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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 23 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

My boyfriend is pan & cis but leans hard towards men (I know he has one very fem presenting nb ex but generally he’s into masc folks) and he seems to like my chest and overall body type a lot more than I do. Sometimes it’s nice and gratifying but sometimes it causes some dysphoria when he’s like. Too enthusiastic about my more fem traits. So like, some pros, some cons, I guess?

No noes. He's attracted to you; How awful. Poor you.

There's a high likelihood that in a lot of these cases that the woman only likes the guy cause he validates her and there's not even the slightest hint any 2-way attraction there. These relationships are built on quicksand and will all end abruptly one day.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Also, I love the fact that the OP was like, "Will gay men be okay with my boobs?" and the top comment is, "My bi boyfriend likes my boobs!"

Congrats, but that has literally nothing to do with what the question was.

[–]Mermer 7 insightful - 7 fun7 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

My bi boyfriend likes my boobs

If only there was an explanation 🧐

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah wtf

[–]Criticallacitirc 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

"Some gay guys prefer more up top, and specifically seek out guys with gynecomastia"

What lol

Also I love how the comments keep trying to conflate liking big pecs with breasts. Have these people ever seen another human in real life ? Lol

[–]censorshipment 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

The first few people who touched my titties were my gay male friends in high school. I was extremely insecure about having big boobs, especially as a young butch, and they tried to make me feel better about having big boobs by caressing them. My senior mentor, during my freshman year, told me he always wanted to touch Aretha Franklin's humongous titties, and he said I reminded him of her... so he touched mine. I felt violated every time they groped me, but because they were gay guys, I didn't consider it harassment. 😔

I follow a 50 year old gay black dude on YT (Milan Trezur from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania... not Ohio lol) who does drag... he loves women's titties.

I think the gay men who are "queens" (the most effeminate) do love titties.

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Queens" always wanted to touch my tits too, and loved to bring them up in casual conversation.

The difference with us vs. these "gay trans guys" is that we understand gay men aren't attracted to us, our tits, or any other part of us women. A separate conversation/post could be had about why our tiddies were being focused on, and how that affects us, though.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I find it weird that some gay men want to feel boobs. I am gay, and I am not interested in boobs at all. In fact, I prefer not to look at them. Now, I’m not a "queen", so maybe that’s why.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am on the more gender-conforming side of gay male, and I am actually kind of fascinated by boobs, but mostly from an aesthetic appreciation standpoint. I love the human form, both male and female. But it's only the male form that gets my sexual attention.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Human have fascinating bodies after all.