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[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 58 insightful - 10 fun58 insightful - 9 fun59 insightful - 10 fun -  (5 children)

"I like men and want to be seen as a partner instead of an overemotional nagging fuck puppet like TV shows and movies have taught me to be expect, so I'm not ReAalLlY straight."

[–]QueenBread 15 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

This. ^

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 10 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

"Well what can I say? I'm NotLikeOtherGirls™ and I'm super kuu-weer and different beCaUse I don't wear SKIRTS or DRESSES LiKe these cishit 'normy' women gUrLz AND i have dYed hAiR. "

EDIT: Found a NotLikeOtherGirls™ comic with an interesting twist.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 5 insightful - 9 fun5 insightful - 8 fun6 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

hey 👋 🏳️‍⚧️ guys 👦 girls 🏳️‍⚧️ 👧 enbabies 💜🤍💚 and ugh CISSIS 🤮 did u know 💭 that I 😃 am 🚫 not 🚫 like 🚫 other 🚫 girls 🚫👭🚫 because I 😃 HATE THESE 🛍👠👗 and I 😃 feel 🤢 GROSS 🤢 on my 🔴🔴🔴 !

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    [–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Your submission has been removed due to:

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    [–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 28 insightful - 21 fun28 insightful - 20 fun29 insightful - 21 fun -  (6 children)

    That made my brain hurt.

    On another note, today my husband wife showed me his her choice for new drapes in one of our bedrooms. I told him her it looked a little feminine. But then I became really excited because now that he she is clearly female (I have already declared my transgender status) we can now transition as a couple from heterosexual to lesbian.

    Who says two gay men can't be lesbians?

    [–]SpatOuttheKoolaid 22 insightful - 10 fun22 insightful - 9 fun23 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

    Anyone who would ever say that to you must be one of those evil "terfs" Absolutely anyone is a lesbian who says they are, except for homosexual vagina havers. Congratulations to both of you stunning and brave women!

    [–]just_lesbian_things 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

    Who says two gay men can't be lesbians?

    I honestly prefer two gay men pretending to be lesbians than bihet women married to men pretending to be lesbians.

    [–]8bitgay 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

    I find it interesting to compare how people of different sexualities tend to act.

    I don't see as much drama from "straight" transwomen, who are exclusively into men. Maybe because they're wise enough to know that trying to bully straight men into dating them wouldn't work. Straight people are too large of a group, there aren't insular straight communities for them to pressure. Maybe because straight isn't a cool label like gay or lesbian, so they don't need to defend it so strongly. Maybe because they grew up as gay men, so they have a bit more of empathy towards other people's sexuality than a straight man that grew up as straight before deciding he's "lesbian".

    [–]just_lesbian_things 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    This is because there's a difference between how gay men and lesbian women are treated. And that's because there's a difference in how men and women are treated. All of this is caused by sexism and the subjugation of women under patriarchy.

    Without getting too much into it, the main problem society has with gay men is because of their attraction to other men. The main problem society has with lesbians is their refusal to have sex with men. Obviously, the reverse is true to an extent, but look at the main criticism being leveled at lesbians: man-hater, because we don't want to fuck men. Lesbians are far more likely than gay men to be correctively raped as a form of conversion therapy.

    Gay men get along much better with women because there hasn't been numerous instances of women correctively raping gay men to cure them of their homosexuality. Yeah, straight women can be really disrespectful in gay men's spaces. But from what I can tell, women are still way more respectful of gay men's boundaries than men are of mine. Pretty much every lesbian I know have had instances of men trying to fuck them despite being told no, men treating their sexuality like a fetish. I've personally had a man expose his penis to me after sneaking into a lesbian-only space.

    The thing that a lot of non-lesbians don't really understand is that lesbians need to be able to say no. No as in never. There's been awful histories with bihet women trying to sneak their boyfriends into lesbian spaces, force their boyfriends onto lesbian women. Sometimes it's the woman's personal fantasy, usually it's as a "special treat" to their man or a hail mary to save their shitty relationship. I'm sure there has been instances of bihet men sneaking their girlfriends into gay spaces and trying to force their girlfriends on gay men, but I've never heard it with any sort of frequency. Usually, the man is going behind their gf/wives' back to cheat. By and large, men's boundaries are far more respected than women's. By and large, society cares more about men's pleasure than women's.

    Lesbians aren't "defending" the lesbian label because it is "cool". That's a common mistake non-lesbians make because non-lesbians don't see it from our perspective and they don't care to. Bihet women especially view it as a form of "stinginess" or "gatekeeping". We "defend" it because it's part of saying no. It means no men. Not now, not ever. Bihet women who call themselves lesbians are undermining that.

    Also, "straight" transwomen who try funny shit usually gets murdered. Not so much for agp trash.

    [–][deleted] 29 insightful - 9 fun29 insightful - 8 fun30 insightful - 9 fun -  (5 children)

    woman-aligned femme

    straight lesbian

    straight dyke

    Make it stop.

    [–]WanderingWonderWizard Extraordinaire 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

    “Woman aligned femme”. Doesn’t that just mean a very feminine woman or am I missing something here?

    [–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

    When I see "woman aligned", I think it is a lunatic aligned person. Hope this helps.

    [–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    When I see "woman aligned", I think it is a lunatic aligned person.

    I see the "moral alignments" from the Dungeons & Dragons role-playing game. "Woman aligned femme" = chaotic evil, anyone?

    Fitting, since like genderism it's all about taking on made-up personas and set in a fantasy world.

    [–][deleted] 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

    It could. But I see feminine women and men using the word femme to describe themselves so it's a tossup.

    [–]LeaveAmsgAfterBeep 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Nah “she’s” trans-national too, parle vous francais? ;)

    [–]Eurowoman24 22 insightful - 11 fun22 insightful - 10 fun23 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

    I'm a straight lesbian I love my man's dick but he's nice and not a macho douchebag so he's basically a woman and that's pretty queer!/s Did i get it right?

    [–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 16 insightful - 8 fun16 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

    Thanks I hate everything about this.

    [–]EzukiRaen 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    Um...what? A "straight lesbian"? What is she even talking about? At least with "Bi lesbian" I can make a good guess at what they're trying to say. This makes even less sense than that.

    [–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

    Yeah...Try calling ACTUAL lesbian women the d-slur since you're such a straight 'lesbian' and "qUeEr" and see how they respond to that. (Actually, please don't, lesbians already have to deal with a bunch of stupid shit like this on the daily).

    So stupid.

    Why are all these fools wanting to use the d-slur and f-slur so much when they're NOT part of that group?

    [–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Same with the f-word. I won't lie, I don't mind it personally, but I've never seen women/trans men calling gay men the f- community without backlash.

    [–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    It's very interesting that they like to use the f- SLUR, but when the t-slur is used, they get super indignant and offended.

    That's really the only slur they can use that no one else can, similar to how gay men have the f-slur and lesbian women have the d-slur---only those groups can say it amongst themselves.

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I don't agree with that, honestly. I think the concept of "slurs" are stupid and if people make "forbidden words" you're giving them power. It might be controversial, but I actually enjoy it when people throw around the f-word to the point it loses all meaning (see: 4chan referring to themselves as (subject)fwords) because it takes away the discrimination from it and just makes it sound silly.

    I don't see why anyone should be banned from using a certain word, especially if they're not using it offensively. I don't personally care when FTMs go around calling themselves that word (god, I hate how I can't type it here without having my comment removed, it's such a pain in the ass to dance around) because it's childish and cringy at best. I care way more about older trans people who actually work to challenge laws and do things that have lasting impact on society. Some 15 year old "trans boy" spouting no-no words on Twitter does not have worldwide impact.

    [–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I see what you're saying, true anyone can say whatever they want and no word should be banned.

    I just meant to point out that out of ALL the slurs available, trans people are using ones that don't even apply to them, and get extremely offended if they hear the T-slur but are hypocritical in throwing out the f-slur that offends the majority from that particular group.

    I'm not the biggest fan of slurs due to growing up with people throwing them around at my face and telling me that "your kind" should go back to their own country and being treated differently. It was even worse for my parents during their time period.

    Edit: Nevermind, what I mentioned above is race related and not related to those other slurs, so that was lame of me, my bad. I think I see what you mean, the f/t/d-slurs are like saying "bitch"(derogatory term for female persons),"pussy"(derogatory toward male persons), "fucker", etc but a bit stronger?

    [–]zerosis 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

    Honestly, I say we give people like this a megaphone, let them spread their insanity to the rest of the world. Just peak everyone that much faster.

    [–]artetolife[S] 11 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 7 fun -  (4 children)

    [–]lostinreverieMy ovaries are transphobic 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I don’t like Sex and the City, but that’s a great scene. Startlingly relevant.

    [–]artetolife[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    It had it's moments.

    [–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Man I feel for her in a way though. (Real) lesbians are some of the most genuine, smartest, and interesting women out there a lot of the time.

    Not that she should literally be in lesbian spaces lol. But like can't they still hang out sometimes??

    [–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Maybe the lack of giving a shit about being attractive to men or getting their approval gives our brains more time to focus on bettering ourselves? I can't even imagine what it's like for women to wake up in the morning and have to make themselves look pretty for their boyfriends, lest they see them without makeup and dump them for someone younger and/or prettier.

    [–]MyLongestJourney 10 insightful - 9 fun10 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

    "Straight lesbian" aka attention whore.

    [–]verystablegenius 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

    is this a man?

    [–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    That's a man, baby!

    [–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

    Of course it's a man. Look at the anime avatar!

    [–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    I think it's fitting that he has an avatar of a childlike android whose 'on' button is located in its vagina. I'm not fucking kidding.

    [–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I didn't notice that before! Ugh, I just threw up a little.

    [–]chazzstrong 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I can't even have a good laugh at these imbeciles anymore.
    It's just sad and, at the same time infuriating...and I'm not even a woman!

    [–]Franklintheturtle 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    they always seem so confident about the bs they pull out of thin air

    [–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Because it will be immediately validated with the gust of a thousand winds

    [–]emptiedriver 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I am so confused

    [–]LeaveAmsgAfterBeep 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    So is “she”

    [–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I officially can not recognize whether what these people say is serious or a satire anymore.

    But then, I'm willing to believe in concept of involontaire satire.