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Books with lesbian protagonists worth reading? by plenty_water in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have a few, mostly online stuff.

Backward from Oregon Surface of the Deep (fiction press) Sky Woman (fiction press) Celestial Reign: Tears of the Sun (fiction press)

It's hard to find good ones.

Books with lesbian protagonists worth reading? by plenty_water in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think you were at fault. I think it was also die to the inactivity of the club/subreddit. I know I was guilty of that, myself. I appreciated you for doing what you did! You got me to read Backwards from Oregon thanks to the club, and I've reread it twice since haha

Whether you like Blaire or not, she made a good point: "Why would the community of love and acceptance and that believes in not shaming people for their sexuality be sending death threats [to the tiktok originator of superstraight]?"

by greenergardens to /s/LGBDropTheT from youtu.be

I'm just so angry and I feel so alone. by SickOfThisShit in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That'd be my problem too, I have periods of activity and inactivity so I don't even try to join haha...

Lesbians scissoring is transmisogynistic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 8 fun5 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Weak defense. No "lol" here, as it isn't funny. Perhaps it's just best to keep your opinions to yourself if you're going to act like a 300lb woman is scaring you.

Lesbians scissoring is transmisogynistic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 8 fun5 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"I may be, but never in person" by adding the never in person you were acknowledging you ARE shaming.

I did not ask you to pretend it's cool, only to refrain from shaming. Don't care where you're from, it's never appropriate to shame someone for their appearance, weight or otherwise.

Lesbians scissoring is transmisogynistic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 8 fun5 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Quite frankly, get out of here with that body shaming. You're as bad as the men on reddit.

Did AyL just go private? by Srime in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Speaking of Ovarit, can a girl get a code?

Would you date a transman? by Srime in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, because of various reasons echoed by many here. I may like soft butch women, but I like women who are proudly women, with no doubt about that fact.

Anyone watch “I Care A Lot” yet? What did you think? (Spoilers) by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Late reply, but I didn't care for it! I only watched it for Peter Dinklage, haha. I felt like their "chemistry" was quite forced.

Is she actually a lesbian? by Creamsoda in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm going to offer a point I didn't see mentioned anywhere: lesbian sex isn't just oral. Is she not willing to pleasure you in other ways, either? Manual stimulation of clit and fingering, toys, etc. Do you all only do oral? Oral isn't for everybody. Now, if she won't even try these other methods, then I'd say she is a PP and you're just not compatible that way. It's ok to be really good friends and not necessarily good partners.

Regarding the not very passionate kissing, my ex was the same. It was something lacking for me, her not being into it because of her personal reasons (same as oral, germaphobe).

I'm totally not trying to diffuse the catfight that's brewing, but here's a sexuality quiz (that was clearly made for straight people) to distract you all 🥴 by ShotsFired in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know this quiz is a joke and you shared it for fun, but I just want to recommend to everyone idrlabs.com! They have really nice quizzes of all sorts, including gay ones!

Lurkers, I see you 👀 by TalerTest in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hear, hear.

May I ask the origin of your username? If it has one!

Dating apps can work maybe by HelloMomo in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exact same.

There is NO reasonable excuse for you not to fuck me by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"日本語もOK"

As a weeb myself I find this cringe worthy when attached to the rest.

What do you miss most about r/TrueLesbians? by piylot in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Remember her user at all? Maybe you can still find her! I'm rooting for you haha

Now it's transphobic to reject mtfs with neovaginas by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Alas, it's been happening since at least 2018...

Any other Crocheters, Knitters, or Yarnivores? by NotPedanticIPromise in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Loom knitting is super easy, I recommend it! Hats and scarves are the easiest to make.

Any other Crocheters, Knitters, or Yarnivores? by NotPedanticIPromise in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I loom knit about once a year haha, this year I am trying to knit some hats for the needy in my community, for Christmas.

I fucking hate non binary as a designation for masculine lesbians. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Super late, but hello haha. I'm in my late 20s. Nice to see some hope out there!

I fucking hate non binary as a designation for masculine lesbians. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I forget about saidit months at a time (since no notifs) but hello, haha! You give me hope 💜

Rewriting history - Reddit comic 1) claims "terfs" stole the labrys flag, 2) perpetuates "lesbian = fun counterculture" falsehood; bonus: 3) advocates for violence by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Haven't you heard? Anyone who disagrees with a leftist opinion is labeled a Nazi.

Ellen Page comes out as a trans man named Elliot by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I fear for Brianna Hildebrand.

I fucking hate non binary as a designation for masculine lesbians. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As much as it is kind of nice to be gay at this time, marriage etc, it's equally shitty because of this sort of thing.

I just want a soft butch girlfriend who can pull off some masculinity but is still a woman and proud of it. Is it so much to ask? 😩

What is a trans butch lesbian? by dandeliondynasty in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 33 insightful - 11 fun33 insightful - 10 fun34 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I remember lurking on actualesbians about 3 years ago, and one of the users on there described themself as a "trans tomboy lesbian" and I was just so baffled... that kinda seems like straight with extra steps, you know.

If you want to help fellow Truelesbians keep reading by Anniesworld in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Perhaps we need to claim the TrueLesbians saidit sub and redirect it here?

Has anyone here played the Choices app? by xv_xx in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm embarrassed to admit how much money I spent on it 6 months ago.

I know the Kyle one you're talking about, I didnt play it but for the free diamonds from the first free chapter. In my opinion, The Royal Wedding was my favorite, as well as Platinum, but I have played through over half of them, so I could suggest more. Always gay af, haha. I like how most of them have the same sex choices, and if they dont then I just don't play it.

Let's Reintroduce Ourselves by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm totally open to one! Maybe talking about it could motivate, haha. I'll DM you! 😊

Fellow lesbians, describe your religious backgrounds and beliefs by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Raised a combination of casual Christian then mormon. Currently atheist.

Let's Reintroduce Ourselves by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same username, I used to be very active on TL but in the past year I took a step back. For me, it seemed I didnt get as upset when I wasnt actively in th mess, so I would occasionally check up on you all but that's mainly it. Of course, as soon as I heard about the ban I joined up here... shit's ridiculous.

I'm late twenties, soft-femme and single. My interests would be Japan (never outgrew the weeb days), reading and writing, singing, and I'd like to take up painting. Cat person. Not much of an outdoorsman due to my fear of bugs and hatred of the heat, but I'd like to get in better shape and live more healthily than I do. I need to get myself motivated and work on my novel idea haha.

Greetings!

And is it just me, or do we need to have a matchmaking thing going on, with everybody mentioning they're single? 🤔😂

"Imagine if the public knew about TERFs, so many people would take their side." by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

[–]greenergardens 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is what I'm going to start describing myself as well, I think. The left has gone too far.

What's going on? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]greenergardens 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sad that this happened, sad that differing opinions are no longer allowed in this world. Just another example of cancel culture.

Honestly? I've always considered myself liberal left, but now I'm leaning more centrist, because of everything the left is doing these days.