Is anyone still here? Lol by lil_lamb in Lesbians

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hi

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So they're a... transbian? 😂

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Haha, nah I'm still around reading things I just don't comment often. I assume they're a troll who is just really bad at communicating their homophobic thoughts.

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Don't miss your veggies

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??

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Dramasexual want you to do the same thing as that girl, be careful out there

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This user might genuinely be retarded.

I hope they weren't the final straw that made you leave this website. I like it having sane people here, please stay.

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I don't see messages from that user, I blocked them.

If you keep acting in bad faith, I'm gonna block you as well.

I understand what these people are saying. The woman speaking is linching the other one because she fucked one of their husbands.

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We need to show you the "lesbian reality" that u/dramasexual is hiding from you, in order to wake you up

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why are you sending me this?

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What is your definition of power? by dike in Lesbians

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Mm

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A rainbow flag isn't evidence that "LGBT+ is the new societal norms."

How about a rainbow flag on the fucking white house that even breaks flag code isn't that enough evidence?

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You're a closeted bisexual.

Also why do you want to date gay men, aren't you a woman?

You can live forever (2022) by MyLongestJourney in Lesbians

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This is actually a very decent lesbian film.Although the story is not original (does such a thing exist anymore?),it is very well made,well paced,the photography is gorgeous,very good acting by everyone and incredible chemistry between the two protagonists.

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Dramatic

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You are not here to engage in conversation in good faith. So I will not answer and I encourage other members to do the same.

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Take it out on fags

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So fuck a faggot

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This is literally what my homophobic mom thinks.

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😮

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It's simple.

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[–]ShotTopic 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What?

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Just make him your bitch

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It would relieve any dysphoria you have.

What?

You should try it.

Congrats on continuing to be homophobic.

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It would relieve any dysphoria you have. You should try it.

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That's not how homosexuality works, I don't think about men at all regardless of how masculine or feminine they are.

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Thoughts on gay femboy twinks?

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What do you want a response to?

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So do you have any actual response?

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This isn't reddit

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A weird ass homophobic question. And a lot of place have rules about direct links / brigading.

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It's a question. And it would have been more convenient to link it instead of making me click an imgur link

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...what.

Also wtf is this other post by you: https://imgur.com/TmDveiJ

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All I see is rainbow flags. Should I not believe my eyes?

A rainbow flag isn't evidence that "LGBT+ is the new societal norms."

Matriarchy it's a play of words to describe the current patriarchy... instead of male dominated, it's rainbow dominated.

Yeah you misused the prefix badly.

when a gay femboy is forced to transition to MtF you can more or less blame the "matriarchy" for that.

You butchered the language so bad, this sentence is now nonsense. Congratulations, you win the SJW award. Orwell would cry.

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I didn't say that you didn't even realize why I mentioned that

Feel free to clue me into your twisted logic.

Ignorant? Let me reiterate again I'm just making questions regarding no preference for bi women

I called you ignorant because of several statements and implicit assumptions you've made. Not because you're "just asking a question omgg!!"

And again, never once did I even mention sex or dating, much less any "preference against bi women" that you imagined that I had lol.

You think I'm hitting on you? This sub is probably full of bots too who wants my pics for my IP adress.

I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole. Nobody wants you sweetie. Funny how you instantly jump to a homophobic "all the lesbians want me!!" I guess that delusion helps you cope with your life in some way.

Yes this is why I asked the thing about bi's. I'm on the ace spectrum and I guess it's too much to want to understand something

I know you don't actually think I'm objecting to you "asking a question." I'm telling you your implicit assumptions are wrong.

I can see why your gf dumped you now lmao and YOU dare call me a narcissist

Yeah I dared. Sowwy pwincess. Yeah no I'm not going to tolerate your complex. And more homophobic comments, cool. You're really revealing yourself here.

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I see you never leave your house.

All I see is rainbow flags. Should I not believe my eyes?

What matriarchy lmao

Matriarchy it's a play of words to describe the current patriarchy... instead of male dominated, it's rainbow dominated.

For instance, when a gay femboy is forced to transition to MtF you can more or less blame the "matriarchy" for that.

Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

[–]bucetao6969 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lmao, there you go calling a sex act between a man and a woman gay 🤡

I didn't say that you didn't even realize why I mentioned that

Your post history says you're asexual. I checked because of how incredibly ignorant of lesbian and gay issues you seem. It's rare that one of our own comes across so ignorant.

Ignorant? Let me reiterate again I'm just making questions regarding no preference for bi women

have sex with some "hypothetical bi woman"... hmm. "Ace spectrum" huh?

Oh shut up. Also where tf you even got I'm asexual. I said I'm on the ace spectrum. You think I'm hitting on you? This sub is probably full of bots too who wants my pics for my IP adress.

"OMG YOU WOULDN'T EVEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH A BI WOMAN???"

And YOU call me a narcissist because I ask WHY you wouldn't have sex with a bi woman, you're blowing way out of proportion a genuine question

As if you have a clue about what goes on in lesbian minds, gay minds ...

Yes this is why I asked the thing about bi's. I'm on the ace spectrum and I guess it's too much to want to understand something

The straights didn't accept you so now you're gonna try and join the "abnormal extremist" crowd?

I can see why your gf dumped you now lmao and YOU dare call me a narcissist

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I mean they instantly lose sexual interest.

You'd be surprised. I occasionally get a submissive bisexual male interested.

I thought that was the whole point of it.

Well you thought wrong. Again. What a surprise. It's about being comfortable in our own skin.

lesbian norms?

Butch is not a lesbian norm. But why would I expect you to know that?

LGBT+ is the new societal norms

I see you never leave your house.

The LGBT+ is quite literally the "Matriarchy" at this point.

What matriarchy lmao. It's "the matriarchy" to not pretend to be feminine as a lesbian. The way you think is irreversibly warped.

Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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Big assumption just from a saidit comment

Your post history says you're asexual. I checked because of how incredibly ignorant of lesbian and gay issues you seem. It's rare that one of our own comes across so ignorant.

I saw asexual memes and thought they where pretty funny until I realized "wait, I'm on the ace spectrum" so yeah I do know too

Being a "closeted asexual" is like being a "closeted" anime fan. Some people think it's kinda weird but no one really cares that much. What rights have asexuals ever not had?

No, I know guys who like rimjobs and like to be pegged by their wives even if they don't like guys or real dick.

Lmao, there you go calling a sex act between a man and a woman gay 🤡

Also fair enough that you want to have someone of "your race" as a friend.

What are you even on about in this entire paragraph? Lesbians aren't a race lmao. And there is no psychological difference between asexuals who are not closeted gays/lesbians and heterosexuals, so you're essentially looking for someone to meme with which is cool, but not at all the same thing.

I just don't understand why it would be weird to go out of your way to focus on sex with a full lesbian than a bi-woman (fair enough as a preference since you're a lesbian, but making it a goal is weird).

Quote where I said that because I never did. It's funny how you accuse me of making wild assumptions when I made one "assumption" (I just looked at your post history) that was correct, and you're throwing out narcissistically injured projections about "OMG YOU WOULDN'T EVEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH A BI WOMAN???" Sex was never mentioned, but it sounds like you're personally hurt from imagining some stranger on the internet not wanting to have sex with some "hypothetical bi woman"... hmm. "Ace spectrum" huh?

I don't know why the fuck you're here. Straight or 1% bi people coming in here with no fucking clue what they're talking about. Go to s/bisexuals. It's even worse because you're half playing-dumb half actually retarded. As if you have a clue about what goes on in lesbian minds, gay minds, or the minds of heterosexual males who crossdress. The straights didn't accept you so now you're gonna try and join the "abnormal extremist" crowd? You're not welcome here. Go get your back broken by some pathetic straight male.

Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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Since you're not a homosexual

Big assumption just from a saidit comment

you have no clue what it's like to be closeted

I saw asexual memes and thought they where pretty funny until I realized "wait, I'm on the ace spectrum" so yeah I do know too

I suppose you also consider exclusive heterosexuality extreme

No, I know guys who like rimjobs and like to be pegged by their wives even if they don't like guys or real dick. Also Brazil which has a culture of "I don't care about gays or trans as long as they're not one of my sons" also had crossdressing festivals which heterosexual men loved doing for the hell of it even before the whole LGBT+ virus (not sure they do it anymore because of that). Because of heteronormative it's hard to call heterosexuality "extreme". Also they're the ones making babies.

Don't play the victim with me on a lesbian sub, pretending I secretly hate all bis just because I'd like to have a friend who's of the same kind as me.

I'm not picking at you I'm genuinely curious what's the thing of this sub with bi women. I want to know! IS IT THE STD'S??!!

Also fair enough that you want to have someone of "your race" as a friend. I too want someone of the ace spectrum as a friend (who's not a demi because 90% of them I feel like are white girls in a modern emo phase). But that would be just for sharing memes (I don't think they'd exactly want to have sex). I just don't understand why it would be weird to go out of your way to focus on sex with a full lesbian than a bi-woman (fair enough as a preference since you're a lesbian, but making it a goal is weird). Fair enough if it's the STD's. Is the experience more novel or something?

Why is this a problem for me? Because there's no "bisexual women" sub. I wish this was a good place of discussion for them as well.

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I don't mean they run away from you, I mean they instantly lose sexual interest. It doesn't mean you can't be friends. I thought that was the whole point of it.

Also how is it "psychologically free"???!!! You are going from societal norms to... lesbian norms? Not to mention LGBT+ is the new societal norms so you gone full circle as well? The LGBT+ is quite literally the "Matriarchy" at this point.

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Ok. How is any of this relevant?

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Since you're not a homosexual, you have no clue what it's like to be closeted. I suppose you also consider exclusive heterosexuality extreme? Of course you're logically consistent in your beliefs, right?

Don't play the victim with me on a lesbian sub, pretending I secretly hate all bis just because I'd like to have a friend who's of the same kind as me.

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It's not about how straight men feel about it, it's about feeling psychologically free. And straight guys aren't "spooked off" lol, they're the majority of my friend group.

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Are you in a engineering school? That probably has a bunch of tomboys there. They don't mind being around guys.

I know some bisexual women who call themselves lesbians to stop being hit by males. But in your case since they like being around males I don't see why they would do that.

Also males in engineering schools are too busy being depressed to actually hit on girls 😂

Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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uhhh... even a 1% heterosexual + 99% lesbian female is still a bisexual 🤔 so I don't really buy this "closeted lesbian". If you're a lesbian you're basically "no males" and it is extreme no matter how you think about it. Maybe some girls only like finger action but that still allows males into the play.

also let me ask why you all have a thing against bisexual women? is it STD's?

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Aggred. You spoof all the heterosexual men away, who prefer feminine women.

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They're actually all facts.

The brains of lesbians functioning more similarly to straight men is well-documented, as is the opposite for gays. I can point you to several studies if you'd like. But as far as lesbians being overrepresented in STEM:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/dawnstaceyennis/2020/11/30/the-new-stem-gap-study-confirms-gay-men-are-less-likely-than-straight-men-to-be-in-stem-fields/

“We observe that a larger share of women in same-sex couples are in STEM occupations than women in different-sex couples.”

This along with the main focus of the paper, which is that gays are a lot less likely to be in STEM than straight males, makes me wonder why my immediate environment is so different.

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[–]MyLongestJourney 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The above are just hypotheses. Also,I wish homosexual women were "overrepresented in STEM" !

Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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What are your sexuality determining criteria ?

Whether or not she starts going on about her boyfriend or how bi she is lol.

Why should be a greater proportion of homosexual women there,solely on the basis of the female students female percentage?

Because as gays naturally socialize with straight females, dykes naturally socialize with straight males. Also, this is a STEM school and dykes are highly overrepresented in STEM. All the "first woman to X" in science were lesbians.

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The fact that it's a small school and I know a lot of people well enough to know their sexuality.

What are your sexuality determining criteria ?

The fact that there are so few females there (my school is something like 70:30) makes me think there should be a greater proportion of dykes than in the general population, but it appears to be even smaller.

Why should be a greater proportion of homosexual women there,solely on the basis of the female students female percentage?

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The fact that it's a small school and I know a lot of people well enough to know their sexuality.

The fact that there are so few females there (my school is something like 70:30) makes me think there should be a greater proportion of dykes than in the general population, but it appears to be even smaller.

Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

[–]MyLongestJourney 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What makes you believe that they are not around? Probably you are unable to detect them.

Where are all the dykes? by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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Okay but I don't even see them around on campus or in my classes. What do you think about that?

Suddenly bi humor really bothers me by Mermer in Lesbians

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lesbians arent attracted to males. if you felt attraction to males - youre not a lesbian. simple.

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That could be it. I honestly don't know.

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Do you think that some of the bisexuals you meet are just closet lesbians?

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They are meeting in secret,since all their places were invaded and taken over by men in skirts.

Straight women, especially "radical feminist" ones, use us for their own agenda and we suffer for it. by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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Oh the irony.

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Yeah, I experience the same thing. Have meet a lot of bisexual gals (most with boyfriend) but only one other lesbian (my ex-girlfriend). I have been to plenty of LGBT-meetings, I'm always the only lesbian there... Where are you hiding, fellow lesbians?!

Straight women, especially "radical feminist" ones, use us for their own agenda and we suffer for it. by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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I'm calling it how I see it. Learn some history.

Straight women, especially "radical feminist" ones, use us for their own agenda and we suffer for it. by redgreenblue in Lesbians

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If you're a woman you should just drop feminism. The current movement is utter ludricous, it makes males respect you less (even if you're not straight or bi you still want males to respect you for networking and career), and you're associating yourself with an insane crowd.

I won't undermine it but if you respect yourself don't call yourself a current age feminist.

Straight women, especially "radical feminist" ones, use us for their own agenda and we suffer for it. by redgreenblue in Lesbians

[–]MyLongestJourney 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Straight women, especially "radical feminist" ones, use us for their own agenda and we suffer for it.

No. Some straight women use us for their own agenda. Radical feminists though are our greatest supporters against the efforts of rapey men to make lesbians suck their dicks.

Dykes invented feminism and straight women hated us for it.

Citation needed.

Further back in history, we would be noticed among straight women and were picked out and given a higher status in many civilizations

As above.

Throughout history we have been hunters, warriors, soldiers, scientists, even in societies where straight women had very limited rights.

But most of us were as oppressed as they were,forced to marry men,raped and killed if we said no,just like heterosexual women.

It's only now, when we do not distinguish ourselves from them, that we are lumped together with straight women and given inferior status like them, even though we are psychologically alien to one another, even differing in bone structure.

Citation needed.

And to save us some time and space : Same for the rest of your drivel. Seriously this is one of the lamest efforts to sow discord between lesbians and heterosexual women I have ever seen. Lame man,so very lame. If you want to actually piss dykes like me off, you just have to remind us that straight women also see us as abnormal and will never be 100% comfortable with us. But unlike those men in skirts and make up who call themselves women but constantly proving with their words and their action they are 100% men,both homosexual women and straight women are women.Both homosexual and heterosexual women benefit by working together against the common issues they face, like the negative impact of trans activism in their lives.

Imgurmy pussy real good by HongBongPhooey in Lesbians

[–]Vulptex[A] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Removed, porn is not allowed on saidit.

Blue Jean (2022) new British lesbian film by MyLongestJourney in Lesbians

[–]MyLongestJourney[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

England, 1988 – Margaret Thatcher’s Conservative government are about to pass a law stigmatizing gays and lesbians, forcing Jean, a PE teacher, to live a double life. As pressure mounts from all sides, the arrival of a new girl at school catalyses a crisis that will challenge Jean to her core.

This film oozes authenticity. This is what I like the most.What goes on in the screen is what actually went on those days.And it is so good to see a genuine looking established couple,especially one where both are not the palatable to the heterosexual audience highly feminine ones we almost always see in other films and behave like real people,not caricatures.The film's writer and director wanted to portray a real lesbian couple.

Venice debutant Georgia Oakley wants to show 'real lesbians' in 'Blue Jean' News Night

The movie will premier on February 10, with nationwide Q&A previews from February 6.

Does anyone need invite codes to Ovarit? by ShieldMaiden in Lesbians

[–]Imscared 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd love to have one!

Happy pride by wendyokoopa1 in Lesbians

[–]grassfed 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

😮

would you fuck a hot passing femboy? by yelgy in Lesbians

[–]ShotTopic 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Absolutely not

would you fuck a hot passing femboy? by yelgy in Lesbians

[–]Bright_painting 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nope

r/AskWomen - Former tomboys who did a 180 & became totally feminine in appearance, what caused you to make such drastic change? by Imscared in Lesbians

[–]Lizzythelezzo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have definitely met straight women who were tomboys as teens because they didn't want to be ogled by men, but later became more comfortable being themselves (and being more feminine, as that felt more authentic to them).

The Disappearing Butch Project by Lizzythelezzo in Lesbians

[–]Lizzythelezzo[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"The Disappearing Butch was born out of necessity, the necessity to expose society to an in-between world in which women shatter the rules that have been placed on them. Society has deemed that women who do not conform to feminine standards are other. But also the need to have these individuals’ stories told. Combining historical images, present-day photography, and audio recordings, Theresa Scott’s The Disappearing Butch, places female masculinity front and center.

As a person who identifies as a butch lesbian, Theresa Scott set off to discover others like herself, questioning if these individuals had similar experiences in navigating the world, developing into the person present today and the opinion of the butch disappearing from the LGBTQ+ community. While the stories give the audience a view into the history and struggle one may face, the images presented allow one to see who these magnificent individuals are—combining traditional portraits that examine each person’s dapper side. In contrast, lifestyle photographs allow a glimpse into the subject’s world and passions.

If you would like to be a part of this project contact me using the form below or email me at tmscott81@gmail.com.

This project is supported by the United Arts Council of Raleigh and Wake County and the North Carolina Arts Council, a division of the Department of Natural and Cultural Resources."

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]EzukiRaen 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't been on Saidit in a good long while (it gets too depressing sometimes) so I'm very late to this party.

Has anyone been successful in requesting an invitation for the sub or is it under complete lockdown? I just sent one and am waiting to hear back. I think the saddest part to me is that I can't look at old comments/saved posts from that sub since it's where I spent most of my time whenever I do pop over to Saidit :(.

Casual lovers and erotic friendships? by Lizzythelezzo in Lesbians

[–]Lizzythelezzo[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ugh what a bummer! Dating apps are often a huge dumpster fire. I feel your pain!

Casual lovers and erotic friendships? by Lizzythelezzo in Lesbians

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sure do. What's worse is you have the disgusting thirst magnet men who think that their penis is a magic wand that will make you want a man again and will swipe right on you on pof(plenty of fish) bumble, tinder etc. Sorry I had what you had to offer dudes and romantically intimately you make me want to throw the hell up.

How can I join the private lesbian exclusive subs on reddit? by Imscared in Lesbians

[–]VenusEnvy 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Are you on ovarit?

Casual lovers and erotic friendships? by Lizzythelezzo in Lesbians

[–]Lizzythelezzo[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh no, that sounds really frustrating and depressing! I extend solidarity, as I've experienced similar things on dating apps and in the local LGBT scene. Luckily I have met some legit lesbians and bi women on Lex, HER and Bumble, but you have to sift through a lot of chaff to get to the wheat, so to speak!

Casual lovers and erotic friendships? by Lizzythelezzo in Lesbians

[–]wendyokoopa1 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know this thread is old but for almost the past year past few years I've found myself wanting to date women(biological women) more then I've wanted to date men but everytime I've put myself out there for women I've gotten men, transgender women or women I didn't feel comfortable carrying on a get to know conversation with. One woman had work done that was so bad that it was like looking at a Trisha paytas horror story, and a discord server complaining how these implants could literally save someone's life.(eye roll). Yes the discord was filled with mtf transgender and some women of course. Even this past week on a fetish site I was taken by a transwoman who I thought was biological. I feel ready to give up.

How can I join the private lesbian exclusive subs on reddit? by Imscared in Lesbians

[–]Lizzythelezzo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think there are any left really. The closest thing to the old r/truelesbians are r/actuallylesbian and r/actuallybutch, as far as I know.

Happy pride by wendyokoopa1 in Lesbians

[–]Lizzythelezzo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Happy Pride everyone!

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]leached_outcrop 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There have been a couple of homophobic users harassing DropTheT for a while now

Which users? I'm really curious what's the scoop. Drama can be kind of fun and silly but that was the last place for us and now its gone. I didn't even get to post.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But I still don't see why the saidit itself has been locked down. It's a shame because there was some good discussion and information sharing.

But definitely bad faith sh*t-stirrers are a possibility.

It is absolutely because of bad-faith shit-stirrers.

(Daily mail article comment sections are absolutely full of comments from men like this.)

Yup. I totally know what you're talking about and I've seen those.

So yes there have been some people who post on LGBdroptheT that I vehemently disagree with. But it is a shame that the sub has gone, because I think that there was a lot of good discussion.

Completely agree! I am really sad about the change... it'll be harder for people to access an LGB community this way. But unfortunately, it seems necessary.

Happy pride by wendyokoopa1 in Lesbians

[–]wendyokoopa1[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We're all humans

Happy pride by wendyokoopa1 in Lesbians

[–]Aurelius 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How very thoughtful, I hope everyone has a wonderful pride month as well!

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Aurelius 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The drama there is very unfortunate, I hope things get ironed out soon.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Can you shoot me one l? Lost my account

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I 100% agree with the points you made (and although I didn't read most of that thread, I think your characterization of it is accurate as well).

To add to what you wrote: I think the issue with the sub, is that some people are going on there to take Poster A's position in a bad-faith manner, simply to sow division among the group-- perhaps even similarly to what happened to s/lesbians a while back...? That is my best current understanding of the situation.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is private. I'm still unclear about what exactly happened, but it seemed like the issue is with other bad actors on Saidit. There have been a couple of homophobic users harassing DropTheT for a while now-- and it looks like things finally came to a head, of some sort...?

If you are looking for LGB content, I still mod s/LGBmemes and have no plans to make it private. There's not much discussion... but there are memes, lol.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]SerpensInferna 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To be honest, I'm suspicious of what went down and wonder if there's more to it. I feel that the recent influx of screenshots from Ovarit, accusing radfems of being racist and homophobic, was just plain weird. The whole thing felt strange, and I was surprised that the mod defended those posts. I may be way off, but I can't help but feel something odd happened behind the scenes - to completely lock the sub instead of giving it to other mods seems like an overreaction for sure.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I looked at the archives, and I don't understand why the mod would shut it down over a few arguments. Maybe I missed something. That sucks! It was so active there, unlike this sub. There is a new sub called lgb_discussions. I'm hoping that one can grow.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]SerpensInferna 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No problem, I got you. Check your messages.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]SerpensInferna 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Over on Ovarit they said there was a big drama-fueled argument and the mod went nuclear and locked the sub down permanently.

What happened to LGBdroptheT? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]SickOfThisShit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not sure it's been like that for several hours I messaged the moderator, hopefully it's just a temporary thing to clean some stuff up or something.

How can I join the private lesbian exclusive subs on reddit? by Imscared in Lesbians

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Hey, sorry no one ever responded to you-- I used to be on some of them, but they all got banned during the SuperStraight purge, sadly. I know a few of the people on those ones joined Saidit, but I have no idea how many private lesbian subs there are on Reddit right now, if there are any.

Positively Lesbian-A website for young lesbians by MyLongestJourney in Lesbians

[–]wendyokoopa1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How is this site for older women that want to meet other women for the first time?

Does anyone know any good, active discord servers for me to join??? by udhsu in Lesbians

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think I joined that one and it had trans people I believe they even got on my case for not wanting to touch a woman who's had implants.

Do NOT Panic! by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Imscared 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How can I message them please ?

Does anyone need invite codes to Ovarit? by ShieldMaiden in Lesbians

[–]greatcicadiatthrow 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

hi, this is soooo old, but i just found this sub. link maybe please?