wouldn't it be funny if Reddit actually lived up to the 'completely free speech site' title that they pride themselves on having rather than allowing this sort of coercion to continually persist amongst communities meant for those who want to escape this bullshit? AGB will be gone in the next 3 months for opposing this crap. Mark my words.

If Reddit was a 'free speech' site, LGBDropTheT wouldn't have been banned, GenderCritical wouldn't have been banned, ItsAFetish wouldn't have been banned, GCDebatesQT wouldn't have been banned (I was a very active member of that community and both sides discussed with each other in a civil and respectful way, I rarely saw verbal insults being slung around by either party) along with a host of other subreddits.

Fuck Reddit, man. Seriously, fuck them. Isn't it telling how they consistently deplatform those who wish to oppose this pro-trans bullcrap but keep communities that suffer from constant brigading by TRA's alive? Surely they aren't homophobic or anything. That'd be insane!

Also, didn't their new 'anti-hate' rules exclude large groups of people who they didn't consider to be in a 'vulnerable minority', therefore you were fully permitted to speak ill of communities who are actually oppressed? (Y'know, unlike the trans community). Pretty sure women were included in this policy, also, if I'm not mistaken.

Just moved to a college campus— there are literally more “queer” and trans students than there are gay students. by nbailey73 in LGBDropTheT

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"cis gender-queered non binary"

What the fuck does that mean?

This may sound really weird, but I'm so scared for the gay community. So, so, scared.

Screw it by Willpoll in LGBDropTheT

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I kind of disagree, but kind of agree at the same time.

I think what got us here (mostly) is us entertaining transgender people's delusions regarding what they believe they are. They are mentally unbalanced, we aren't telling depressed people to off themselves and we aren't telling anorexic people that they look fat in certain clothing, so I have no idea why society decided to humour such a dangerous issue.

To tell you the truth, I don't care how 'harsh' it is (misgendering someone is the fucking paper cut of oppression, if you go into a state of unending mental anguish for being misgendered, you need fucking help), the only way we can get out of this mess is by continuing to say the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Transwomen are not women and transmen are not men.

Bisexuality has always been inclusive of gender identities : bisexual by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Since when?

Since the trans brigade got angry that bisexuals didn't want them?

I hate when they say stuff like: "the meaning of words change over time, bigot!"

Yup! They sure do! But they shouldn't change just because you woke up and decided you're offended by the meaning of the word.

Those are all bisexual with extra steps by LasagnaRossa in LGBDropTheT

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Why do bisexual people hate calling themselves bisexual so much?

Like, seriously, it's kinda weird how much people do to 'get out' of being bi. Why is that? Celebrate your bisexuality. It's your label.

What do you think about pride month? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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TRA's and the trans community centre it around themselves as usual. Rarely ever any representation for actual homosexuals and bisexuals. Not a fan. More discrimination arises from it rather than acceptance and toleration.

Sick of the 'oh trans people lead the stonewall riots! respect them!' narrative. No, they didn't. Trans people were not welcomed in early pride parades. Marsha P. Johnson was a gay drag queen, the majority of other participants were butch lesbians. You forced yourselves into our community. Shut up. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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It's so brainless. They're taking advantage of the fact that accurate information regarding the riots isn't easy to find and are essentially writing it to their liking just so it seems like their exclusionary practices are valid.

Yeah, check your privilege, cis gays! by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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I can't find anything in the image that makes the claim that asexuality isn't real. I think it's just making fun out of the fact that people make their lack of attraction to anyone their defining characteristic and constantly talk about how 'oppressed' they are.

Asexuals, of course, have their problems they have to go through for their orientation, but I don't necessarily think they line up with that of LGB's, nor do they face as much oppression, at least in my opinion.

Do gay men lust after straight women. If not, why not? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Do people there not understand that these are clearly bait posts intended to fish out hateful sounding responses so the sub can get banned?

Downvote and move on. Don’t respond. Gives them more ammunition.

"Whew! Thank god homosexuality's definition is being changed so that gay people must be attracted to biological females to be gay! Definitely not homophobic, by the way! Nor do I have internalised biphobia!" by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Background to this story:

Guy in this image told me he was gay once I questioned him about it.

Told him that he isn't, if you're attracted to trans men and you are 'gay', you are actually bisexual.

Proceeded to tell me I can't define him or his sexuality.

I then told him that gay does have a meaning, so I can define his sexuality all I want. He's a bisexual man dragging 'gay rights' into his delusions so he can mask his biphobia and homophobia as 'progressive'. I also mentioned that if he's scared shitless to admit he's bi because he sees it as a bad thing, he has internalised biphobia.

Then when I showed him the definition of homosexuality, he went into this homophobic rant.

So if transwomen want to use womens bathrooms and transmen want to use the mens bathrooms...... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Well, by their own logic... none!

If bathrooms shouldn't be segregated by biological sex, and should instead be segregated by one's gender identity, I see no need for non-binaries to use bathrooms... y'know, if we're going by TRA logic anyway.

Also, I'm having a hard time understanding what 'non-binary' actually is.

What happens next after the T is dropped? by PeakingPeachEater in LGBDropTheT

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1.) Peace. Just fucking peace. Free from the TRA assholes who paint all of us in a bad light, free from the gender nonsense that people associate with the LGBT community.

2.) I think the next issue should mainly be working on eliminating harmful stereotypes regarding LGB individuals (such as "bi people all love threesomes!)

3.) We'll grow bigger, and we shall celebrate our glorious victory until the cows come home.

4.) Stick together. We have to. We can't let the gender bullshit worm it's way back into our community by getting lazy again.

5.) Nothing else.

"we can have trans only spaces, but you can't have single sex spaces" - trans person, as is typical, can't understand why lgbdropthet is a thing by denverkris in LGBDropTheT

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When can we abolish gender so this whole identifying nonsense can end and people realise that identifying as something you're not is fucking insane and that going against human nature shouldn't be encouraged?

Even /r/malefashionadvice has been fatally infected by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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When can things go back to normal? When people don't get blasphemed by the oversensitive and flawed mindsets these morons carry?

Yes, Mr. CritFacts the Spoopy Ghost Enby, telling lesbians to 'maybe try' (implying you wish for them to try) 'girldick' is an attempt to push corrective rape upon them. What a scumbag you are. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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According to him, his friend has given him permission to spread his story to combat bigotry wherever it may apply and that the message in this post was 'approved by him.'

Yeah, sure it was. I obviously can't fully say that his story isn't true, but as someone who has been raped, I can't remember going around and telling everyone that they should use my story to combat individuals who are same-sex attracted.

Pretty sure it's just a made-up story lol.

I'm lost by badatnicknames in LGBDropTheT

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Yup, I suppose all you have to do to become a woman now is say you are one.

Lesbian: A Woman that is only sexually attracted to other women. Penises are part of the Male Reproductive System. “Lesbians” that like Penises are not Real Lesbians, OP. : TumblrInAction by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I love when they always pull out the argument: "o-oh, well, sexual orientation labels are actually voluntary to use, so get lost! people can describe themselves however they want!"

Yup, indeed they are. I, for example, could call myself straight 'till the cows come home. Doesn't the change the fact that I'm not fucking straight lol.

The labels are perhaps voluntary (that's even debatable), but existing in a state which fits the descriptor of 'lesbian', 'gay', or 'bisexual' are not. No one has volunteered to be whatever sexual orientation they are. Stop appropriating and stealing descriptors that describe our body's responses to both males and females when it comes to romantic and sexual attraction.

Like, I don't see how this could be any more obvious.

'Gay' is not a descriptor that transmen can use if they are attracted to males because they are not a male attracted to exclusively other males.

'Lesbian' is not a descriptor that transwomen can use if they are attracted to females because they are not a female attracted to exclusively other females.

Objective reality exists and we use words and descriptors to describe said reality and share our experiences with others in a way that is elaborate and straightforward. Attempting to rewrite these descriptor's definitions to include a variety of other things is not only homophobic, but regressive.

EDIT: Words.

Pride soon to include demisexual quasiromantic omnigender foetuses by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Pride should not exist outside of areas that criminalise bi and homosexuality.

EDIT: I mostly think this because I have no 'pride' about what the Alphabet Club has became.

I’ll admit it, I miss our Reddit community. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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No, regardless of what their intent is, I don’t wanna support some janny task force’s mission to brigade subreddits, no matter what they’re doing it for. They literally set up VPN’s and make new accounts and then proceed to post child pornography to subreddits they don’t like.

Is Eddie Izzard a lesbian? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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No.

A straight man posted this by IvanAlexey in LGBDropTheT

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I really need to put Twitter down. Gah, my fault for not checking the link's source first.

I swear that these assholes have now realised they've taken over the lesbian community and stripped homosexual women of the label they've fought for so hard; now they're just moving onto ACTUALLY MALE gay men.

Trans men who call themselves 'gay' are straight.

Trans women who call themselves 'lesbian' are straight. Simple fucking as. I hate these people and the message they preach and force harmless communities to bow down to. I fucking hate every single one of them.

Welcome back everyone!! by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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Long story short: We don’t know. This may become a regular thing, however.

By following her delusion, she became a rapist by deception. by hinterlands in LGBDropTheT

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The guy in there saying “I’d be fine with a transman” in the comments.

Good, celebrate your bisexuality!

As a heterosexual GC/Radical Feminist, how can I support the LGB community? by _d33n3r_ in LGBDropTheT

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Radical feminism isn't friendly to males, like OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN said, it perpetuates the idea that anyone (in regards to the entire demographic) born with a penis is oppressive, when in reality, that's wildly inaccurate. I don't wanna sound offensive, but saying that "all people who have penises suck" is just... off to me.

Just be friendly lol.

This NEVER happens: "A trans man is trying to get me kicked out of my master’s program because I won’t fuck him" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Blood is fucking boiling.

Fuck it, I'm gonna say it, trans people are the most privileged assholes ever who act like they're actively discriminated against so it can feed into their toxic narrative.

There is no such thing as a hetero or bi lesbian. Please stop with this fucking nonsense. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Why, of course! Lesbians don't deserve acknowledgement! They aren't 'cool and kweer owo' enough for us!

Not sure if this bit of homophobia was posted... by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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"Stop being attracted to biological sex. You only exist to 'validate' (such a stupid word) those who have mental disorders."

Can't believe people like this represent our community in such a manner on one of the biggest social media platforms in the world. How aren't more people seeing that the gender identity bullshit has nothing to do with sexual orientation? We desperately need separation from their group.

Dear cis people, you need to do all these things to be a proper ally! by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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Nope. Sorry, TRA. I'll acknowledge people as what they actually are (I refuse to feed into mentally ill people's delusions).

I will not respect pronouns because I'm not stupid enough to call a man dressing up in 'feminine' attire a woman.

I will continue saying that I refuse (not that I am not attracted to, refuse) to date trans people, as doing so would go against the meaning of sexual orientation, regardless of whether the person in question has had bottom surgery.

I will continue distinguishing trans women and men from REAL women and men.

I will continue saying that children should not be able to transition and that your community are utter scum for spoon feeding the youth your toxic narrative, as well as encouraging them to utilise hormone and puberty blockers that could possibly cause them brain damage.

I will continue saying that you support the normalisation of a mental illness and that you ultimately don't care about the collective wellbeing of society.

Sorry if this sounds harsh, but this is how I feel, they refuse to treat others with respect, so I don't see why I should treat them with said respect.

They're targeting Gaybros today by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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For fuck's sake.

Some of you may believe I’m being overdramatic here, but it really sucks having to wake up to everyday and be reminded that my sexuality that I’ve fought to no end to get my family and friends to accept is being actively appropriated by straight women who fetishise gay men. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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I mean, it’s not on my mind constantly. It just kind of annoys me is all lol. People claiming an oppression that they will never understand just bugs me and it’s a bit hard not to think about or get frustrated over when so much of your life has been based around trying to rid yourself of a hard-wired orientation that you would honestly rather not live with.

If there were a button I could press that magically turned me straight, I would press it no questions asked. But I can’t. I am always going to be a male who is attracted to other males. Of course, I’m not speaking for all gay men when I say this, I know a lot of lesbians, bisexual and gay men who are happy with their sexuality, but I am not. I have been put through no end of homophobic bullshit in my life to let mentally ill women fetishise people like me. Not a single fucking gay man wants them and they never will. They can take their homophobia elsewhere, I’m not letting the same homophobic nonsense that my parents said to me years ago be used on other homo and bisexual kids disguised under the mask of ‘trans rights’.

If a person refusing to let regurgitated homophobia stand in today’s world is what the trans community considers a ‘transphobe’, then I’ll happily remain a transphobe for as long as I live, because that definition of transphobe is not a bad thing to be.

Sorry for going off topic a bit, but I don’t care. Just my thoughts.

I made this new LGBTQWERTY+WTF flag even better now. Thank me for it. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Uhm... you forgot the numbers? /s

People unironically making flags like these make a complete fucking mockery of our community. My flag may be a part of whatever they decide to create next, but I am not. I do not support this type of shit.

But of course us icky homo/bisexuals don't get a say, we're just expected to constantly make room in our community for nonexistent sexualities.

The only letters I will ever support in that fucking alphabet club are the L, the G and the B. Those are the people who the community was made for, but I'm expected to fly with this bullshit? No thanks.

(Don't worry, OP, I know you did it ironically lmao. Shit like this just pisses me off. Apologies.)

EDIT: Words.

All of those who are celebrating the ban of r/lgbdropthet are objectively homophobic; they are celebrating the erasure of gay, lesbian and bisexual people, along with their culture. Imagine turning on the people who made your fucking community. You weren't asked to force yourselves into our group. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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This may paint me out as a legitimate transphobe, but I am genuinely scared of these people and what they are doing (including trans people) to get their message across.

They are trying to force the whole world into conforming to their disgusting views on sexual orientation and gender identity, and those who are actually gay, lesbian and bisexual are going to suffer as a result. I'm scared the world is going to slip back into it's old ways and the LGB community will continue to be discriminated against as much as we were before, since transitioning is now legal in more states than being homosexual.

I'm scared that something I was born as and can't be rid off will soon once again become illegal where I live in government efforts to appease the TRA's (gay marriage became legal only a few years ago in my country).

I'm scared that my sexuality will soon have literally no meaning and will rip those who choose to associate themselves with the label of any simple way to explain who they are attracted to.

I'm scared that the LGB youth will have to be subjected to the seemingly inevitably wide-spreading discriminatory tactics that are being used against people to rid them of their sexuality.

There's so many things that I'm afraid will become normalised in terms of homo and biphobia, but I can't sum them up in this one post. I'm just genuinely afraid of the future ahead of me.

I made this new LGBTQWERTY+WTF flag even better now. Thank me for it. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Star-fucking-gender.

Can someone please tell this furry fuckwad to get off the internet for once? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Saying that homosexuality is 'same sex attraction' is now somehow homophobic.

Please tell me what being 'gay' means to you, Mr. Critfacts, and none of the bullshit 'oh, people should be able to decide that for themselves!' give me a definition of the word 'gay' or 'homosexual' that implies that being either of those two is anything but same sex attraction. There is nothing more to being gay.

Lesbians aren't into penis.

Gay men aren't into vagina. Get the fuck over it. I don't 'hate' vagina, but my orientation excludes women, therefore being with a woman is not sexually or romantically viable for me.

This dude sounds like a classic homophobe from the 1950's. The type of shit my parents used to tell me when they couldn't accept my homosexuality: "oh, it's just a fixation on a body part! you need to get over it!"

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I was banned from r/lgbt upon telling someone not to immediately transition after they said that they were confused with their gender identity.

Was banned for 'transphobia'.

Slightly unrelated, but does anyone else have a feeling that AGB is gonna get the hammer soon? That sub is very anti-trans (referring to not accepting straight females into their community, not actual transphobia.)

I’ll admit it, I miss our Reddit community. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Why are you here, then? I doubt you’d be coming into our communities, making comments like these and then proceeding to say ‘we don’t miss you on Reddit!’ If some sort of obsession wasn’t involved.

It’s almost as if censoring opinions on a social media platform doesn’t suddenly erase people who hold those opinions from existence. I love how we’re the exclusionary ones, yet people like you barge into our spaces. Ridiculous.

Pride soon to include demisexual quasiromantic omnigender foetuses by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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You say that as if pride is not saturated with corporate garbage already.

Whenever Pride rolls around, I just think: "oh, (insert company here) wants to sell me (insert product here) that's decorated in rainbow colours or some shit."

I wouldn't mind if it was simply a time where we could celebrate the rights we've worked to achieve, but I can't say I resonate with the fundamental values of pride anymore. I've tried going to a parade, and it was just fucking weird. It just makes us look ridiculous, at least in my eyes.

EDIT: Words.

Nevermind; not being attracted to trans men does make you transphobic : askgaybros by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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I'm so sick of this.

Can things just go back to normal? Seriously? I don't want to be aligned with these confused assholes anymore.

I'm sick and tired of the 'gay' and 'lesbian' labels being used by straight males/females. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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No problem!

Why the [] around the M, though? Just curious, aha! :D

Types of trans people I’ve noticed by Astrid2448 in LGBDropTheT

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I think they mean to say that people who are transitioning decide to 'change' their sexuality dependent on the gender they now associate themselves with, even though that isn't very logical to begin with.

A man transitioning into a female will most of the time say that they are 'lesbian', which actually means they are straight since they are still a biological male.

L/G/B people - would you ever want to have kids and if so, through what means? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Unfortunately, I sometimes wish I were straight due to the fact that I cannot ever have my own biological children.

I believe surrogacy is unethical, so I don’t think I’d be comfortable using that method to conceive a child of my own.

I may be fine with adoption or fostering, though. The child would still not be my biological child, but it’s the method I believe to be the most ethical.

I doubt I will ever have kids, however, simply due to the fact that I cannot have my own biological child with my SO. Hope that makes sense. I dunno what puts me off the idea so much, it’d just be off putting to raise a child if it were not my biological child. Like I said, it’s the reason I hate being homosexual. I do want my own child someday, but there’s nothing that I believe to be ‘fulfilling’ available to me.

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Question About Old Subreddit for LGBDropTheT by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah. It was basically just a sub that took the piss out of r/GenderCynical's views. The two would get into constant debacles.

I'd also like for that particular sub to be recreated, the guys over at r/gendercynical are just narcissistic fuckwads. I dunno if it would gain any traction unless r/gendercritical or other subs on here would be willing to promote it, tho.

Question About Old Subreddit for LGBDropTheT by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Why was rightwinglgbt even banned? I was a participant there... and it was literally just a subreddit for conservative gay, bisexual, lesbian and trans people.

I think TRA's need to stop making it out as if trans people are the most oppressed people in the world and could get killed whenever they walk outside. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Hey, really sorry to ask, but do you have sources to the whole MTF prostitute thing? Would be nice to use against people who say "oh, not a single trans person is looking to deceive people! shut up!"

Oh, yeah. Because TRA's NEVER insult homosexuals who simply want their often fabricated history to be acknowledged for what it is! by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Other account in this image isn't censored because it's my account. :)