You can’t get more niche than this so listen up transphobes

DrMantisToboggan · 2023-04-05T01:09:38+00:00

The spicy straights are at it again.

DrMantisToboggan · 2023-02-20T00:22:21+00:00

All these straight men out there dating women who don't know they may unwittingly be in gay relationship.

DrMantisToboggan · 2023-02-19T21:18:03+00:00

I came across a YouTube channel called The Offensive Tr*nny and I watched some of their videos and initially found them to be very reasonable and level-headed. That changed, however, when I came across this video where this transguy calls herself a gay trans man. I find it so maddening that many of these reasonable trans people understand they can't change their biological sex, yet they still view sexual orientation through the lens of gender and not sex. Later in the video, she slips in a clip of Buck Angel saying that gay men and gay trans men have to co-exist with one other. So we have to give up our spaces for the sake of their identities.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-11-16T23:39:02+00:00

What happened to transmen are men? With TRA logic, this would just be two men going on a date and potentially having sex.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-10-20T12:53:59+00:00

The manliest looking man ever... https://www.reddit.com/gallery/x5wtkz

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-09-22T17:05:03+00:00

It's so funny reading a thread on a sub filled with women who think they're actually gay men and try to speak of what the gay male experience is like. I feel like I should be offended, but honestly it's just too laughable.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-09-21T14:23:29+00:00

Found it https://web.archive.org/web/20220921110552/https://www.irishtimes.com/health/your-wellness/2022/09/21/i-am-a-gay-man-in-a-straight-womans-body-if-i-were-to-speak-to-my-husband-about-this-it-could-end-our-marriage/

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-09-21T12:07:34+00:00

Anyone have the text for this article? It appears to be behind a paywall even with the archive link.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-08-17T20:29:27+00:00

Alternately titled: Delusions Of A Straight Woman

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-08-09T02:38:35+00:00

What gay man could ever forget the music video for Physical? She was one of the greats.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-08-03T20:52:01+00:00

Gay men are going to be stigmatized by the usual homophobic suspects regardless, so I don't understand why government agencies have been so hesitant to warn us about how we're being disproportionately impacted by this. Due to inaction and lack of early intervention by public health agencies in North America and Europe, this will likely become endemic in the gay male community.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-07-09T16:47:28+00:00

Why is that these female LARPers think that gay male relationships are all inherently equal in terms of sex? In most relationships, there are typically active and passive partners.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-07-05T17:24:12+00:00

And Queerty doesn't miss a beat... https://www.queerty.com/bette-midler-criticizes-trans-friendly-terms-birthing-people-20220705

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-06-28T17:20:35+00:00

She's be on T for 9 months and had top surgery a month ago...sure, Jan.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-06-15T20:26:19+00:00

These women don't understand male homosexuals at all. It's especially funny since they try so hard to LARP as gay men.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-06-14T22:41:14+00:00

You could argue that collecting and trading in all these fake identities is like Pokémon for a new generation.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-06-10T21:00:32+00:00

It reinforces the idea that gay men define their entire existence around being either a top or bottom. Additionally, it just further perpetuates negative stereotypes about gay men. I know there are many gay men who see this as humorous, not realizing it's actually harmful.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-06-09T19:37:42+00:00

Welp, there goes my final tie to Reddit.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-06-08T00:11:38+00:00

Thanks! Even though I've been more of a lurker, I'm happy to be back. I really missed this sub. It's been my daily dose of sanity.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-05-13T13:30:16+00:00

When I’m in male gay spaces…gay dudes are drawn to me without any effort on my part… It’s not unusual for somebody to come kiss my boots, kiss my hand, buy me drinks, sometimes sneaky grope me

I think allowing straight women into our spaces may have been a mistake.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-04-27T21:36:41+00:00

That's why I avoid that site like the plague. Many commenters there are no different than radical TRAs.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-04-15T16:14:05+00:00

She's also commented that "gay" men love eating her pussy, so it's clear she's untethered from reality.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-04-15T13:45:05+00:00

An interesting article from Kurtis, who I thought was once aligned with the GC movement. It's a decent take on TRA woke homophobia versus old-school homophobia from mostly heterosexual females.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-04-01T19:34:49+00:00

She must be T4T, because no self-respecting gay man is going to fellate a dildo.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-02-18T15:07:38+00:00

She said she's pre-op, does that mean she just had her tits hanging out or was she wearing a binder? Gay men wouldn't want to go anywhere near that in a sauna.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-02-16T00:37:47+00:00

But those bigoted gay cis men don't get the option to prefer only cis gay men.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-02-10T20:15:38+00:00

Does this dumb ass think we can't discern between a real dick and a prosthetic? That sub is so cringe.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-01-31T01:37:34+00:00

She has a cis gay boyfriend and hasn't even started T yet, I'll just file this one under bullshit.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-01-25T00:42:49+00:00

Every time I think that sub can't get any more delusional, these ladies always manage to outdo themselves.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-01-20T18:28:41+00:00

https://archive.ph/oT6CB

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-01-17T13:48:46+00:00

Insinuating that gay male sex is disgusting and unnatural has become a more common refrain from FTMs. It's almost like they're not actually gay men. /s

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-01-12T01:12:19+00:00

I wonder what trendy mental illness she'll latch onto next.

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-01-06T01:46:24+00:00

https://archive.ph/0m6nF

DrMantisToboggan · 2022-01-06T00:49:24+00:00

It looks like it's been brigaded already.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-12-28T00:43:42+00:00

Yet they wanted Abigail Shrier's book banned.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-12-23T02:50:41+00:00

It's not the first time a straight woman has stolen a title from gay men. Here's International "Mr." Leather: https://www.queerty.com/guy-just-became-first-trans-poc-ever-named-international-mr-leather-20190528

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-12-10T13:41:55+00:00

Just some good old right-wing homophobia.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-12-09T16:34:23+00:00

Another queer gobbledegook definition.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-12-02T21:03:16+00:00

Why is a lesbian on Scruff or Grindr? Also, what orifice is she going to penetrate with an enlarged clitoris?

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-12-02T16:41:44+00:00

Another idiot who thinks sexual orientation is based on gender identity.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-11-18T03:57:32+00:00

As a gay man, I could 100% relate to these memes growing up.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-11-13T17:15:33+00:00

Buck is no hero. She's as delusional as the women from the r/gaytransmen sub. Even though she acknowledges her biological sex, she still believes when she's getting fucked by men or "fucking" them that she's having gay sex. She's repeatedly said that gay men love her vagina.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-11-09T02:54:58+00:00

I have several friends who react similarly. But TRAs also try to gaslight us by saying no one ever says that. Even mainstream gay publications are trying to shame us into accepting trans people in our dating pools and spaces.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-11-09T02:45:12+00:00

My husband fucks me in my vagina, but now it's in a totally gay way. Another one of the "straight to gay" couples.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-11-09T00:34:34+00:00

Homophobia will sadly always exist. It's sad that we're confronting it from both sides of the political divide. Many on the right see us as perverse deviants and now the left see us as exclusionary genital fetishists.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-11-02T19:41:01+00:00

I agree, but I think they'll be spared.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-11-02T19:32:49+00:00

Even though you've got males on that sub who think they are lesbians and females who think they're gay men.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-10-29T17:18:13+00:00

The meth made me do it excuse. Now he's a triple minority; black, trans and a recovering addict. He's beyond reproach now.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-10-29T13:50:20+00:00

Great compilation of his racist and homophobic tweets. We can never forget that trans women of color like this man gave us our rights.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-10-26T17:36:18+00:00

I'm perplexed because all the Aidens on that sub and r/gaytransguys all swear up and down that they're having sex with all these cis gay men.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-10-25T23:29:51+00:00

They'll gladly risk potential kidney damage for some sweet validation. I bet they seethe at the fact that Descovy isn't approved for females.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-10-20T01:20:04+00:00

I don't think the author of this could pass a Turing test.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-10-18T21:51:17+00:00

He's probably not even gay. That entire sub is a delusional echo chamber.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-09-08T18:40:16+00:00

Cue the FTMs who will say some cis men can't get erections or some cis men had their dicks blown off.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-09-07T14:56:07+00:00

You're spot on. I've read so many GC threads on Ovarit or Twitter where they'll qualify it by saying, "I have many gay male friends and they're great, but..." and then insert subtle or overt homophobia. It's all so formulaic.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-09-01T17:44:02+00:00

You can add Queerty to the list. Several years ago, they kept pushing trans identified female, Laith Ashley, in several of their articles. They still routinely include trans identified females in their weekly Insta Studs lineup.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-08-26T15:58:20+00:00

I have no sympathy for a person who goes to such lengths chasing a fetish.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-08-18T17:41:04+00:00

The problem with many of these groups is that they've been co-opted by radical feminists who want to blame everything on men. Of course, not all radical feminists are like that. I find there are often double standards applied, for instance, they hate it when homosexual males talk about their aversion to vagina, yet many of them can talk about how disgusted they are about dick. I've read a few threads on Ovarit where they say gay men are the ultimate misogynists because our attraction is phallocentric...well duh, we're gay men...we like dick. Are we supposed to center our male homosexuality around feminism? I mean there's no such thing as male feminists, we can only be allies. I've read other threads that talk about how entitled gay men are, yet no mention to the entitlement many straight women feel they have to our spaces, whether it's drunk straight girls sucking up all the oxygen in gay bars or LARPing "gay" transmen. Thanks to woke intersectionality, gay men are at the bottom of the totem pole since we're now seen as some of the most privileged people in society.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-08-16T19:01:39+00:00

Hear, hear!

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-08-16T13:26:57+00:00

No, this isn't a fetish at all. /S

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-08-04T19:53:28+00:00

I wonder if she was validated and sent to a men's prison.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-29T21:44:03+00:00

Some of these men were actually attractive before ruining their looks trying to transition.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-28T02:05:49+00:00

Diseases will be social constructs at this rate.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-26T20:46:04+00:00

You bring up some interesting points vis-à-vis the complicated relationships many gay men have with straight women. Although I graduated high school in the early aughts and was closeted the entire time, which made for a miserable experience. Once I went on to college and fell into the GBF trope with different straight women, it took many years to realize how demeaning, demoralizing and toxic these friendships were. I was also a victim of sexual assault at the hands of one of my self-proclaimed fag hags. It wasn't until my mid twenties that I formed much more meaningful friendships with other gay men and even several lesbians.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-25T23:35:27+00:00

I'm sorry, but the cognitive dissonance is strong with this one. She seems to understand she can't change her biological sex, so why undergo a phalloplasty if you know you can't change your sex? Nearly a million dollars spent on cosmetic procedures to chase some delusion. Why should insurance help cover this insanity?

On a side note, I guess trans widowers do exist. I wonder if her husband left or decided to remain in a "gay" relationship.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-25T16:37:40+00:00

She acknowledges that she's biologically a female, yet thinks she's having "gay" sex when men are fucking her. She sounds just as delusional as AGP transbians.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-25T14:06:48+00:00

How is Buck Angel considered an HSTS when she thinks she's a gay man?

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-19T19:02:58+00:00

BuT mUh DySpHoRiA!1!

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-15T14:31:28+00:00

"Gay" transmen are quick to use the f slur. Many of them viewing AIDS as being an integral part of the gay male "identity". There have even been a few trans identified female bug chasers documented. Nothing more validating than getting HIV to some of these loons.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-15T14:08:30+00:00

She's most likely referencing PrEP.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-15T13:50:52+00:00

She must be confusing AGP transwomen with gay men. AGPs also love their tiddie skittles.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-12T16:49:34+00:00

The peach fuzz neckbeard is a dead giveaway.

DrMantisToboggan · 2021-07-12T14:03:19+00:00

Another "gay" transman, I'm assuming. I can imagine growing up as a heterosexual female with internalized homophobia must have been really traumatic. uwu

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