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[–]reluctant_commenter 58 insightful - 2 fun58 insightful - 1 fun59 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Aw, jeez, they think THIS is hate speech?

https://www.reddit.com/r/BiologicalLesbians/comments/k50z1y/i_just_wanted_you_to_know/

As a tomboy lesbian (and someone who was a tomboy as a kid) that makes me genuinely happy to see. And it is sad to think that this sub will almost certainly be banned soon, so here is the archive. https://archive.is/wb4u5

The fact that many trans people, and many people, period, on Reddit consider a post stating "I am a lonely tomboy lesbian" to be hate speech is both hilarious and saddening. What a time we live in.

[–]winterwillow 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It was a sweet post, I was happy to see it too. But the reactions... Tomboy lesbian: I feel comfortable with being a masculine woman. TRAs: This is hate speech!

But then some of them seem to think just mentioning vulvas on a LESBIAN sub is 'a bit terfy'. I hope biological lesbians can fly under the radar, it's really kicking off now and it's so appearent that it's needed.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am not a lesbian but I am a tomboy too and I also feel really uneasy how many people like me stop seeing themselves as women, change pronouns, their names and even go for HRT. I am certain they'd never think of it if they weren't exposed to this TRA stuff so heavily. It's present everywhere even if you don't look for it.

[–]reluctant_commenter 30 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I completely relate. "Queer theory" is all about othering anyone who does not fit into societal sex roles and expectations. I do not want to be othered, TRAs think being "not normal" is cool, but I just want to be me lol, not different.

I am certain they'd never think of it if they weren't exposed to this TRA stuff so heavily. It's present everywhere even if you don't look for it.

Exactly!

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I am no longer surprised about bans for "hate speech" after recent #TheStanilandQuestion for which Helen was banned as hateful by Twitter.

[–]reluctant_commenter 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Wait, what happened with that?

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Helen Staniland was suspended by Twitter for half a day for asking simple question:

https://twitter.com/WomenReadWomen/status/1338775151836422145

[–]reluctant_commenter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Seriously? They censor that? Wow.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, it is apparently hateful to ask protection for little girls and teen girls. So after that nothing can surprise me anymore.

https://twitter.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1338779719697911808

[–]EzukiRaen 48 insightful - 2 fun48 insightful - 1 fun49 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

It seems like a modern-day witch hunt. "TERF" is the new "witch" and "transphobia" is the new accusation of "witchcraft".

It's quite sad really. This is like the story "the boy who cried wolf". If they keep calling everyone transphobic, at some point people will become desensitised and will be less inclined to believe them when something that's actually transphobic happens.

[–][deleted] 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah waiting for a day when they eventually call everything transphobic. It'll come sooner than later.

[–]SnowAssMan 24 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Feminists (the real ones) should start identifying as witches, that way when anti-feminists start calling women witches for not following their dogma, on hearing themselves they might just attain some self-awareness.

[–]Ninaran 48 insightful - 1 fun48 insightful - 0 fun49 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Eh, it's AHS, they think that posting child porn to subreddits to get them banned is a normal and sane strategy. So I'm not surprised, really.

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 43 insightful - 1 fun43 insightful - 0 fun44 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly that AHS subreddit people should be reported to the police and be investigated. The fact that they HAVE fucking cp is extremely disturbing, let alone that they distribute it on reddit. Has anyone reported these fuckers to the police?

[–]reluctant_commenter 43 insightful - 2 fun43 insightful - 1 fun44 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Also lol they want to purge all conservatives from reddit. I am pretty far left myself but that is dumb as fuck. Banning their subreddits will not make the people who hold these beliefs stop existing... all it will do is push them further out of your jurisdiction.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 42 insightful - 1 fun42 insightful - 0 fun43 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Highlights how biased Reddit is when incel MGTOW subs which refer to women as used holes/breeding machines get to stay up but wanting to be exclusively homosexual is against ToS.

Interesting how the “no trans” porn subs get to remain as well.

[–][deleted] 35 insightful - 3 fun35 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

There is/was a sub dedicated to actual "rape fetish", but I never see anyone talk about it or forbid it. There are racist and actually homophobic subs like "white boy extinction" which is a sub dedicated for white effeminate males being raped by black males & the implication that white men are too unmanly to be heterosexual/have kids and thus "go extinct." It's racist both ways because it portrays white males as sex objects and black males as animalistic sex obsessed beasts. There are disgusting subs like "FTM punished" where it's ENCOURAGED to "misgender" FTMs and make comments about how they'll always be female and thus are sex/breeding objects. I don't believe "misgendering" is a problem but that is a disgusting sub, it's extremely sexist and it obviously preys on young insecure women with issues, a lot of the FTM posters seem to be in their late teens/20s.

You'd think that TRAs and SJWs would care a lot about that since they claim to be so passionately against racism, transphobia, homophobia, and injustice in general - but suddenly when it's the NSFW subs, their "injustice" alarm switches off and they don't care about it. I guess their mentality of what is offensive gets overwritten by the SJW "Porn is good and healthy, if you criticize it at all you're a kinkshaming whorephobe" mentality.

Have any of us tried that approach? Making a homosexual only no-trans sub that's presented as highly NSFW? lol

[–]reluctant_commenter 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Have any of us tried that approach? Making a homosexual only no-trans sub that's presented as highly NSFW? lol

Lol you mean like making a sub that looks like it's one of those porn subs, but is actually just a sub for LGB people?

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 12 fun17 insightful - 11 fun18 insightful - 12 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah like /r/BigMeatyThrobbingCocksXXX but it's really just bio male Q&A hahaha

[–]reluctant_commenter 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

That sounds awesome hahaha.

[–]8bitgay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Have any of us tried that approach? Making a homosexual only no-trans sub that's presented as highly NSFW? lol

If it's advertised as such, it wouldn't work. But sure, there are tons of NSFW subs for homosexual men out there that have no trans content at all. They don't explicitly say "this sub is for cis men only", but that's the content that you see. I'd say that most of them work this way.

They are much smaller than a sub like AskGaybros though, so maybe that's why nobody complains about the lack of female genitals.

[–]GConly 37 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 0 fun38 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

r/detrans - purportedly a support group for people who transitioned and then detransitioned. In reality a TERF hive, a place for a small group of anti-trans detrans people to spread hatred agrainst trans people & transition (similar to how "ex-gays" act about gay people,) and a place where all transphobic posts are highly upvoted. Admins are already familiar with this one, and briefly banned it a few months ago - should've stayed that way. The new active mod tries to barely toe the line as to not get banned - but the comments are filled to the brim with transphobia and pseudoscience.

I looked at it a few times. They are almost all detransitioned people.

This of course triggers the fuck out if the activists, because no one is supposed to do this.

A lot of them are also super open about their autogynephillia, another massive no no.

[–]8bitgay 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

similar to how "ex-gays" act about gay people

It's funny when they compare situations that aren't comparable at all.

Most "ex-gays" are just gay/bi men peer pressured into trying to fit heterosexuality. If you're an actual straight man who was confused about your sexuality once and thought you weren't straight, then well, you don't need to do anything about it. The only thing you'd need to do if you realize you're straight is stop dating men, lol. It's just an issue of saying "I wasn't sure about my sexuality but now I figured out I'm straight".

Meanwhile if you realize you're not trans, that might happen after you already took hormones, or legally changed your name, or even had surgeries done. If this is your situation, there are many issues that might happen during this process, and talking with people that went through a similar situation might help.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The way that person writes is super scummy in a way I can't articulate. He/She implies that there's nothing wrong with people who so happen to make those choices, it's just that particular dirty rotten subreddit that has problems... But it's a load of shit. There will always be an excuse to write off the whole thing, and if there isn't an excuse someone equally manipulative will come along and make one happen. We see similar mind games in AGB every other week.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

the comments are filled to the brim with transphobia and pseudoscience

So thinking you're the opposite gender and transitioning isn't pseudoscience, but detransitioning is?

[–]Lessom 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s really pathetic how up their own asses they are. The fact the media and places like Reddit are supporting their bullshit is just feeding their fragile egos.

[–]JulienMayfair 30 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

People who devote their energy to being Reddit's self-appointed thought police squad strike me as severely damaged individuals.

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What losers, lol.

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people need lives.

[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Jesus, so their enemies are LGB people and feminists? These people are hilarious.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 17 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 6 fun18 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

Men are killing transwomen of color in Brazil, lets oppose it by...deplatforming gays and lesbians and fighting against feminists in Canada and USA!

[–]8bitgay 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The TRAs do the same in Brazil though. Just a couple days ago a gay Brazilian youtuber said he likes sucking dicks (as a response to people shipping him with a cis woman) and people started accusing him of transphobia.

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A wild keyboard warriors. Fascinating.

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

My thoughts are plenty but all come back to this:

Why the hell is it when a radfem-adjacent sub gets banned, it's for "transphobia", and not the countless other actually hateful shit posted on there? Seriously, this "against hate subreddits" and other TRAs alike NEVER comment on the other issues, despite TRAs claiming to be anti-discrimination in many ways elsewhere. Take for example ableism; radfem subs are full of it, TRAs claim to give many shits about it, but I never ever see TRAs calling them out for that. I'm willing to bet that, if radfems didn't care about transgenderism at all and the subs were exactly the same except there was no mention of trans ever, they'd be allowed to stay no matter how hateful they got. This is hardly a new concept though, because Reddit has allowed some really disgusting subs stay for a long time or even are still up, solely because they were attacking groups that nobody gives two shits about.

See, this is how you know who is an actual minority and group that's targeted by real hate. Those who are actually oppressed rarely have people sticking up for them, and sites like Reddit will be fine harboring communities dedicated to trash talking them. You even so much as express mild disinterest in a trans person and you're silenced, banned, censored, etc. Trans people aren't oppressed, they have big companies backing them and an internet angry mob to start mass drama if they feel offended.

I am, obviously, against banning subs and silencing people for "transphobia" because it's not really a thing, and having a place focused on homosexuality or female issues is not even close to hateful. However I think the Reddit admins are all too willing to let actually hateful subs with no productive discussion remain, as long as they don't target the profitable trendy groups, like transgender people. GenderCritical and similar subs should have absolutely been banned, hell they should've been banned years ago, but not for the reasons they did ban it.

Also equating any female-focused sub to GC/TERFs is pretty fucking nasty. That's like me saying subs like AskMen or AskGayBros are woman-hating violent incel subs because they're male only. The fuck.

[–]reluctant_commenter 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why the hell is it when a radfem-adjacent sub gets banned, it's for "transphobia", and not the countless other actually hateful shit posted on there?

The name AHS is a misnomer. Apparently these people go post child porn on supposedly "hateful" subs in order to get them banned.

They think r/BiologicalLesbians, a tiny sub with like 500 people who are supportive of trans people but just want their own space, is a hate sub; but don't give a fuck about r/lesbians which is a disgusting porn fetish sub. Why? Oh yeah, probably because a lot of the "trans rights activist" keyboard warriors are men who love fetishizing lesbians...

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I'm aware - I remember the video posted by the former member who exposed it, and I think I've seen some subs over at Reddit say that theirs was flooded with CP and shock images so, from what I can tell it does seem plausible.

Indeed. And again, I can see the problem with ACTUAL radfem subs, I think they can go far with actual hatred (not even kidding when I've seen them call underage boys pedos/rapists because they're trans identified, like for fuck's sake I get that trans fetishism is a problem but it's a bit far to go after literal children) & they target a whole lot of other groups, but labeling subs that are bio female only WITHOUT any radfem ties as "TERF" subs is really telling.

It just proves that they don't care about the extremism of radical feminism (and why would they? TRAs are extremist leftists themselves) they ONLY care about the fact that they're no-trans /no male spaces, or the mere IMPLICATION that biological women and trans "women" are different. You could have the nicest and most wholesome community in the world and still be branded a hateful Nazi cesspit for excluding "trans lesbians." You could have the most vile, hateful and offensive sub ever and you'd be left alone so long as trans people were included and centered. It's pathetic.

[–]ThiccDropkickGay 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They’ll happily sit back and fuck over anyone who upsets them until the day they realise they’ve lost all their supporters. But by then it’ll be too late

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So I'm getting banned from saying, "just say you hate female only subs" lol

How hateful of me to say

[–]GaiusHelenMohiam 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I am become bigotry, the destoyer of subreddits.

[–]SnowAssMan 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What I posted (awaiting my ban):

r/detrans is about as transphobic as r/trans it's just people talking about their own personal experiences. A ban of r/detrans would be silencing detrans voices, which seems more like a political move rather than addressing hate.

Sex & gender exist, right? Subs for one gender exist, so why can't subs for one sex exist like r/biologicallesbians?

r/PinkPillFeminism is one of the last feminist sub-reddits on here (RIP r/blackpillfeminism). They never even cover transgender issues.

You're really taking the mick with r/FemaleDatingStrategy, totally off topic.

This post just seems anti-feminism more than anything. What about r/lesbians? It's just porn for straight guys with 0% transgender women. "Trans women are excluded" in your words. Well? Are you going to add r/lesbians to the list of hate subs? No? Funny that. It's almost as if you don't even believe that excluding trans-women is actually transphobic, you just pretend it is whenever convenient. You're clearly not concerned about transphobia, it's feminism you've got a problem with.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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[–]Athelhilda2 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The more they try to silence people, the more they will be hated.

[–]PassionateIntensity 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

AHS is made up of lying, homophobic, woman-hating psychos into child porn. Why doesn't the FBI care about CP anymore?

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I couldn't pick just one: https://giphy.com/explore/kool-aid

[–]divingrightintowork 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I saw that - it was awful :(