Bi people: help me out

dandeliondynasty · 2020-12-30T17:57:06+00:00

Hi, I’m a bi woman and I had lesbian friends while I was still questioning my sexuality. I grew up with gay and lesbian family friends but hearing bisexuals were attention seeking straights so I didn’t have a problem with them, just myself. If she’s homophobic I think the friendship may be over. But if she just has some internalized biphobia you could possibly still be friends while she’s sorting herself out.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-12-12T00:55:41+00:00

Welcome back ladies <3

dandeliondynasty · 2020-12-03T23:02:06+00:00

Not worth it. Internalized biphobia in bi men can be insanely strong. My friend will be at brunch with me after spending the night a man’s place telling me he’s straight.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-24T00:24:16+00:00

“If you can't control your own emotions, you're forced to control other people's behaviour.”

Brilliant.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-23T14:32:58+00:00

Fantastic work, thank you!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-23T14:25:35+00:00

This very confused woman does not know the definitions of bisexual or drag queen. Am perfectly happy for her to not identify as bisexual. The drag queens are probably perplexed that she “identifies” as a drag queen. As logical as any other gender identity I guess.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-22T16:30:43+00:00

Amen! TRAs bullshitting about “attraction to many genders” need to reread the word. BI. SEXUAL. Attraction to both of the two sexes.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-21T15:19:20+00:00

As a bisexual I am also afraid of bisexuals now because the vast majority I know are TRAs. I have >15 bisexual friends & none is gender critical, while at least half of my gay and lesbian friends are. I would assume she is a TRA and may shame you to your mutual friends if you express GC views or even just same sex attraction. The only bisexuals I know who will still be friends with me after knowing my views tend to be over 40 or immigrants who have seen actual homophobia & understand sexual orientation is not something to be shamed for.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-16T03:34:37+00:00

I see a vulnerable adolescent who has trusted the adults in his life to make the right decisions for his well being. There is no amount of money for which I would do this to my child.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-08T17:05:14+00:00

Whoever disseminates the idea that trans women prisoners must be housed with women does not have their best interests in mind. I saw a video of a prison that had a separate wing for transwomen inside the men’s prison and they were very relieved to be with other TW, away from men who might assault them. They would probably advocate a similar setup for other prisons - they weren’t looking for validation but physical safety.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-05T15:51:16+00:00

Perhaps you could video call or talk on the phone first first? Could say you just feel more comfortable that way or cite the pandemic.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-05T15:46:52+00:00

I think it would have made her laugh that she’d triggered them into showing their true colors

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-05T05:09:54+00:00

The Economist has been my favorite magazine for the last 15 years and I am so relieved they have not let us down here. An acquaintance worked there briefly and said they had quite a few young LGB & feminist staff which I’m sure helps.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-11-04T07:27:14+00:00

Thank you for sharing friend! My own story is somewhat related - briefly identified as a trans man then desisted once properly medicated for my mental illness. Was also really let down on arriving at uni to realize the LGBT student group was more interested in proselytizing queer/trans ideology in every corner of campus than supporting young LGB students.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-10-26T05:22:05+00:00

Is this satire? I can’t tell anymore...

dandeliondynasty · 2020-10-24T05:56:44+00:00

Chris Hitchens, rip. Brash, anti-religion, chain smoking polemicist & (rarely for someone of his generation) openly bi, recalling affairs with men in high school and university.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-10-08T18:55:53+00:00

I think bi acceptance (for women at least) has gotten a lot better over the last 10-20 years. Celebrities are out, local politicians are out. When I was younger gay and straight classmates spent Gay-Straight alliance meetings telling bis we were attention seeking liars. I've felt best in explicitly bisexual social groups where I don't have to defend or apologize for my orientation.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-10-08T18:47:38+00:00

With the mental gymnastics performed here, it's not long before this man joins a women's sports league.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-10-08T18:43:18+00:00

Why doesn't she make a sub for "gay male" FTMs where they can talk about how much they love manly vaginas?

dandeliondynasty · 2020-10-08T18:32:46+00:00

Too lazy to make your own representation, gotta rip off someone else's eh?

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-20T04:35:34+00:00

In my experience people who self identify as "queer" tend to be special snowflake bisexuals who think they're better than the rest of us.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-11T04:31:38+00:00

“Astro-TERF” is amazing

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-10T03:27:47+00:00

I love how this one woman, while trying to be supportive, discovers "Oh...you're dating a man? And calling yourself a lesbian? Do you think that might be part of the problem [rather than some TERF Terminator stalking you all over Reddit]?"

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-08T12:20:08+00:00

Oh NPR, informative companion of many a childhood car ride. What happened to you :(

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-08T12:17:23+00:00

Stalin? Mao?

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-07T23:51:24+00:00

Idk what grey ace means either. A “grey ace” I know routinely has group sex (nothing wrong with that but how is that asexual).

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-07T23:48:08+00:00

Probably 10 or 11. Got into my dads stack of Playboys.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-07T15:54:07+00:00

I like the attachment! I like those galleries of vulvas showing is how much variation is normal.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-06T12:51:35+00:00

This question shows how radically off the wall TRAs are. There is so much political polarization & extremism today and this is still the only group I can think of that will definitely interfere en masse with their opponents’ efforts to seek romantic partners among themselves.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-03T15:00:15+00:00

This was amazing, the best portrayal of mental illness I’ve seen in any media. Thanks for sharing!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-09-01T08:08:07+00:00

If they advocate self ID so much, why dont they respect his?

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-27T13:14:22+00:00

This belongs in r/egg_irl, watch how much support this brave biological woman gets

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-25T20:15:06+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Sad that this is the first time I’ve seen Islamic persecution of LGBTs addressed in an LGBT group even though it is one of the biggest global threats to LGBT people.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-25T02:29:39+00:00

Coming soon to a ward near you. That poor woman

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-24T00:55:38+00:00

Wow this feels so familiar...sure reminds me of something...I wonder what it was?

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-23T16:07:48+00:00

You know how the glass ceiling is the discrimination women face that keeps them out of positions of power? “Cotton ceiling” coined by a TiM describes the “victimization” TiMs experience when lesbians don’t want to have sex with them. The cotton I believe is lesbians’ underwear, which these TiMs feel entitled to get inside.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-23T02:30:32+00:00

Two X chromosomes, XX, is run by trannies - this must be a nightmare & we’ll all wake up soon.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-23T02:26:24+00:00

I see where you’re coming from. I know a few gay and bisexual men like this, who wear women’s clothes and whose mannerisms most people would consider effete. In my experience they are not so much fellow activists as another target of TRAs. They don’t stand up against TRAs for women’s rights, but they benefit from the activism of women like us who oppose gender roles & oppose TRA dogma that a man who likes to wear a dress now and then is a trans woman and must surgically alter his body.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-22T13:55:44+00:00

the original posting place is awful though. Buncha creepy men

the lack of self awareness is fantastic

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-22T13:48:31+00:00

In other news, black culture was created by people in blackface.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-22T13:21:47+00:00

As a bisexual I can’t stand self hating bisexuals who identify as homosexuals and then try to ‘cotton ceiling’ shame true homosexuals into sleeping with the wrong sex

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-22T13:13:46+00:00

Of course - it’s a transwoman’s idea of womanhood

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-20T19:09:52+00:00

I absolutely agree with you. The allegation that police saw them being attacked and drove away is awful. My sympathies to any innocent person injured while bystanders and law enforcement do nothing.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-20T18:54:59+00:00

When those “violent TERFs” don’t actually have a single pro violence or harassment post up, so you have to fabricate one to show fellow TRAs

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-20T18:39:18+00:00

Title should be: Delusional idiot lies to doctors, nominated for Darwin Awards

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-19T23:46:47+00:00

You're very brave to speak the truth to such a rabidly aggressive group of people. That avalanche of TRA toxicity would have wrecked my mental health. Thank you for speaking up for us and take care of yourself!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-11T19:14:05+00:00

Yiiiikes. I really hope this person doesn’t regret it later. What country/region are you in if you don’t mind?

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-11T19:12:48+00:00

Protecting TiMs’ feelings > protecting women from real misogyny & harassment

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-11T03:02:25+00:00

Love the comments. “This is a new Sacha Baron Cohen character, right?”

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-11T02:50:34+00:00

Never did I think I would live to see the day where “women have cervixes” was a troubling statement.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-11T02:40:12+00:00

Exactly. I had the weirdest conversation with a lib fem friend where I asked “shouldnt all the women you know, including the assault survivors, feel safe in a bathroom or locker room?” And she just said it was demeaning and invalidating to exclude any self-id trans women do we couldn’t regulate access.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-11T02:30:14+00:00

Will do, thank you!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-11T02:30:02+00:00

Wow, I see the civility doesn’t make itself. Thank you for your hard work!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-09T17:20:49+00:00

I read the title and thought, "Wow, is this guy really calling for people to physically assault transgender people? That's horrible." Nope. Apparently comparing transgenderism to other emotional disorders is hate speech now.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-09T17:15:13+00:00

Imagine surviving the Holocaust and building a successful career despite being deeply traumatized only to have this homicidal attention-whoring leech for a son.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-09T17:08:51+00:00

I laughed my ass off at Chinese Disneyworld. Going to start showing it to friends telling me it's transphobic not to sleep with someone who's had sex change surgery. "You want to go here? Well neither do I."

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-07T16:26:46+00:00

I think your definition is correct. I mostly see “I’m flexible/fluid” from hereto-leaning men who aren’t sure (not much experience with men) of orientation & are afraid of losing their straight female dating pool if they ID as bi.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-07T16:17:11+00:00

And all lesbians are attracted to men self-IDing as women! And all straight men are attracted to ugly men too!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-07T16:03:52+00:00

Outrageous claims with no sourcing? Fine - LGBs shit diamonds, exhale bitcoin, and created earth in 3 days.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-04T16:06:37+00:00

Giving your child unnecessary medical treatment because you want a “special” kid for attention is child abuse.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-04T16:02:17+00:00

Ew this is such a violation, I feel so sorry for these women.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-03T16:42:55+00:00

This lovely individual definitely belongs in women’s spaces where (s)he will surely act in a safe, respectful manner to lesbians.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-08-03T13:08:02+00:00

Bless these brave women! Many of them still in college are going to be targeted by campus TRAs, hope all stay safe.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-31T04:55:14+00:00

“Everyone has the right to define their own identity! Oh except you.”

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-31T04:53:05+00:00

This is disgusting. Went to Wikipedia to see who Cain murdered or assaulted to be treated like this. Could find anything besides “was a co-chairman of Black Voices for Trump” which I guess is a capital offense now.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-31T04:48:25+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you. It has baffled me that conservative friends who see my political positions as sin and infanticide are more willing to hear me out than liberal friends who think I am, at most, guilty of hurting someone’s feelings.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-28T01:10:00+00:00

She sounds heartbroken :( Detrans is such a small community and uniquely challenging experience, I hope someday they can have less policed & targeted spaces.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-27T15:01:44+00:00

Of course, welcome friend!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-27T14:47:06+00:00

Hi friend! Can neither confirm nor deny ^{-^} how do you feel about AAVE rules?

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-26T18:16:19+00:00

Imagine being so obsessed with burning heretics that you erase the achievements of a struggling single mother & abuse survivor who wrote HP at her relative’s bar so she wouldn’t have to pay for drinks.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-26T18:12:03+00:00

Sperg and spegg hahaha

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-26T04:56:00+00:00

That poor child. Imagine being one of his costars, knowing that if you try to save this child before his family does permanent damage to his body, it would end your career.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-26T04:35:18+00:00

You know that group Bikers Against Child Abuse that protects abused children as they testify in court? Maybe we need a similar group to protect women, especially sexual assault survivors, from predators in locker rooms.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-25T16:45:16+00:00

They may not be able to have periods or pregnancy, but happily there are machines that can deliver electric shocks to male genitals to emulate the pain of childbirth. Don't see them lining down the block for that though.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-25T16:40:44+00:00

Any child who's had sex ed understands better than these adult "women" what a menstrual period is. Your HRT-induced hormone swings are not a period.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-21T22:56:22+00:00

It’s beautiful. Preach!

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-21T22:54:15+00:00

Bi woman in NYC! I like the big bi community. Is a tough place to be LGB and GC though. I went on a date with a lesbian a few months ago and she said is very much against having any sexual interaction with a penis but would give a pre op trans woman a chance because “it would be wrong not to.” That TRA shaming/brainwashing is poison.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-21T22:48:42+00:00

No problem with people living their life. If my friend dates someone obese that’s fine as long as they’re not pressuring me to do the same.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-21T22:46:29+00:00

They’re slowly erasing sexual orientations until you’re either TQ or straight xD

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-21T22:35:24+00:00

So sad for this child. If only the mental health & neurodivergent lobby had a fraction of the power of TRAs.

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-17T14:35:53+00:00

They’re not putting up with this BS. God they’re going to get banned aren’t they :(

dandeliondynasty · 2020-07-17T14:20:47+00:00

So many threats of violence and sexual assault against women. Almost as if some of these people were mentally disturbed men...I’ve never seen a ‘TERF’ wish for TRAs to be hurt or killed but we get banned or cancelled for wishing to be left alone.

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