"Based on science is a terf dogwhistle"

bastetkat · 2020-12-11T14:09:00+00:00

I freaked out for a long time about my vagina not being normal, but I think it's just something all women go through, like, "Oh no, my labia are too small.”

Oh sure, "my labia are too small" is exactly like worrying about constantly dilating your surgically created wound so that it doesn't close up.

bastetkat · 2020-12-10T21:26:42+00:00

Did people just forget that no means no? Seriously, what the hell happened? Is 2020 the year where we praise and encourage incel behaviour now?

bastetkat · 2020-12-10T00:00:19+00:00

No no. LGBT pride month is actually called “I hate cis gays it’s all about the T pride month”, and LGBT history month is called the “brave and stunning black transwoman threw the first brick at Stonewall history month”.

bastetkat · 2020-12-07T00:23:53+00:00

Play dumb and expose the trans ideology by asking them questions. You can make the TRAs realize themselves how homophobic it really is that way. Although, conversations like that usually ends with them trying to change the topic or shut you up.

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T02:58:43+00:00

If self ID is valid, is Rachel Dolezal a valid transracial black woman?

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T01:20:19+00:00

You still haven’t answered my other questions btw. And if you could elaborate on the “white people are controlling cultures with dictionaries”, that would be great. Because I’m preeeetty sure non-white people have written dictionaries before.

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T00:33:29+00:00

So non white western countries don’t have dictionaries? I guess my old japanese dictionary was secretly written by white people to control my culture...

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T00:20:31+00:00

Right, so people who have their own definition of man that doesn’t include Elliot are all valid. Everyone has their own valid definitions. So why complain about those who doesn’t consider Elliot a man?

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T00:18:01+00:00

You didn’t answer some of my questions so I’ll ask again. When did the definition of woman changed? Who decided everyone could have their own personal definition of words? What’s the point of a dictionary then?

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T00:15:36+00:00

So? There are plenty of men on this sub who have their “own definition” of man that doesn’t include people like Elliot.

Also, misogyny: dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.

How can throw around the word misogynistic if everyone has their own definition of woman?

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T00:06:29+00:00

Her definition of man doesn’t include people like Elliot. Are you saying her own definition is invalid?

bastetkat · 2020-12-06T00:00:00+00:00

How convenient that you now claim it was your own personal definition.

So tell me, when did the definition of woman changed? Who decided everyone could have their own personal definition of words? What’s the point of a dictionary then?

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:52:07+00:00

A "woman" is someone who identifies with the corresponding social construct that is defined by cultural expectations and roles of varying rigidity and status depending on culture.

That’s your definition of woman, but you also said you can’t force your own definition onto others. So that would make your definition invalid.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:48:21+00:00

So what about a person who “identifies as a woman” but doesn’t identify with “the corresponding social construct that is defined by cultural expectations and roles of varying rigidity and status depending on culture”?

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:46:27+00:00

So that statement was a lie lmao.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:42:04+00:00

A "woman" is someone who identifies with the corresponding social construct that is defined by cultural expectations and roles of varying rigidity and status depending on culture.

So your definition isn’t valid then.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:41:03+00:00

Are you just going to forget you wrote this yourself?

A "woman" is someone who identifies with the corresponding social construct that is defined by cultural expectations and roles of varying rigidity and status depending on culture.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:39:37+00:00

So my definition of transwoman is valid? Oh thank god. Glad we can agree.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:35:34+00:00

Yep, but anyone who identifies with that gender is a woman.

So this statement was false then. Why did you lie?

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:09:00+00:00

You came into this sub acting like you know all about gender (you clearly know nothing about biology though). So why run away now? At least try to convince me.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:05:09+00:00

Well anyway

If definition varies from person to person, my definition of transwoman is a man who fetishizes womanhood.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T23:01:09+00:00

Oh what a surprise, you have no answer! C'mon don't be afraid.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T22:54:20+00:00

I have another question, I never once “identified with” social construct and gender roles. What does that make me?

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T22:51:58+00:00

It seems like you don’t even know what a biological woman is. Do you think women throughout history had to deal with sex based discrimination because they chose to? Are you saying they could’ve all avoided it if they just “identified as a man”?

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T22:46:22+00:00

Wait, didn’t you say the definition of gender varies from person to person?

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T22:43:41+00:00

Ah yes, women couldn’t vote back then because they all “identified with” the social construct and gender roles...

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T22:40:30+00:00

So it’s pretty much meaningless to you. Please tell me, how would a biological male “feel like a woman”? If definition varies from person to person, and you believe they are all valid, a biological male who believes a woman is a person who only wears dresses and makeup is valid to you?

And home has an actual definition.

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T22:33:26+00:00

So woman is just a “feeling” to you? Can you describe the feeling then?

bastetkat · 2020-12-05T22:28:10+00:00

Hey Grandma, what is gender?

bastetkat · 2020-12-04T21:48:22+00:00

I really want to compile a list of screenshots like this from both TRAs and incels. I’ll edit out the “trans/cis”, and ask people to guess if a TRA or an incel wrote it for each screenshot.

bastetkat · 2020-12-03T16:36:06+00:00

Transbians gotta worship their own "girldick" because lesbians won’t lol. If they truly love dick, they wouldn’t complain about only matching with other mtfs on dating apps and getting rejected by real lesbians.

Edit: I also want to point out the inconsistency in their logic. They claim that,

-"girldick" = "organic strap-on"

-a transman's strap-on is the same as/better than a "cis" man's dick.

-"girldick" is completely different than a "cis" man's dick.

So... what’s the truth? Is "Girldick" just like a strap-on and completely different than a "cis" man’s genitals? Or is a transman’s strap-on is the same as a "cis" man’s genitals? (I already know the answer, dw)

bastetkat · 2020-12-02T04:19:08+00:00

Ohh interesting how you bring up circular reasoning. Then you could define woman without circular reasoning for me, right? Can’t wait to hear your answer.

bastetkat · 2020-12-01T21:46:22+00:00

You: “you’re obsessed with female genitalia”

Also you: “vagina bearing human” “female identifying mentstruator”

bastetkat · 2020-12-01T21:42:53+00:00

TRAs: TeRfS reduce women to their genitals!!1!

Also TRAs: “vagina bearing humans” “uterus owners” “vagina havers”

bastetkat · 2020-12-01T21:26:21+00:00

Oh hey, there you are! Have you found the answer yet? Let me remind you in case you already forgot, you claimed we’re attracted to gender. So what is gender?

Edit: aww going to ghost me again, u/Grandma? You’re fighting for something you can’t even define. If you believe people’s “gender identities” are valid, then you shouldn’t have any trouble explaining what is it.

bastetkat · 2020-12-01T20:11:29+00:00

Idk about you, but I don’t need to see someone’s chromosomes to know their biological sex. But please, answer my last question. What is gender?

Edit: you’re trying real hard to avoid admitting gender = stereotypes, huh

bastetkat · 2020-12-01T19:59:55+00:00

So no real answer? How are we supposed to be attracted to this “gender” if it doesn’t really mean anything?

bastetkat · 2020-12-01T19:56:25+00:00

What is gender?

bastetkat · 2020-11-26T01:18:21+00:00

TRAs love to doxx people so I highly suggest you use a VPN

bastetkat · 2020-11-18T01:05:50+00:00

“twanswomen aren’t men in dresses!“ “men wearing dresses is appropriating twans culture!”

I’m surprised “sara” didn’t accuse him of being a closeted transwoman because he wore a dress.

bastetkat · 2020-11-17T20:22:22+00:00

Lmao AGPs complaining that no one cares when someone makes a post about pussy, so they should be allowed to make posts about dicks. Which is also false since no one can even make a post about pussy without angry AGPs bringing up their “girldicks”.

bastetkat · 2020-11-12T21:59:07+00:00

... I’ll just ignore the “straight lesbians and gays”, but what is mspec?

bastetkat · 2020-11-10T18:39:14+00:00

Great. Can’t wait to see a plethora of e-beggars, selfies from AGPs and Aidens, "TERFs and JKR are litchrally killing transpeople", and of course, rewritten stonewall history being spread like wildfire.

bastetkat · 2020-11-10T14:33:55+00:00

“Catboy” “nyasbian”.... Stop.

bastetkat · 2020-11-08T03:47:43+00:00

I remember seeing a video where a guy interviewed some women and asked them to define the word woman. One or two answered with "anyone who identifies as one" and the rest couldn't even give an answer. This was at a women's march...

bastetkat · 2020-11-06T16:04:46+00:00

Have you ever seen the tweet where a man claims “I believe transwomen are women, except for dating purposes”? Most of them are like that. TRA in the streets, “TERF” in the sheets.

bastetkat · 2020-11-04T16:59:38+00:00

I’m saying it‘s a common lesbian fantasy to project onto one member of a gay pairing and find it extremely sexy.

This is what happens when you claim that anyone can become a lesbian. Fetishists start speaking over real lesbians and making up random “lesbian culture/experiences” as if they’re facts 🙄 🙄 🙄

bastetkat · 2020-11-02T23:18:29+00:00

If I could make a dating app, I'd make all the TRAs only match with each other. I'm sure they wouldn't have a problem with that since they believe trans people are the sex they identify as, riiight?

bastetkat · 2020-11-02T23:13:51+00:00

They’re in danger of being told “no”. Lesbians denying them sex is LiTeRaL vIoLeNcE.

bastetkat · 2020-11-02T14:32:16+00:00

I don't doubt your experiences, if you say you've never seen it, then you've never seen it. However, that doesn't mean my experiences suddenly becomes false. Please tell me how me realizing that TRA movement is trying redefine words like woman, promoting conversion therapy by using "woke language", allowing predators to easily enter female only spaces, promoting violence against women by calling us "terfs", etc. And realizing how a lot of the libfem activism doesn't really do much for women. How is all that the same as being "indoctrinated" into believing the trans ideology? I actually learned to think critically thanks to radfems, I mentioned that in my previous reply. Did I get "indoctrinated" because radfems showed actual receipts of what TRAs said themselves and all the damages that they've caused? If so, then this place would be "indoctrinating" us as well. I have been lurking in GC places and followed several of them for 4-5 years now, but my experiences are nothing like yours. Do I need to start pretending as if my own experiences never happened just because you never experienced it? Again, I could also argue the same to you. Anyone could replace other people's words with TRA phrases instead. That's not much of an argument.

Edit: Since I don't have an account on spinster, I decided to just now visit the other "evil radfem echo chamber".

They don't care about oppression, they don't care about doing good, all they want to do is recruit and create an echo chamber.

They're discussing topics ranging from the bad men, to the female victims, to the societal gender roles/stereotypes, politics, celebrating women from around the world, etc. I don't see the overwhelming amount of "women and allied men are to blame!!" posts.

bastetkat · 2020-11-02T00:17:09+00:00

A neovagina is pretty much an open wound that needs to be dilated. It could also grow hair, smells awful, and filled with e. faecalis. You call that a real vagina? Do you understand how a real female reproductive system works?

bastetkat · 2020-11-01T21:45:49+00:00

I wonder if omnisexuals can name all the genders.

bastetkat · 2020-11-01T21:14:22+00:00

So because you’ve never seen it, it never happens? I could also argue that I’ve never seen radfems do some of the things you’ve stated, therefore, “it never happens”. Lurking on radfem blogs and accounts is what helped me peak trans, and also think critically on certain sexist and misogynistic activism and movement that I never even thought was harmful due to my previous liberal feminist beliefs. Back then, I was one of the women radfems would’ve definitely criticized I guess. Instead of resenting radfems for also calling out women like me, I’m grateful for them for opening my eyes to the blatant harmful activism and movement that is currently masked as “progressive”. I’m grateful for them to make me realize to not to let the “woke bro libfems” who have their own agendas to speak over me and act like they know what’s best for women. From my experience, I can confidently say they do call out the bad men and that they fight for women’s rights. About the Yaniv thing, do you genuinely believe giving Yaniv’s mother some of the blame a bad thing? Radfems and people in general mainly blame him of course, but should we give his mother who enables and defends his predatory behaviour a pass because she’s a woman? And btw ovarit was invite only, not a free for all.

Edit: You’ll keep having your own opinions on radfems and that’s fine, but let’s not start claiming blatantly false information as fact just because you’ve personally never seen it.

bastetkat · 2020-11-01T16:18:22+00:00

This is “I’m not like the other girls” but with extra steps.

bastetkat · 2020-10-31T16:28:36+00:00

Some dude with hurt feelings said he wanted to kill himself because we said we hate dick

That's so gross and manipulative. He's like the toxic person in a relationship threatening to kill themselves if you leave. god I really really hate "transbians" and the AL subreddit.

bastetkat · 2020-10-31T14:46:16+00:00

Lol someone in the comments said "their words hurt". Gay men saying they like dick is "hurtful".

bastetkat · 2020-10-31T14:12:14+00:00

"Radfems don't attack the bad men"?... That's a straight up lie that even non-GC people can recognize. And it's not like radfems are following him around trying to silence him everywhere else. I visited that place and it says on their about page that it's women-centric and was created to give the banned women on Twitter a platform to speak. I'm guessing they wanted it to be a women's only space, but there's no way of confirming everyone's sex. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting a space for a specific group without others trying to speak over them.

bastetkat · 2020-10-30T20:16:35+00:00

Didn’t you say before that you “never see radfems complain about the men who actually do bad things or men who enable other men.”.

Which is it?

bastetkat · 2020-10-30T15:06:13+00:00

He looks like one of those greasy weebs who try to slice water bottles with katanas.

bastetkat · 2020-10-30T01:51:39+00:00

https://www.womenarehuman.com/university-of-toronto-gender-neutral-restrooms-partially-reversed-after-female-students-recorded-in-shower/

bastetkat · 2020-10-30T01:17:28+00:00

Is that University of Toronto? The same uni that had to reduce their gender neutral bathrooms after two women reported being filmed in the shower?

bastetkat · 2020-10-29T15:39:07+00:00

I wouldn’t necessarily put all the blame on anime. I blame the fetishists. They’ll even take the most innocent kid cartoon and turn it into something despicable.

bastetkat · 2020-10-29T02:49:37+00:00

Never again, tell me straight to my face, that Mulan is one of your Disney princesses, that she's a straight, cis woman.

Uh, then go tell that to Disney who literally has Mulan as part of the Disney princess line. Or better yet, go tell that to Chinese people about their character from their own ancient folk story.

bastetkat · 2020-10-28T18:58:53+00:00

I blindly believed in their ideology but I wasn’t like your typical TRA on twitter/tumblr shoving it down other people’s throats. I’ve always been a live and let live type of person, so I fully supported the T community because I thought they just wanted to be left alone, be happy, and live their life like everyone else. Oh boy was I wrong lol

bastetkat · 2020-10-26T18:07:03+00:00

On datings apps: highly edited close-up selfies

On social media apps: anime.

bastetkat · 2020-10-22T13:16:59+00:00

Yes. And?

bastetkat · 2020-10-21T00:53:11+00:00

Yeah yeah, we’re the the worst people on earth or whatever. So when are they going to leave us alone, stay in their own trans/queer community, and date each other?

bastetkat · 2020-10-18T22:13:41+00:00

don't forget the ACTUAL oppression

Transbians: suck my girldick

Lesbians: no.

Transbians: I'm being oppressed and discriminated uwu

bastetkat · 2020-10-17T20:23:17+00:00

I mean, they’re the same people who cry about "terfs reducing women to their genitals", but then turn around and call us "vagina owners" and "uterus havers".

bastetkat · 2020-10-13T17:16:49+00:00

Exactly. If they didn’t “identify as trans”, everyone would be making fun of them.

bastetkat · 2020-10-13T14:40:08+00:00

There are comments calling gay men “incels” for... rejecting FtMs? It’s like they learn a new word and overuse it without even knowing the definition.

bastetkat · 2020-10-10T14:08:04+00:00

At least the post got a lot of upvotes and was seen by many people before it got deleted.

Btw, if you keep scrolling through the comments, you'll find TRAs comparing trans people to black people. Again.

bastetkat · 2020-10-09T15:18:23+00:00

When they say “trans rights” they don’t really mean basic human rights. What they really want is everyone to owe them sex and participate in their kinks and fetishes.

bastetkat · 2020-10-09T14:33:56+00:00

Using their logic, incels are the most oppressed minority because they can’t get laid, and we’re the bigots for rejecting them.

bastetkat · 2020-10-08T20:02:47+00:00

I saw the hashtag trending but decided to stay far away from it. I guess I made the right decision.

bastetkat · 2020-10-08T17:11:20+00:00

Well then, they can’t tell us to shut up about trans issues because we’re “cis” since we’re all cassgender.

bastetkat · 2020-10-08T00:39:46+00:00

Facts are transphobic

bastetkat · 2020-10-07T19:55:15+00:00

Lol OP is an MtF who claims to have periods and that “transwomen can have uteruses btw” and actively posts in r/badwomensanatomy. Yeeep.

bastetkat · 2020-10-07T18:18:57+00:00

"I identify as a woman" is the new "no homo"

bastetkat · 2020-10-07T16:48:51+00:00

Also OP: posts on askgaybros

bastetkat · 2020-10-06T19:00:20+00:00

This man really thought r/actuallesbians was an accurate representation of the lesbian community, and expected to receive a ton of compliments from lesbians irl.

bastetkat · 2020-10-06T18:34:53+00:00

I haven’t received a compliment in over 7 months over chat.

Oh no! Not complimenting an AGP is the worst crime a lesbian could ever commit!

bastetkat · 2020-10-06T00:32:48+00:00

I think the idea is so that when people Google proud boys they see gay pride instead of racist sludge

And where is the “gay pride” in this photo? I only see a straight couple 🧐

bastetkat · 2020-10-02T19:46:18+00:00

How much you wanna bet that "comicbookdyke" has a dick?

Ding ding ding, you are correct!

bastetkat · 2020-10-01T16:52:00+00:00

Oh, so now it doesn’t matter who started it, when they were the ones who were going around saying “transwomen started it and gave you your rights you have today so you owe us”. Ooookay.

bastetkat · 2020-10-01T15:53:27+00:00

What are people saying in the comments?

bastetkat · 2020-09-28T23:01:14+00:00

The twitter warriors are using the fact that he played a transwoman as an excuse to try to cancel him. So basically, him playing a trans character would’ve been acceptable as long as he kept quiet after criticizing JKR. Lol alright.

bastetkat · 2020-09-26T17:32:37+00:00

Reminds of a tweet from a TRA furry asking “what bathroom should furries use then?” and almost everyone replied with pictures of cat litter lmao

bastetkat · 2020-09-26T14:22:54+00:00

And if MtFs have "female brains" and FtMs have "male brains", what kind of brains do non binaries have if they are neither male nor female?

bastetkat · 2020-09-26T14:18:11+00:00

"BE YOU AND YOU CAN SHINE" .... by getting "some gel and stick them in balloons then put them in your shirt #lifehack"

And why do they always use words like "boobies" and refer to themselves as "girls"? I know for a fact that you are a grown ass man.

bastetkat · 2020-09-24T18:26:12+00:00

Rachel Dolezal: I’m transracial.

TRAs: You’re not the same as us, gender and race are two completely different things!

Also TRAs: Excluding transwomen from female spaces is exactly like excluding black women!

bastetkat · 2020-09-24T15:21:59+00:00

So many straight people can relate as well. Isn’t it great? LGBTQIAP2S++ is for everyone... except for the evil “cishets”!

bastetkat · 2020-09-24T14:28:48+00:00

So I decided to look some of these up and I-

• Reciprosexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum meaning someone who does not experience sexual attraction unless they know that the other person is sexually attracted to them first.

• Akiosexual/akioromantic, meaning someone who can feel sexual or romantic attraction but doesn't want those feelings to be returned by whoever they're attracted to.

• Aceflux is a gray asexuality and it describes someone whose experience of sexual attraction varies over time. Someone who is aceflux, for example, may feel very strongly asexual one day, but less strongly asexual another day.

bastetkat · 2020-09-23T14:20:19+00:00

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6309949/

Despite higher levels of parenting stress for same-sex parents, their offspring did not differ in general health, emotional difficulties, coping behavior, or learning behavior when compared to the offspring of different-sex parents. This suggests that other factors may have mitigated the negative effects of parenting stress on child outcomes. In the U.S. National Longitudinal Lesbian Family Study (NLLFS), a community-based survey initiated in 1986 to provide prospective data on a cohort of lesbian parent families, 41% of adolescent offspring described experiences of stigmatization associated with their mothers’ sexual orientation. Although these experiences were associated with more problem behavior, adolescents who had close, positive relationships with their mothers demonstrated more resilience in response to stigmatization. Studies have also shown that lesbian mothers have concerns about rearing their children in a homophobic society, and feel more pressure to justify the quality of their parenting than their heterosexual counterparts. As a result, lesbian mothers use support systems such as parenting groups and counseling services in their efforts to foster healthy child development. Since the NSCH17 did not contain specific questions about stigmatization based on household type, future investigations might explore whether the cultural spotlight on child outcomes in same-sex parent families is associated with increased parenting stress.

bastetkat · 2020-09-22T14:41:48+00:00

It’s not that straight women go for TW, those creepy straight men wait until after settling down with their female partners and then dump all of their fetishes on them. Some of them even wait until they have kids to make it even harder for their partners to leave.

bastetkat · 2020-09-19T16:10:02+00:00

Lol

Cis het men are going to be jumping all over this

As if “cis” het men weren’t already IDing as “transbians”.

bastetkat