Gay men need penises. Why it's like that? by Lovebirds_fury in LGBDropTheT

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I completely understand the appeal of dick, as a very masculine lesbian who harnesses dildos. Having a dick is empowering in a patriarchal society, and fucking a person with a dick ("person" being based on your sexuality) is thrilling (if the sex is good). I've never seen the appeal of "lesbian sex" i.e. the positions (besides oral) two women do w/o a dildo... nor the appeal of anal sex... so I've always been more drawn to straight people fucking (minus anal) especially if the woman is dominant (or like a power bottom who is in charge). I've thoroughly enjoyed watching porn of men fucking women who identify as trans men because I just see them as hairy straight women (and I desire hairy women the most).

Adding: Effeminate men, who I will confidently say were gay, were hitting on me at Beyoncé's concert in Atlanta on Friday (August 11th). They were grabbing my crotch (had on a 8" rainbow dildo) and rubbing my chin hair while seductively dancing in front of me. I don't think they wanted my pussy... they wanted my toy dick. 😜

GC: Have you talked to the conservatives in your life about the harms of teaching GNC boys that "real men" meet certain behavioral standards? by citydweller1 in GCdebatesQT

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I'm conservative when it comes to males being gnc. I don't support it. I think all males should be traditionally masculine. I also think women in general should be more masculine than feminine. I hate femininity with a passion (in this heteronormative world), although I am strongly attracted to feminine women as a gnc lesbian. 😂 then again, I also believe lesbians should be feminine... so we'll all be femme4femme. I know I'm only a butch because I hate when a man is attracted to me and sees me as a woman to be fucked. I hate heterosexuality (well, I hate male attraction to females... it's so repulsive... but it's fascinating to see dominant/masculine CISGENDER/NATAL women going after who they want to fuck lol) with a passion.

All: Do you know trans people in real life? by peakingatthemoment in GCdebatesQT

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No but I grew up around black gay males who partially lived as women (transvestites, I guess, not drag queens) and were loved by black bi women, such as my mom, and black straight women who loved effeminate gay men. If you're familiar with the tv series P (Pussy) Valley... the Uncle Clifford character is the type of black gay male I interacted with as a child. They were the only males I felt safe around. I was constantly told straight men, not gay men, would molest me. I trusted my mom's "trans" (gnc, homosexual) friends.

Detransitioner tells it like it is by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Tbf, they're mimicking other minority/marginalized groups who are considered undesirable by "top tier" groups. We all know racism/colorism/xenophobia, classism, ageism, ableism, "fatphobia", etc (even zodiac sign hatred lol I was recently rejected by a Capricorn when I told her I'm a Gemini 🤣) are whined about a lot by people who can't date who they wanna date lol "transphobia" is just something else being whined about... "cis people" are the prejudiced bigots.

PSA: Lesbian women's nail-cutting habits are transphobic by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Nails are to pussy what teeth are to dick. This is basic sex ed: don't scratch nor bite genitalia.

r/ftm, as homophobic as the rest of them: "I am so fucking sick of predatory cis lesbians" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I'm sympathetic towards the OP because I've been harassed (groped and repeatedly called beautiful after saying I hated being complimented) by straight women at work. I didn't feel safe being alone with the managers (5 women, 4 were married to men, and all 5 of them touched me inappropriately). They acted just like my mom and aunts used to act when I was younger... touching my breasts and pinching my face while calling me beautiful. A lot of women are drawn to masculinity and find masculine women (including "trans men") irresistible... but people don't believe our stories about feminine women harassing us. 🙄

It's not the same by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I think Douglas has a point. Like my parents were advised to put me on birth control to femininize me during puberty... I'm sure the doc was homophobic and hoped the doses of estrogen would make me attracted to guys. Turn me from a young butch into a boy-crazy teenager. 🤮

I watch old psychiatric videos of patients on YouTube and saw one of a young woman who was obviously a butch. In the updated video recorded 2 years later (in the '60s), iirc, she was suddenly feminine and speaking more softly. Pissed me off how she was STRAIGHTened out. I think she mentioned having a husband and children. 🤢

I can't find the video. It was so enlightening though to see her "transition" from a James Dean-type butch to a feminine woman.

How say you're a female homophobic incel without saying you female homophobic incel. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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"A vagina is just a hole..." gawd, straight women are insufferable when they talk about pussy. I hate that they love dick so much and minimize how amazing their pussies are (when they're NOT talking about men fucking them). I've always wished that women loved their own pussies as much as men love their own dicks.

Lesbian Visibility Day: L with the T by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Rosie is a transwoman and a lesbian who is devoted to her wife of 25 years...

Two women couldn't get married in 1997 though. Rosie is a privileged heterosexual man throwing it in our faces.

Same-sex marriage is legal in all parts of the United Kingdom. As marriage is a devolved legislative matter, different parts of the UK legalised at different times; it has been recognised and performed in England and Wales since March 2014, in Scotland since December 2014, and in Northern Ireland since January 2020.

The problem of bisexual rhetorics being applied to homosexuals discussed on r/askgaybros by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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I think I first heard of sexual fluidity by a weird-looking broad name Lisa Diamond.

Lisa M. Diamond is an American psychologist and feminist.

She is best known for her 2008 book, Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire. In this book, she discusses the fluidity of female sexuality, based on her study of 100 non-heterosexual women over a period of 10 years. She concluded that the term bisexual did not truly express the versatile nature of many of her subjects. Therefore, she calls "for an expanded understanding of same-sex sexuality".

Those hetero second-wave feminists who didn't want to be straight came up with this bullshit (along with compulsory heterosexuality), to my knowledge.

As a radfem myself, I've asked older bi women such as my mom what their brains are like lol like how do you like dudes and suddenly like chicks during your teens. My mom said she started liking girls at 16 when she joined a feminist group in '76. I always liked girls since my toddler years.

The New Homophobia - Ben Appel by MarkJefferson in LGBDropTheT

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2017 was the year I also discovered I was no longer considered oppressed as a lesbian lol as if I was out advocating for marriage equality. I was so against that shit (I'm anti-marriage in general). Black women are the least married demographic... we're proud independent women. ✊🏾😆

But seriously... back in the 90s when crossdressing straight dudes were getting support on talk shows, LGB baby boomers and Gen X should've been preparing for the colonization of the community and started gatekeeping. Homosexual... and bisexual, I guess... gnc folks only! Just ask "have you seen Paris Is Burning?" Most straight folks who identify as trans haven't watched classic gay shit lol

We goldstars (including bi folks who haven't fucked the opposite sex) are the best gatekeepers... that's why we're so hated. We gatekeep our bodies and the community. 😁

GC: what if sex ceases to exist in the future? by BadMorning in GCdebatesQT

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Bye bye Y chromosome. All females. All lesbians. Perfect XX world.

r/askgaybros - Is a 2 year old, old enough to come out as transgender? POLL by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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No, but parents should definitely take heed to how their children react to what clothes, shoes, etc are chosen for them. I've always been gnc. I'm pouting or crying in my childhood photos when I'm dressed girly... and smiling when I'm dressed boyish (in simply a basic white tank top and cool shorts). And I hated ponytails and ribbons in my hair. Parents should not force their children to be gender conforming (feminine for girls, masculine for boys). Some toddlers (who are intellectually capable, like I was 😏) are old enough to make those choices. Fortunately, I was born in 1983 instead of 2013... I likely would've been considered trans ~7 years ago.

When you try to rape a gay man but he turns out to be straight 😔😔😔 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Why can't they just be happy to get "laid"?? I wonder this whenever I read these posts here lol I didn't fuck my type either until college. I was just happy to finally meet girls (during high school) who wanted to give me pussy after being rejected by the girls I actually wanted.

These hetero women are getting dick... doesn't matter if it's straight dick, bi dick or gay dick.

All lesbians gone in 3... 2... 1... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Is it possible to select which races/ethnicities you prefer on HER? As I've been saying since 2019, to weed out 99.9% of men identifying as women... don't select white/caucasian as a preference lol I've never seen any men identifying as women on dating apps because white is not my preference.

Announcement from the LGN Management Team: Lesbian and Gay News is closing by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Did they not see this coming? If you can't pay for a controversial website out of your own pockets... don't even bother establishing it. Get a hustle... become a popular YouTuber to fund your website with Google Adsense checks. Just don't connect the two lol

r/askgaybros - we are having none of these heterosexual queers by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Like the straight masculine woman who periodically asked us on r/butchlesbians if she could identify as a butch. She described herself as basically a stone butch who only wanted to peg men, not to be dicked down by men. Of course since that sub is a queer sub, she was welcomed by the bi butches who fuck men. 🙄 we're so biphobic and heterophobic for not wanting masculine women who fuck men to call themselves butches. There's a GenderNoncomforming sub for that shit.

Is there any popular site on the net that hasn't degraded into a far-left echo chamber that eliminates all dissent? It's downright dystopian to not even be allowed to civilly disagree. by JohnWhy in LGBDropTheT

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The L Chat still reigns for lesbians (and bi women bold enough to comment there lol L Chatters can't stand bi women) to talk shit about the T.

A former TRA gay man writes: How I became "Gender Critical" by CrazyBunnyLady in LGBDropTheT

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Can you link the article? I don't read everything posted here.

I used to be a TRA lol and still hold some opposing views with drop the T folks and also GC women. But I was under the impression that lesbians should fuck trans men (i.e. masculine women on T) and gay men should fuck trans women (i.e. effeminate men on E)... I had no idea that straight people were identifying as trans too until 2017, iirc. I was like WHAAAT? Why would a straight man identify as a trans woman and a straight woman identify as a trans man? We don't want the opposite sex claiming to be lesbian/gay. In short, I was only a TRA for homosexual people who identified as trans. In the late 2000s (2008-2009), a lot of butches were heartbroken when their girlfriends left them for identifying as trans, so I was supporting them.

Can someone just compile a list of all the GC subs previously banned from reddit that are now on saidit? by Far_pianist_6738 in GenderCritical

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LGBDropTheT is not a GC sub lol there are Men's Rights Activists, Right-Wingers, and anti-radfems there.

Thank you, u/theeternalbussyboy on Reddit, for this gloriously based meme by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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😂 spot on! Shared this with my ex who laughed at the "don't need to buy clothes..." part because I just bought a black t-shirt with RAGING LESBIAN on it to wear to work (because men have the audacity to flirt with my big black butch ass....WHY?!?!), and she said I don't need to wear it because I'm obviously a lesbian. Well, maybe if I wear the shirt, men can't claim they didn't know! I lowkey hate that some straight/bisexual women are masculine/gnc too... I hate that the way I look doesn't signify by default that I only like pussy.

Raging Lesbian Bisexual Lesbian Gay Pride T-Shirt

Can someone just compile a list of all the GC subs previously banned from reddit that are now on saidit? by Far_pianist_6738 in GenderCritical

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s/GCdebatesQT although there are few QT folks on the sub.

Leave. Bisexuals. Alone. Sincerely, a lesbian ally by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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If you believe there are only three sexualities - heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual - (I personally exclude asexual), then which sexuality is generally attracted to people who identify as trans/nonbinary/genderfluid/etc and dating them? 🤔

In my experience, it's been bi women although I was told not to identify as a man by a bi woman I was in a relationship with for 6 years... but she's a 70s baby, not a youngin.

If you're familiar with the MTV series "Are You The One?", season 8 had "queer" (all bi) folks, and the person who got the most sex was Kai the "trans man". I think she fucked 4 women and 2 men.

Yikes. I pity whoever was arguing against this nut, the gender cultist's side is a gish-gallop of jankery. by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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I stopped at the first sentence: there's no such thing as a male body and a female body.

Why can no male, who identifies as a woman, be impregnated then?

I soooo wish I had a male body to prevent my fear of rape + impregnation. I was terribly afraid that my uncles would molest and impregnate my female body because they molested my mom and aunts... my grandmother forced them to take birth control to prevent inbreeding. Imagine being told about this at 7 years old because you have a female body that must be guarded when men are around.

No males are named. Semen can be forced inside a male body all day long, and it won't result in a pregnancy.

That feeling when a TRA you don't trust tries to befriend you out of the blue by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

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You should look into using third-party apps, if you use an Android device, so you can have more privacy. For example: instead of using the Instagram app from Google Play, I use Instapro which allows me to disable Seen and Typing (and View Stories) so no one knows I read their DMs nor watched their Stories.

I do the same on my Samsung phone... disabled Read and Typing. Disable Typing in case you ever start to reply but change your mind... the person won't see that and ask "what were you gonna say?" (I've been asked this shit before lol)

Another day, another Reddit transbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Honestly, I don't see a problem with asking this... the question should be coming from a homosexual female, not a heterosexual male, though.

Anal sex always seemed so gross to me until I listened to, ironically, a "homosexual transsexual" (gay dude living as a woman) talk about it on YouTube 10+ years ago and was telling folks how to do it safely and cleanly. I started fingering my own ass in the shower and really enjoyed it lol but I have never enjoyed my pussy being fingered (as a stone butch). I've discussed this with my ex (we're still sexually involved), and she is 100% against anything anal. 🥲

"If you don't shag transbians it's genocide", says transbian looking for sex on Twitter of all places for some reason. My condolences to whoever this was originally directed at. by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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So dramatic, but I do understand. When I used to feel like I needed sex, I felt like straight girls were depriving me of pussy lol my mom was like "bitch, no one owes you pussy." I stayed in my room for days. Thank goodness the internet wasn't poppin' yet or I would've been a 12-13 year old misogynist/incel on AOL or Yahoo.

Also, I think a lot of women (and gay men perhaps) internalize their inability to get sex. I've never blamed myself... I don't internalize my struggles lol I blame women for not recognizing how amazing I am (if I'm rejected which doesn't happen often). I think "trans lesbians" i.e. straight men do this too.

No more tomboys, only males by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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😂 oh god, I actually went through this in the 90s... my mom was told I needed birth control pills to become more feminine when I was 14. I said NOPE, I'll keep growing facial hair and masturbating like a horny boy and punching holes into walls when I'm angry. 🖕🏾

I honestly don't know which is worse though... reassurance/acceptance or femininization. My household was so toxic because I was so masculine (yes, as a radfem, I believe masculinity in general is toxic). I needed those pills lol but ugh, the side effects of birth control is almost as bad as the side effects of testosterone.

If only the silly boy had said womxn instead by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I would so reply and get him to send me nudes lol I used to have men admitting they weren't actually women and prove it to me. I miss Reddit (trolling men) so much. 🥲

Stop saying, ‘Where are the feminists?’ by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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The GC mods allowed racism and even banned us (woc). The r/blackladies mods reported a lot of racism on the GC sub and spoke directly to the co-founders of Reddit (Alexis and Steve). That's why r/gc_woc was created (and eventually banned during the second-wave of bans in 2020 since it was "transphobic" and the r/blackladies mods are libfems). The GC mods were not supportive of "intersectionality". I think they allowed white women to call out "Karens" before the sub was banned. A lot of anti-racism white women on Instagram and TikTok were calling out racist white women, too. It was marvelous to see that it was not just woc calling out Karens throughout 2020-2021.

Globally, racism is much worse than sexism. White women benefit from racism much more than men of color benefit from sexism. I say this as a black lesbian who hates men and dates white women (who are fully aware of their white privilege and suffer from white guilt 😄).

Ida B. Wells called out white women over a century ago... sad that we still must call out white women over the same shit.

Single. You're single. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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🤔 asexual and pansexual? How?? How do these idiots believe that they can have more than one sexuality??

I mean, I consider myself both homosexual and autosexual, but I'm just attracted to myself as a woman since I have a pussy. 🤭

Masculine Gay & Bi Men Gaslighting Feminine Gay Men to believe they are Trans? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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I think there's some confusion with this due to people not articulating themselves well. Men may just want you to play the role of a stereotypical/traditional "cis" woman... not to actually identify as a "trans" woman.

I've come across this as a masculine/gnc lesbian. Feminine women (typically bisexual women, not lesbians) want me to play the role of a stereotypical/traditional "cis" man. I'm expected to take the trash out, clean the vehicle, (if they have sons) teach boys how to be boys, etc. For example: A bi ex asked me to teach her 2 year old son how to piss while standing because she didn't want him to "pee like a girl" by sitting on the toilet. She had 3 brothers who could've taught him that. I had to demonstrate with my dildo lol

Fred Phelps' long lost horse girl daughter shares her thoughts on sex between two men by spanishprofanity in LGBDropTheT

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I mean I've always wondered why straight men fuck women in their asses when pussy is so much better. I understand why gay men do anal with each other though. But this comparison should be for straight men who prefer to fuck women anally. Pussy is so good and juicy like a fruit.

Homosexuality is real and natural - things that still need to be said in 2022 by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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This is almost as beautiful as that note written on tissue by that lesbian, Valerie, in V for Vendetta lol

I love that where I live, in the Southeast USA, people see me as a lesbian instead of as a trans man. It doesn't even cross their minds that I may identify as a dude. 🥰 we are accepted here. I was in a bar on a date last night, and the bartender kept calling me "girl" as I helped her clean up the bar (she couldn't reach across). She kept saying "thanks girl."

Reassure me it’s perfectly ok to subject some poor gay man to this far from hot mess by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Dating is so much easier when you date whoever wants to date you lol I learned that as a teenager! All the black girls I crushed on basically bullied me for being a bulldyke, so I dated the white girls who liked me even though I don't like interracial dating and want BLACK LOVE! 🥰

Trans people need to date "chasers" and learn self-defense in case they're attacked by whoever they're dating. Like I'm always prepared for a white woman to turn into a racist psycho lol never let my guard down.

I was at David's Bridal today, trying to help my niece pick out a prom dress lol, and one of the employees was super friendly... scared the shit out of me because she immediately started talking about gay relationships (her brother is married to a guy). She was like "well, I hope you find the perfect lady." and she shook my hand, and she was 38 and childfree like me! White women like her make me feel so uneasy lol but that's who I date.

All trans people gotta do is date whoever approaches them. Duh!

Q for Questioning? Nah, Q for Queer! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I just straight up ask this type of woman "do you eat pussy?"

I don't even like receiving oral (I'm stone butch), but I still want a woman who claims not to be straight to want to know what my pussy tastes like. 😂 if you're "queer" but don't want to eat pussy, you're straight!

Gay Times celebrates cheating transwoman - the betrayal of women is complete by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Thomas, a transgender swimmer on the women’s team at the University of Pennsylvania, previously spent three years competing on the men’s team.

🤔 did he win? Or was he generally near or in last place?

I think this is a riddle by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I've always questioned the sexuality of men who are attracted to masculine or extremely gender nonconforming women (such as myself). I simply cannot fathom why a heterosexual male would want to fuck a very masculine/gnc woman who looks (and/or acts) more like a man than a woman.

Straight men shouldn't be attracted to masculinity. I also don't think gay women should be attracted to masculinity. And I'm supposed to be gender critical 😂 not when it comes to sexual attraction!

Hospital told police patient was not raped because alleged attacker was transgender by jet199 in GenderCritical

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The legal definition of rape means that it can only be carried out by a physically intact man.

Ahh what?? This definition needs to be updated.

What do you think about what’s happening in Texas by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT

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Abused children shouldn't live with abusers.

What do you think about what’s happening in Texas by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT

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I think sexual abuse, molestation, and incest are much bigger issues in Texas. They should test children and parents for STDs. Mandatory tests in every household nationwide. The quarantines and lockdowns surely impacted most (at least 51% of) children sexually. How many children have "cold sores" (herpes)? Does Governor Abbott know?

My ex-girlfriend said she's been getting cold sores since she was about 5. She's from Texas and was molested by several male relatives. No one asked her parents who the fuck gave her herpes.

This trans shit is just a distraction.

You can deny consent! ... but it's still transphobic, tho! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Tbf, they didn't come up with this shit. TRAs are just parroting other minority/marginalized/unattractive people who are rejected for something they can't change unless they do something drastic to appear more attractive to whoever they desire.

I used to believe and say that straight women were homophobic for not liking me back. I never had an issue with white women not liking me as a black chick, so I never said they were racists lol but I couldn't fathom why straight women didn't want me as masculine "person" with a 8" dildo hanging between my thighs. I didn't consider they wanted men to cum inside of them during sex... that was a turn on. So my sex toy wouldn't be efficient. 🥲

Hear, hear! There's a new perfect emoji for gay bottoms! 🤰 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Android doesn't have this... yet. 😄

On the dangers of coming out as LGBTIQQAAXYZWTF by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The parents likely already know that OP is "special" lol they might not know what kind of special their child is, but they have a clue.

My parents always know I was gay, but that wasn't all... I was also a plushie and very much into making sweet love to a stuffed animal lol I was caught humping it and eating its imaginary pussy 😅 did that for 5 years (ages 7-12)... that was a well-made stuffed animal! Having a hypersexual child is more embarrassing than having an asexual child... so I don't know why these dweebs stress about telling their families that they do NOT want to fuck.

The gibberish of the queers by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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That's a goddamn friendship, although I guess there is a difference if two people sleep in bed together and cuddle. Like my gay ass and my friend's bi ass have never had sex in the 16 years we've known each other, but we've flirted and whatnot. I sent her a pic of me in my boxers wearing my (7.5") dildo last night lol is that "queerplatonic"? Or are we just friends who flirt? 🤔

So much sanity until of course the definitely not men needed to wedge themselves in there by elpk1313 in LGBDropTheT

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MrBear locked the post an hour ago to prevent brigading by you misfits lol can't call out bi women and straight men who are pretending to be lesbians... that's more hateful than them pretending to be lesbians. 🥲

Are gay men really straight guys who love them tiddies? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The first few people who touched my titties were my gay male friends in high school. I was extremely insecure about having big boobs, especially as a young butch, and they tried to make me feel better about having big boobs by caressing them. My senior mentor, during my freshman year, told me he always wanted to touch Aretha Franklin's humongous titties, and he said I reminded him of her... so he touched mine. I felt violated every time they groped me, but because they were gay guys, I didn't consider it harassment. 😔

I follow a 50 year old gay black dude on YT (Milan Trezur from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania... not Ohio lol) who does drag... he loves women's titties.

I think the gay men who are "queens" (the most effeminate) do love titties.

r/askgaybros - I was once told by a straight woman that “poly, straight relationships are more queer than monogamous gay relationships.” by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Does queer mean more entertaining in this comparison? 🤔 because two women or men in a same-sex, monogamous relationship is likely less entertaining (to listen to) than a straight woman having sex with multiple men. I find promiscuous women to be so fascinating. Perhaps because I was raised by a promiscuous mother and promiscuous aunt who were cheaters. They're in monogamous marriages now, but back in the day they were THOTS.

Sexism and stereotyping, lovely. What even is the news these days? by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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😒 @ that part about Kristen Stewart. Stewart does not represent all of us. And that looks like some shit Lisa Bonet wore in the 80s/90s as herself and as her character Denise Huxtable.

Robin Wright does "lesbian fashion" better. 😍

Tucking for trans toddlers by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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The "guinea pig" ones 👀

why AGP sometimes takes over by TRapostate in GenderCritical

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I get this, although I'm a homosexual female and attracted to myself (autosexual, as you mentioned). I watched porn on cable networks (Cinemax aka "Skinemax", Showtime, HBO) back in the 80s starting at age 5... and I always imagined myself in the dominant position as the man. I NEVER saw myself being fucked... unless the woman was riding the man's dick. That's my favorite position when I wear a strapon... a woman riding me like a cowgirl. My childhood sexual fantasies came true. 😏😄 I started dating girls when I was 14 and using a strapon at age 16... and I did go through a phase of identifying as a guy because I hated being seen sexually as female by my girlfriends.

My mom fought very hard to normalize my sexuality and "gender identity". She repeatedly told me I don't have to see myself as a man to have sex with other women. But I can't really change that... I only see myself sexually as a woman when I masturbate and I'm touching my own pussy.

I do have a hormonal imbalance and went through a weird puberty of becoming more masculine (my voice deepened, I grew facial hair, my sex drive and physical strength were ridiculously high). My ex recently called me a man with big boobs. 😅 In the lesbian world, I'm a stone butch / touch-me-not stud.

This shit 🙄 by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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But will they fuck??

So many best friend pairs would be great couples, better for each other than their significant others, but they aren't sexually attracted to each other due to their sexual orientations. People want to fuck, not just love... so this romantic orientation bullshit doesn't mean shit to most folks.

So... would you or not? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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There are people in the world purely attracted to masculinity. Straight women check me out. Gay men check me out. Would they give me some ass? Some would because they just want to be fucked good... aggressively. 😜

So... would you or not? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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As a strapon wearer who has been approached by "gay" (probably bi) guys since the late 90s... I do wonder if a lesbian pegs a gay man, are they no longer gay? 🤔😄 she's not touching his dick, and he's not touching her pussy.

I wear a 7.5 inch jelly dildo to work in my sweatpants... and the effeminate men be looking down at my bulge. 😏😄

The Straight Trans Activist: The Modern Homophobe. by suedonym1984 in LGBDropTheT

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Also known as "the lesser of two evils" 😄

How do I find a gender critical dysphoria treatment therapist? by dysphoriathrowaway in GenderCritical

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I used to hate my breasts during my teens and 20s (I'm almost 40 now). I was never suicidal, but I hated my breasts and reproductive system (I've had tokophobia... fear of pregnancy/childbirth... since I was a child) so much that I pretended like those body parts didn't exist. I'm a lesbian and used sex with women to "cure" my own dysphoria because the therapists my parents sent me to couldn't help me. My mom is a bisexual second-wave feminist and helped me more than any therapist did. She told me to become a nudist and let women see my body... she said they'd love my boobs, which was true. ☺ I somehow developed into an autosexual and became attracted to myself lol I sleep topless even when it's cold as fuck. I let these H cups hang and swang!

Queer Theory is cancerous by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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She could've been bi though, and I do believe most people who identify as "queer" are bi with a preference for the opposite sex, and they have noticeable issues... likely because living a straight life is exhausting for women lol

Didn't know she was family by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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She has a lesbian face lol similar to Jodie Foster's wife (and Ellen DeGeneres' ex) Alexandra Hedison. Speaking of Jodie, my mom (61) is bi and said she knew Jodie (59) was a lesbian back in the 70s. She said it was her voice.

I don't give a fuck what anyone says... gay face and gay voice are real lol

GC: What is wrong with trans people working in sexual violence prevention? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT

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I think there should be special facilities for gnc women. 🤷

I have this issue when it comes to female therapists, tbh. I don't want to talk to a white woman, a straight woman, a feminine woman, nor a religious woman. I'd prefer a middle-aged gnc/masculine black lesbian atheist... lol but that's TOO specific, apparently, even tho I live near Atlanta where black lesbians (black women in general) thrive.

That face by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I just see a creepy white man in a bad wig, although that could be his uncombed hair.

GC: What is wrong with trans people working in sexual violence prevention? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT

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🙄 sex, gender (femininity, masculinity, etc), race, etc are necessary qualifications for certain jobs. I bet you would've been fine with Rachel Dolezal's career choices had she not pretended to be black and had just been a white woman who wanted to work with black folks. NO MA'AM! White people shouldn't teach African-American studies nor work for the NAACP even if they're qualified.

Men ("natal males") should not teach women ("natal females") anything pertaining to sex, sexuality, sexual violence, etc. Education should definitely be separated by sex.

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I haven't been back on Reddit since they started permanently suspending any new accounts I made about 3 months ago lol but I made a new account (using my mobile data instead of wifi), NobleMofoKing, to respond to a post about me and my ex-girlfriend (also a Redditor) made by a chick I was talking to on the side. She blocked my new account, so I'm not using it again lol plus my ex also stopped using Reddit when I was suspended. She said it isn't the same without me. ☺

Oh, the post and comment I made were removed by a mod (the chick likely reported me for harassment lol she's so salty) so I deleted them from my account if any nosy folks wanna see the drama lol I know snitches are itching to report my ass for ban evasion.

Queer Theory is cancerous by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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😂 this is so stupid yet I agree with it. "Gay" is for privileged folks. When I imagine a "queer" person, I picture a "special needs" non-straight person who receives disability checks.

GC: What is wrong with trans people working in sexual violence prevention? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT

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They're too hypersensitive, mentally fragile, and self-centered.

As a "natal female" with a masculine voice & appearance (I'm a gnc lesbian), I wouldn't even apply for a job where I might frighten timid (cisgender) women in need of assistance. I whole-heartedly believe that a facility like that is for only feminine (cisgender) women to work... they're easier to talk to by default based on their sex (female) and gender (femininity), especially if they're middle-aged women. Society automatically trusts a gender conforming, older (cisgender) woman. Older transgender women are walking red flags lol they're spooky.

Teaching activities for preschoolers on exploring their sexuality and gender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I disagree. Adults definitely force children to suppress their sexuality, gender expression, etc. My parents sent me to therapy because I wanted a girlfriend throughout elementary school lol I didn't understand why I couldn't kiss, cuddle, and hump other girls when I was 4-9 years old. My BODY wanted other girls very badly. My mom told me why I felt chills and tingles when I liked someone. She explained arousal to me. I have vivid memories of my clit twitching in school, and my mom telling me to ignore it... to pay attention to my teachers (who were beautiful women and turned me on lol)... when I got home and told her I felt ticklish between my legs.

Teaching activities for preschoolers on exploring their sexuality and gender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This was stupid. Of course it matters... it's upsetting to expect one thing and to get something different. Like false advertising. That's why my butch ass try to proactively let straight women know I'm a handsome WOMAN wearing men's clothes, not a man. 😄 I be at work trying to talk like my feminine sister. 😩

Top 6 Myths About Trans Kids by iamonlyoneman in LGBDropTheT

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  1. Trans kids know who they are at a young age, and they become trans adults.

But they're likely gnc which isn't mentioned.

I thought I wanted to be a boy because I didn't know I could be a very masculine girl who looked more like a boy than a girl. I thought I could either be a feminine girl or a masculine boy. I didn't know I could be a gender nonconforming female. Yesterday, my ex said I look like a man with big boobs (this was a compliment lol she blushes when she looks at me). I didn't envision myself having boobs when I was a little girl which is why I wanted to be a boy. But I like how I look as an adult. I'm happy I didn't have a double mastectomy (nor a breast reduction).

Oh, I do "pack" sometimes now after I stopped 20 years ago. I like having a nice bulge to match my Big Dick Energy. 🤭😄

Does anyone have any suggestions for how to not feel so depressed about all this? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Socially distance yourself from strangers... lol

Two months ago, I started working and avoid 99% of the people I work with because I don't want to hear any nonsense. I act like I don't speak English since a lot of non-Americans work there.

Basically silencing lesbians in a lesbian space to give the microphone to men by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Fuck the transphobia... can I rant about being banned from LesbianActually AND suspended from Reddit (for ban evasion) for biphobia? Why in the fuck are non-lesbians such a protected group in lesbian spaces??? All I said was there is animosity between lesbians and bi women, typically because we have to share spaces with male-partnered women who get upset because we don't like dick/men. There wouldn't be animosity if only bi women who are strictly into women (febfems) were in lesbian spaces.

I swear I get banned more for biphobia than anything else in lesbian spaces. Even though most of my exes are bi women or lesbians who fucked men before. Why are goldstar, man-hating lesbians like me public enemy #1? 🤔

Does anyone track the sexuality of mods? Are all mods bi??

I just need to talk to some sane people about this bullshit: by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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The flag of our dreams by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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🤮 inclusivity is so visually ugly.

I finally watched Dave Chappelle’s *The Closer*. Here are my takeaways. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Just watched it. He literally said "this is about white people", not necessarily about each group he joked about. I've been saying this shit for years... the black LGBT community and white LGBT community are different. We (blacks) don't really demand shit from "cishet" folks. He was spot on about white feminists (mentioned Susan B. Anthony and Sojourner Truth) silencing us... white activists of all types shit on us and silence us. Whites try to divide and control us... black women should form an alliance with white women... black lgbt should form an alliance with white lgbt... NO!

Looks like /r/badwomensanatomy got girldicked too. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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I just searched the sub and see that it's been trans inclusive for at least 3 years...

I finally watched Dave Chappelle’s *The Closer*. Here are my takeaways. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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I'm going to watch it later with a friend. As y'all know by now, I really like offensive shit that pisses off fragile groups of people lol but I've never really liked Dave Chappelle's shit in general because he comes off as a black man who panders to white "Negro" (not the word I wanna use lol) lovers... like the type of white people who go to black comedy shows and be crackin' up instead of walking out. The Jon B, Robin Thicke, Paul Wall types who marry black women and think they're hononary black men. Chappelle panders to them.

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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Permanently banned from butchlesbians for "blatant transphobia" according to the new trans mods. I said that generation queer hates cis people, including cis sexual minorities, and that we're not queer enough.

Why? Because a young butch said she didn't feel like she belonged in LGBT+ groups since she doesn't identify as nonbinary/trans/etc.

They don't just hate that we won't fuck them... they hate that we don't have stupid ass gender identities.

Both: Is gender dysphoria a mental illness? & Is being trans a mental illness? by peakingatthemoment in GCdebatesQT

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Gender dysphoria is an insecurity. Transgender is gender nonconformity with a twist.

So many years of LGB proving that they don't turn kids into anything, just for TQ to come around and do exactly that... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I mean... I wish I'd had the proper vocabulary to express myself as a kid. I was most definitely homosexual and polyamorous during middle school. I liked ALL the girls lol even the two 6th graders who had babies. Kids my age were fucking (not being molested) in the 90s. A dude tried to fuck me on a school bus when we were 12! I don't know why kids are desexualized... we obviously want to fuck each other (not adults/pedos). We need to be taught about sexuality, sex, consent, abuse, etc.

My maternal great-grandmother (1914-2010) and maternal grandmother (1928-2012) were in serious relationships at age 14. They were fucking guys at 12-13. I grew up the same way, wanting a sex partner before I could even get a job lol

Everything Else - 18/10/2021 by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT

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I just showed my girlfriend an article about Rachel Levine and said Levine looks like Benjamin Franklin. Brightened up her day (she's depressed and has been sleeping more than usual).

Sunday Social - open chat! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I MIGHT get a job soon, with a $1000 bonus if I don't quit in 30 days lol but I am unvaccinated and prefer to wear a mask for the rest of my life than to get any shots (I have never even had a flu shot, I don't take meds for any reason at all). The last shot I got was to graduate high school in 2001. My girlfriend is worried about my mental health... I will likely have a mental breakdown if I get vaccinated. 🤪

Why are there over 2,000 subscribers but posts get very little engagement? by 7874 in LGBDropTheT

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There's an app... but it was removed from Google Play. The developer personally told me where to get the app: f-droid.

Why aren't there any lesbian stories/studies on the internet? by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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Female homosexuality is typically connected to feminism, in order to separate it from male homosexuality. So if you want to find lesbian stuff... look into feminism. There can be an issue with that though since homophobic heterosexual feminists didn't want lesbianism tied to feminism.

Oh, nowadays, I think you'd have to search for "queer women" stories. And google shit like "comphet" and "lesbian masterdoc" because that's what late bloomers talk about all the time. has coming out stories.

The irony - complaining because "online queer folk have decided lesbians can have sex with men for fun" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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TikTok?? Enuff said. That platform is a misinformation hub, it seems.

Why are there over 2,000 subscribers but posts get very little engagement? by 7874 in LGBDropTheT

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I almost didn't come back when the site was down for days. I assume that's why many people haven't returned... the site went down twice in 30 days or so, right?

The new homophobia is just the old homophobia in male drag by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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MTE. Of course there are intelligent bi folks who understand homosexuality and don't believe our sexuality is fluid. But it seems like the bi folks who are in gay spaces do believe we all like both sexes... but we have a "preference" for the same sex, and sometimes we'll dabble with the opposite sex. No sir. No ma'am. We don't do that.

My mom is bi and has never asked me if I liked dudes because she understands lesbianism. She played a huge role in making sure I never questioned my sexuality and told me that only liking girls was perfectly okay. We had other issues, such as her hating masculinity and wanting me to be a lipstick lesbian instead of a butch, but we went to therapy and resolved that. People here shit on radfems, but my mom is a radfem who made for damn sure that compulsory heterosexuality didn't affect me. I never wanted male attention/validation... except from gay guys. Ugh, I thought my gay guy friends' opinions mattered on fashion/style. My mom told me not to listen to them lol gay men rule the fashion industry and dictate what women should wear. 👎🏾

I love it when TQ drags LGB along their diaper fetish by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Why does it look so childish? Like a fucking daycare center?

"Homosexuality? Racism? I don't see the difference?" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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I'm black and make the same comparison, although it's more so based on gay folks who identify as trans, so lesbians not wanting "trans men" and gay men not wanting "trans women" because that's what the issue used to be before straight white folks came along and changed the issue within the LGBT (the T being homosexual trans folks).

I used to view trans folks as simply another group of insecure people whining about being undesirable like a lot of black folks, fat folks, old folks, and physically disabled/deformed folks do.

"Use or threats of violence are illegal" fall on deaf ears... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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The intolerant, violent TRAs are ready to literally strike three other minority groups: gay men, bi people, and lesbians. SMH this is a war on the "cis" minorities.

Identity by loveSloane in GCdebatesQT

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This is something we butch lesbians discuss. It's really hard to relate to the majority of women... straight(+bisexual) women... because they're more gender conforming than we are and do shit specifically for male attention/affection/love/etc. So to us, "woman" (womanhood) is very connected to heterosexuality and femininity. And it tends to be other women saying we (butches, gnc women) are not women, even though we are obviously female human beings just like them, because our womanhood is connected to homosexuality and masculinity. Basically, homophobic women (including feminists) define womanhood and (socially) exclude us.

Example: me and at least 2 other lesbians were temporarily banned from a women's subreddit for how we answered questions asked by men. The mods are straight and accused us of misandry which just meant "you lesbians aren't nice enough to men... go away." We also got downvoted a lot. Just felt like the straight women didn't want us there.

I compare this to race... if you are constantly shunned for not having skin light enough to be seen as white (European), what are you going to believe? You must not be white like them. Constantly being shunned by women can make one believe I must not be a woman like them.

It makes them so mad when they can't cancel someone lol by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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Black comedy, in particular, has always been offensive. Stop trying to police us. This is how we deal with our mental health issues... we talk shit and laugh. Hehe and Haha, motherfucker.

You can never be sufficiently inclusive by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Do you know what she meant? Is that just a fag hag or...?

2 + 2 = 5 by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Tbf, this happened first with both racism (against whites) and sexism (against men)... a lot of white LGB folks definitely misuse racism even here lol so when I see you all complain about "transmisogyny" being used... I think "the pots calling the kettles black" lol

Coming to terms with needing to be every letter in the Alphabet Community by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Seems like she has a low libido, prefers intimacy, or may experience sex aversion as a defense mechanism. I sympathize with her because she's black lol and as she mentioned, we are sexualized all the time... not just by men but also by other women (which I'm guilty of... I'm turned on by her picture lol love women with short hair).

Lesbian who doesn’t like penis? Off to conversion therapy for you. Be A gOoD AlLy. 😠 by Rag3 in LGBDropTheT

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Wtf is "exposure therapy"??? Please don't tell me it's what I think it is... will she be shown nude men?

Proud lesbian punches bigot’s transphobic face by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Normalize honest rejection to desensitized fragile folks. I've been rejected for being black. I nor my friends didn't retaliate. Hell, my mom told my black ass to stop chasing white "tail" (pussy) lol these queers and their activists need to be told to stop chasing cis dick/pussy.

Edit: I know this is a sensitive story, but does anyone remember when a gay guy was murdered for revealing he had a crush on a straight guy (they were neighbors, iirc) on The Jenny Jones Show? These queers need to be scared straight and stop fucking with people. A tad bit of fear is useful... otherwise, without it, mofos run amok and harass i.e. what trans folks are doing because they aren't scared!

1995 Episode:

Murder story:

Gay men should sing this song to "Transgender Gay men" lol by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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🤣 I hate you!!! As soon as I heard the music, my nipples got hard because I used to fantasize about Brandy & Monica having sex.

Interesting observation... by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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This seems more like an "ableism" issue which is basically what "transphobia" is lol ...when you know someone is mentally fucked up but you can't cut them loose due to their fragility and codependency because you'll be viewed as the bad guy and they'll be seen as the victims to outsiders who don't know how frustrated you are as the "ableist" or "transphobe" listening to crybabies. Friends are NOT social workers, therapists, psychiatrists, psychologists, etc. I think Gen Z and 90s millenials don't know that though lol we xennials talked to therapists.

Happy international narcissists day by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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GC Dogpile Alert??? 🤣🤣🤣

Happy international narcissists day by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I think the new lesbian definition is "non-men attracted to non-men" so nonbinary, genderfluid, wtfever folks can identify as lesbians when they are in girl/woman mode. 🥴

Both: How would you define my sexual orientation? by theytookourjerbs in GCdebatesQT

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A lesbian with funny sexual preferences.

We have similar preferences, although I'd never actually date/fuck a woman who doesn't identify as a woman. I'd hurt her lil queer feelings by "misgendering" her on purpose lol

I do something similar to my girlfriend. She's a 40+ year old late bloomer, separated from her husband of 15+ years, had never been with a woman before we met this year. She came out as bi years ago but didn't want to have threesomes with her husband's involvement, and he said if she fucked women without him, he'd file for divorce and ask for full custody of their children because she was depressed and suicidal (because he correctively raped and abused her for nearly 2 decades).

Anyway, I call her bi sometimes to invalidate her sexuality because she's not a goldstar lol and one of her husband's lesbian friends also calls her bi. The friend (a goldstar married butch) said no lesbian would've sucked dick for 15+ years. I partially agree... but my girlfriend said she never initiated any type of sex with her husband... he would force her to suck his dick... and she'd vomit afterwards (sometimes). She has a great lesbian therapist who helps her get through all of this, fortunately, because I am not sympathetic lol we are a terrible couple... she hates goldstars (especially "heterophobic" misandrists and radfems like me) with a passion and is very misogynistic and homophobic. Opposites truly attracted in our case lol 🥰

Oh, as I mentioned in another post... I have peaked her though! And she's slowly becoming a feminist. She had an abortion during her teens and needs to support women's rights, which she has never done... she hated feminists and gays until recently.🤦

I've learned a lot from ...they are "lesbians" who love men which infuriates me lol