LesbianSo sick of these straight/bi women suddenly realizing they are lesbians conveniently after their male partner decides he's a woman...

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[–]artetolife 47 insightful - 7 fun47 insightful - 6 fun48 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sure she'll still be bragging when her "wife" sinks all their savings into stripper outfits and commands her to re-enact his porn fantasies he saw on the internet. So progressive! Seriously though I just hope they don't have kids...

[–]LasagnaRossa 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

So, let me get this straight: she thought she was bi and married a man, who then identified as a woman, and now she think she is lesbian because of it? THAT'S NONSENSICAL, FROM HEAD TO TOE!

If she truly was lesbian, she wouldn't have been happy with her man, and still wouldn't be even after her husband started to dress like a woman.

She was bi all along.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 27 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

The reason is that bisexual are not validating, only lesbians are. How many women who totally lack dignity and would sell their mother just to make a man happy are there?

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 17 insightful - 14 fun17 insightful - 13 fun18 insightful - 14 fun -  (3 children)

If she truly was lesbian, she wouldn't have been happy with her man, and still wouldn't be even after her husband started to dress like a woman.

But he was transwoman all that time, just not came out! So his penis was a female genitals! And their kids are lesbian love kids! :D

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (2 children)

You always make such smart comments. It's hot.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

I regret that we are living so far away :D

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

But still same continent, luckily ;)

[–]peaked2020 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's so strange to me... she didn't know he was trans before? Regardless of her beliefs, she thought she married a man, and was happy with that. I don't understand.

[–]blackrainbow 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

No because her husband "was always a woman" or something like that

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 29 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 6 fun -  (12 children)

It is - "my sexuality depends not on me, but on whatever other people say".

Why am I going to that sub every time someone mentioning it? I know, I will only see this: https://i.imgur.com/cpDs0xT.png

[–]LasagnaRossa 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Do they know you can respect someone without agreeing with their beliefs?

I'm atheist but respect religious people; just because I think they're mistaken it doesn't mean I hate them and we can't be friends. It's the same with these people, really.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

It really isn't, unless you're an atheist who's pretending to be a Catholic.

[–]LasagnaRossa 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Sorry, I don't follow you. Care to explain?

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

A woman who's fucking a man isn't a lesbian. and no man is a lesbian, thus there are zero lesbians in this example. Did I misinterpret your comment? I though you were saying that we should just let them claim to be lesbians.

[–]LasagnaRossa 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Did I misinterpret your comment? I though you were saying that we should just let them claim to be lesbians.

Yes and no. I was talking about what "respect someone" means. TRAs think that if you don't believe what someone's says, you're not respecting them; whereas I say that respect is about human dignity and not mistreating people for their beliefs.

So, can they say that a man can be lesbian? Sure they can. People can claim all sort of things, otherwise we wouldn't have antivaxxers and flat-earthers. But do I have to believe them? Nope. And am I disrespecting them because of it? Fucking no.

I hope it's clear now.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Indeed and I agree.

[–]Debaser 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

This is it, spot on.

If I was with someone who pulled this stunt, it would be a swift goodbye, never mind them dictating MY new identity to me based on their cosplay fantasy.

I can't really understand the mental gymnastics required to stay with a person and then "come out" as something that, up until Saturday night, you lived your life to the contrary.

[–]blackrainbow 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Straights who want to feel special and oppressed

[–]Kynesgrove 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My ex did this after we got married and was shocked I didn't support that. Apparently I'm a transphobe now cause I don't want his girlcock. I annulled the marriage and kept my house.

[–]divingrightintowork 24 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

oh my god part of me dies every time I see a headline that amounts to "My partner comign out taught me that I've actually been a closeted lesbian this whole time," like WTFFF.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 12 insightful - 10 fun12 insightful - 9 fun13 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

"Omg it turns out it was a female penis I was happily sucking on that whole time! I was a lesbian all along!"

[–]peaked2020 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I wonder why they suddenly go to "lesbian"... wouldn't the natural option be bi? After all, she clearly liked men as well? I really don't understand it. Maybe they're forgetting that bi women exist?

[–]Gearbeta 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

TRAs get mad when bi people call themselves bi when dating trans people even if they always identified themselves that way. It's not validating enough.

[–]peaked2020 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Really? I didn't know this. That sounds very self-serving.

[–]blackrainbow 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They are not a porn category

[–]peaked2020 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fair... it’s a shame because these women will most likely continue dating men if their relationship ends.

[–]shveya 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

She is probably one of those girls who thinks that making out with another girl at a party for attention whilst drunk makes her bi.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Omg I loooove dicks, male musculature, male bone structure, male pattern baldness, chest hair, and male facial features! But only on a person who prefers she/her pronouns! I'm suuuuuch a lesbian!!!!1

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 12 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

“I can’t tell anyone what’s happening because they’ll rightfully think I’m a moron.”

[–]a_blue_bird 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

''It's just very complex... You'd have to have an IQ of at least 200 to understand.''

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

"So I recently came out as a lesbian. On Saturday night."

Uh, I guess it's more legit if you come out on a Saturday night rather than a Tuesday night? Weird.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Saturday night show

[–]blackrainbow 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, she was probably drunk

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It would make a bit more sense if she were. Still don't understand how these people can be so delusional.

[–]our_team_is_winning 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

A woman writes: "My wife is a transwoman who is still in the closet."

I read: "My husband is a narcissist with a potentially dangerous sexual fetish that has destroyed our marriage. I could try to get away, but he might kill me, literally, because men like this get violent if you state the truth about them being men. Also, he has me held hostage financially. My Stockholm Syndrome runs deep, so I am going to accommodate this insanity by trying to get Woke points out of it."

Did I read that correctly?

[–]TovasshiDefinitely a house plant 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Please someone ask her if she and her "wife" split if she'll go to dating women exclusively or back to men.

[–]reluctant_commenter 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This:

...as I would say, "I love all people." Which is a nice gesture I suppose, but

is the of the problem. Your sexuality IS NOT "a nice gesture" and that does NOT say anything about how "nice" you are. This is how shaming begins and how manipulative tactics prevail.

It has to do with the way the word "love" is used, I think. There are (at least) two meanings and people keep mixing them up:

  1. Romantic/sexual love
  2. Non-romantic/non-sexual caring

It should never be a point of shame to say "I don't love X group romantically/sexually". TQ activists misinterpret "I don't love men" to mean "I am a heartless person and do not care whatsoever for men". This is disingenuous.

(I know some people genuinely don't care about certain groups of people when they say that, but that's another conversation.)

[–]SeahorseLTHarold, they're lesbians! 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As someone who was thrown out of my home by my parents when I was outed against my will, her comments about this being so "freeing" really make me mad. Really, really mad.

This is stroking her own ego and it's really disrespectful towards all the shit that gay and lesbian people have had to go through all their lives.

[–]Lessom 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Her husband is apparently a trans ‘woman’ in the closet. So he isn’t committed to pretending to be a woman yet but still wants to live out his fetish with his wife.

It’s clear these heterosexuals have read other people’s experiences and struggles of coming out and for attention want to join in by pretending they can relate.

[–]Eurowoman24 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

another reason why i could never go for tws. They would want me to call myself a lesbian or bi and i'm straight af

[–]bastetkat 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It’s not that straight women go for TW, those creepy straight men wait until after settling down with their female partners and then dump all of their fetishes on them. Some of them even wait until they have kids to make it even harder for their partners to leave.

[–]Eurowoman24 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yeah I figured that out, I meant that's why I wouldn't knowningly date one.

[–]Franklintheturtle 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"I feel so free!" why?

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Perhaps in the Orwellian "Freedom Is Slavery" sense?

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This shit was 90% upvoted

[–]MiaXiang 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

"On Saturday night." LOL

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

That's the most lesbian day to come out

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If you didn't come out on a Saturday night are you even a real lesbian?

[–]a_blue_bird 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This stuff really makes me wonder about what's wrong with women. They constantly do this. Constantly. I've never seen a post like this from a man, who suddenly discovers that he's ''gay'' because his 30 y/o gf decided that she is a man and maybe one day will do something about it.