"I came out as a lesbian, he came out as a trans woman, and now we’re hella queer together" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I was reading some of the replies and found this:

I've never perceived myself as male; others just didn't value my perception of myself until I was old enough to force them to.

"Force them to." What the fuck.

What queer means to the people who call themselves queer. They are not like LGB who just wanna live their lives. by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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I'm so glad I'm "just" a lesbian.

Merry Christmas from Dennis the gay menace by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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I'll take it, makes me sound a lot cooler and rebellious than I really am.

r/phallo - Phalloplasty nightmares r/egg irl still trans though by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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Morbid curiosity sent me down a rabbit hole on that sub.... weirdest thing to me is honestly how much they say dude, bro, or man compared to other unrelated subs.

It's like there's an evil choir chanting in the background "Validate! Validate! Validate! Validate! Validate!"

Their deranged obsession with being lesbians by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I think the concept of identifying into a group to make yourself seem less mainstream/majority or to make others perceive you as "less boring" is definitely a thing.

I've watched this slowly over the years with one of friends who I've distanced myself from because of her bullshit antics. She's a straight, middle class, white girl. She's just average and that's ok. But years ago she started doing drag (performing as a drag king), goes to pride in rainbow outfits, has rainbow tattoos, talks about being "technically bi," and even came out as a lesbian for a month until conceding that she was just a confused demisexual bisexual. Used to call herself greysexual. She spends a lot of time online.

Never dated a woman. Never touched a woman. Never talks about women. Never shows desire for women. Talks about dick. Talks about men. Asked random men on Facebook to be her baby daddy. Only dates men. Mostly she just posts bisexual related memes on Facebook and collects LGBT friends to seemingly give her clout.

MALE LESBIANS ARE VALID!!! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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The only person who can dictate your identity is yourself.

And yet they all act like Tinkerbell, fading away from existence if we don't enthusiastically validate them.

Help, our sex life is an existential nightmare of identity politics by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Some dude's advice to two sexually inexperienced women is that they should do anal because he loves getting his ass eaten.

Truly amazing.

"You're only Gender Critical because you're jealous" by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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I see that accusation online but that's about it. I assume it's because people buy into the idea that women are only as valuable as how attractive they are to men. So of course a man pretending to be a woman will bring up how fuckable or desirable he is compared to "real" women he deems undesirable.

Of all the things in the world I am jealous or envious of, a man in a dress isn't one of them.

Please help me debunk this TRA article that claims there are no universal differences between male and female gametes, therefore "sperm and egg, male and female, are socially constructed, illusory categories" by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Words are made up by humans too so maybe we should stop talking altogether.

Thank you for validating my big-dick lesbian energy uwu uwu uwu by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Genitals are just really weird when you think about them, which is why I try not to

Like vaginas are a little gross all the time if you think about it

I think I'm the weirdo on this one but I'm not a huge fan of genitals either way

I refuse to believe any of these people are over 18 or have had a healthy sexual relationship.

"Trans woman" on egg_irl claims he practices "moaning like a woman" because it gives him "euphoria" by xxo1111 in GenderCritical

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Trust me... you are somebody reason to masturbate.

One woman's chills of discomfort is another man's pleasure.

Fully intact male impersonating a girl does not mind invading a women's changing room for PE. He admits he might get an erection while he is surrounded by girls. by linda_senora in GenderCritical

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I wonder why he "definitely" doesn't want his own locker room.

When I was in middle and high school I was so insecure and embarrassed about my body I would have loved to change in my own private space.

GC: If every cell in the body can become a sperm or egg in laboratory, does that mean everyone is already both male and female? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

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There's a company that uses the ashes of deceased loved ones to make diamonds set into jewelry.

Does that mean everyone is just a diamond?

Stolen from s/bisexuals- IKEA's ugly couch contest 🏳️‍🌈 by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

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Genderfluid couch, also known as a topography map.

I love the tweet that says these couches make them feel seen and loved. It's a fucking couch.

GC: Scientists say sex is a spectrum, even an illusory man-made social construct by Fastandthecurious in GCdebatesQT

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A man in a dress isn't a bee.

Thoughts on Luca (movie)? by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Haven't seen it yet but since I'm Italian I'm obligated to at some point.

Drop the T from Within the T (more info in comments) by gretagarbo in LGBDropTheT

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So you created this to trick them and deligitimize ourselves in the process? Fucking lame.

The Six Million Dollar Nebularomantic DemiMan by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Nebularomantic relationships should be between one astronomer and one universe.

Listen up by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Always with the Karen thing, as if people who aren't white don't know what women are.

June seems to be the month when straight people identify as queer by MiaXiang in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah it's the month for my "bi" "friend" to post about how bi people in hetero seeming relationships are valid.

Please, tell me more about the one time you kissed a girl while drunk.

New letters incoming! by grixit in GenderCritical

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Questioning should still work. "I question if this is red or green..."

Something I noticed just now by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Kehlani came out as a lesbian last month

Even I didn't realize this and I follow her on ig. I've been noticing all the gay posts she's been doing but figured it was just her being her usual self.

Kehlani I love you. 🥺

Good cities in the US for middle aged lesbians? by ishutmyeyestosee in Lesbians

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Albuquerque. We're a liberal town, but we're not much of a "queer" liberal town.

A bi man and a bi woman in a relationship are more gay than a gay relationship. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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Yup - gay is a funky costume for her.

She's currently interested in performing as a drag queen instead of king. Her friends are all hyping her up because "the point of being LGBTQ+ is the freedom to be who you want."


Not who you innately are.


A bi man and a bi woman in a relationship are more gay than a gay relationship. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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It's all just stereotypes, of course. Maybe they like theater, Lady Gaga, and going to pride together.

I have a "not like other girls" "queer" friend who is just a straight woman who says she's bi on Facebook, goes to pride, and did drag twice. She only dates and desires men, has rainbow tattoos, blue mohawk, etc. If someone saw the two of us they'd say she was the lesbian and not me.

How do "Transwomen" have Male Privilege? by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

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The same way all men do because they are men.

r/ftm: "I got called the f slur", "that makes me so happy", "congrats on getting the f slur pass lol" by motss-pb in LGBDropTheT

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I'm mtf and I remember how thrilled I was to be cat called ... I told a beautiful lady friend of mine about it ... And she lunched into what they had said to her ... I was like oh shit they were just as gross to her as they were to me?? YES!

He could at least pretend to be disgusted the way women are when being sexually harassed.

How do we feel about reclaiming slurs? by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

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I don't think any slur can ever truly be reclaimed. For an individual it could, sure, maybe that person loves that word or is comfortable using it.

But if another person can still use that slur to degrade or dehumanize people, it's always going to be just that - a slur, not an identity.

Stop viewing bisexuals and sane human beings and start seeing them as deranged preteen gendernutters instead by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This idea is a thing already and they say then that bisexuality is transphobic because it invalidates trans people by not including them.

The flip side of the coin also happens, where pansexuality is considered transphobic because it suggests trans people are "not really the gender they identify as," meaning bisexual should be good enough of a descriptor.

They are never happy. Never.

Remember TRAs are not our allies they actively deny our sexual agency and actively dictate who we must fuck/date by UselessThought in LGBDropTheT

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When they believe they've achieved the highest level of woke, they can say whatever they want and believe it the most enlightened words ever spoken.

  • Not dating a trans person is like not dating a black person.

  • The sex binary is white colonialism.

  • TERFs are white feminism.

"It’s important to remember the feminine penis is very different than a man’s penis. A lot of the cis lesbians I’ve been with have been pleasantly surprised by the softness, texture, and yes the mouthfeel." by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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I wonder if feminine penises get pink bubblegum cigars when they're born instead of blue.

"Why are these men so repulsed when I send them pictures of my mangina? Could it be because they are gay? No! It must be the transphobia!" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Everything is a fetish to them.

I'm eating pineapple right now. MUST BE A FETISH.

You drive a car....every day? FETISH.

You desire sex with people you're attracted to and not with people you're not attracted to? FETISHIZING FREAK.

It's almost as though it's a serious mental illness by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Is it perhaps that people see a removal of their genitalia as throwing away sexuality

Anyone who believes that is vanilla as fuck

Fucking prude cishet colonists, using their sex organs to have sex.

Lesbian fetishization on egg_irl by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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Ugh, gross...

How can anyone look at those images and think "Yup, that's lesbian sex!"

Lesbian fetishization on egg_irl by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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although I masturbated more like a girl rubbing her clit than like a guy jerking off

Haha whaaaatttt??? The images my mind created are just too hilarious.

r/AHS: "No one is saying that you have to be attracted to trans people!" - Also r/AHS mod at the exact same time: "Excluding trans people from your dating pool is transphobic, no ifs or buts." by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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They know they can't physically force people (as they loOoOove to say, "no one is putting a gun to your head"), but they CAN force people to verbally comply with their desires.

Making people include them hypothetically is enough because it's still a successful manipulation to get what they want.

r/AHS: "No one is saying that you have to be attracted to trans people!" - Also r/AHS mod at the exact same time: "Excluding trans people from your dating pool is transphobic, no ifs or buts." by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Thankfully not single either, I ended up with a TERF girlfriend without looking for one on purpose so we're just living our evil bigot TERF lives together.

Also laughing at them saying we're just single and lonely and jealous.

r/AHS: "No one is saying that you have to be attracted to trans people!" - Also r/AHS mod at the exact same time: "Excluding trans people from your dating pool is transphobic, no ifs or buts." by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Superstraight is a sexuality built on exclusion

But like.......isn't that ultimately how all sexualities work.

After what felt endless arguments with TRA's on Twitter and Reddit over the SuperStraight label, I have noticed a few things.... by Midcentury in LGBDropTheT

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After a while all I could think of was "Why am I talking to these children, and why on earth are they allowed to set the tone of these discussions?"

Yes. I have always felt and wondered the same thing and it drives me fucking insane to think some angsty pre teen is the one calling me a transphobic nazi TERF.

I interacted a bit on the super straight subreddit while it was up and a TRA said relationships should be based on romantic attraction, not sexual. After I asked why they said I should be put in horny jail.

It just pains me too much to believe that could be an adult.

r/SuperStraight banned :-( by IridescentAnaconda in LGBDropTheT

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I saw a lot of that too, and it was reassuring that we aren't the fringe radicals TRAs make us out to be.

But I also saw a lot of bandwagoners that wanted to hate trans people just for the fact they exist and don't really care what is happening to the LGB community and women, they just wanted an excuse to shit on a group openly.

r/SuperStraight banned :-( by IridescentAnaconda in LGBDropTheT

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I hope it leads to more than just straight people making a joke of the LGB community like how I saw in some of the posts.

r/SuperStraight is an insanely FUNNY Reddit sub - check it out before the trans children get it taken down! by BEB in GenderCritical

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The negative comments are telling and I hope "normal" people are having their eyes opened to what's happening in the community lately.

A conversation I just had:

Me: "That is a very long winded way of saying lesbians who don't view men as women are detriments to society."

TRA who describes herself as a cis lesbian: "I wouldn’t call them complete detriments entirely, I still believe they can do some things and still deserve some things, but I most certainly looking down upon them. I find them disgraceful and somebody I cannot respect."

Mind boggling.

Transgender activist jailed for killing her boyfriend and trying to rape shop assistant five days after being released from prison is invited to speak at UK HOUSE OF LORDS by BEB in GenderCritical

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I can't believe a violent offender is being allowed to speak for ANYthing, regardless if it's a speech on prisoner treatment or not. Murder can in rare occasions be "excused" (self defense, temp. insanity, accident), rape can never be.

He attempted to rape a woman so he could go back to jail and have his surgery covered by the government. If that isn't a euphemism for what trans "women" are doing to women in society today, dunno what is.

What do you think are the issues with the words "boy pussy", "shitoris", "mangina", "girl dick", etc? by Tea_Or_Coffee in LGBDropTheT

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Are there inherent issues? No.

When they're used to convince people to bend their sexuality for another's pleasure or that "______ is exactly like a woman/man's _______!” then it becomes part of a homophobic, manipulative, sexually abusive mindset.

A penis isn't female. A penis isn't a clitoris. A vagina isn't male. An anus on the sex you are not attracted to isn't something you have to settle for.

Would you date a transman? by Srime in Lesbians

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Hard no. I wouldn't date a woman who thought she was a man, or one who called herself queer, nonbinary, gender fluid, gender queer, or whatever else they're making up these days.

Those are all part of a personality I'm not into.

I'm into butch women but not when they think their button downs make them a man.

Doesn't "gender confirmation surgery" imply having a vagina confirms you're a woman? by odius in GenderCritical

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In the same vein, I always wonder about if "woman" and "man" are defined as "someone who identifies as a woman/man," how do trans people know what physical characteristics to mimic?

r/actuallesbians - Transbians: "I love playing with my titties", actual women: "I want to cut my breasts off" by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Boobs just hit different for those who had to earn them.

These people fucking disgust me.

I want anti-gay hate speech to be a capital crime and I'm not the least bit sorry by hetisachoice in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah I'm not into government sanctioned murder for people who only said things.

AL: Question: What is the correct label for a female only attracted to other females regardless of gender? Answer: Bisexuality. by winterwillow in LGBDropTheT

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It's amazing to me that they don't see how homophobic they are by requiring homosexuals to be attracted to the opposite sex as the only "valid" way to be gay/lesbian.

In 2021, what are your honest thoughts and feelings when you see a woman with hair dyed an unnatural color? by AndiOop in Lesbians

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I dunno, I don't typically think much. It would have to be a set of specific appearance choices until I start thinking anything in particular. Adults with dyed hair, tattoos, and/or piercings are so, so common where I live.

It would have to be like, blue hair + pixie cut + kiddie back pack + skinny jeans with combat boots. Once she starts looking like she dresses as if she's still a junior in high school, that's when I question things.

Racist conspiracies abound! Newly created LGB Alliance India is fake because their English is too good. by MarkJefferson in LGBDropTheT

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They always seem to think that non-white culture consists only of being poor and uneducated.

Where have all the lesbians gone? by haveanicedaytoo in LGBDropTheT

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Where have all the lesbians gone? by haveanicedaytoo in LGBDropTheT

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There’s currently an argument on Twitter saying lesbians can be sexually attracted to men by [deleted] in Lesbians

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see where that gets them

Where will it get me, please I'm begging you to tell me. Are you gonna type at me in all caps? Call me a TERF? Say I'm gatekeeping or invalidating "lesbians" who enjoy sucking dick?

Like I need a 14 year old rebel to tell me what a lesbian is.

GC: What do "-sexual" and "-sexuality" mean? If sex is about reproduction, why are "homosexuality" and "same sex" not contradictions in terms? by ImageNotUploaded in GCdebatesQT

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A beings sex is a descriptor of their reproductive state, sure, but that doesn't reflect how they physically use their reproductive organs. I think you're missing that point in your question here. Two male or female sex beings are still male or female regardless of their sexual activity.

GC: What do "-sexual" and "-sexuality" mean? If sex is about reproduction, why are "homosexuality" and "same sex" not contradictions in terms? by ImageNotUploaded in GCdebatesQT

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"Sex" is not defined as "opposite" and that's where your argument fails from the very start.

Where have all the lesbians gone? by haveanicedaytoo in LGBDropTheT

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I don't have a real answer but maybe they all ended up in my city.

There are a lot of lesbians here and a lot of bi women here. I dunno what it is. You can go weeks without seeing a gay male couple but see several female couples in one day alone.

That I know of, there are six of us in my and two connected departments at my work.

editing to add that none of these women are ever the blue haired queer kids you see online, I rarely see those kids at all here

Does the gaslighting ever end? by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Most TERFs are actually straight, white women.

Keep telling yourself that as if it gives your argument more clout.

What is it with educated women comparing "transphobia'" to "white supremacy"? by BEB in GenderCritical

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The most evil state of being to these people is cis/het/white, they believe the white man colonized the world with ~the binary~, so naturally anyone who disagrees with them is a white supremacist. Plus the woke white people who say this have to get their woke points somewhere when there isn't a BLM march for them to co-opt with trans posters.

It would shatter their egos if they came to terms with the fact non-white people actually DID and still DO know what male and female are without white people having to educate them, disregarding how the majority of trans are middle class straight white men. 🤭

Is this for real? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Yes, I guess I meant people love the idea of lesbians and gay men choosing hetero relationships, fascillitated by bi people who call themselves lesbian or gay and the trans movement that hands out the queer badge to everyone.

I think I put the quotes on the wrong word in my post, haha.

My friend who I mention on here regularly is that girl. She says she is "technically bi" and uses Facebook to air out her supposed attraction to women but only talks about men, only dates men, got married to a man, had a child with a man, etc.

Is this for real? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I wish it didn't piss me off or disgust me to see how much people love when lesbians and gay men "choose" hetero relationships but here I am, pissed and disgusted.

How kids today have taught themselves new wave homophobia and call it woke is fucking insanity to me. Bonkers.

Fill in the blanks: Gay men are jealous of transwomen because... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Isn't that what we see them say?

"Only ______ are real _______ because they had to work for it."

And TRA's wonder why some people are against srs 🤮🤮🤮 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I would say you're an asshole but I mean, if you were my friend and said the same thing you just posted, I would laugh with you.

They are almost getting it by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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Yes, making friends. I don't know how I will ever make friends who aren't straight. Like people mentioned in the reddit thread, it's easier to find similarities and friendship with straight people than those in the community anymore.

“What a waste” by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I haven't gotten that one before but I hear about it a lot. If I did though....bro I am a GIFT that no man could dream of being good enough for.

They are almost getting it by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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I’ve literally never seen any of this terf vs queer drama IRL. It’s entirely online...

Someone said this and I always wonder where people are able to totally avoid the queer bullshit in real life. I'm not a very social person, I'm not in any way active in the LGBT community, yet I and my girlfriend have been exposed to the "fuck TERFs" and "cis lesbians are shit" and "hearts not parts" rhetoric from people we know. We drive down town and what was supposed to be murals for the black community has way too many trans ones to ignore. We don't go to anything LGB related because we learned quickly it's overrun by trans and every combination of straight queer you can imagine.

It's of course not an every day occurrence but it's there.

Straight man to lesbians: "Gay activists hate you! You're all a bunch of literal nazis!" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I'm not Tinkerbell, I'm still a lesbian even if you don't believe in me.

Men 🤷‍♀️

Hulking former WWE wrestler "comes out as a woman." He's married & a father of course, and used to love to secretly wear his mom's clothes. YAWN. by BEB in GenderCritical

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What??? Isn't the "I'm a woman now." the problem?

Biden's White House admits in writing that their stance is that "transgender women" are not biological males by BEB in GenderCritical

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If they can say they won't allow biological males into womens' sports, how do they define "biological male?" How would that definition both include biology and exclude trans women?

What words/phrases are you sick of hearing, and/or can't take seriously anymore? by OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN in LGBDropTheT

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Valid, gatekeeping, inclusive, intersectional, queer. It's rare to see them used in any sort of meaningful way anymore.

Queer is on its own special platform I think. I'm SO FUCKING TIRED of it being used as a personality trait for straight people who feel like they're boring and passé and can't be bothered to pick up an unusual hobby instead. I'm so tired of seeing straight people say it to describe the gay community like it never meant anything else. Like it was never said while beating a gay man to death. But whatever.

F*ck you for your sexual orientation! 🤡 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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his heads gonna explode when he learns about xenogenders and neopronouns 😭

(i say this as a catgender person)

"Some days I lick my asshole for 10 minutes, other days I crouch on the living room rug and hork a few times till I vomit a hairball. Both actions really validate me as catgender."

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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"Unfortunately" I'm not a single issue voter.

I came across an account on twitter asking lesbians to post their comp-het crushes and women are posting pics of men they drool over. How do you all feel about this? by Wot in Lesbians

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I feel like those women aren't lesbians.

What is it with women equating their body parts with their womanhood by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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They have to put a descriptor in front of "woman, " otherwise they would be conscious of their misogyny.

male “lesbian” found on AL mistakes his unresolved psychological issues for his period. by verystablegenius in LGBDropTheT

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Well they're both men so don't feel too bad.

Thanks, I really, really hate it. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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Everything is valid, because god forbid anyone make an explicit definition for anything out of the fear of INVALIDATING and GATEKEEPING, the woke boogeymen. 👻😱

Trans man complains on r/bigdickproblems by Scruffy_Nerf_Herder in LGBDropTheT

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Makes me think of a friend of a friend who's a trans man. She came out randomly one day, asked to be called Felix. A couple weeks later she was at our mutual friend's house warming party and some guy bumped into her and she was like "You hit me in my dick, bro."

She's living her best straight girl life as a gay man now.

So this is apart of the application process now.. by sadbihours in LGBDropTheT

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Bend the knee/bend the knee

Long Distance Relationships by UneedREM in Lesbians

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I was in one for a couple years, a few years back. It was a bad experience and I will never even consider an LDR again.

We met up a couple times but ultimately I think she idealized who I was from us knowing each other online for ten years. I don't think she expected that I was a real person with struggles and faults and baggage. She had a superiority complex, was deep into queer theory and was in college for gender studies and getting her doctorate in social work. For all of that supposed empathy for others, she was tired of me having been emotionally and sexually abused in a previous relationship and I think her being fed up with my trauma led to her seeing me as only text on a screen.

After a while she became very cold, withdrawn, cruel towards me, she refused to Skype, didn't want to talk on the phone. She still lived with her ex and they went on trips together but wouldn't even give me her address to send her birthday cards or gifts because it was "disrespectful." Definitely wouldn't let me visit.

I could go on and on and on. I ended it and about 5 months later she emailed me saying I was right that she was cruel towards me and she was sorry. Haha.

Bisexual and lesbian women: do literally *any* of you use the word "boobies"? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I always wondered what that meant. What my mind went to every time was dry breast skin that left little flakies in your bra. 🤷‍♀️

The hottest "man" in "gay" porn by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I don't understand how calling the specific body part "clit" or "pussy" or using the term "cunnilingus" is comfortable but then, seeing the forest for the trees, saying "woman" or "female" makes her spiral out.

A Veritable St. Thomas Aquinas PROVES that Lesbians MUST Be Attracted to Trans "Lesbians"! give me a break... by fuck_reddit in LGBDropTheT

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What a pile of dog shit. For my own sanity I'm choosing to believe this is satire.

Of course there's no explanation. by zerosis in LGBDropTheT

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Those coward lesbians, not sucking dick...

Now it's transphobic to reject mtfs with neovaginas by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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Even if it was the same as a vagina, I wouldn't want to sleep with a man because he's still just a man. They can never grasp that point.

I don't care how well a man mimics the appearance of a woman or how genuinely he believes he's a woman. He is a man. I don't want him.

The Secret Internet of TERFs - The Atlantic publishes poorly-researched hit piece about radical feminist site Ovarit by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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She became convinced that trans women are men

Well, they're certainly not women if they have to be trans to begin with.

lesbians aren't women 🤪 by chokeonartichoke in LGBDropTheT

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This is where they bring up two-spirit and pretend like they're not being racist with their noble savage tropes.

What is trans culture if not a receptacle of cliches and stereotypes? by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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This one disgusted me too.

What's the most lesbian thing you did as a kid? by onetwothree123 in Lesbians

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Hello fellow "Kate Winslet's boobs in Titanic" lesbian.

"Share if you're a lesbian who wants to suck a big fat girl cock" by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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I dunno why but this is fucking hilarious.

"Anti TERF Flag": TumblrInAction by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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"knowing terfs don't count as wlw"

They say things like this because their "identities" only exist if the world validates them, not realizing that if 7+ billion people said I wasn't a lesbian, I would still be one.

GC: Can you explain why gender identity does not exist? Don't cisgender people identify as/feel like they are the sex they were assigned at birth? Don't other animals identify as their sex assigned at birth due to lack of cognitive ability to identify as anything but their own sex? by [deleted] in GCdebatesQT

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Don't other animals identify as their sex assigned at birth due to lack of cognitive ability to identify as anything but their own sex?

If they lack cognitive ability to identify out of their "assigned sex," how could they still identify as their own sex?

I don't feel like I'm a woman anymore than I feel like I have green eyes or black hair. I just exist this way.

LOLLLLL I've been gone for 3 mos and you guys still haven't hit 3k subs. 😂😂😂 wow by ShibaInu in GenderCritical

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Everybody hates you. :)

I dunno I'm pretty cool, I don't think everybody hates me.

A meme. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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You're invalidating my existence as Wariogender.

Meanwhile ... at AskGayBros by hinterlands in LGBDropTheT

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Identity is created by the brain. Brains are biological constructs. Thus, trans men are "biological men" because their biological brains identify them as men.

If our thoughts altered material reality, there would be no trans people because their brains would have instantly turned them into the sex they wish they were.

Also, Santa would exist. 🤘🎅

Just saying... : traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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The tangent explaining fuck 12 is just as funny as the post itself.

Day 305528257151 of the brigade of r/askgaybros. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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A lot of TERFs funnily enough happen to be political lesbians

I love this argument. "You're not even really a lesbian!....or whatever......I bet..."

They refuse to accept actual gay people aren't bending the knee to the trans cult.

I wonder, at what bra size do men think breasts are "big"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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I was under the impression most people think a DD cup is "the" big size, or at least the most desired size. Makes sense then that a guy wanting to be a woman thinks a DD cup is the goal.

DD's are already too big

On another note, as a 32H I would kill to be as "small" as a 32DD.

This makes no sense by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Humans share 35% of our DNA with daffodils yet, oddly, we are not daffodils.

This is just so beyond depressing. by questioningtw in GenderCritical

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"Can women be individuals with personalities or are we just stock characters in a straight-to-VHS movie? Please help."