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[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 37 insightful - 12 fun37 insightful - 11 fun38 insightful - 12 fun -  (4 children)

Objection, Your Honor! Trans women can't be lesbians!

[–]davids877Straight Male Man 26 insightful - 15 fun26 insightful - 14 fun27 insightful - 15 fun -  (3 children)

Really? You're telling me men can't be lesbians? Next thing you know you'll be telling me I can't be an attack helicopter.

[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 10 insightful - 9 fun10 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

You can't be an attack helicopter!

[–]davids877Straight Male Man 16 insightful - 14 fun16 insightful - 13 fun17 insightful - 14 fun -  (1 child)

Triggered. Reported.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 14 insightful - 11 fun14 insightful - 10 fun15 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Triggered

So you are shooting rockets with trigger?

Reported

Is there report-gender, by the way? I think most TRA on reddit are report-gender.

[–]greenergardens 33 insightful - 11 fun33 insightful - 10 fun34 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I remember lurking on actualesbians about 3 years ago, and one of the users on there described themself as a "trans tomboy lesbian" and I was just so baffled... that kinda seems like straight with extra steps, you know.

[–]artetolife 33 insightful - 6 fun33 insightful - 5 fun34 insightful - 6 fun -  (9 children)

A convienient label for all the men who want to sleep with lesbians without the hassle of having to present as anything like a woman. Most of the ones I've seen still wear flowery dresses and whatnot though.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (7 children)

So they are calling themselves butch lesbians and wearing flowery dresses most of the time?

[–]artetolife 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Yes. I guess it's possible but I've never met a real butch lesbian that enjoyed wearing dresses. It's usually the only thing that signals what they're trying to do though, so I guess that's why.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I saw few butch lesbians wearing dresses for special cases, but it was super rare. While majority of transbutchlesbians are wearing them all the time, to show "I am woman". While real butch lesbians are women, and need nothing to prove.

[–]artetolife 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Most of the "cishet" women I know rarely wear skirts or dresses either, and looking at the transwomen who somewhat pass, neither do they. It's the laziest way of trying to signal "woman".

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

More like it is just a kink, sexualized crossdressing, as they have no intention of transitioning.

[–]lmaonope333 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I'm butch have one dress and I wear it when I'm out of clean pants

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I consider myself soft butch and the only two dresses i own are an overall dress and a polo tee dress

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It sounds obvious when you put it like that but it actually makes me really angry, thinking about it more. I'm imagining some of the cis lesbians in these relationships realizing later with dismay that they were pressured into accepting dick, and just how manipulating the whole thing was.

The fallout from this is going to be terrible. I know a lot of people joke about it on here, because it is funny to see the mental gymnastics and the irony of it all, but like. There is going to be so much damage to clean up from of this messed-up ideology.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 26 insightful - 6 fun26 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Trans butch lesbian is normal straight man, who thinks he is non-binary gender or woman-gender, but not even trying to look like a woman.

[–]rosegoldstar 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

A completely straight, gender-role conforming male that desperately wants to have sex with lesbians.

[–]fijupanda 15 insightful - 8 fun15 insightful - 7 fun16 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

And I am the Pope from now on. I declare all Vatican money to belong to the people. That should clear the domestic debt at the least. All the nuns get to be priests from now on. All the priests get to clean, cook, and serve beer and pretzels to the public to really get what Jesus was about. Also, I expect some water into wine turning or somebody will get fiiiiiiired.

Also get Jesus off of the cross. i think that might trigger him upon his return. And we celebrate Halloween from now on because candy is delicious and I said so. But but women can't be Popes....Shut it, language gatekeeper. If I feel like a Pope, I am a Pope. People can sense the ooze of masculine authority as my body ascends to a place among my fellow patriarchal brothers. Also, getting rid of the Pope-mobile cause you either have faith or you're just bullshitting it.

Signed, Trans Taoist Catholic Femme Pope

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve never met a transbian that dates other transbians but I sure do know a handmaideny bi woman who has a toxic male partner that claims to be transbian.

[–]redditsuksVagina fetishist 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not all women are lesbians but all lesbians are women.

That's right, biogical ones.

[–]Beryl_Parley 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A gender-conforming heterosexual man.