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[–]yishengqingwa666 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We have given millions of voyeuristic and autogynephilic men a FREE PASS to prey upon girls and women. All they have to do is say the magic words: "I identify as a woman."

[–]TurtleFuzz 30 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 4 fun31 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

My husband and I were talking about this 2 nights ago. He brought up this exact scenario, and I explained it similarly to you. My husband didn't know how to respond.

lmao gottem

[–]VioletRemi 44 insightful - 4 fun44 insightful - 3 fun45 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

You could also raise UK prison statistics, where 50% of transwomen in prisons are sitting for sexual assault. And that is three times more than regular men.

[–]penelopekitty 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And 1 in 50 male prisoners in the UK now "identify as women." Imagine if all of them were transferred to women's prisons. Currently there are approx 97,000 male prisoners and 7,000 female.

[–]yishengqingwa666 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Divorce him.

[–]soundsituation 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

A couple other talking points I like to bring up in these conversations:

-Statistics demonstrate that unisex toilets and changing rooms have much higher levels of sexual assault

-Ask them if they lock their cars and their houses, then ask them why they do this, since nothing is stopping thieves from finding another way to break in

[–]materialrealityplz 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

This is what I tell people who say that. Women can't go to a manager and have him removed. There is nothing she can do now.

[–]BEB 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I plan on saying that I feel unsafe and demanding that someone on the staff accompany me and stand outside the door until I'm done.

If we all demanded an escort it would soon be economically unfeasible for companies to allow TIMs into women's spaces, and they would eventually demand that laws change back to women only.

[–]yishengqingwa666 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am going to try this. EVERY woman should do this. Once I pepper sprayed a huge, drunk AGP in a bar bathroom and left him screaming on the floor (this is after he tried to peek over the bathroom partition), then ducked out the back. This was about 3 years ago. This same AGP has since been 86ed from more than one place for creeping on women; once for getting fisted by another man right at the bar.

[–]BEB 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think that we should start a movement, and I am positive that many genuinely afraid women will join us if we give them cover to be openly afraid.

Right now, many women are cowed by the "Rainbow Reich" (by which I mean the modern "LGBTQ+++ movement, not LGBs, who just wanted to be left alone) and so are afraid to speak out about their fears of TIMs in their spaces.

If there is a non-partisan, very loose (like maybe simply a hashtag) movement for ALL women of ALL ages of ALL political parties who simply want an escort into what used to be women's spaces, then I think women will utilize it.

And TIMS can utilize the escort movement too - they claim they're afraid of men's spaces, let them get escorts into men's spaces so they can leave our spaces alone.

[–]WrongToy 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Transactivism.

I will assure you until 2014 i never thought about a male being in a woman's can, let alone them being in a locker room. if they ever were, I assumed they lost the tools of rape on their body.

If they don't in my view, they are playacting about it.

[–]Huffleterf 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Men choose careers to have access to children. So why wouldn’t they put on a dress to have access to women (and children)? Hell, with self-id they don’t even need the dress.

Some of those careers are very life consuming too, such as religious ones.