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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

So the lesson is: don't be a trans ally. It will never be enough and you are only enabling the behaviors.

[–]julesburm1891 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This sums up why I stopped supporting trans people in one image. It doesn’t matter how nice you are. It doesn’t matter how much you ignore the elephant in the room. It doesn’t matter how much you deny reality. It will never satisfy these people. They’ll keep moving the goal posts and smearing your reputation until you’re debasing yourself with sex you don’t want. And, frankly, I’ve too much self-respect for that.

[–][deleted] 23 insightful - 11 fun23 insightful - 10 fun24 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Sir, it has absolutely fuck all to do with transphobia and everything to do with the fact that you are a man.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I kind of don't care about being called a "transphobe" anymore, I'm just gonna own it. Yep I'm transphobic, even if I were actually bisexual I'd never consider a TW as a potential partner. No one has to be ok with dating someone who intends to be a lifelong medical patient and make themselves into an uncanny valley mix of traits from both sexes. And no one sure as hell has to be ok with dating a whiny narcissist who only cares about anyone else's wants or needs but their own.

[–]Rosefield 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lol who wants to be a trans ally? That just means trans slave. Do and say whatever your trans overlords want, have no own opinions, never ever criticize them, forget about your sexual orientation & boundaries, forget common sense.

[–]Virginia_Plain 13 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 6 fun14 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

This really is like one of those vampire myths, where the vampire can only wreak havoc if you invite him in to your house. His pleading, his arguments, his threats, his bribes; all pale in comparison to the consequences of saying yes and letting him in.

Say the lesbians don't ever unpack their "prejudiced" sexual inclinations. They keep running to that sweet, sweet organic fair trade vag, despite Count Sapphula's protestations. What do they lose? They keep getting what they've always gone for.

If they relent and let him in, well...they have already begun to condition themselves to putting his needs first, so it's not like things are going to be all peace and harmony the moment any one of them puts her foot down on something else.

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Count Sapphula's

😂

[–]chandra 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine a group of aliens landed on Earth out of nowhere and announced "Attention, lesbians! We transspecies women are just as much lesbians as you are, we have always been a part of the community, and the only reason you don't want to have sex with us is because you've been actively brainwashed against us your entire lives by cis-human-normative society."

That is how I perceive these arguments of 'transphobia' in dating.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Give these people one hand, and they will bite off both of your arms.

[–]MyLongestJourney 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is not the trans part sir, it is the male part sir. I am not having sex with you,because you are male and I am not attracted to males you entitled,rapey man.

[–]MBMayfair 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

He's awfully young to have to draw on his eyebrows already.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

people refuse to date other people for a lot of different reasons, and it isn't about biases, and even if that was the case... guess what ? mind your own business, move on and date someone that is attracted to you ? they really think "lgb" is a dating club and once you've entered it you have full access to the people of the sexuality of your choice.