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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I get to define what you are, but you don't get to define what I am.

Red flag: run away while you still can!

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 20 insightful - 6 fun20 insightful - 5 fun21 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I can’t wait for identity politics to be over and the next generation to come up and start sneering at the pink/blue/green haired non binary pansexual demisexual aromantic snowflakes.

[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What you want to be is your choice.

No, no it isn't. You don't get to choose your sexual orientation and neither does your partner.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously, like... yes, he's gay because he's a man that is exclusively attracted to other men, and he's in a gay relationship because he's in a relationship with another man. But he's not gay because "what [he wants] to be is [his] choice;" that kind of language just says, "Just because you are married to a man while being a man doesn't mean you can't call yourself straight if that's what you think you are."

Words mean things, my God!

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly what I came here to quote and it's still shocking to see parroted by idiots on a purported forum for gay men and receiving upvotes. That is death by gender identity for the gay rights movement. As usual, they have it all ass-backwards.

[–]GayPartisan 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pansexual is when people want some stuff and nonsense so they aren't just horny Gays like the rest of us, or they are some type of super being above lust. There original slogan gave away the game, which was, "Hearts Not Parts."