The Irony and the Schadenfreude by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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gatekeeping is required to keep communities on topic and healthy

Huh. Wow. Imagine that.

*Words words words words* by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Why is there such a steady subset of straight women desperate to larp as gay?

I fear for the kids by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I’ve been in live webinars with this guy. I can confirm he’s an absolute asshole.

More homophobic "sexuality is fluid" stuff by jay-day in LGBDropTheT

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I was just thinking the same thing. It’s never, “Well, Ted, you might find yourself wanting to suck a dick later. Don’t limit yourself.” It’s only every directed at gays and lesbians.

The reason why aliens took us off their radar forever by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I really do imagine aliens reading through that and saying, “We can go. There’s no intelligent life here.”

TRAs understand lesbians so much better than lesbians themselves by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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You have one topic of conversation.

He does realize that’s how charitable organizations usually work, right? The Humane Society is only there to talk about animal welfare. Wounded Warrior is only there for injured veterans. I doubt he’s getting irked by those organizations—just the ones that focus on women.

And in this episode of 'I Hate It Here': by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Ah, my favorite TQ+ talking point: if you aren’t into transmen, you’re a misogynist, but transmen are 100% men no different from actual men.

TRAs understand lesbians so much better than lesbians themselves by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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They’ve told so many lies they can’t keep up with which one they’re on presently.

More like crack den feminist... Where the hell was this taken? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Where the hell was this taken?

Shoreditch, which is a district of East London. My American understanding of the east side is that it’s a lot of historical stuff, but also some hood and hipster shit. (Brits of saidit, please tell me if I’m wrong.)

Anyways, the “art” collective she’s with (@the.depot_) is hilariously cringe.

Shut your damn mouth and listen to the trans women by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Can confirm. This is what happened to me too.

Shut your damn mouth and listen to the trans women by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Some of us realize we love women the way lesbians do before we accept we’re trans

Lesbians don’t have some kind of magical, special love. We love each other like straight people love each other and like gay men love each other. It’s fetishistic to set us on some pedestal like we don’t have the same baggage and struggles as straight and gay couples.

Woe is me, sprinkled with slurs and violence by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Wow, it’s almost like the trans movement is based on homophobia and they’re only using LGB people as shields for their agenda.

Their deranged obsession with being lesbians by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Why are they so obsessed with being us when they clearly hate us?

The tragic saga of three misogynistic homophobes who decided to terrorise an outspoken LGB ally by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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…he had to leave his home because he got ratioed on Twitter?

The tragic saga of three misogynistic homophobes who decided to terrorise an outspoken LGB ally by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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…what happened to David Paisley?

The tragic saga of three misogynistic homophobes who decided to terrorise an outspoken LGB ally by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I’m really interested in how this article’s author somehow doesn’t think showing up to someone’s house to shout at them isn’t harassment and that doxxing someone isn’t an issue. These people bitch that being “misgendered” is violence, yet will harass people in their homes and plaster their address everywhere.

Autigender and ADHDgender by jay-day in LGBDropTheT

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I struggle with anxiety and can think of few things as mortifying as making it my identity and/or trying to pretend that it’s the same thing as being a lesbian. I’m embarrassed for this person.

The tragic saga of three misogynistic homophobes who decided to terrorise an outspoken LGB ally by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Just for one second, imagine the reaction if a gender critical person or a conservative did this to a TRA. Just imagine.

Phantom Vulva by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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This is mental illness. Change my mind.

Bisexual woman repeatedly assaulted by her AGP husband, called an anti-trans bigot when sharing her story - article by Jo Bartosch by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I know we talk about it a lot, but this really hit home for me that transbians really seem to see us as props for their egos, not independent humans.

The term 'same-sex' should be banned from Strictly, professional dancer says by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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We’re all ears for an actual explanation that will never come.

Trans lobby group Stonewall brands lesbians 'sexual racists' by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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In her email, Kelley suggested that the BBC article would end up being ‘transphobic’ because it represented trans women as ‘sexual predators’ which was a ‘central anti-trans argument’.

If you’re a heterosexual male attempting to pressure lesbians into sex, you’re a sexual predator. If you wish to curtail women (or men) calling out predatory behavior from others, you are an enabler and rape apologist. The end.

Not gay as in happy, but queer as in... by stunaep in LGBDropTheT

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Okay, so we’ve established heterosexual women larping as gay men and actual gay men have nothing in common. Glad we’re on the same page, sis.

Stonewall agrees that mother knows best - The Times (UK) by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Anyone got a radar gun to start clocking the backpedaling from Stonewall?

#LesbianErasureWeek by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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But also, “homosexuality is a nineteenth century concept. Trans people have always been around.”

#LesbianErasureWeek by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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God forbid lesbians and/or GNC women have existed in history.

Yeah, what if your partner was invisible?! There's no body for you to fetishize! What then?! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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A lesbian is attracted to the whole woman.

Yes. The whole woman. Her whole female body, as well as her personality and mind.

The differences between lesbians and men pretending to be lesbians in the comments is quite stark. by sneeuweekhoorn in LGBDropTheT

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It’s almost like transbians are men with no boundaries fetishizing lesbians and lesbians are just homosexual women minding our business…

Mansplaining why gender ideology must now trump biological sex and sexuality by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Oh goodness. How can one person be so dense? Where to begin?

I had changed the lyrics to my song “Sexuality”…I’ve been replacing “gay” with “they” and “some common ground” with “the right pronouns”…I’m not erasing the gay community.

Well, pal, I’m not really sure what else you’d call that other than erasure.

Those of us who formed our political beliefs in the 1970s and 1980s are instinctive supporters of women’s rights. Our moral compasses are confused.

At least he’s acknowledging that trans rights are incompatible with women’s rights.

84 per cent of white evangelical Christians believe that gender is determined by sex at birth.

If I told you that 84 percent of white evangelical Christians had a positive rH factor blood type, would you wring your hands and wail about the injustice? (For the record, I do not know the percentage of that demographic with this blood type feature.) Taking something that applies to most humans and attempting to paste it to only one group as a scare tactic is intellectually lazy at best and manipulative at worst.

It’s also hilarious that he tries to tie the LGB Alliance and gender critical feminists to white evangelical Christians. The only things we agree on are the immutability of sex and the danger of cancel culture.

Tangentially related: it’s interesting he tries to tar and feather white Christians for this viewpoint. I guarantee if you stepped into any black church in the US and asked that question, you’d get a very similar response rate. It goes to show that Bragg has zero interest in making a point, but only wants to whip people up with SJW emotional reasoning.

they are echoing the tropes used against the gay community in the 1970s and 1980s

Ok. Cool. At no point did the gay community ever advocate for policies that allowed any male predator to have free access to women’s spaces if he said the magic words, “I identify as a woman.” The gay community never advocated for medically experimenting on children. The gay community never threatened to rape and bomb people who disagreed with us. It’s nowhere near the same situation and Bragg knows it.

transgender woman are four times more likely to be murdered than cisgendered women

The article he cites says 45 trans and non-binary people were murdered. Here some official FBI stats. Okay, so the population of the US is officially counted as 331,000,000 residents now. Let’s assume 1% for the trans population. 1% of 331m is 3.31m. 45 people out of that gives you .0000136. Let’s assumed 49.5% for women to account for the trans people. That percentage out of 331m is 163,845,000. The homicide stat for women is 3,573. That goes for .00002181.

So, considering that most murdered transwomen work in the notoriously dangerous field of prostitution, women are still murdered at higher rates. Cool.

which is more important: biology or human rights

Oddly enough, the group denying biology is the group demanding women and LGB people relinquish our rights. But, if you really have to demand people deny observable and scientifically-testable fact for your sake, you just might be in the wrong.

we'll stick to real gay men then, you stick to knock-offs by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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…welcome to male sexuality, ladies?

Sunday Social - open chat! by TumbleweedFireflies in LGBDropTheT

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It was rotten. A friend died, so it’s been sad and not amazing. On top of that, I was traveling for work and got stranded due to weather, regular work is presently stressful, and I’ve been having some pretty rough migraines. I know grieving my friend is going to take a great deal of time, but I’m hoping the other stuff passes quickly.

The in-laws are doing pretty well. It’s been kind of a weird two years for all of us, but things seem to be looking up for them.

You’ve got your Christmas shopping done already?

We MUST include the P in the alphabet soup apparently by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This is advice I wish I had seen before I opened this link. Can’t unsee any of that.

The other T - the one we don't talk about by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I can think of few things as horrifying as shoving a tree branch in my twat. That sounds like a war crime, not a fetish.

Sunday Social - open chat! by TumbleweedFireflies in LGBDropTheT

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I had kind of a crazy and awful week and was really looking forward to getting the house in order, going hiking, and reading a bunch. Found out first thing Friday morning that my in-laws were coming in a few hours and staying the whole weekend. 😐

Diary of a salty, homophobic genderspecial. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah, we aren’t the ones with the problem. Tbh, I’ve always assumed this is how the whole non-binary thing started. The trans community is projecting their “gender identity” so hard that people not “having” one assumes that means something’s wrong with them. They’re mistaking a lack of mental illness as a problem.

Diary of a salty, homophobic genderspecial. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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I suppose they think it makes them look cool like the MMA fighters who’ve been wearing them lately. They don’t get that style of mullet is one thing on a ripped, confident guy and another on a chubby, neurotic woman.

Diary of a salty, homophobic genderspecial. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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I’m a polyamorous slut but I can’t bring myself to say the word vagina!

Diary of a salty, homophobic genderspecial. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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You’re telling me this isn’t the stuff of gay men’s dreams, Chunkee?

Diary of a salty, homophobic genderspecial. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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in a space I call ~fruity manhood~

Starting off strong with homophobia.

something called bioessentialism, which is the practice of assigning meaning and worth to genitalia and sex assigned at birth.

No one is “assigning” sex. This isn’t a junior high group project. Your sex is observed and noted as a physical reality.

I hop on the apps (Grindr, Scruff) and see these same men. I message a few of them, as I’ve just seen them in public, and they’ve expressed explicit sexual interest in me. None of them responded to me. Why?

Okay. First off, they didn’t express explicit sexual interest. If they had, they would’ve tried to hook up at the bar. They merely looked at you and you assigned meaning to it that may or may not have actually existed.

Anyways, if they were interested, they’re definitely not now because they know you’re a woman.

It was a trans-centered and trans-led event, and it was very gay

It was very trans by the sound of it.

Hole or no hole, dick or no dick, it is time for us all to agree that it sucks to be reduced down to genitalia.

It does suck for you because your entire get up is chasing after people who aren’t into pussy OR chasing after people who are into pussy and then being mad at them for it. For the rest of us, honestly acknowledging our sexual orientation and dating the sex(es) we’re into doesn’t suck at all.

Oh, the hardships of telling the truth! 😢 by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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…when I tell you I’m a lesbian, I’m telling you I have a requirement for my partner to be female and have a perfectly normal, functioning, natural vagina. Die mad about it.

Great article (about millennials turning homosexuality and bisexuality into a fad)! by Tikiri in LGBDropTheT

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Okay, as a 30-year-old millennial who has millennial friends and colleagues on either side of my age AND who works with Gen Z adolescents for a living—yes and no.

Yes: There are some millennials who like pretending to be “queer” for clout. (Cue an acquaintance from university who was a regular, straight, white sorority girl when I knew her. She’s now “queer” despite only ever dating dudes. And, trust me, she never shuts up about it on her insta. This really leads me to believe it’s all for the likes.). I also see a whole lot of millennials falling for the non-binary fad. Likewise, Millennials are 100% the demographic who will believe and shout anything if they believe it’s for “LGBTQ+ rights.” Our generation is absolutely the one at fault for all the “gays wouldn’t have rights without transwomen of color” drivel.

No: A lot of the nonsense is coming from Zoomers. They 110% are the demographic that sees being LGB as a fashion statement. They’re here for the made up genders and definitions. Almost none of them are actually gay or bi, but they’ll sure as hell shout us down. They’ve never lived without a block button and don’t know how to exist with anyone with a different opinion. Almost none of them have ever experienced old school homophobia first hand, so they have zero perspective on what it’s actually like.

Poll suggests that 30% of US Millennials identify as LGBTQ, and implies same-sex attraction is a "lifestyle" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Same thought. Straight people are acting stupid, LGB call them out for it, LGB people get shut down as hateful for doing so, and, somehow, straight people being idiots is our fault. insert math lady meme

I do think the author has a point about people looking for meaning though. In the past, people had something to cling to to provide meaning—religion, national pride, family, work, etc. Now, it’s not “cool” to be religious or patriotic. It’s not cool to be super family-oriented or to take a lot of pride in your profession or company. People need some distraction from their own bullshit. Modern society scoffs at much of what we’ve historically used for that and only provided a black mirror of social-media narcissism.

I LOLed by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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lol. Love or hate Steven Crowder, the idea that he is actually a nazi is absurd. These people are so sheltered and fragile they think anyone differing slightly from their hyper-extremist views is a genocide-supporting fascist. Good luck existing in general society if that’s how you function.

Sorry guys, there's zero excuse for gay men not to be having sex with women now by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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A self-hating bi man married a woman due to religious pressures. How do people look at this and not see how sad it is?

The irony by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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“I didn’t watch lesbian porn like those straight guys. I just watched it as a straight male and fantasized about being a woman…which is totally not AGP or anything.”

But she came out to him!!! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The sheer narcissism of expecting to dictate how other people see you. I can’t.

Hasn't even started T yet and your bf is gay???? WTF either he's bi or your delusional thinking he's gay by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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My partner and I have only gotten it once together and it was some white guys shouting at us. We have both gotten it separately a few times at work. I used to work (and she still does) in a poor, African American neighborhood. Tbh, I don’t know if it’s a class thing or a race thing, but everyone who has name-called or made fun of us has been from that community.

Hasn't even started T yet and your bf is gay???? WTF either he's bi or your delusional thinking he's gay by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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But when we leave town to go see friends or go to the beach, we’re forced to go through Trump country and things get dicey. As a “WOC,” I’ve done my best to play the “submissive quiet wife”

My partner and I grew up in two different regions of the USA. However, we both grew up in very rural areas that overwhelmingly voted for Trump. We now live in a suburb where literally over 80% of the town voted for Trump. Between our home and frequently going to visit our parents, we have never encountered homophobic hate. In fact, people have been nothing but kind to us. (We have, however, been called slurs and harassed in the blue city where we both work.)

It’s baffling that OP chooses to build people she’s clearly never spent time with into bogeymen for a problem she is never going to encounter. It’s even more bizarre that she’s so worried people will judge her for being Hispanic or “gay,” yet she’s apparently never once considered she’s unfairly prejudiced to roughly half the nation.

Does anyone else feel isolated/depressed because of how taboo it is to talk about the transgender movement's homophobia? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I think it might be harder for you Americans, since your country is the side of a continent

100%. Not only are we very large, our population distribution is incredibly spread out and uneven. (As in, the population of New York City alone is more than the combined populations of Wyoming, Montana, Nevada, Idaho, and Utah combined.) Compounding that, outside some places in the northeast and California, our big cities are spaced pretty far apart. (For example, I live in smaller city with around 300,000 people. Big city A is five hours from us. Big City B is 6 hours from us. The closest big cities to A and B are 4 and 6 hours, respectively.)

Gender critical people in NYC, LA, and Chicago (our three biggest cities) might be able to make connections, but it’s going to get increasingly difficult to make those connections the smaller you get. (None of this even takes into consideration that we’re hyper politically-divided and the left has made gender ideology a plank of their essences. A lot of people who agree with us aren’t going to say anything because they don’t want to sound “conservative.”)

💕Positivity Post💕 -- Tell me about your partner! by 7874 in LGBDropTheT

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A very distinctive breed that I shall decline to specify. But, rest assured, she’s very cute and very fat.

Does anyone else feel isolated/depressed because of how taboo it is to talk about the transgender movement's homophobia? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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The whole thing is incredibly frustrating because I’ve never before watched so many otherwise reasonable and decent people fall for something so clearly wrong, harmful, and bigoted.

It reminds me of being 14 and watching a preacher shout a bunch of literal gibberish and pour oil on a stage four cancer patient’s head with the intent of curing her. Everyone else in the room was crying and mumbling a bunch of nonsense along with the preacher. And I’m just sitting there in my scratchy tights wondering how no one else seems to realize how utterly crazy it all is.

💕Positivity Post💕 -- Tell me about your partner! by 7874 in LGBDropTheT

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My partner and I have been together a little over three years and got engaged last summer. She is my absolute favorite person on this planet. She’s smart, funny, honest, and unafraid to do what she really wants. She can be a little gruff, but she’s one of the most thoughtful people I’ve met underneath. She’s also one of those people that’s obnoxiously good at things the first time she does them.

We’re an odd mix because I’m incredibly introverted, yet love to do new things and she’s fairly extroverted, yet wants consistent things. So, we end up pushing each other out of our comfort zones in the best way. There is no one else I’d rather share all my best and worst moments with than her.

(Also, sorry for being so sappy. I’m away on a work trip and am really missing her. I can’t wait to go home to her and our shithead dog.)

Creep being stupid by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Cool. So after you give it to your girl, you can take it off so she can eat your pussy? And, you can just not have it at all if she’s not in the mood for strap-on sex? Or, she can put it on to be in your twat if it’s what you’re feeling?

Trans sex worker went unpublished by BBC because she didn't 'fit their narrative' by Rage-Xion in LGBDropTheT

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PinkNews: It’s absurd the BBC reported lesbians are being pressured to sleep with transwomen. That’s not happening!

Also PinkNews: Lesbians are reducing transwomen to their genitals! Can you believe they aren’t interested in sleeping with transwomen like this fine specimen? It’s all prejudice on lesbians’ part.

Gaslight harder, PinkNews.

Remove your womb so trans women feel accepted by Hurdurnayshun in LGBDropTheT

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“Oh, you’re an adult who has a legitimate reason for a hysterectomy? No. But, this fourteen-year-old with mental issues? Yeah, we’ll sterilize her with no questions asked.”

Won’t somebody think of the poor rapist? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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She sounds like Brock Turner’s dad. The only difference is people aren’t losing their minds because the rapist ideas identifying as a woman. Oh, but magically, he’s suddenly not trans and everyone is still afraid to drag him through the mud? Interesting.

Also, no, he wasn’t having sex with someone who wanted to. Going into a single-sex space and shoving your dick in an unwilling woman’s mouth is rape. Her son raped two women and she’s going to have to learn to cope with that.

Help, our sex life is an existential nightmare of identity politics by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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TQ+: I need a genderless sex toy that mimics neither a penis nor a vagina because those are gendered.

Also TQ+: Genitals are genderless! A penis can be feminine! A vagina can be masculine!

Book Rec: Woke Racism by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Well now you’re just making me blush, Arthnold.

R E S P E C T - find out what it means to me by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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There are two types of respect—basic human decency and actual admiration for a person or a group of people. The former is a given—privacy, consent, politeness, and fair treatment of others. I don’t think there’s anyone here who doesn’t think trans people deserve that. The latter, however, is earned, not given. As far as I’m concerned, the trans community hasn’t done a blessed thing to deserve this second type of respect.

There is a problem though. The trans community has both neglected to afford the first type of respect to everyone else. Likewise, they have mistaken another phenomenon for respect. Forcing others to comply with your worldview out of fear is not respect, it’s bullying.

The men at r/ukpolitics disagree vehemently that lesbians are being bullied to fuck transwomen by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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You know what? Good on the BBC for putting their foot down. It’s high time we all just start saying no instead of groveling.

Get catfished, noob! Wait, what do you mean you're leaving?! Get back here and suck my dick! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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noob

Please go back to 2007.

it’s a total noob move to not know how to have sex with both sets of genitals, even if you’re monosexual

Mono == 1. Monosexual == attracted to only one sex. Pray do tell why anyone attracted to one sex would need to be able to have sex with both sexes.

i’ve learned to eat pussy because like hell am i gonna cede my status of master-level man-pleaser

Thank you for telling us you’re a man whose conception of womanhood comes from porn and stereotypes, Viv. Because there is not a single woman on this planet who’d utter that sentence if she wasn’t being paid to do so.

Oh no, if only they didn't have to date gay men!... 🙄 by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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currently afraid having boobs is gonna cockblock me

This is a brand new sentence. Never before, in any language, has a straight woman been afraid tits will scare away a straight or bi man.

Sweetie, your problem isn’t your tits; it’s that you’re chasing the one subset of men that aren’t into them.

Lots of transwomen have vaginas, for example by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I’m exclusively attracted to the immaterial ontological essence that exists in the plane of ideas, thanks

Okay, cool. Could you clarify what this concept of womanhood is? Can you do this without relying on sexist stereotypes, unquantifiable feelings, subjective opinion, or circular reasoning? Genuinely curious.

You can throw as many Philosophy 101 terms as you like into a tweet. That doesn’t mean your position holds any more water than a sieve. Likewise, proudly declaring to live outside material reality doesn’t make you sound cool; it makes you sound crazy.

Episode 2: Are you dating women or dating vaginas? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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No circular logic here!

Episode 2: Are you dating women or dating vaginas? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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“Can you just try to explain what deep and complex thing makes up womanhood?”

“It’s just deep and complex and you wouldn’t understand, bigot.”

Episode 2: Are you dating women or dating vaginas? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I’m always curious what they think womanhood actually is. They always harp on about it being deep and complex but they never explain what it is.

Episode 2: Are you dating women or dating vaginas? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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What drives me mad is that if I posted a video of myself saying “transwomen are men” it would nuke my career forever. Yet, this asshole can post multiple homophobic and rapey screes and it will probably never affect his career.

Transbian has song it's tone-deaf by Gayguy123 in LGBDropTheT

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It’s so great they feel comfortable enough to make actual threats. /s

Don't You Want Me Ladies? Lol by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah. It was on the radio a couple of weeks ago and my partner and I actually listened to the lyrics for the first time. The entire song is beyond creepy.

Transbian has song it's tone-deaf by Gayguy123 in LGBDropTheT

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you won’t get a pass when we’re through

Through with what, exactly?

The Peakening comes to readers of The Times: Reactions to BBC article about harassment of lesbians—read the comments by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

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They are also behind a paywall in the USA. Shame.

Since 1 trans thread on r/asklesbians wasn't enough, there's another here. Complete with straight handmaiden calling most lesbians TERFs in the comments. by sneeuweekhoorn in LGBDropTheT

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the transphobes found this thread

Oh, sorry. Didn’t realize lesbians weren’t allow to vote and comment on a public thread in a public forum for lesbians. These people are the most entitled children.

Also, I’d like to buy cursedrocks a drink. If she’s not already here, she should be.

When #LGBwiththeT stopped being enough of a narcissistic sustenance by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Or of women in single-sex spaces where they’re giving free passes to any male predator if he says he’s a woman.

Or of men and women in single-sex spaces with nudity who have not consented to seeing the opposite sex naked.

Or of girls competing in sports.

Or of gender non-conforming kids who they’re angling to make life-long medical patients.

All of this “tolerance and inclusion” really seems to go only one way and disregard everyone else’s rights.

Trans mod of r/asklesbians getting pissy in the comments that people are downvoting but not responding to obvious bait question. by sneeuweekhoorn in LGBDropTheT

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I think you’re right in that it’s a narcissistic and fetishistic mindset that sees us as objects rather than human beings with our own wants. And, yeah, it reeks of the most toxic version male sexuality. (Use women to bolster your fragile ego! Who cares if it emotionally or physically hurts them?)

What they don’t seem to get is that we’ve had several thousands of years of experience with this creepy straight guy bullshit. And we still won’t stop being lesbians. They can try to make some teenage girls feel bad and they can try to bully a bunch of women into silence. At the end of the day, the transbians will still be the ones no one wants to dance with at the club. They’ll be the ones who get ghosted after the first date. They’ll still be the ones that we laugh about behind closed doors. Censoring a Reddit sub isn’t going to change that for these guys.

*purposely forgets about the T, for the betterment of my mentality* by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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That was certainly a showcase of narcissism and mental illness.

Don't You Want Me Ladies? Lol by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

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I love how she took a creepy, catchy song and made it even more so.

*purposely forgets about the T, for the betterment of my mentality* by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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you don’t have to have dysphoria to be trans

Unless you’re justifying why you don’t want to fuck another trans person.

Lol, let me know your time.

Trans mod of r/asklesbians getting pissy in the comments that people are downvoting but not responding to obvious bait question. by sneeuweekhoorn in LGBDropTheT

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What do the mods honestly hope transwomen gain from this type of censorship? A complete disconnect from reality that’s going to crush them in the real world?

*purposely forgets about the T, for the betterment of my mentality* by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Every time a transbian claims his dysphoria prevents him from sleeping with other transbians, we should just use all the lines they try on us.

“Have you tried overcoming it?” “You’re reducing someone to their genitals.” “How can you assume what genitals a person has?!” “There are ways to have sex without focusing on the penis.” “What about the different mouthfeel?”

Place bets now how long it takes them to snap and stop trying to camouflage their homophobia and misogyny.

'We're being pressured into sex by some trans women' by sneeuweekhoorn in LGBDropTheT

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It’s really interesting how woke people will say “believe all women,” but call us liars and histrionic if we say that we’re being sexually harassed by transwomen.

People need to be less uptight about us transing kids into a lifetime of medicalisation (reposted) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Exactly. There’s a transbian in my friends circle. A few of my friends are super woke and will scream TWAW all day. In private they say stuff like, “it just seems like maybe she absorbed a lot of toxic masculinity.”

Do I even have to say anything here? It's like a parody that somehow took human shape. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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This man has bodies under his floorboards. Change my mind.

It's a trans trans trans trans world by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I work with kids for a living. Ten-year-old’s don’t talk like that about anything unless they’re regurgitating something adults around them have said. It’s painfully obvious she’s a gender-conforming girl who’s just trying to make her parents happy.

It's a trans trans trans trans world by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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A woman and two dudes are fucking, but are pretending it’s one dude and two women. The trio has agreed not only to refuse education to their children, but also to brainwash them. Sounds about right for TQ+.

Call me a cynic, but I do not believe anyone has threatened to harm these people’s kids. I believe maybe the parents received some actual threats, but not the kids. Judging from what the mom read as “threats,” I think she’s just classifying any criticism of emotionally and socially abusing her kids as threatening behavior.

People need to be less uptight about us transing kids into a lifetime of medicalisation (reposted) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Every constituent element of our entire society is locked and loaded to affirm a cis person in their gender

There is really no polite way to say this. Everyone sees people for what sex they are, regardless of how they dress or feel. It doesn’t matter if I put on a dress and heels or a button-down and oxfords. When I go out in the world, everyone recognizes me as a woman and calls me as such. There’s no “affirmation” happening. People are just calling it as they see it.

What trans people don’t get is that no one looks at a transwoman and thinks, “that’s a woman.” Everyone knows he’s a man and is just politely tiptoeing around the issue because they know he’s a head case and don’t want to be accused of “bigotry.” The same goes for transmen and non-binary people. No one is “affirming” gender. They’re merely accommodating mental illness out a sense of social niceness.

"I ain't gay! I'm just trans!" by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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The hashtag game on that post is just as crazy as the meme.

People need to be less uptight about us transing kids into mutilation and a lifetime of medicalisation by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Every constituent element of our entire society is locked and loaded to affirm a cis person in their gender

There is really no polite way to say this. Everyone sees people for what sex they are, regardless of how they dress or feel. It doesn’t matter if I put on a dress and heels or a button-down and oxfords. When I go out in the world, everyone recognizes me as a woman and calls me as such. There’s no “affirmation” happening. People are just calling it as they see it.

What trans people don’t get is that no one looks at a transwoman and thinks, “that’s a woman.” Everyone knows he’s a man and is just politely tiptoeing around the issue because they know he’s a head case and don’t want to be accused of “bigotry.” The same goes for transmen and non-binary people. No one is “affirming” gender. They’re merely accommodating mental illness out a sense of social niceness.

I just need to talk to some sane people about this bullshit: by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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You got this all correct, Tumbleweed. They’re two straight people who took a bunch of extra steps to still be straight. Yet, they are pretending to be gay and the man of the relationship is dressing up the woman in outfits he likes.

I just need to talk to some sane people about this bullshit: by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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These are both excellent points I hadn’t considered. Thank you for bringing them to the table!

Looks like /r/badwomensanatomy got girldicked too. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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I only hope the Reddit mods make the porn subs for straight guys follow the rules they’ve applied to every women’s and LGB sub. That’s when things will get really interesting.

Fellas, is it queer to support science? by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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What cracks me up is you know everyone in that thread hates religion because “it denies science and keeps people from thinking for themselves.” There’s zero self-awareness that they belong to one of the most fundamentalist religions currently in existence.

Fellas, is it queer to support science? by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Ways to know if you’re in a cult: you have to question if you can say science is real.

A handy sex guide for women pretending to be men (multiple triggers warning) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Same. Like, are they trying to get raped and murdered? Because that section was nothing but advice that could easily lead to those results. It’s baffling to me that these women can delude themselves to the point they’ll actually put themselves in horrifyingly dangerous situations.

"Gay people are homophobic because they are not interested in the opposite sex" by KimiORabu in LGBDropTheT

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Male homosexuals who consider themselves to be female

Female homosexuals who consider themselves to be male

“Well, these peoples’ delusions aren’t checked into reality and it’s clear proof you’re a homophobe.”

Uh, okay.