Your partner decides to transition? Now your entire life MUST revolve around their genderfeels...

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-31T21:57:13+00:00

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-31T17:27:57+00:00

The TRA line is repeated -- that intersex people are part of the trans community (TRAs claim so because they use intersex people to support their idea that gender exists on a spectrum.

But, really, has ANYONE who is intersexed actually come forward and claim to be a part of the trans community??

TRAs claim a lot about the intersexed when, actually, their voices are absent.

Typical manipulative technique of the TRAs.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-31T16:53:33+00:00

"Show me a trans man with huge tits and a beard being fucked into oblivion. You can’t."

Because you can't command a penis to erect and most men are, ahem, not up for the job. The penis never lies, haha.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-30T20:18:36+00:00

Good to read. Thanks so much for sharing!

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-30T20:04:25+00:00

Politics is making for very strange bedfellows, indeed. I don't expect her to toe our line but I'm surprised the mag. published the critical trans comments.

Christians who do take her seriously will get correct info on the TRA issue, at least, and we need more allies, even if on this one issue.

Also, as I've seen happen in my 60 years, sometimes such people will soften their views as they get to know us and we educate them out of their prejudice against us.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-30T20:00:57+00:00

So many nerves in genitals never grown, many of the ones remaining lost due to discarded genital tissue.

Women who experience full female castration have very few nerves left, also, and they say they can't orgasm.

Butchering kids and leaving them to be out the remainder of the years with functioning libido but no way to satisfy it.

I worked with a severely disabled man, once, who had no sensation in his groin but all the sexual desires still remained. What torture to have such STRONG desires as sexuality and ZERO ability to satisfy them with an orgasmic release, even if only through solo-sex.

He killed himself. He was in his mid-twenties.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-30T19:49:16+00:00

All well said, and thanks for detailing all that!

I came out in 1980 in Toronto and have seen the exact same things and dynamics.

I think some gay men were traumatized by males in their life when they were children and psychologically aligned with the women, and, even, I have heard some actually say, that they queen it up to he max to make themselves more like their primary role models, women, and to make men in general very uncomfortable (revenge).

Just as there is the concept of "white guilt", I see these men as feeling guilty to their core that they are male, and they adopted women's issues much more than men's. I think they also feel what I will call "privilege guilt", whether real or not, which is easily manipulated by TRAs; further, even that they feel "cis guilt because Ts are so much more oppressed than they", they are told.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-30T19:33:22+00:00

Thank your for chiming in, TarshishJupiter.

I remember being that age and falling for various traps set before me.

It can be uncomfortable to share such personal stories but I'm so glad you did, and we are made stronger by knowing what really happens, even if it isn't pretty in one way or another.

Kudos!

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-30T17:54:08+00:00

Tell him the weekly female hormone injections wear off around Day 4, and withdrawal, every week, worsens depression.

Otherwise, I heard an expression in New Brunswick -- "Empty jars ring the loudest!"

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-30T03:10:08+00:00

Perhaps because it would have been obvious that the trans-identified woman had no 'package' by comparison to those men around her.

Stuffing to make it look like there are male genitals usually doesn't look convincing because it shifts into a lumpiness from walking or motion, and that doesn't look natural.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T19:41:21+00:00

Thanks for the URL to the study.

I sometimes think they do NOT divide groups based on whether they are on hormones or not because the ones not on hormones skew the results toward falsely concluding that fewer transgendered folk are affected (the ones not on hormones will experience much less negative health impacts on their body, endocrinologically).

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T19:38:42+00:00

A seahorse is not a horse; a transman is not a man. A transman, thusly, is not a trans MAN; she is not a man.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T18:10:50+00:00

Agreed, sadly.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T18:08:52+00:00

TRAs say: I am a transman. The word "man" is literally in the term.

Hence: A seahorse is a horse. The word "horse" is literally in the name.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T17:46:46+00:00

Most of us only have these kinds of conversations through written words (too dangerous to speak them, often).

So since we are limited to writing, it's important to not use their word bastardizations -- doing so means we accept their ideology as fact-based.

What a difference a space makes, lol.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T17:42:01+00:00

Because they're too heavy a burden to carry and their burdens to bear are not ours to bear nor are we responsible for them, just as they are not responsible to us (as they demonstrate so brutally clearly).

So let's drop that load.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T17:32:53+00:00

Superb and very detailed post. Thank you so much for your work.

I wrote another post just now regarding your comments vis-a-vis weekly estradiol severe withdrawal.

"And through all of that, I came out the other side after reading much original feminist prose, and my own experiences, that it is amazing to be a woman, a female, who just happens to rock at science, and math, and biochem, and biotech, and sociology — who can change a tire in combat boots or a dress, who can play different instruments, who sings and cares for the elderly, who sucks at making potatoes or anything that is a starch, and most importantly, I found my face during the pandemic. I stopped wearing makeup most days, and I have been more accepting of myself, and compassionate, than I think ever before."

Beautiful! I am so happy that you made it through those treacherous waters and have claimed your life. All the best to you going forward. Your strength is impressive!

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T17:06:17+00:00

Thanks for catching that -- posted the wrong link. Will delete this and repost.

THANKS!!

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T15:48:30+00:00

Several studies have proved this -- that most rich people are unethical -- they routinely make unethical choices, cut corners, to advance their interests at the expense of others.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T15:46:02+00:00

As a lesbian on here commented on a TRA who wrote:

"A transman is a man -- it, LITERALLY, has the word "man" in the term."

Ergo:
A seahorse is a horse -- it, LITERALLY, has the word "horse" in the term.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T15:39:52+00:00

You're probably right, but the long they are on it, the more dissemination of information, and you can't unread anything you've read. :P

Should this group on Twitter be censored/cancelled, that adds another instance to the growing list of media suppression. The longer that list, the more people will question why we are being cancelled.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-29T14:12:02+00:00

The BBC journalist who wrote this article should be FIRED -- it contains numerous factual errors that are repeated even though they have been shown to be false.

This woman has a YouTube video showing footage of her. I muted it and set it to double speed to just read the words. A few quick looks at the video images sufficed. I couldn't watch it intently.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-XdtUfzgoE&feature=youtu.be

She asks for money. She has a GoFundMe page: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-XdtUfzgoE&feature=youtu.be

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T19:30:30+00:00

Identify as such. Demand people pay your way or scream they are violating your identity. Demand all ceilings be raised because regular height ceilings are triggering your tallness identify and making you feel small.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T19:14:02+00:00

Thanks so much for your post and links. :D

We need to put more such arrows in our quiver so we are ready when folks challenge us and have fulsome, factual answers that cannot be merely brushed aside.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T19:10:35+00:00

Which half, lol? Just joking. Sorry for the incorrect assumption! :)

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T19:08:30+00:00

How would you like to IDENTIFY the remaining 30%?

Non-binary? A panda?

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T19:05:08+00:00

My understanding is that this is THE test that is most often used to assess gender dysphoria in children.

If that is true, this kind of assessment needs to be called out as producing wrong results that aid in transing a child or person.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T19:02:11+00:00

I appreciate critical thinking and comments.

I think the author is not a professional writer and may have omitted salient details that would fill in some of the blanks.

After listening to thousands of liars over the decades in court, the style of writing seems individual and not faked.

That said, if not true, I wonder how many similar stories have happened that have gone unreported. Many, I suspect . . .

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T18:59:14+00:00

Hmmm, I wish I could read that thread. Nothing jumps out at me as being not possible, simply improbable but possible.

I can remove the post if it is fiction.

I worked in the legal field for 20 years and I've seen many improbable stories that were real . . .

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T18:56:08+00:00

DEFINITION: queer -- 1. strange; odd.

LGBs are NOT queer or strange or odd. Homosexuality exists in so many species -- common and natural. Trans is a new creation, medically, and does not, cannot, exist in the natural world.

There is nothing queer about me; but lots queer about TQ+.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T18:47:04+00:00

A "faggot" was a bundle of sticks which was used to burn gay men, lesbians, heretics, pagans, "witches" during the beginning and middle of the Inquisition.

When those groups were exhausted financially (paying huge fines got people off -- I guess sin is okay but only if you pay, literally), those who were wealthy were targeted by the Church based on trumped-up or phony charges.

As Quentin Crisp once observed, "A gentleman homosexual is a faggot who has just left the room".

The word IS an unforgivable slur. I'm shocked TRAs think they can rewrite history to advance their interests at the expense of every other group, and nobody will notice, even those who are alive, now, and lived then through it.

The word was a slur and it still is and is used, currently, in that fashion.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T18:36:57+00:00

Another comment in this group nailed it:

A sea horse is a horse -- like, it LITERALLY, says the word horse in the name.

So a trans man is a man; and a sea horse is a horse.

HAHAHA.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T18:18:42+00:00

I think your neologism, "gender blackface", is excellent -- makes the point simply and is easy to remember. I hope it catches on. :D

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T17:54:15+00:00

I asked for your opinion. I never wrote that you asked that I silence him.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T17:41:35+00:00

Good logical breakdown of another aspect of TRA lunacy -- I feel like a woman, therefore, I AM one; I feel like I am a black person, therefore, I AM one.

The same logic, yes.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T17:36:22+00:00

Most excellent post. Thanks for doing that work.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T15:48:21+00:00

We are undermining their legal and societal incursions bit by bit. We will vote in politicians who have a spine and can say what is factual without determining which way the political wind is blowing (especially a problem with career politicians who act more out of self-interest than the public's welfare).

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T15:46:07+00:00

People are starting to wake up, ahem, in a BIG way. Just read the comment section of any article on The Daily Mail (politics makes for strange bedfellows!) about TRA activity. About 99.9% of readers' comments ask the same questions we do and express the same utter dismay.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T14:57:34+00:00

Is there anything in THIS video that you think is bad and that I should remove it?

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T14:49:27+00:00

Click on the headline -- it shows the original post which 'explains' the terms:

biflexibility: being bi but flexible in its identity. most times I identify as bi but other times I’m just ply or gay. variangled: like varioriented but extended to tertiary orientations torensensual: sensual attraction to men and n-bs. trixenplatonic: platonic attraction to n-bs and women aroace: aromantic asexual omnigaybian: omnigay and omnilesbian; one’s attraction to other genders changing with one’s gender so that the individual is always gaybian cendgender: changing between eugenders and their antigenders nixpangi: pandrogyne-aligned agender genderdox: combining multigender and genderless into one, as a paradox epiceneflux: epicene genderflux; personally fluxing levels of gender neutrality/ningender, effeminacy/unmasculinity/nomingender, ambigender/femache/androgyne/liaspec, travestiness/travestigender/fingender, uingender/undifferentiated/apagender, amin/ambigue and gendernonmono/orientationgender panzerogender: paneugender × panantigender infinitrois: gender infinitivity

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T02:16:46+00:00

We can; we will; we have more and more allies. The straights are coming on board and they will put up with this BS.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-28T01:45:37+00:00

Well, I was born in 1960 and came out in 1980 so I remember those words being hurled around so hatefully when I was a child.

And it's not queer history; it's lesbian and gay history. Queer history only started in the 1990s.

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-27T23:08:25+00:00

Good point. I made mention of it, here, to raise awareness of it . . .

Does anyone know more about this effort? Is it a bona fide group?

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-27T23:07:17+00:00

What's "OP"? I'm rather new, here.

Not an American so I'm so glad I unearthed something timely that can be shared and needs to be acted upon, now. Thanks for doing THAT. :D

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-27T23:03:11+00:00

Dear beautiful lesbian,

You're right -- children pick up on what the parents want and will do almost anything to get attention/love from their only source of it.

I'M glad you're here. :)

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-27T22:59:44+00:00

Hmmm... Thanks for clarifying.

Perhaps you could write a post about it with references as a definitive go-to for us on this issue. :)

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-27T21:33:07+00:00

It's real. :0

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-27T20:40:37+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/YtBkFYM

GayNotQueer · 2020-08-27T19:28:12+00:00

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1QNvb06rGfj7FF9yGySfkjvSMUdpcK9i2cqjz285-38I/viewform?edit_requested=true

GayNotQueer