Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Can you just tell me what that means? I've never experienced anything remotely like a "bi cycle".

See, I'll often see hot women, but I'm still also attracted to men, even though the kinds I find attractive are rare. And I don't sit around craving the other when I'm in a relationship. I credit my stability to the fact that I don't "switch roles" when I'm with men or women, I'm still going to fuck them the same way even if the mechanics are different. I think that instead of some biological bi cycle, people are just changing their minds about the kind of dynamic they want in a relationship and projecting that onto potential partners.

Is that how you feel? What's the difference between men and women for you?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As long as she doesn't dress like PeeWee Herman, I'm good

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sure but that's just parents' instincts

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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The protection part sounds masculine to me.

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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I appreciate you taking the time and energy to type that out for me.

So you're saying you're essentially attracted to femininity? Or femaleness? I know the definitions of each can be nebulous. Are you attracted to masculinity in a woman, because she won't have participated in the culture that turns masculinity in males toxic?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really think I could quote possible write a book for the masc guys. Words you don't want to hear but need to.

Please tell me

edit: I scrubbed my social media presence from the internet (though it's probably stored somewhere).

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hahahahah damn. Yeah I think I know what you mean. I think I intimidate guys so I'm thankfully not really bothered by the masculine ones, or they're simply not interested and I only attract feminine ones. Sounds like you're having these experiences on dating apps? Yeah a lot of guys like to keep going when they hear "no". Pathetic

Anyone else have extremely good luck finding other bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Why do you think this happened then? Luck? Or do you think there's some kind of subconscious bi-dar?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Lol never be sorry for being honest. I read somewhere that the family courts appear to favor women because men rarely ask for custody. And there's abortion being illegal which means women can be imprisoned for miscarriages, but still, we're so far from a country where every man would jump to rape a woman/girl and they have no rights at all. And lmaoo just tell them straight up. Be intimidating about it.

Dating a Bisexual Man: What to Do and What Not to Do by PeakingPeachEater in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

people would insinuate that he was feminine and I was butch

Well was it true lol

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Haha yeah I don't like radical feminism either. The ideology works in extremely fucked countries like Yemen where women have zero rights, but that's it.

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well there's a sub for bi women who don't want to date men and call themselves FEBfems (female-exclusive bisexual females) s/FEBfems. But it's dead and they're probably all radfems.

Joe Biden Does Not Exist by StillLessons in politics

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Alright fine. Who is Brandon?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Is there any reason at all you'd prefer to marry a man or are you like "fuck no" lol

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Oh no... what history...

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Do you see yourself marrying a woman?

Bisexual open chat by PatsyStone in Bisexuals

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How bad did it get? Was the stew everywhere or were you able to salvage it?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Well you'll probably find out lol. If you live in a decent-sized city you can use apps to meet women like Her or even Tinder isn't too bad. Do you prefer your partner to take control or do you like to take control?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lol since I'm this fucked, are you interested in feminine guys?

I'm a woman and I only like feminine people in general. So do you only like feminine people or are you looking for the rare masculine person who isn't toxic?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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No physical type?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Do you have a certain type you like or just any pretty woman?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Yeah they are great lol. Do you find yourself preferring butches or femmes or no preference?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Ah sorry to hear that. Glad you're away from him. But huh interesting. In this case, your Kinsey Scale score measures how done you are with men.

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Do you feel like men just use you and don't reciprocate?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Feel free to not answer because this is a bit personal, but it's anonymous so I'll ask.

What particularly appeals to you about lesbian sex as opposed to sex with men?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Is it different from the kind of guys you like, or no?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What kind of women do you like? I'm not trying to be creepy lol but I'm just curious because bisexuals are so varied and this is a sub about sexuality after all

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And what changed? Was your ex a complete cock lol

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But you thought you were a lesbian before? Or you just didn't lean towards women that much?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry I just want to be clear, you're bisexual with a strong preference for women, right?

Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality? by usehername in Bisexuals

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And what do you feel like your result describes? The percentage of people who are your type and also women, or your own propensity for women (based on them being female)?

How do you feel about people who refuse to date bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

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No need for all the qualifiers. I was looking for blunt responses. And I was expecting some hurt feelings from some users. Clearly I hit a nerve, but I'm just trying to have a discussion here.

There's more to it than the simple fact that one is attracted to both males and females. The majority of bisexuals first think they're straight, then bisexual. It's really different from the homosexual experience. And the fact that bisexuals like to use homosexuals for sex and then only have relationships with the opposite sex, or end long, invested relationships where the same-sex partner was completely in love just to throw it all away because they want a husband/wife (opposite-sex) and kids and to be considered normal is just unavoidable. There are thousands of stories like this. Homosexuals have had the same complaints about us repeatedly and it's clearly a pattern. So how can I be upset if someone doesn't want to get burned again and would prefer to date someone of their own orientation? People are free to have their preferences and I can't blame them for it.

How do you feel about people who refuse to date bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Yes. Many bisexual stereotypes are true and even if they weren't, we have different experiences and some non-bisexuals want to date people with the same orientation as them.

How do you feel about people who refuse to date bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Do you think the only reason someone wouldn't want to date a bisexual is ignorance?

How do you feel about people who refuse to date bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Fwiw I wasn't.

What I meant is that when people talk about "fake bis", they mean bisexuals who look and act straight and want to have fun with homosexuals but marry the opposite sex.

And good to hear it hasn't happened to you. Thanks for sharing your experiences.

How do you feel about people who refuse to date bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

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As for the idea that a lot of women who ID as bi are just straight women LARPing, I think there is some truth to that

Haha it's funny you bring that one up, because that's the only one I can think of that I believe is unequivocally false. The vast majority of bisexuals aren't out and they are a lot more common than people believe. The "straight person pretending to be bi" narrative is just a way out so that any time bisexuals are criticized, someone can jump in and say "they weren't reaaally bi." It's the No True Scotsman Fallacy. I have never met a "fake bi" and doubt they exist as even a marginally significant proportion of people who say they're bi. Generally, people are thinking of bisexuals who don't appear GNC and prefer the opposite sex. Bisexuals will commonly use homosexuals for sex and then when they want to settle down, they want that heterosexual marriage. That's the biggest stereotype I was wondering about.

How do you feel about people who refuse to date bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Okay interesting. Have you dated both bisexuals and lesbians in the past? I'm not going to encourage you to shrink your dating pool, but the bisexual "stereotypes" are so incredibly common I wonder if you've encountered anything like that.

How do you feel about people who refuse to date bisexuals? by usehername in Bisexuals

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry are you bisexual or a lesbian?

edit: I just have different questions for you depending.

Lighthearted Thread: How To Increase Bisexual Vibes by Ladiablapequena in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm curious, what would you say are the ways to signal you're bi to men or women? I'm curious as to how they differ, and what exactly they are because like you said, it seems like the only way would be to just come out.

This. by Orangutan in politics

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nearly everything you just said is verifiably false.

"... fully vaccinated people who still get COVID-19 are likely to have milder, shorter illness and appear to be less likely to spread the virus to others."

"Virologist Friedemann Weber from Justus Liebig University in the western German city of Giessen told DW that it was not the vaccinated who gave rise to new escape mutations and variants, but the unvaccinated: 'It was infected people who provided a breeding ground for the new variant and immune escape of the virus.'"

More from that same link:

The coronavirus was widespread in all three countries at the time the mutations presumably occurred. This provides ideal conditions for new mutations, said Weber, because the virus uses the weakened immune system in many infected people to adapt better and bypass the immune system.

The claim that vaccines are responsible for mutations is shown to be at least misleading if you look at the countries with high ratios of vaccinated people: If vaccinations massively increased the likelihood of a virus mutating, then new virus mutations would already be appearing in countries like Israel or the UK, where many people have already received their jabs, Peggy Riese says.

"But this is not the case at all. The virus mutations occur precisely in those countries where there is not yet a high (vaccination) rate, and a large number of people are meeting together within a confined area," she told DW.

This. by Orangutan in politics

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Unvaccinated people allow the virus to mutate in ways that make the vaccine less effective.

What memories stand out for you with noticing you were both opposite-sex and same-sex attracted? by TumbleweedFireflies in Bisexuals

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Good night.

What memories stand out for you with noticing you were both opposite-sex and same-sex attracted? by TumbleweedFireflies in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Seems like you're the one who's trolling here. Are you going to contribute anything or are you just going to clog the comments section arguing?

What memories stand out for you with noticing you were both opposite-sex and same-sex attracted? by TumbleweedFireflies in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What happened to not feeding the trolls? Two wrongs don't make a right.

What memories stand out for you with noticing you were both opposite-sex and same-sex attracted? by TumbleweedFireflies in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is really rude and near the bottom of the Pyramid of Debate.

Lighthearted Thread: How To Increase Bisexual Vibes by Ladiablapequena in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Just come out. "I'm bi."

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

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And what exactly are our needs? The biggest obstacle is homophobia. Acknowledging that isn't "bisexual erasure". Or do you particularly take issue with when I said we should support homosexuals as their allies? We only have way more power than them and acceptance in society. But you think we should just take the infrastructure they built and colonize it for ourselves? We can't put the toothpaste back in the tube. They've already built this and it's our foundation for acceptance as same-sex attracted people. It's impossible to start from scratch and "get our own house".

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

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I have a quick question for you before I type out a comprehensive response. What can we infer is the sexuality of a man who rapes a gay man in order to "punish" him, but has a wife and kids at home?

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

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It's not in the linked article.

It was, but here is a more specific one. Perhaps you couldn't tell, but I was being hyperbolic when I said "30". I don't have a source on the exact number of guys who feel the urge to rape a gay guy when he comes out in Afghanistan. My point was that bisexuals greatly outnumber gays. In this case, the gay man was raped by two other men:

https://www.itv.com/news/2021-08-28/being-gay-in-afghanistan-the-taliban-raped-him-and-beat-him

Some more examples in Afghanistan include the tradition of Bachi Bazi boys. Bi men will keep young gay boys as sex slaves.

It's well-known that gay men in extremely homophobic communities are often raped by homophobic bi men

I think you're taking issue with the fact that I said "bi men" here. I know you're a bi man, and I don't think you're a psychotic, homophobic rapist. I'm just saying that bi men are extremely common and in homophobic countries, men who are bi will use rape as an instrument of punishment against men who are gay in a situation where a straight man would simply give him a beating.

In any case:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6886282/

edit: Just letting you know because we've been responding to each other so quickly, but I'm heading to sleep. Feel free to reply and I'll respond in the morning.

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Well bisexuals shouldn't just care about homophobia because it affects us. We have the numbers and should be defending homosexuals who built the structures that allow bisexuals to come out at all instead of pretending we're straight with our whole lives.

I'm not going to say that I don't support strong bisexual communities, but honestly, I think that bisexuals may be in the majority (rivaling heterosexuals) so I think that may be futile.

Like you said, it's very important to make it clear exactly what bisexuality is and how it's different from being homosexual or heterosexual, but confusion isn't the biggest hurdle bi people have to overcome when trying to accept themselves and come out. The biggest hurdle is homophobia, so I think that's what we should focus on.

How can we convince more bisexuals to care about homophobia? by usehername in Bisexuals

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https://www.businessinsider.com/gay-man-raped-and-beaten-by-taliban-tricked-into-meeting-2021-9?op=1

It's well-known that gay men in extremely homophobic communities are often raped by homophobic bi men, but the rapists are not gay so it's acceptable because it's like they're punishing him for being gay. So even though the rapist enjoys it, it's not "gay" because it's extremely hateful and violent and the guy has a wife and kids at home.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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I just think we should have some kind of bisexual-specific campaign against homophobia. Not sure exactly what it would look like politically or socially, but we have the numbers so it's our best bet.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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So do you see any kind of solution for that kind of attitude? Massive propaganda campaign painting bisexuals as... committed? Or something? I feel like the only solution is really tackling homophobia.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Yeah that definitely makes sense. It just seems like more homophobia from them, though. Like "oh thank god, she can be turned" and they desperately don't want you to "go back". Sorry you had to go through that with your family.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Do you really think that's the biggest reason? It's the only reason that's ever brought up in these discussions and bi people are always complaining about it. I know those mean things are kinda hurtful, but it's really no big deal compared to the massive amount of homophobia (internalized and otherwise) they're grappling with.

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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in my community I think it is actually more acceptable to be gay than bi

What community is that?

What can we do about the colossal proportion of closeted bis? by usehername in Bisexuals

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Is it disrespectful of me to say that I think that's kind of a poor excuse? Homosexuals are far less accepted by society. I'd say the only advantage they have is that gender non-conformity is more accepted in their communities, while bi people don't really have a community and generally mix with heterosexuals and feel more pressure to conform to their roles.

But I don't really think the solution is to just form bisexual communities, because where do we draw the line? I think that bisexuality is a lot more common than people think. If a gay guy is "found out" in Afghanistan, 30 other guys line up to rape him.

Is it just me, or have all/the vast majority of the people you've dated been bi? by usehername in Bisexuals

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We also have the highest closet rates and a culture of myths obfuscating what bisexuality really is.

Radical Female Reproductive Strategy!!! by rudeboy96 in GenderCritical

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She's just a delusional incel.

Creating a bi space whitout the TQ+ invading it seems impossible (And I feel like sht about wanting one) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Literally the only people who don't mind are chasers.

No, lol. I'd fuck Blaire White.

Not knowing if you can continue living in a world of Gender Woo as a Gender Critical person? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I guess what I actually should have said was that it's okay. I know you probably feel lonely and betrayed, but you're better off without people like that.

Not knowing if you can continue living in a world of Gender Woo as a Gender Critical person? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I was disowned by my family, so I know what it's like to lose people. I'm glad you have this place to vent. I don't really have anything comforting to say, just that I hope you stay safe.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's not against the rules to disagree with you, as much as you may wish it was.

edit: Since you edited and added the top line, I'll add something too. I don't care how you think I should respond to you.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Your response was lower on the Pyramid of Debate than mine, and if you're really getting your feelings hurt again you should touch grass. You have no argument so you try to assert dominance over me by giving me commands. Pathetic.

The “same-sex attraction” dog whistle by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This take is abysmal. Just because some Christians use a term doesn't mean it's evil. And the way you insist on calling all LGB "gay" is obfuscating, and what do you mean by "gay culture" and are you under the impression that every group in LGB shares this same "gay culture"?

Creating a bi space whitout the TQ+ invading it seems impossible (And I feel like sht about wanting one) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Plus as someone who does find GNC attractive I have to be honest that feminine men and masculine women are not attractive in the same way as a feminine woman and masculine man.

What's the difference for you?

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

It's really egregious the way you keep banning that one user. You admitted yourself that he always brings up important and interesting topics that need to be discussed. Almost all of of the comments you removed of his today were valuable and completely civil. I'm tired of having the same banal conversations because anything that could possibly hurt someone's feelings is removed even if it's true. It's just like when u/OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN was banned: insane because of the valuable perspective they bring to the group. This sub has zero tolerance for disagreement even when the people disagreeing are still supporting the Drop the T movement. If you're really getting your feelings hurt over an internet post while thousands of years of progress in civil rights are being erased and the person who's disagreeing with you is trying to help stop that by having the discussion, then touch grass.

Do you ever venture out into the rest of Saidit? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe I was naive.

The answers are extremely insane and ignorant.

edit: And no I didn't "want hateful responses", I wanted to understand their POV and see the source of their visceral disgust.

I have never met a happy lesbian. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You just contradicted yourself and stated one completely irrelevant and obvious fact.

Not knowing if you can continue living in a world of Gender Woo as a Gender Critical person? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Kai. Please don't deprive the world of your beautiful smile. I don't really have a way with words, but anyone who would try to make you feel less than just for being yourself is truly pathetic. Men like you are special and rare. I don't know what to say to you as far as dating goes, but your worth is immeasurable and I think the work you've been doing is amazing. Just take care of yourself. If this is too much for you, it's okay to step away from the fight.

Creating a bi space whitout the TQ+ invading it seems impossible (And I feel like sht about wanting one) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm bi and I fucking hate the gender movement, and any attack on L&G is an attack on us and should be treated as such.

I have never met a happy lesbian. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If you consider same-sex attraction one of your base passions, I have some news for you.

I have never met a happy lesbian. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

yeah tho it's like if you can understand why brad pitt is hot

Would you have sex with Brad Pitt?

Why does bisexuality get de-legitimized so much? by dgsf in Bisexuals

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry to necro but:

When it comes to homosexuality, despite facing a lot of hatred and bigotry, I have really never seen anyone, no matter how bigoted, make the claim that it doesn't exist.

Actually, most homophobes believe that homosexuals are secretly bisexual, meaning that they are capable of being attracted to the opposite sex as well.

I know these misconceptions are frustrating, but the fact is, bi people haven't come together politically to try to dispel these false notions, and often are the ones spreading the misinformation.

Skinny chicken legs = woman's legs by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm just gonna warn you now that the mods probably are gonna take this down for not being relevant to LGB. They'd like it at s/GenderCritical , and I think they might even have their own meme subs.

The strange gender euphoria that comes with cis gay dudes being into you by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They probably knew it was fake.

Do you ever venture out into the rest of Saidit? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I knew this site was right-wing, but I didn't expect all that

Female? Not on my watch! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Whitey

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

When did I claim to be a lesbian? And if your dick is really getting hard over a few responses on a forum, you need to get out more.

Seconds away from genociiiiiiiide by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

[–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So that means they're about to commit genocide on women and LGB?

Do you ever venture out into the rest of Saidit? by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ever touch s/politics ?

Female? Not on my watch! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just don't give up. We're the majority.

Question - why are some straight/bi women offended by my inability to find them attractive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel gay and bi men are a lot more afraid of being hate-crimed (for good reason).

How dare there be butches and tomboys while I repress my womanhood so hard!! Alphabet soup, cater to me instead!!! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]usehername 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Shower me with compliments or I'll kill myself.

I have been telling you muppets for ages that islam is going to rule over you and that you will either convert to islam or you will be enslaved.. and now you see it, our own u.s. military is escorting the same people that blew up the world trade center to come here and get free money and housing. by [deleted] in whatever

[–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

there are plenty of females that mess around with females but also will not quit sucking dick.

They are called bisexual women. This is a really simple concept. I can't believe you don't get it by now.