DiscussionWhat do you think are the issues with the words "boy pussy", "shitoris", "mangina", "girl dick", etc?

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I have often seen people refer to a penis as "girl dick", or parts that are not vagina, clitoris, etc as "boy pussy", "mussy", "shitoris", "munt", "mangina", etc.

Are there any issues with these words?

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[–]Poppy29252Natal Cat Woman 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are there inherent issues? No.

When they're used to convince people to bend their sexuality for another's pleasure or that "______ is exactly like a woman/man's _______!” then it becomes part of a homophobic, manipulative, sexually abusive mindset.

A penis isn't female. A penis isn't a clitoris. A vagina isn't male. An anus on the sex you are not attracted to isn't something you have to settle for.

[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The issue is that they don't exist. No such thing as a "girldick" or "boypussy", there is only dick and pussy, and both of those are exclusively masculine or feminine in nature (respectively).

[–]censorshipment 10 insightful - 9 fun10 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Oxymoron is a figure of speech pairing two words together that are opposing and/or contradictory. This combination of contrary or antithetical words is also known in conversation as a contradiction in terms.

https://literarydevices.net/oxymoron/

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I see men referring to their anuses as "boy pussies" and I've always found it offputting. If I'm going to be having penetrative sex with a man, I want to fuck his ass, not any "pussy" of any kind. I really don't get why they'd say that since butts are hot and vaginas (to gay men and straight women) are not.

I don't like that one in any context, but especially if it's referring to an actual vagina. All those words are just bad

[–]theytookourjerbsXX only. 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's a contradictory. "Boy" (seriously these 20 and overs infantilise themselves) pussy and "girl" dick are not compatible with each other in two words. A vagina is on a female and a penis is on a male, simple as that.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not to mention these are adults using these terms, adult humans. Boy and girl is used for underage children. Why do they insist on using infantile language when describing their genitalia (and themselves, using terms like transboy and transgirl)? Is it supposed to make it (and ultimately themselves) seem more sexually appealing?

[–]theytookourjerbsXX only. 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd also give any 18 or 19 year old benefit of the doubt, because they're adolescents. But I agree that they're grown ass adults in their 20's, 30's, and even 40's, 50's, and 60's using this term 🙄(⊙_☉), and it's supposed to be for any legal teen and underage teens/children/babies/toddler etc. I'd side eye anyone that uses any teen as young as 15 to consider them "women" and "men" and any grown ass adult 20+ using "girl" and "boy" as a term use for themselves. I'd think they'd have the worst type of paedophilia if they use the terms "girl" and "boy"; it makes me think they want to be a baby or something. Some of them wear diapers and aren't even a baby, toddler, a disabled person or elderly that cannot take care of themselves and it's weird af. Like some days I'd want to go back being a 1 year old baby, but other days I want to be 30, flirty, and thriving so... I'd also want to go back being a 13-19 year old teenager too, so I just want to be an age I'm not at rn.

[–]usehername 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

What the fuck is a shitoris?

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Pretty sure they mean prostate. I've never heard anyone use it in a serious way.

[–]usehername 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Okay I literally laughed out loud. Thank you

[–]our_team_is_winning 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Another word from their anime LARPing I'd guess. "shittori" (2 t's) is Japanese for "moist," so...

[–]reluctant_commenter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The issue with these words/phrases is that they all obscure reality or deny reality. People who self-describe as "transgender" like to pretend that taking hormones or saying they are "transgender" will actually change the sex that they are, and give them the sex organs of the opposite sex, which is utterly ridiculous.

Women have pussies, clitorises, vagina, and female anatomy by definition, because woman = a female human. Men have dicks and male anatomy by definition, because man = a male human. There are rare exceptions to this in certain intersex disorders, in the same way there are rare exceptions in humans where a person is born missing a leg or some other body part. Transgender identification does not make someone intersex.

I have not heard "shitoris" before, is that just when shit gets on your clit? Sounds gross lol.

[–]fuck_reddit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are disgusting and horrifying.

[–]strawberrysun 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"Shitoris" might be the single worst word I've ever read... Thanks.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

The only time I've heard the word "mangina" used is when guys tuck their package between their legs.

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think they're all gross.

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Dude bussy lmao

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They don't sound good, is what is the biggest issue apart from the inherent contradiction of the hybridized terms.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

if you want to call it something silly I don'y care. When you try to tell me some women have penises and a girl penis is not biologically the same as a boy penis then you are trying to pull me into crazytown.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My gag reflex, mainly.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The issue is the delusion of people using these. Are they really convinced they're perfectly male by calling their obvious female organ as mangina? I wouldn't be able to lie to myself like this even if I understand FtM aspirations but I wouldn't like to be someone in between - visually masculine but with feminine organs and such lies would make me feel even worse. I always wondered how these people function but it's a delusion asking to be crumbled... like just be trans but with some realistic outlook on yourself. There is something in common in our way of thinking or at least my way of thinking a few years back - yes I wanted to be a man. But I never found it desirable to be a man in a form, which is the only realistic option available. To me it'd be more painful to be a "man" in a form of masculinizing my female body with hormones and surgeries than to just accept what I have.