'Been recently reading in this sub about how many have been sexually abused got me wondering how it must have very few actual lesbians, meaning actual homosexual women instead of ‘I have a problem with men’ women, in a already very small lesbian forum'.

To clarify further, I was responding to the above point you made in the original post. From my understanding, you read about many people here talking about being sexually abused and are doubting whether these women are actual lesbians?

Like I already said, I agree with the points you were making before this and that being a lesbian is only about being a female homosexual and not a political statement or hating the opposite sex. My point was that women being victim to sexual abuse is so common that its not hard to believe there are many genuine lesbians posting here about their trauma. Its the internet, it gives them sense of anonymity and there aren't many lesbian spaces to begin with. Sexual abuse victims or any other non lesbians that larp as lesbians is ofcourse never justifiable

It is frustrating due to the fakebians there is an environment of constant mistrust and doubt about who is or isn't a lesbian in so called lesbian spaces/real life.