Top surgery has made me insufferable and I think that’s what life is about 🤍

usehername · 2021-07-21T22:37:56+00:00

She's a bi woman with an eating disorder and a femboy fetish and posts in r/Lolita :X She really needs help.

usehername · 2021-07-21T22:35:31+00:00

"Gender" is what they call their god.

usehername · 2021-07-21T22:19:33+00:00

Auntie? Lol jk, thanks for looking out for and neutering/spaying the ferals.

usehername · 2021-07-21T22:15:45+00:00

It's crazy how they jump straight to gay (lol) even when the person has only dated the opposite sex their whole life, as if bisexuality doesn't exist.

usehername · 2021-07-21T20:17:59+00:00

He hits most of the talking points in this video and in the comments, including "straight is a myth" (translation: everyone's bi), if you say he's a man it's hate speech, if you ever question my ideology think of this "beautiful girl" being bullied. It's a great example of the average, uninformed "trans ally".

usehername · 2021-07-21T20:15:39+00:00

Ooh it's that chick. Yeah, I remember her.

usehername · 2021-07-21T00:17:40+00:00

Wait a minute, since Axis? Axis Powers? Is that what she means, or am I missing something?

usehername · 2021-07-20T23:37:10+00:00

Even very clean wounds will stink if they're large.

usehername · 2021-07-20T23:23:08+00:00

I don't know about the question you asked, but I will say to never use that new phone you get without a VPN. ProtonVPN is a good free one (you just need to sign up for a free email address with their service: protonmail)

usehername · 2021-07-19T00:48:32+00:00

Example of depravity from a HSTS.

usehername · 2021-07-16T21:34:24+00:00

You clearly didn't watch the video.

usehername · 2021-07-16T06:11:06+00:00

Exactly. We need to police our own.

usehername · 2021-07-16T05:46:02+00:00

Holy fuckaroni

usehername · 2021-07-16T01:57:28+00:00

Agreed.

usehername · 2021-07-16T00:24:26+00:00

True, but this guy gets such a free pass. It's not like Demi Lovato ever interviews Jessica Yaniv, but somehow, this information isn't known about this guy.

I'm disappointed Blaire didn't cover the Wi Spa incident.

Me too :/

usehername · 2021-07-15T22:37:21+00:00

Makes sense, as the majority of them are paraphilic.

usehername · 2021-07-15T22:36:24+00:00

Ewww the lip-bite. I hate to say it but he is clearly turned on. Absolutely horrific.

usehername · 2021-07-15T22:34:44+00:00

Yeah, there's no need to, as the different teams never make contact with one another.

they can do a lot more complicated routines with the boys able to lift the girls.

Well us girls do lift each other lol. At the higher level, when the males grow up and become larger, there are some pretty cool stunts that they can do with only one man and one woman, while usually for stunts, there are two or three women lifting another woman. This really isn't possible with high-school aged boys, though. We tried it once with our smallest flyer (hadn't hit puberty because of severe anorexia, sad, but my point is she was extremely tiny and delicate, really almost childlike body) and the guy just couldn't do it. He was pretty average-sized.

usehername · 2021-07-15T21:04:06+00:00

APP (autopedophilia) seems to be a common co-fetish for AGPs.

usehername · 2021-07-15T20:55:39+00:00

“Why can’t I wear a dress to church like Grace?” she asked at age four.

Just let him wear it... honestly. You're gonna try to change the laws just so you don't have to explain to your kid why sports are sex-segregated? I don't want to hear a damn thing about him "not being allowed to participate in sports". Just play with the rest of the boys and continue cheerleading. When I was in high school, cheer was not sex-segregated, it's just that very few boys join. Stories of "trans kids" make me sick. Everyone is lying to this little boy. If only he (or the adults who are responsible for him) had the capacity/care to understand how royally they are gonna fuck this kid over if they "transition" him hormonally and surgically.

usehername · 2021-07-13T05:15:00+00:00

Post-Biden is gonna be a shitshow and a half, I can't even imagine. If we get that far...

Ominous... what do you mean by "if we get that far"? We definitely have another four years before climate change takes us out.

All Critical theories are, but they couch themselves in so much impenetrable rhetoric and jargon that you are forced to give Cliff's Notes versions to lay-people, which are then heavily distorted to hide the actual truth (or, lack thereof) of the arguments. Postmodernism was a mistake, and not for the reason Peterson-esque conservatives think.

Couldn't've said it better.

usehername · 2021-07-13T04:39:03+00:00

Ah, guess I didn't see the second account/the usernames were so similar I thought it was one, so she didn't seem banned to me. That's interesting, how do you view the ModLog?

usehername · 2021-07-13T03:40:32+00:00

And then your jerk your dick thinking about it, am I right ladies?

usehername · 2021-07-13T03:19:01+00:00

It's called bi.

usehername · 2021-07-13T02:26:13+00:00

So are the reports anonymous?

usehername · 2021-07-13T02:10:14+00:00

Because a "woman" to a TIF is just a silly, airheaded, cute gal who only cares about makeup and wears pretty dresses every day. They can "rationalize" pregnancy as "masculine" because it's creation (somehow considered masculine, zero logic) and requires a lot of strength.

usehername · 2021-07-13T02:03:45+00:00

Wow. As a Gen Z who was a little kid during Obama, this is very insightful.

At first, this was about sensible stuff: LGB rights, environmentalism, anti-war, etc. But then under the Obama years and with the rise of social media, it started to shift. There needs to be new "progress" especially as the former big ones (especially gay marriage) were won.

Distractions from the real, actual boogeyman which is going to be very difficult to deal with and require us all to change our lives: climate change.

Then the Lord Satan Himself, Donald Trump, somehow won the presidential election of 2016 against the Good and Noble Girlboss Kween Killary Clinton and all hell broke lose.

Lmao it was exactly like that. My mom actually has a framed Obama poster in her room and loves Hillary, so this resonated with me. She told me she voted for Biden in the primaries because "the highest proportion of black women favored him". It took me two hours to explain Critical Race Theory to her because she kept interrupting me telling me it's important not to omit slavery from history and other very basic and simple non-racist ideas, and she was implying that I'm racist the whole time. She literally thought Critical Race Theory meant thinking critically about race and racism. No girl, it's the opposite: an ideology, and a shit one at that.

usehername · 2021-07-13T01:55:53+00:00

Biphobe /s

usehername · 2021-07-13T01:45:41+00:00

Sorry lol. I did the thing where I misinterpreted it as an attack. We are both fools here.

usehername · 2021-07-13T00:56:28+00:00

I never tried to correct you about anything. What are you talking about? I mostly agree with you.

usehername · 2021-07-12T23:42:00+00:00

It's sad that a lot of people take any criticism of a group they are part of, whether or not they exhibit or endorse the behavior being criticized, as a personal attack.

usehername · 2021-07-12T23:38:34+00:00

I could make a two-type typology of bisexuality. One type experiences attraction on the basis of sex. For the other type, sex isn't an organizing force in their sexuality.

How could one determine which they are? It all seems very nebulous. A monosexual is clearly attracted on the basis of sex, because they like one sex and not another. If a person is attracted to both sexes, then how can you say that sex plays a role? On what basis?

are all bisexuals really the same thing?

Bisexual people all have the same orientation, but do have different preferences.

If sex is equal, then sex isn't part of the equation anymore, and attraction is more salient on other dimensions. Now we're in TRA rhetoric territory.

Almost as if they borrowed that rhetoric from some group of people.

This was interesting, so I made a little survey on our sub if you're interested. I really want to hear your answer to the question I bolded because I just do not get it. Feel free to answer here, on the sub, both, or neither lol.

https://saidit.net/s/Bisexuals/comments/84e4/is_sex_a_factor_in_your_attraction_in_what_way/

usehername · 2021-07-12T21:31:26+00:00

I can't imagine they would start transing and neo-pronouning the fish🐠

Don't misgender fish; fish decides what gender aligns best with fishself.

usehername · 2021-07-12T21:27:55+00:00

Uh no. Bisexuals are attracted to both sexes: male and female, men and women. Trans people are still either men or women, so bisexual people are can theoretically be attracted to them. Obviously, bisexuals aren't going to be attracted to every single man or woman, so individual bis may not be attracted to trans people, but bi people who are attracted to trans people are bi, as long as they are attracted to both men and women. "Pansexuality" isn't a real orientation, because orientations are sex-based (same, opposite, or both), not "gender" based.

usehername · 2021-07-12T20:56:57+00:00

I imagine he was making a point to a class he was teaching, not doing some Houdini version of science where by escaping certain death he proved his point.

Most definitely. Maybe it was just an overdose that would have gotten him sick and made him vomit. It was a while ago.

The biggest problem I see along these lines is when the thing being sold as "x" is not "x" at all. Vitamins and supplements are most susceptible to this.

Because they are simply not required to tell the truth by the FDA, same as with homeopathic remedies.

I don't know how a post-manufacture analysis of any homeopathic product could be tested like that because of the extreme amount of dilution involved.

Even at that level of dilution it still has an effect?

usehername · 2021-07-12T20:51:50+00:00

Maybe for aging men, but no, androgens don't improve cognition in women.

usehername · 2021-07-12T20:19:42+00:00

I've read testimonials that anti-androgens seriously impair cognition. Several people claim they weren't able to read while on the medication.

usehername · 2021-07-12T20:08:14+00:00

I know it's not Sunday, buuuuut I need some advice, and it's not relevant to LGB enough for a post. Next semester, I'll be commuting for a total of three hours a day (1.5 there and back) and I need something productive to listen to in the car. Any suggestions?

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:57:47+00:00

Well reddit is reddit. I think it may go over better with a male version, but reddit is pretty fucked in general. I'm surprised that AGB is still hanging on, but if they brave the tides, maybe things will get better at reddit. We should have those subs here, on Saidit, with both les and bi mods.

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:42:24+00:00

Let's get together and comment how we feel.

edit: Here is his email displayed on his channel: graspthesanity@gmail.com

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:33:44+00:00

It's funny because mental illness actually damages the brain.

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:32:58+00:00

For me, if I could find studies showing a better performance for an allergy from some homeopathic thing than a drug

That may be so, but homeopathic remedies are not regulated by the FDA, so products claiming to contain the compound often simply do not. A professor of mine proved how common it was to the class by taking a whole bottle of something (sorry, can't remember the exact thing) which should have killed him, but it turns out they were literally just sugar pills.

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:26:42+00:00

Exactly. All others failed to have their ideologies taught in schools, but sex-denialism is praised for being "woke".

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:25:39+00:00

Easy, they groom the kid into being trans and feel validated about it.

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:24:57+00:00

Not a radfem lol. These opinions (it's even a stretch to call them opinions, seeing as they're fact-based) are widely shared, but not widely spoken about.

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:23:24+00:00

Ok, whether the guy deserved it or not is irrelevant. We can't just allow people to kill anyone they feel deserves it. It's similar to police killings of people who turn out to be horrible people. Okay, some may argue they deserved to die, but that's not up to some rando or a cop, we have the courts to keep things fair. She's eligible for parole in 12 years, not too bad for murder.

usehername · 2021-07-12T19:17:52+00:00

Why? It wasn't clear just from the video. You think them having to wear the scarves is just not a big deal? Do you support the movement to end comp-hijab or not? How is this related to GC?

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:58:48+00:00

Extremely insightful comment:

I usually dance around this in real life but I'm sick of the completely uncritical acceptance of queer theory and the implications of seeing sex and gender, and therefore sexual orientation, as "performative" and therefore changeable.

The only performance going on is Judith Butler's career as an academic grifter.

Even more I strongly dislike the casual use of the word "queer" by the same people who think that words that might possibly offend anyone must be avoided at all costs.

There's always been a tension between "he's gay so he's sufficiently low on the Privilege HierarchyTM for my positive regard" and "he's male so he's higher on the totem pole so fuck him" in this ideological space, but it seems like the latter position is winning out for more people.

"I hate people who generalize all women."

"Gay white men in general are the worst."

-two statements from a coworker, in the same conversation, in 2015, in a college town

Seeing that rhetoric become more common in the years since is fucked up.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:55:41+00:00

Ideology and paraphilia.

Two of the world's most powerful motivators after food.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:50:11+00:00

Surprised at the downvotes. Good for them.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:49:44+00:00

She shit herself at the top of the slide.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:38:21+00:00

Enough, Pat. You're not a victim because some guy said something mean to you online.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:37:15+00:00

Today I learned we have an "exclusionist flag" and it's pretty lol.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:34:19+00:00

I criticise both the left and the right.

Agreed, though I'd still consider myself left.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:19:41+00:00

and u/reluctant_commenter

Cringe. Appropriation.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:19:02+00:00

True, but to me it just seems like they're uncomfortable with the word "lesbian".

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:15:10+00:00

My main point was that i highly doubt a bunch of straight men are identifying as bi or gay for fun.

I agree with that, but there are bi men who identify as gay for many reasons.

usehername · 2021-07-12T18:14:10+00:00

In iran, gays are executed. Lesbians are not.

Untrue: https://www.refworld.org/docid/3ae6ad8bc.html

In saudi arabia, gays are executed. Lesbians are not.

Also untrue: https://lifeinsaudiarabia.net/punishment-of-adultery-zina-and/

The only exception is pregnant women and women with children under two years old. Once the child is two, the woman will be executed.

You come last. Because you matter less when it comes to homophobia.

Source?

Thanks for contributing to the gay civil rights movement by the...oh thats right. You didnt lol.

Women did not have full rights at that time and still don't (though not to as great of an extent), but they did contribute.

usehername · 2021-07-12T16:53:20+00:00

Schomee, lesbians are executed along with gay men in many countries.

This whole "appropriating lesbianism" thing is exclusive to bisexual women since lesbians barely experience actual, real homophobia and their sexuality is a fun fetish and costume to put on.

These yaoi gals are also using "gay" as a "fun fetish and costume to put on", doesn't mean they don't experience actual, real homophobia, though it is different because they're different sexes.

usehername · 2021-07-12T16:47:38+00:00

No bisexual is trying to identify as gay.

This is absolutely untrue, though they may be rare. These bis make being "gay" a huge part of their identity, usually have some trauma with the opposite sex, and are heavily same-sex leaning. Have you changed your stance? I remember agreeing on this earlier.

Plenty of "straight" men tell me theyre bi all the time

Really? When/where? What demographic? I've just never met one, which ik is anecdotal. edit: Wait, are they actually straight or not? Unclear.

The word "gay" is walled off and protected by a giant powerful barrier of stigma that keeps it "clean".

Ik we're talking about bis here, but plenty of women are appropriating the word (though for fetishistic reasons), so it's not much of a stretch to say that bi men may do the same.

As for straights appropriating bi, that seems to be a lot less common than people think, and is used as a scapegoat every single time, as if no bisexual has ever done anything that could harm the rest of LGB (since they are also hurting themselves).

usehername · 2021-07-12T16:32:37+00:00

No problem :)

usehername · 2021-07-12T05:33:02+00:00

I'm saying that a lot of them don't identify as bi, and in the case of AGB, are appropriating the "gay" label, but there are also a lot of bis who do id as bi doing this.

I just know that in r/actuallesbians, and almost all of the other "lesbian" online communities I've seen, a ton of them are not

Ok but just to be clear here, are we talking about people who id as bi or don't? And are actually bi or not? The posts on r/actuallesbians are mostly from transbians and a few bi women, while r/AGB actually has a lot of legitimate gay men and a decent portion of bi men who participate. r/actuallesbians posters preaching about girldick are probably mostly transbians themselves, with a few bi women. That sub is already taken over. However, r/AGB seems to be in the midst of a targeted attack by r/AHS, where most of the boypussy posts aren't from legit transgays, and the problem is bi guys (who may or may not LARP as gay) saying they would love some boypussy, making gays look bad.

usehername · 2021-07-12T05:25:58+00:00

No disrespect, Pansy, but that just seems convoluted to me. I've heard other bis describe it that way, and it just sounds like we're trying to stretch the actual meaning to fit us. As a bisexual, I'm not "attracted exclusively to biological sex". I'd describe it more as being attracted regardless of sex, though some of us have different criteria for what makes a man and a woman attractive. It's monosexuals who are attracted to people on the basis of sex (with preferences as well), which is why "super" was created by a het. It's just describing monosexual orientation, the physical reality of never being able to feel attraction to one of the sexes, regardless of "gender identity" which is just a footnote.

I also wouldn't really call SuperBi or any other SuperSexualities (I'm not being consistent capitalizing, but I'm tired) "a thing". People who call themselves "SuperBi" do exist, but it's generally defined as liking "cis" people only, because like I said, it was just a description of his monosexual orientation, which triggers TRAs just by existing, as opposed to an intentional resistance against their ideology, because "SuperBi" is generally defined as "cis" men and women only, not men and women but if you ID as trans I refuse to play along. The reason I wouldn't say it's "a thing" is because a SuperLesbian is just a lesbian, same for gays and straights and bis. The basis of it sort of concedes the terms without the prefix to the TRAs. If SuperGays only like males, then do gays like males and females? It also concedes the word "gender" to them, and allows them to call men and women "genders" which is inaccurate and used for intentional deception, despite the fact that gender is used as a synonym for sex now frequently ever since "sex" became slang for copulate. That's why I don't really support it, but it was an overall positive movement and I appreciate the pushback against the TRAs and their rape rhetoric.

usehername · 2021-07-12T04:42:54+00:00

But some of them aren't.

It's definitely true that at least some of them aren't, but the vast majority of the people OP is talking about really are. A man who likes men and "trans men"? Bi. A lot of the bi people OP is talking about don't even identify as bi, so "bi" fakers are irrelevant in this discussion.

usehername · 2021-07-12T01:38:11+00:00

Me: "A man can never become a woman."

TRAs: "You want to round us all up and put us in a camp?"

usehername · 2021-07-12T01:32:37+00:00

The Jew comments...

usehername · 2021-07-12T01:23:59+00:00

Do you consider yourself a centrist?

usehername · 2021-07-12T01:21:05+00:00

How could the anus evolve for penetration when penetration of the anus doesn't result in children? Where's the evolution going on?

usehername · 2021-07-12T01:13:54+00:00

The rest are enby/trans friendly and so do not gatekeep for heterosexuals.

Same as every other sub on reddit :/

usehername · 2021-07-11T23:51:21+00:00

I think the most important part is what’s going on in the parents’ head and they’re suspecting their toddlers/children will be gay based on toy and clothing preferences, and many are actively seeking to prevent that through transition.

I agree that that's very important, and I did address that.

it can’t be denied that there are certain patterns that are much more common among kids who will grow up to be gay

I'm not convinced.

For Jazz, hasn’t Jazz made it pretty clear he likes boys? Or at least dates them? Or are we going by the fact that his sexuality itself seems to have been neutered?

He will never experience arousal, so he's just playing at what he thinks a girl should do (date boys).

usehername · 2021-07-11T23:30:05+00:00

Heterosexual women's "kinks" are hidden because people dont know where to look. It's not on pornhub but in the fan fiction. There's an ocean's worth of sadism but it's disguised as gay porn to the average viewer, not understanding that it's all exclusively written by women.

This.

usehername · 2021-07-11T22:40:24+00:00

This should be its own thread.

usehername · 2021-07-11T22:15:20+00:00

If she was just a she/they, I'd say she's probably not going to transition, but the fact that she's already demanding that no one call her "she" makes me think it's possible, but not certain.

usehername · 2021-07-11T22:10:11+00:00

The same lady who said women lie about rape during wartime. She is a scourge.

usehername · 2021-07-11T22:06:37+00:00

Hey, it took me a few tries to figure this out, so I think this information may be helpful for you:

There is a way to format quotes built-in to the website. You just have to type it like this (remove $s):

$>$ “Deadass saw someone say "We're homoSEXuals not homoGENDERuals" like dude

$$$blank line here$$$

$>$ sexual, as in, sexual act, not sex as in the biological kind...

The result looks like this:

“Deadass saw someone say "We're homoSEXuals not homoGENDERuals" like dude

sexual, as in, sexual act, not sex as in the biological kind...

Also, keep in mind that if you're writing a very long line that continues onto the next line without you hitting [Enter], there's no need to add the ">" again. The quote won't end until you put a blank line under it.

usehername · 2021-07-11T22:02:17+00:00

Lmao at this ironic comment from that thread:

What the fuck even is the point of having a sexual orientation if you're defining it as based on attraction to things you can't fucking perceive

Like a gender identity?

usehername · 2021-07-11T21:57:23+00:00

Is he a transmed/truscum believer (believes being trans is a brain condition caused by having a "female brain" in a male body and vice versa), or a tucute believer (I'm whatever I say I am because everything is meaningless)?

usehername · 2021-07-11T21:50:14+00:00

They're synonyms, so it is.

usehername · 2021-07-11T21:46:20+00:00

This is the perfect time for me to repost this video Sylvia Rivera looking like a homeless drug addict under a bridge ranting about lesbians and telling lies about Stonewall. Guess he was too high to remember what really happened: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHMTSAJ9ykg

usehername · 2021-07-11T21:31:45+00:00

Yes sir.

usehername · 2021-07-11T21:28:13+00:00

I guess they just want to feel included and discuss MLM (cringe term, ik) related topics and don't know how much damage they're doing. This is why I also support a mixed space.

usehername · 2021-07-11T21:23:13+00:00

The word "gay" describes homosexual males, so they already have one.

usehername