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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 48 insightful - 1 fun48 insightful - 0 fun49 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

The mall management is pretty based. Good on them for banning that mentally ill man for assaulting that poor woman. And yes, he should be in jail.

[–]blackrainbow[S] 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I think he ended up in jail, at least that's what he says in his history

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good. Though I take it he eventually passed his sentence, so his sentence wasn’t long enough.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

His history is frightening. He's a ticking time bomb.

[–]reluctant_commenter 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wait, really? Mind linking?

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

like the mall that I used to formerly work at where I'm now banned from due to TERF violence against me, a trans woman

Dude.

A very careful reading of that statement shows that (1) he believes he deserves special privilege as a "trans woman" and (2) completely fails to take any responsibility for his actions.

Classic narcissist. No wonder the "great date[s] ... fizzled out for other reasons". My guess is that these women correctly assessed the situation and politely made up fizzle-based excuses to GTFO.

[–]blackrainbow[S] 42 insightful - 5 fun42 insightful - 4 fun43 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Libfems and queers passing from "my body my choice" to "if you don't fuck me I will kill you"

[–][deleted] 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

It's easy to feel entitled to women's bodies when society is willing to validate your delusions as stunning and brave. :/

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No shit, these guys are more emboldened than ever.

[–]Eurowoman24 19 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 6 fun20 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

words are literal violence, this delicate flower was just having a polite disagreement and expressing her emotions through fists and weapons! /s

[–]censorshipment 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The way I see it: if you're not disclosing that you're "trans", you're going on dates in defense mode to accuse lesbians of being "transphobic" to paint yourself as a victim. You're essentially victimizing yourself by taking a risk of engaging with "terfs" as a fragile man who can't handle rejection.

Before video chatting was readily available, I disclosed to women that I'm black so they wouldn't expect a white woman to show up since white is the default race (like male is the default sex) online. I knew the chances of me being rejected as a black woman was as high possibility, so I didn't show up on dates in defense mode to accuse white lesbians of racism.

I know, I know... folks hate comparing being trans to being black, but the similarity is quite clear.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

if you're not disclosing that you're "trans", you're going on dates in defense mode to accuse lesbians of being "transphobic" to paint yourself as a victim

https://shrink4men.com/2017/11/21/characteristics-of-professional-victims/

[–]EzukiRaen 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Wouldn't it be so much better to tell someone you're interested in dating that you're trans at the very begining? That way you can see if they're comfortable with dating a trans person and neither person would be too emotionally invested if they weren't okay with it. People like this are just attention seekers who thrive on drama. That is evidenced by the fact that they've pepper sprayed and have gotten into fights with people who didn't want to date them after the reveal. Seriously, why would you intentionally withold information like that from your partner/ potential partner? And why would you even want to date someone who isn't interested in dating a trans person?

[–]Franklintheturtle 22 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

but then you can't beat up women if they don't like that you mislead them and brag about it later /s

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, there's no reason for them not to... If it doesn't actually matter (as they say) then they shouldn't recieve a reaction other than acceptance. And then, they won't be leading on homosexuals who have an opportunity to abort before meeting or worse: having already made it to the bedroom.

[–]fuck_reddit 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

Is this guy admitting to tasing a woman in public for getting upset at him trying to rape them?????????? What a psycho

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

That's the tip of the iceberg

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lol, in their post asking anthropologists about indentifying someone's "true gender" through remains, one of them says "it's possible to identify a transgender through mismatch of their skeleton and burial technique, but I don't know of any point where this has happened."

Exactly, because it hasn't ever happened. This trans movement didn't exist before the 90s. The closest thing there ever was were evil experiments to "cure" homosexuality by transitioning homosexuals, generally men.

And there was that one viking ship where a female was given a very honorable burial more traditionally gifted to men, but that's because they honored her for her strength in battle, not because she identified as male

[–]PassionateIntensity 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Jeeeesus. Angry violent man thinks he's unlocked a cheat code to force women and society to do everything he demands.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, he has, hasn't he? That MMA fighter is being lauded as the bravest athlete after physically disabling two women in fights, all because he's a trans woman.

[–]fuck_reddit 16 insightful - 8 fun16 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

Am I really about to go down the fifteenth rabbit hole of trans insanity in the past 24 hours? Yes, yes I am.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

And this is why I go quiet for weeks at a time here. Gotta detox once in a while.

[–]fuck_reddit 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Um, wow, where do I even begin... "I used to try and sneak in to girls locker rooms but was always stopped by BIGOTED TEACHERS!!!!!1111!¡!" "Anthropologists, can you see a trans person's true gender in their skeletal remains????o???" "Women can't suffer because trans people suffer more" "How could cis women not want to be cute anime girls?" What a creep...

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

The last one 😂. I was terrified reading his comments until I read the ...how could cis women not want to be cute anime girls?

I couldn’t keep my laugh 🤣🤣

[–]reluctant_commenter 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Holy shit. This person is an extreme autogynephile.

I feel this too. I feel wrong for internally wanting everything that they have, even the bad stuff like periods, pregnancy, sexual attention, and even sexism. As long as I get to be me, in my skirts and feminine form, I will take anything that there is. Literally anything.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Can trans people's true gender be seen in skeletal inspections of human remains?

Score is 0. 28% Upvoted

🤣🤣🤣

[–]our_team_is_winning 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

<My womanhood is authentic.> Nope. Wrong. His fetishhood, however, that seems to be the real deal.

[–]blackrainbow[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Amélie the TERF Slayer

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

This account screams "incel." Forget about passing, you're ugly on the inside.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

[–]blackrainbow[S] 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

anime girls are just perfection tho uwu

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow the comment history on that account. Wouldn't surprise me if he ends up in prison for murdering a woman who rejected him.

[–]LeaveAmsgAfterBeep 20 insightful - 6 fun20 insightful - 5 fun21 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Lol “fizzled out for other reasons” this person is extra delusional.

[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How is this not plain misogyny? His profile is incel tier and insane. Why do they not have this same energy and hatred for the men, who are actually the ones causing real physical violence and assault to trans people?

[–]reluctant_commenter 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cuz he is a man, and he believes that evil women are the ones assaulting poor, innocent transwomen like him.

[–]FrenchiePup 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I hate that refusal to tell us out right that they are trans.

I ended up in a date with a transboy and, when I asked the question, I got the reaction you can expect.

Here is the thing: there are people actively seeking relationship with trans people. Why lie about being trans at all if someone's out there to love you the way you really are?

Hint: that someone's not me and you're wasting both my and your time.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 11 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I think it would be more efficient if I just started pasting this instead of writing comments.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cluster_B_personality_disorders

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

  1. If there are actually a bunch of "terf" lesbians on dating apps, then maybe I should seriously consider trying dating apps, lol.

  2. This person got kicked out of a mall...? I am VERY curious to hear the story behind that. The real one. This transwoman claims that he was yelled at in front of 100 people by a "terf" woman who physically assaulted him, and then he was kicked out? Hmmm....

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And in a society that would probably punish the woman if he cried "transphobia!" with enough doubt in the minds of bystanders, this must have been a very clear cut instance of trans-on-real female violence

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You should try them, but the "terf" lesbians don't call themselves "terf". There are normies who have never heard of this nonsense. There are also ultra-woque girls. There's a mix, for sure. When I was on there I blocked any male or trans profiles posing as lesbians. They're usually easy to spot. If their picture doesn't give them away, then their ultra-gross, sexual language does.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Gotcha, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I don't feel like I'm in a ready place to date again yet, but I'll keep that in mind. It often feels like everyone is hardcore TRA, but if that's not necessarily true. (Then again, I'm in kind of a TRA-heavy area, lol.)

If their picture doesn't give them away, then their ultra-gross, sexual language does.

Ugh, I bet. Just curious, do you have any sense of the proportion of profiles you saw that were for trans-identified males?

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's reasonable. Is it okay if I message you? I don't want to give any info that could be too identifying in the comments. I didn't bother to keep track of the proportion of trans-identified males when I searched for "women" on Tinder, but there were more real women.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely! No pressure either way though. :)

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

This transwoman claims that he was yelled at in front of 100 people by a "terf" woman who physically assaulted him, and then he was kicked out?

Female privilege

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He’s ultimate goal (appearance) is to look like a girl (female child). A anime child in a very suggestive position showing her underwear. His post, Jesus Christ.. fcking pedo 🤢🤢

[–]PassionateIntensity 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Holy fuck. I'd like to think this person is a troll but well, Evie Amati exists.

[–]ThiccDropkickGay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The violence stuff gives off /r/iamverybadass vibes so I'm skeptical of the profile but it's a worrying read nonetheless

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Should check out this guy's post history. There are some real gems in there, like this one...

"Earlier today I was visiting Walmart to do some Christmas shopping. A large portion of gifts on our list were in the kids/girls' toy aisles so I was casually browsing as I usually do in girl mode but to be fair I was dressed down a bit (sweatpants, no makeup). At first I saw a dark hulkish figure but I just continued to look at the toys. I felt eyes on me from behind and not long after heard the t-slur very obviously directed at me followed by hateful transphobic ranting about how "I should be away from children and girls" and how "trans women are trying to replace real women". I turn around and the woman who says this is this large, ape like woman whose voice is definitely deeper than my own. She's obviously older than I am and quite unattractive (definitely not popular in dating) which is probably why she's just looking to antagonize other women, but particularly trans women. I guess she felt I was enough of a threat against her."

He then goes on to talk about how a little girl comes up to him to tell him how pretty he is, and what not. Sure bro. Sure.

And this one:

"...how could cis women not want to be cute anime girls?"

And of course, he wants to harm any woman who knows what he really is...

"Hey OP if you need permission to go off, have mine. Just remember that TERF bitches get stitches.

( ๑•◡•)╦̵̵̿╤──"

And apparently he was trying to sneak into the girls locker room back in high school. This guy sounds creepy AND dangerous.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And he can't understand why nobody will hire him: "... due to charges pressed against me". Won't look at what responsibility he has in whatever happened, it's all just transphobia.

I think one of the reasons that so many transwomen (and a lot of transmen) are such narcissists is that a necessary condition to become transgender is the rejection of boundaries, specifically the hard boundary that nature places on us in terms of sex and other physical characteristics. As with everybody, there are ways I'd like to project myself in the world, ways I'd like to be seen, that are denied to me because of physical characteristics. The difference is I accept these constraints and learn how to work with them rather than deny them. Transgenders can't do this. If they can't accept the limits that nature places on us, how could they possibly accept social limits or the boundaries of another person?