Dude won’t feel complete until he gives birth. Shockingly can’t find a boyfriend either, so sad.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T19:55:53+00:00

She said: 'I am desperate to lose my virginity after my sex change surgery and I have been on the hunt for the right guy, but no luck.

'I've been using Tinder in order to chat to those who are supposed to be a match but I haven’t been very lucky.

'My account often gets banned because users report me thinking that it isn't a real profile.

'Last week, I agreed to go on a date with this man who looked and sounded amazing and when I turned up it was a catfish,' she fumed.

What bullshit.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T18:26:32+00:00

Are you talking about the one in Colorado a couple of years ago?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T15:55:32+00:00

I think it's just a stereotype.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T15:48:44+00:00

A fine line between being special and being "special."

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T15:42:56+00:00

Let's get mad anyway and rage on. It's soothing.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T15:42:33+00:00

These are the same people who's idea of a subculture is buying shit at Hot Topic.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T15:22:05+00:00

Aw, thanks so much 💗 I think we all underestimate how different our lives are sometimes.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T15:19:05+00:00

I honestly have no idea, I never actually talked to her. I would have to assume she was just that horny, it was a lot of pictures and she tried more than once 😬 I was very mousy and shy, and to my knowledge had never met her. It was too much for little ol' me at the time.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T13:17:40+00:00

A all the way. They aren't interested in women, why would I mention it all the time?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T13:06:35+00:00

Not a sad high school story but a weird one, so I think it fits.

I got sent unsolicited pussy and butt pictures by a high school senior in another town when I was in eighth grade. She wanted to webcam with me (this was in the heyday of Myspace.) I didn't know who the fuck she was or how she knew who I was, I only knew a few kids vaguely in the town she lived in from church activities and summer camps. I didn't have pictures of myself on my profile- I didn't have a webcam 😄

I clicked through her profile and found one older girl from church who we both knew, so that girl was gossiping about me to this chick presumably.

I never answered her, and she tried a couple more times and moved on finally.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T10:34:51+00:00

Not gonna lie, it was pretty awful.

I'm from kind of a benighted part of the U.S. that has a lot of endemic social problems which make everything, any problem you could have, harder to deal with. For instance, my high school was not only racially segregated but segregated by social class as well. Our honors program consisted of the children of people (usually transplants from other states) who had college degrees and worked professions. So although I grew up in a heavily religious and Republican area, most of the kids I actually interacted with at school were from politically liberal families that weren't religious or were mainline Protestant and Catholic.

The reason I feel the need to clarify is that those kids bullied the shit out of me. I got called a cuntlicker pretty frequently beginning about my Sophomore year, especially by a particular group of boys that I shared a lot of classes with, and I slowly got ostracized over the course of that year to the point that only a handful of people would speak to me. I was one of those kids who spent lunch in the library.

This continued until graduation. The justification for this was that I had been identified by the other kids as a lesbian and I "was not accepting myself." This was the preferred form of bullying at my school and I can remember several boys from my year who got subjected to the same treatment.

I think this situation colored my view of the world permanently, because I have never liked or trusted "allies." There is no way in hell I would ever go to a teacher for help, they were like them. There were no out gay people in my town that I was aware of.

It also drove me to hang out with mostly Evangelical kids and Muslims (we had a lot of Muslim kids for a little town in rural America.) They are homophobic in their own, different way, but at the time they were the kind people who treated me like a human being and I felt safe around them.

Sad to say, I think it made me an asshole. It also, as I got older, made it difficult for me to fit in and find a place in the LGBTQIAA2S+ community when I tried. I'm just too different to relate.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T09:55:00+00:00

I genuinely lol'd at this. Concerning that she's apparently a known harasser.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-28T01:23:04+00:00

This is what you asked for, ma'am.

Bisexual conduct enforcement is a community-wide issue that requires all of us to step up and do our part. See something? Say something!

Concerns about my conduct can be directed to the Bisexual Sheriff's Department.

Dial 511 before you dig; Please spay and neuter your pets.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-26T22:32:35+00:00

You were veering wildly out of your lane ma'am.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-26T11:49:56+00:00

Haha this happened to me and it was the alternator. It wasn't that expensive to replace, maybe like $175 parts and labor.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-26T11:44:16+00:00

There's your profit motive for the enablers.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-26T00:06:57+00:00

Well everything's ok then. Love the CIA 😘

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T19:23:05+00:00

Who? From wha... Oh God.

They're showing that in Italy?! Oh God no, please, no!

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T19:20:29+00:00

Not gonna pretend to know what that means, but it sounds hot.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T17:12:38+00:00

TL;DR

"I'm sorry for the things I did. You know, the things; they totally happened. Very bad, so sad, all hurtful. So sorry. Grovel, Grovel, grovel."

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T17:07:14+00:00

Tell me you're not a looker without telling me you're not a looker 🤣

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T15:56:15+00:00

Haha I do believe you are right.

Says something when I'm stuck looking back to the good old days when the kids were writing weird erotic fan fiction on Live Journal instead of LARPing gender identities. I wonder if they battle each other?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T15:54:38+00:00

Apparently attaining status as a living martyr is the most important thing you can achieve in our culture.

Just about.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T15:52:09+00:00

Bisexual activists have been saying this since the 80s at least. I don't agree with them, but hopefully it makes you feel better that this isn't new.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T15:45:59+00:00

A true gaymer 😉

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T15:42:13+00:00

A tier list with no tiers 🙄 It does work as a joke (pans have no preferences uwu owo yadda yadda!) Fine.

It's cute, it's positive, ultimately it's age appropriate for a teenager. I'm not really bothered even if I roll my eyes. This is such a toxic subculture it's refreshing not to see something pathological or disturbing for once.

in conclusion, everyone is adorable and valid, and please tell me if i forgot anyone so i can add them! or if this is actually insulting and i should remove it.

Oh. There it is. Spoken like a Sisterwife.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T15:35:34+00:00

But gay for women, correct? Or gay for men? Gay for pans?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T14:37:11+00:00

Silver lining: these kids are learning their Latin and Greek prefixes, which will be useful if they go on to study medicine or law ⛅

Touch of grey: can't they just have hobbies? Lecturing strangers on the internet about your identity as a Mushroom Prince or an Academic Prince is a waste of your teen years.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T14:25:30+00:00

I know! I've never known or heard of anyone involved with Antifa or their seemingly 50 sister groups who wasn't a Liberal Arts graduate. $200,000+ Bachelor's degree and you identify as a worker?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T14:22:39+00:00

I'm just guessing based off of "Bonewall" and "Lesbian Risibility Week." I'm assuming in the UK they pronounce risibility to rhyme with visibility. At least two of the pin-ups are Turkish oil wrestlers.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T12:56:11+00:00

I had to engage in some serious thought before deciding this was satire ☹️

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T11:51:03+00:00

That's the spirit! Lol.

It's actually a pejorative thing to say, just so you know. I wouldn't ever say it myself.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T11:44:23+00:00

I do think that's the point.

This social justice worldview was openly promoted by the Obama administration and large corporations after the Occupy Wall Street protests in 2010. It surplants economic discussion and de facto institutes a caste system.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T10:40:32+00:00

The Multisexual Flag is a PowerPoint background from 2002.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T10:36:34+00:00

It's popular sociology based on this woman's work.

As I said, it has a fundamental premise that is not accurate to real life (we don't live under a feudal system.)

Politicians like it because it absolves them for the failures of their policies.

Rich people like it because it ignores wealth in favor of whining about traits no one can control.

It's toxic and destructive, and the only people who see any benefit from widespread belief in privilege are the wealthy.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T09:36:27+00:00

Exorsexism sounds so badass.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T08:53:55+00:00

"Boy who is gay for women" made me laugh. I can't be the only one who grew up somewhere where being "gay for something" meant having an intense, nerdy hobby that defined your personality. "Gay for trains" etc. This is also the origin of the -fag suffix being used to denote someone (on the internet) who is an expert on a technical subject.

Not endorsing that! Just saying, whoever wrote this is not aware of their audience.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-25T08:45:40+00:00

The concept of privilege is inherently bullshit because we don't live in a feudal society where a central authority is casting us into social roles based on various characteristics. It also (intentionally, I think) ignores actual social advantages like wealth.

Everyone has advantages and disadvantages.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-24T19:02:20+00:00

wish it was that easy

I know, right? I have no clue how dating works but something tells me it's a lot harder than this.

Literal fucking children all over the sexuality subs on Reddit.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-24T18:40:55+00:00

The internet knew about this the entire time. It was one of the first things I knew about these tests when they introduced them.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-24T16:18:15+00:00

🚨🚨

License and registration, please, ma'am.

Please roll down the window and keep your hands on the wheel.

Do you know why I've stopped you today?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-24T16:03:45+00:00

You really can't argue in favor of doughnut based on grammar, although I certainly have a temptation to because donuts are made out of dough. It seems obvious except what is the nut, then? They're so good they make you nut? They usually don't have nuts, even hipster places don't top them with nuts most of the time.

The nut could be the hole, but... thassa donut hole. So doughnut makes no sense at the end of the day.

Just spell it phonetically- donut.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-24T15:59:30+00:00

No dish involving meat should ever have vanilla or caramel added in 🤢

PatsyStone · 2021-07-24T13:45:26+00:00

Anyone know why?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-24T00:32:01+00:00

You wouldn't need an explanation of why people are fat if you didn't come from a wealthy background. No one else is confused.

Keep doing you! :-)

PatsyStone · 2021-07-23T23:36:53+00:00

You know exactly what I think of you, I've been blunt about it.

To answer your... statement... fresh vegetables are not cheap in comparison to a lot of grain and dairy staples, especially shelf stable ones. The most important ingredient in middle and working class peoples' diets is time, which they lack. Cooking from scratch is time consuming and is also physical labor, people who work 60+ hours per week and also have other household chores have to budget their time and energy just like everything else. The main reason people prior to the 80s ate at home so much was the prevalence of married women who didn't work outside of the home.

There's also the issue of equipment and storage, cooking at home can get expensive fairly quickly with all of the accoutrements it takes to make a full dinner at home every night. Then you have to have dishes to store it in and a way to reheat it all, unless you're a trained chef who can do three portioned meals a day.

There are many middle and working class families who do this successfully, but they're usual religious fundamentalists and they accomplish it by having the wife be a full-time housekeeper. This is actually how it is in Europe too (minus the religion.) I studied abroad in France and was shocked to see that out of the dozen or so French students we exchanged with only one had a mother who worked. Some worked part-time, but they all cooked and cleaned much more than American moms I've known.

So, there's my opinion. I think a lot of people from wealthy backgrounds lack life experience to understand why people from lower social classes make the decisions that they do. It's because they're in a different situation with different contributing factors, not because there's a simple trick to success they're stupidly missing out on.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-23T23:21:09+00:00

Please refrain from, yet again, picking an argument with me unprovoked. You don't know what you're talking about.

only the very wealthy can afford to do so.

If you are interested in what I have to say- how nice!

PatsyStone · 2021-07-23T21:31:43+00:00

The system was breaking down and losing public support, so it course corrected and adopted a bunch of shallow social justice policies to create a smokescreen and protect itself? You don't say. Interesting.

Certainly not happy to hear about another government riddled with pedophiles ☹️

PatsyStone · 2021-07-23T21:29:06+00:00

Hoo boy, Keannan. You just made the trainwreck worse 🤦

PatsyStone · 2021-07-23T21:28:19+00:00

Dying 😝

PatsyStone · 2021-07-22T16:36:16+00:00

A significant part of new trans are incels who think the transition will gain them a better life, relationships and sex and more social support.

The only non-creepy straight transwoman I've ever known was a guy like this. He was a nerdy gamer who was shy to the point of almost being debilitated by it. He did not harass women or hover around girls. If anything, you had to force him to talk to you.

He was a cool person to talk to and good guy, regardless of whatever sexual weirdnesses he might have had in private. I wish the world had done him better.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-22T10:47:05+00:00

Your links are always so fascinating. Thanks for this one!

PatsyStone · 2021-07-21T18:39:48+00:00

Antifa chose to side with paedophiles in Ireland? That's bold.

I know we talk a lot here about how mysterious the rise of the transgender... cult, movement, whatever it is... has been to see. Something's happening behind the scenes that makes all these political movements interconnect. The one trait they share is endless funding.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-21T14:31:57+00:00

Maybe if you get universal healthcare, they will care more, since then the cost of health would be public.

Another kettle of fish! No one hates the American government more than Americans.

You're bringing up some of the biggest, most complicated political fights in the U.S. It all ties together at the end of the day.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-21T14:30:12+00:00

It feels that way. I'm talking to somebody else about the U.S. obesity epidemic rn, and honestly the fundamental explanation is that our government doesn't give a shit about us or our health. Our government also aids and abets (and indirectly funds) Antifa, who are literal terrorists. Many Antifa leaders in Portland (their base city here) have been outed as having trained with communist forces in Syria during the Obama Admin.

I wouldn't be surprised if government officials in various E.U. countries have ties to Antifa/Le Black Bloc or whatever they call themselves. My understanding is that they go back decades there, whereas they're a new group here. There seems to be a Syria-Anarchist-Leftist politician pattern.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-21T13:24:14+00:00

I'm not obese, lol!

But also, it doesn't work that way here. Our obesity epidemic has to do with lack of worker's rights, the cost of food, the planning of cities, and lack of public education about home economics. The government could cut the number of obese people in half in a decade or so just by limiting work hours for salaried workers.

Americans did not become fat until the late 80s, and it is directly linked to 70s and 80s government changes in labor and agricultural policy. Being fat is shameful and painful, Americans don't do it on purpose.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-21T11:34:03+00:00

It's bizarre how our leftists encourage obesity. What are they smoking? Lol.

It's so expensive to remain thin here, only the very wealthy can afford to do so. You have to buy higher quality food and be able to afford expensive gym memberships- plus have the free time to use them, which working people don't have.

We recently had a congresswoman banned from Twitter for saying that the government should be focusing on anti-obesity campaigns rather than mass vaccination:

https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/nutrition/marjorie-taylor-greene-says-anti-covid-efforts-should-focus-more-on-obesity-less-on-vaccine/ar-AAMnvxF

PatsyStone · 2021-07-21T11:29:22+00:00

There are a lot of political commentators who think the Biden administration is intentionally provoking conservative Americans in the hopes that the latter will lash out violently and give the administration a basis to crack down on them. They want a domestic War on Terror™️ focused on their political opposition (who they are pretending are violent white supremacists, without much proof.)

Bringing blue helmets onto U.S. soil would simultaneously provoke American nationalists, who would see them as invaders and are armed to the teeth already, and give Biden extra troops to hunt his own people with.

So goes the theory. We'll see in six months.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T19:47:23+00:00

That’s sad to hear. I hear that there are talks of secession in states like Texas. What are the odds of that happening?

Almost nil. Contrary to popular belief, once a state joins the Union there is no legal way for it to leave without triggering a war, Texas included. This was decided by our Civil War.

Texas has the legal right to split itself into up to five smaller states, which give it up to 10 federal Senators- a huge political advantage which would be opposed by the other states. So that's not happening either.

Don't know if you find this comforting or not, but Biden has been floating bringing in the UN to evaluate our police forces. I think it's more likely we'll end up having Irish UN Peacekeepers here than the other way 'round.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T16:35:11+00:00

Here having an indipendnet home with a garden is considered luxury.

Different things are more expensive in different places, I guess. We have lots of land, so a house with a yard is cheap.

Apartment buildings and sometimes houses (especially old houses) have balconies, but you always pay extra to have them and it's a way to show off being wealthy.

My parents home has a superlong balcony you can get a walk all around the house.

Oh that's very fancy! Must have cost so much!

To be honest, I'm scared as fuck my mother is going to develop cancer.

That dread of what the future might bring with our parents ☹️ I'd say that's the main reason it's so taboo here. People think it's dirty and you're risking cancer by doing it. They also think you're giving them cancer by smoking near them, so people aren't shy about harassing smokers. There are smokers here, it's just looked down on as shameful and low-class. That also makes smoking look rebellious and cool, so the cycle continues.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T16:06:37+00:00

He got confused and thought Tasmania was a country in Africa. Possibly mixed it up with Tanzania.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T14:42:24+00:00

It's a stereotype pretentious Americans hold.

Smoking is taboo here, so it's a luxury Europeans can afford to indulge in (in our eyes.) Obviously you're all so educated and modern, all you do is think deep thoughts and lounge around instead of working like plebs 😉 Balconies are also unusual here and are a sign of wealth, but they're everywhere in Europe.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T13:51:06+00:00

One of my fav memes of all time.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T13:49:15+00:00

There may be a symbiotic relationship between obnoxious, loud hair colors and obnoxious, loud people 😉

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T13:26:50+00:00

You certainly work a theme 👁️👁️

Tell us again how the world has failed you and everyone is out to crush your brilliance. Make sure to emphasize the inferiority of brown people and poor people.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T12:48:19+00:00

Maybe if you got some culture instead of chugging diet drinks and stuffing yourself with Hamburger Helper all day and night you'd appreciate a joke.

Elevate yourself, Schomee! You know what they do all day in Europe instead of watching trash T.V.? They chain-smoke on balconies and read the latest philosophy.

Take a page from their book, or at least pick up a book in the first place. Stupid Yank.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T11:44:04+00:00

tasmania is a shit hole 3rd world country that's incredibly barbaric and a hell hole for gays and lesbians.

Tasmania and Lesbania are both in Europe, which has much higher standards of living than the rest of the world. Educate yourself!

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T11:40:08+00:00

I used to be a pretty active gender critical feminist, who has now given up on them, and even I can't recall much that could be considered biphobia. Feminism has a lot of inherent problems, but the ones causing them are usually snotty upperclass straight women who demand blind obedience from other women.

In feminist circles lesbians are sort of shunted aside and bisexual women are completely ignored. On the other hand, in gay spaces where feminist lesbians dominate, hatred of bisexual women is palpable. Those spaces are few and far between, thank God.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T11:30:57+00:00

I've seen people refer to this same phenomenon as "dangerhair," meaning the same thing. Not as intellectual.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T09:40:08+00:00

There's also an established pattern of male feminists being sexual abusers. I think trans identity follows along the same vein. Pathological sexual issues and issues with women

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T09:36:51+00:00

My non-binary relative did this when she "came out." Hers looked better.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T01:03:52+00:00

Proof that its purpose is to delineate political affiliation.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T00:28:33+00:00

What's with the Uncle Sam recruitment poster pose? The fuck?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-18T00:28:11+00:00

Globalist bankers.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-17T22:16:41+00:00

Whose line is it anyway?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-17T17:37:11+00:00

You don't seem very cooperative.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-17T10:22:22+00:00

What?

This has been big news in the conservative press all week. Same situation as Philly Pride.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T23:16:13+00:00

The fuck is tw//mspec supposed to be? Why do these people always talk in tortured acronyms? Nice mention of the Apple Oranges because they're relevant here too I guess?

The reply seems to be saying that you can't call lesbians monosexual because of how many lesbians identify as non-binary (which is true) and monosexuality would imply that they are (gasp!) women.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T22:58:47+00:00

No, I guess there's more than one. Not a shock really.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T22:55:48+00:00

This was a very wise post. Take your "insightful!" I've never been in a mileu where liberals dominate, but what you've described certainly makes sense and meshes with what I've seen online.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T22:05:20+00:00

It’s easier to get back in the closet if you say you’re bisexual than gay if shit hit the fan.

Agreed. I do also think that's why they'll stick their toe in the water with me, the bisexual lady at work. I probably won't reject them, and if I do I don't know their friends or family so I can't really hurt them. I'm about as safe as safe gets.

but some people, gay or straight, are just ignorant.

That's the truth.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T21:51:24+00:00

I always take that question as more "I'm same-sex attracted, do you hate me?" more than "I literally think I am literally bisexual, does that sound right to you?" They're more fishing to gauge my reaction to the confession of same-sex attraction.

I think when I take it in stride and don't do whatever they're afraid of, it gives them more confidence and makes them feel safer to talk to other people, especially gay men.

Again, this doesn't bother me. There's a difference between kids navigating possible social rejection with identities and grown adults scamming people by intentionally lying. I do remember picking up a bizarre 1940s-era book once at a used bookstore about the epidemic of "bisexual" men at the time who cheated on their wives with other men. I should have bought it. I bet if you read between the lines they'd mostly just be gay.

The gay men who refuse to believe bisexuality is real because young gay men lie about it so much are just self-centered. It ain't all you! The label wouldn't exist for you to use in the first place if there weren't real men like that.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T21:41:40+00:00

I quite enjoy RuPaul as an actor, though, and it does make me a little sad to see him buying into the TQ stuff if that's what he's actually doing and not just trying to keep his show afloat.

My impression of Ru in the last few years has been that he doesn't believe but has decided to play along to protect his media empire.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T21:37:18+00:00

No, I'm trying to get you to brainstorm. Please come up with something.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T21:30:26+00:00

Hit me with ideas!

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T19:18:09+00:00

New day, same old dumb bullshit. This dude's life makes no sense.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T19:05:55+00:00

He's always come across as pretentious and weirdly self-disgusted to me. Like he's a superior, elite person because he hates himself and hurts himself so much.

Basically a guarantee that anyone who says he's their favorite poet is an insufferable douche. Sorry, true.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T19:00:21+00:00

Relentlessly harassing people until we get banned doesn't appear to work.

I think we need to brainstorm strategies that are actually effective. As in, the actions we take actually achieve the result that we want.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T17:57:13+00:00

I guess he'd know 🍹

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T17:27:56+00:00

I had remembered you mentioning that, so I thought I'd ask you to weigh in. I'm relieved to hear your experience was more innocent than the voluntary corrective rape scenario this OP brought up.

I work with a lot of teenagers in my industry and a few times over the years I've had a guy come to me saying "I think I might be bisexual." I always take them on their word, try to be supportive and kind- you know, buck them up, they usually need it. I'll look out for them for a while. To my knowledge they're all gay now.

I don't mind this situation because it doesn't hurt me, but bisexual men often bring it up as a bone of contention with gay men. I think about it every time people start grousing about definitions.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T15:50:15+00:00

But maybe I'm naïve.

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Not at all hunty 💗

✧･ﾟ: ✧･ﾟ♡(ᵘʷᵘ)♡･ﾟ✧:･ﾟ✧

You are VALID. 😘 You are SEEN. 👏💪

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PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T15:26:25+00:00

On the other hand the affirmation/promotion of having sex even if you're not attracted to your partner to please them.

Oh my God I find this so deeply disturbing. They're coaching each other into willingly being raped.

Are these partners opposite sex? The reason I ask is because I've noticed a distinct pattern of teenage asexuals growing up and being gay later. There seems to be a significant percentage of closeted LGBs calling themselves asexual.

u/RedEyedWarrior did you ever come across anything like this?

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T13:37:32+00:00

Honestly, think about it from the bar's perspective. These people were paying to be there and helping keep the bar operating. That's literal financial support to the lesbian community.

Lesbian bars have gone under because it's no longer economically feasible to have an establishment cater to such a small community. The overhead for owning a brick and mortar business, and one that sells mainly alcohol at that, is so high they need to be packed several nights a week to make a profit.

The ones who have survived have done so by selectively allowing outsiders in if they behave. A lot of times that hasn't worked out and transbians and pervy straight men have driven lesbians away (like a bar I know that has now rebranded as a karaoke bar in recent years.) It sounds like this bar's owners have found a good middle ground. At least they're still here.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T12:08:37+00:00

This reminds me of a lot of the anti-lesbian agitation that went on on the old bisexual sub on Reddit. Petty resentments getting brought up again and again and people being rewarded with attention and praise for joining in on the dogpile. I've spent a lot of time in bisexual spaces sticking up for lesbians or trying to present an alternative read on bad behavior that focuses on the individuals involved and not the demographic as a whole.

For all of the disagreements I've had over the years, I sincerely believe lesbians and kind and caring women who only want good things for themselves and others. It's not that complicated. Love you girls 😘

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T11:36:17+00:00

that is up to us to corral our own.

We'll in that case, I'd like to take this opportunity to present my candidacy for Bisexual Sheriff 🤠

We're in dire need of some policing 'round here, and I'm just the tough-but-fair enforcer to do it. Bisexuals are out of control, Law and Order need to be restored- and ignorance of the law is no excuse! As a member of the community I can speak to them with more efficacy than outside authorities.

Good citizens of this forum, I certainly hope I can count on your support during this trying time while we deal with the Bisexuals.

✌️Vote for me! ✌️

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T11:29:10+00:00

Dude's been trolling for days, just stop replying to him. I stepped in his dog doodoo already.

PatsyStone · 2021-07-16T11:22:04+00:00

I'm old enough to remember when this was illegal and no one made excuses for it.

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