Women's Issuesr/actuallesbians - Transbians: "I love playing with my titties", actual women: "I want to cut my breasts off"

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[–]Poppy29252Natal Cat Woman 78 insightful - 4 fun78 insightful - 3 fun79 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

Boobs just hit different for those who had to earn them.

These people fucking disgust me.

[–]FineIWillDoItMyself 29 insightful - 19 fun29 insightful - 18 fun30 insightful - 19 fun -  (2 children)

Pretty sure dudes still can have boobs as someone wise once said "there is no girl-dick there is only man-boobs"

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I am a not-at-all-proud owner of guy boobs. It's not fun nor sexy, they hurt like a motherfucker and are a constant source of insecurity.

[–]Shales123 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A sports bra might help with the pain, seriously. I'm a woman with a small ribcage and large, heavy breasts, and wearing a supportive bra is a lifesaver. My posture still sucks but at least I'm not sore

[–]DiscoStegosaurus 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They don’t even have boobs. They have those ugly, odd, cone shaped moobs. It’s insane to me that they think that they even have anything close to female breasts. That thread was disgusting fetishization.

[–]Constantine 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

God this pisses me off. You think real women haven't had to "earn" our bodies (whatever the twisted fuck that means)? Like seriously, you think it's not fucking work to have men leering at you from the age of eight or whenever they show up? Jesus, sometimes I just think we should give up on humanity (not really, but still).

[–]FineIWillDoItMyself 51 insightful - 15 fun51 insightful - 14 fun52 insightful - 15 fun -  (5 children)

Lol they had a post a few weeks ago going like.

"Stright men to Lesbian: so you like women too" "lesbians: yes" "Stright men: so you like boobs & asses too" "Lesbians: I feel like we love women in different ways"

Turns out male transbians think like stright males hmm.... I wonder why?

[–]reluctant_commenter 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Right?! I don't understand how trans rights activists cannot see the clear dissonance between these two claims...

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Lesbians can't like those things? I get liking more than those things but let's be real I'm bi and a woman and I like boobs and asses. Are we not allowed to like certain features or body parts?

[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it's more like most (hopefully?) lesbians haven't adopted the male gaze when admiring women. (Where they see women as a piece of meat or an object. Ass and boobs)

[–]MyLongestJourney 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am a lesbian and although I do like breasts and nicely shaped behinds ,I am not obsessed with them like men.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 9 insightful - 9 fun9 insightful - 8 fun10 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

BOOBA

[–]sool47 41 insightful - 1 fun41 insightful - 0 fun42 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I have never heard a woman say they play with their breasts. That sounds more like guy talk. And sure enough, it's all males, while the few females are saying how uncorfotable big breasts are.

You can totally see the breast fetish these males have.

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 21 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Really? I do. It's an erogenous zone after all. I think this is the first time I've ever told anyone though so your point still stands!

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I mean my hands are on my boobs as often as they can be. Don't tend to talk about it though

[–]hufflepuff-poet 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is so sad :( where are all the proud lesbians who love their female bodies and other womens!?

So annoyed all these pervy MEN colonized a space for lesbians and now all the young lesbians think this sh*t is normal...

[–]SpatOuttheKoolaid 23 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Well, we're definitely not on "actual" lesbians that's for sure.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 22 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

Okay so... As someone who was socialized in the 90's where Playboy models were aspirational goddesses and it was totally normal to see men slobbering over that type of women even in sitcoms that children watched like Married With Children, for example. I always felt weird about boobs. I knew boobs were these luscious things that you were supposed to lust over, because that's what all the men on TV were doing, but as a bisexual child/teen girl, I was just curious about them (like curious what other people's boobs looked like, since I had no access to internet until 1996, and in 1996 it took about 12 minutes to load a naked picture with a dial up modem. You could literally start loading, go make a sandwich, come back and it still might not be done.) And I felt very confused that I didn't really feel about boobs the way men felt about boobs, and I couldn't figure out if the reactions they were having were real, or if they were exaggerated for comedic effect.

Asking boys in school got me answers like "DUrr-Hurr Boobz!!!" which, again, wasn't sure if they were trying to be funny or if they were serious. And other, more mature boys (okay, just two of them) tried to act like "Oh those other boys are just immature little trolls. I'm not like the other boys, I'm a cool boy. I act totally normal around boobs." So again, not sure whether to believe this or if they were just hoping they would get to see my boobs...

Did society train an entire generation of men to act like dipshits around boobs? This is also the era where breast implants became more and more popular and women started getting bigger and bigger sizes. We kept hearing about rich girls who got boob jobs as their high school graduation gifts. It was a very boob-obsessed era. (Why am I saying boob like I'm 12, I should be saying breast, but it was the 90's, nobody respected breasts enough to call them by their actual name. It was always boobs and titties and tatas.)

It's kind of amazing to see how un-self-aware these transbians are. They are trying so hard to appear feminine but end up sounding just like the "OmG BoObZ!!!" boys from my high school.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is just not right....

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm very disturbed one of the commenters called his 'twinnies'.

[–]starjellotext 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How are we still not allowed to have mainstream discussions of autogynephilia?