Where to even begin with how yikes this one is by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Celebrating lesbian visibility forever. This is the original OP's reminder that no lesbians will ever want his dick!

Does this TQ craziness stop or at least slow down if the USA gets universal health care? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I am not so sure. A lot of people in the healthcare field have chugged the koolaid. My own primary care doctor's office asks new patients to give pronouns.

Sexism and stereotyping, lovely. What even is the news these days? by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I hate this stereotyping crap. I'm a lesbian and I don't have any outfits like this... There's no one specific way everyone has to dress.

I need your help playing the pronoun game by ArthnoldManacatsaman in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 16 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Using that exact strategy, I once outwoked a freelance client who wanted me to set up his website so that pronoun stuff would be forced on all his customers and employees. He backed down so fast. It was pretty funny.

Welcome to the real world, kid by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Haha, the "Hello, I'm a LESBIAN???" girl looks like me.

And of course he can say he isn't into dicks, but all hell breaks loose if a lesbian says it.

Gross and also no by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 26 insightful - 5 fun26 insightful - 4 fun27 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

They need to learn that a dick and a vagina are, and always will be, two completely different things.

Queers 'do gender' differently, what a surprise by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why are the boys gay but the girls queer?

Seriously, we all know it’s bullshit. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have a friend who is a hardcore TRA. She got some abuse online recently for joking about not liking dicks and also still refers to herself as a lesbian and talks about how much she exclusively loves women while married to a nonbinary person. But if you actually ask her, of course all 823975 genders are valid, and of course she would totally suck a girldick if she wasn't married already!

After befriending her I'm convinced only the most mentally ill actually believe in any of this.

If you won't date a transman then you have no choice but to date transwomen. Gotcha! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I see they're pushing "non-women" rhetoric onto gay men too now.

Under pressure. 25-year-old Em identifies as trans, genderqueer, transmasc and non-binary. They are also fat. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was born in a female body that can’t just turn into a male body.

Oh my god, she's so close, yet so far.

LGBTA Wiki definition of Lesbian includes attraction to men... by jay-day in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 24 insightful - 8 fun24 insightful - 7 fun25 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"Nonbinary men who feel as though the term lesbian best fits their attraction" is the stupidest thing I have ever read.

LGBTQ memes are full of stereotypes and group-signaling, not actual lived experiences by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I absolutely hate all these stupid memes and stereotypes. I feel like 10 years ago we as a society were making a lot of progress towards not stereotyping people and recognizing that gay people are individuals too, and now we've thrown it all away in favor of stupid shit like "teehee gays can't do math or drive"

What other subs do you guys subscribe to on Saidit? by BootsAndBeards in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mostly just come here, but I joined s/TumblrInAction today since the Reddit version is about to be banned.

RIP by usehername in TumblrInAction

[–]strawberrysun 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

r/TumblrInAction was the very first subreddit I ever joined (under a different name) back in 2014.

F

Literally never happens! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 20 insightful - 9 fun20 insightful - 8 fun21 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Ah yes, gay people in homophobic societies are most DEFINITELY socialized to like the genitals that they like. Makes perfect sense and isn't at all the dumbest shit I've ever heard in my entire life.

The rage of the FTM lesbians (chuckle) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 10 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

"FTM femme lesbian" is peak comedy.

Is this our cue to leave yet? Seriously... by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 41 insightful - 7 fun41 insightful - 6 fun42 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Pride is for gay, for lesbian

No room for "same-sex attracted"

/r/lgbt confirms that raping ones mother is a much lesser crime than being misgendered by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly I never could have pictured this happening 10 years ago...

And of course Twitter is still trying to defend him as a perfectly valid lesbian!

/r/lgbt confirms that raping ones mother is a much lesser crime than being misgendered by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've known about Chris for a very long time. Like since I was in high school, and now I'm in my late 20s. Absolutely wild and messed up tale, and I'm honestly surprised it has taken this long for him to do something as sick as what he did to his mom.

I remember when he was a regular, old school-style homophobe.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my god, this is brilliant.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I wanted to be professional, so I just said I'm a she, but I'm sure the surprise on my face was evident.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The recruiter who reached out to me about this had pronouns in his email signature, so I probably should have seen this coming.

"'I’m not attracted to trans people' is based on the idea that you actually CAN exclude trans folks from your dating pool, and you absolutely positively can’t" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 18 insightful - 10 fun18 insightful - 9 fun19 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

You can’t exclude trans folks from your dating pool

Oh, yeah? Just watch me.

Andrew Cuomo's Daughter Michaela Comes Out As Demisexual: 'We're Always Evolving' by Femaleisnthateful in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, she is really cute. Too bad there's nothing going on in her head.

"White dykes do better" by Shales123 in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not going to be nice to anyone who calls me a dyke.

I kissed a non-man and I liked it by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hate the "non-men" bullshit so much. I can't believe they don't see how sexist it is.

Also, little boys are technically "non-men" so lots of unfortunate implications there...

TIL Only men have universally female experiences by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 23 insightful - 15 fun23 insightful - 14 fun24 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

TIL chopping off your dick is a universally female experience

You want this boy pussy or not faggot? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

i stink in every way imaginable

No comment needed.

How would you react to someone telling you "I'm surprised you're gay, I never would have guessed"? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

People have always told me this, so I don't really think about it anymore. I do wish there wasn't such a strong stereotype of what a gay person "should" be, though.

What is with she/they and he/they pronouns? by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well...we aren't kidding when we say that they want to go back to the 1950s.

Right!? I feel like stereotyping etc. has gotten much stronger in the past few years.

What is with she/they and he/they pronouns? by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So basically they do it because other people are doing it? That makes sense based on what I've seen.

Who else here is experiencing "insanity fatigue"? by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, very much so.

I've also started to grow tired of the "woke" city where I live because I keep meeting people who unironically believe it all. Logging off only gives me a break from the absolute most insane stuff.

I'm at a loss for words. How does a 4 year old kid know their identity? by ScornOfTheMoon in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

When I was 4, I identified as a dinosaur.

r/AMA - I was exclusively a lesbian before i met my current boyfriend (This is old but had to share... The comments make me lose faith) by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]strawberrysun 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In the comments she talks about how she would make out with guys at parties and viewed them as a "loose option"... Yeah, she was never a lesbian.

TIL Men can't be nice. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Oh god I hope not lol

TIL Men can't be nice. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 12 insightful - 9 fun12 insightful - 8 fun13 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Who knew there were so many transwomen out there!?

TIL Men can't be nice. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 23 insightful - 15 fun23 insightful - 14 fun24 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

TIL my grandpa is a transwoman

When only a queer haircut can save your relationship from being exposed as boring old heterosexuality by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I couldn't believe this article actually got published. It's so cringeworthy.

I don't understand all these people who crave constant external validation. I've never "looked gay" and yet I always have been. A haircut doesn't make you more or less bisexual.

When memes about iced coffee and cuffed jeans go too far, everyone loses by barnarnas in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve always struggled with the concept of stereotypes. I’ve been getting “but you don’t look/act/seem like a lesbian” ever since I started coming out in 2009. I have long hair, I don’t like flannels, I love to cook and eat meat (I make a hell of a pot roast!), I am a political moderate, and I would never in a million years even consider Uhauling. I’m just… average, I guess? You couldn’t pick me or any of my past girlfriends out of a lineup with all my straight female friends.

There was a moment in the early 2010s when I thought we as a society were kind of moving past all that and everyone could just be how they wanted, but it has disappeared entirely. I’ve noticed a lot of the “[fashion choice] makes you gay” or whatever nonsense in the past 5 years or so, and I’ve started to become resentful of it.

My boy-crazy little sister fits more lesbian stereotypes than I do.

When memes about iced coffee and cuffed jeans go too far, everyone loses by barnarnas in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I had never even heard of this artist until a bunch of teens asked some straight actress if she "listened to Girl in Red" as a (cringeworthy) way to ask her if she was gay.

No, I don't think I will accomodate by milknciggies in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is so ridiculous. It's like if I, as a lesbian, demanded that everyone put their sexuality in their bio.

I am very obviously a woman. Any social media account connected with my real identity shows my face, and no one who can see would ever call me anything other than she. I also have a writing account that doesn't show my face, but it's still under a woman's name. Not like it even matters online anyway. When I (late 20s) was growing up, we were not encouraged to share personal info online at all.

Also, if they think that people will harass them if they're the only ones doing it, why don't they just... I don't know, STOP?

TRA’s celebrate Trans Visibility day by calling actress Sarah Paulson a transphobe for refusing to state her pronouns in her Twitter bio. by Lessom in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I remember her comments about JKR. This is why you never, ever bend the knee. They seem to hate their own allies the most...

The joy of lesbian sex by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

"Rape is beautiful!" - these negative IQ clowns

This Amazon review of a rainbow flag 🤦‍♂️ by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Stealing your own mother's underwear is fucking disgusting.

What is the general political orientation of people on LGB-T? by ukrdude10 in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Mostly center with a lib-right lean.

If you went to college, how are your official college LGBTQ resources (not student organizations) addressing LGB concerns? by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They have an official space that was supposed to be an LGBT meeting/resources area back when I was there, but now it seems to just host a trans group and a bunch of political orgs.

The main LGBT society's instagram is just full of cringy memes and tired stereotypes.

As a super lesbian, I feel more accepted by Republicans, conservatives, and Christians nowadays than I do by my own supposed "community" by [deleted] in SuperStraight

[–]strawberrysun 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. I went to a Christian high school, and the worst that happened was stuff like some girls not wanting to be friends with me and people saying, "I'll pray for you" or whatever. It sucked, but it was never anything even remotely close to the unhinged rape and death threats the wokes love to send.

As a super lesbian, I feel more accepted by Republicans, conservatives, and Christians nowadays than I do by my own supposed "community" by [deleted] in SuperStraight

[–]strawberrysun 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a super lesbian too. I moved to a big city in an east coast blue state almost a decade ago, eager to escape my small conservative hometown... And now I'm considering moving back south in a few years for similar reasons. Not to my hometown because my industry doesn't exist there, but maybe another southern state. My super gay and super lesbian friends who live in places like Texas and Georgia are so much happier than I am and have better dating lives.

I never could have imagined this at 18, and yet here we are. I experienced my fair share of homophobia as a teenager, but the worst comments I ever heard back home pale in comparison to the crap the "woke homophobes" are spouting these days.

TRAs pieces of shit got the GoFundme Page for Vancouver rape shelter banned by FineIWillDoItMyself in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How could anyone do this and think they're the good guys? Absolute clowns.

"No one is forcing you to date trans". Then lays out scenario of "what if" & "transphobia" if you walk away. by pacmanla in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The fact that these people think anyone who doesn't want to sleep with them has an "insane victim complex" is beyond hilarious.

What do you think are the issues with the words "boy pussy", "shitoris", "mangina", "girl dick", etc? by Tea_Or_Coffee in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"Shitoris" might be the single worst word I've ever read... Thanks.

Would you date a transman? by Srime in Lesbians

[–]strawberrysun 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, the mental health concerns would be too much, and I would never want to pretend to buy into gender ideology. Plus even pre-hormones, I am personally not attracted to masculinity.

Is sexuality more "fluid" in women? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I've heard that too, although my own sexuality is about as fluid as a brick. I think it's often more socially acceptable for a woman to admit to having same-sex experiences than it is for a man.

Weird TQ+ messages in LGB fanfiction? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I read and write fanfiction pretty often. Not trying to give myself away with too many details since I'm pretty well-known in a small fandom, but I once nope'd out of an otherwise decent series because the author had one of the main characters visit an agender doctor who used they/them pronouns. I wish I could say where this character lives because it would make that idea 10x funnier and even less realistic.

In another, the author had a character who explicitly describes herself as a lesbian in canon date a nonbinary OC.

I was once asked if I could make a background character trans. I did not respond.

Would you personally date a bisexual woman? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]strawberrysun 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd be fine with a regular bisexual woman, although I would probably be a little turned off if she called herself pansexual or queer.

At what age does your attraction to women "peak" at? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]strawberrysun 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have always been pretty interested in women around their late 20s/early 30s. Now I am in that age group, so it will be interesting to see if that changes once I get older.

Stonewall CEO tries to debunk "myth" of lesbian extinction using poll data and gets called out. "There were 3 lesbians [...] in that poll, Nancy. 3! Out of 1127" by motss-pb in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 13 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

My little sister is 18 and basically believes this. She's only ever liked boys, but she thinks Halsey is pretty so she's "pansexual" now... even though she'd never date a girl.

"Book about lesbian sex - Girl Sex 101" - on cover 40% of "lesbians" are men, book have whole chapters about PiV and PiA sex by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 21 insightful - 4 fun21 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

No one on that book cover looks anything like any lesbian I've ever had sex with.

I'm also very, very confused about the inclusion of a dog.

What do all lesbians have in common? by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's so funny to me when they do this. I discovered I liked girls when I was in middle school. I've been exclusively attracted to women for 15+ years, literally ever since puberty. And yet... I've never fit into their "lesbian aesthetic" or had any desire to!

The only thing all lesbians have in common is that we are women who are exclusively attracted to women, but the TQ people don't want to hear that.

r/actualtransbians applauds woman for being misogynistic; bonus: "anyone anti-trans must be a rich, white, conservative woman" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 27 insightful - 6 fun27 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Strong "pick me, I'm not like the other girls!" energy.

There is NO reasonable excuse for you not to fuck me by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun 16 insightful - 8 fun16 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

No reason not to fuck this person? I'd think the personality is a big enough reason.

[Questions] Love is in the Air! by PeakingPeachEater in LGBDropTheT

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  1. Single
  2. If I had a girlfriend, I would cook her a nice dinner. I like to cook and make homemade candies for my girlfriends.
  3. Physical touch
  4. With my last girlfriend, we explored the city a lot because she was new in town (2019 so things were actually open) while I have lived here for most of a decade. Sometimes we also just cuddled in bed doing nothing.
  5. I like a nice butt! ;) Also, as a short/small woman, I am kind of drawn to other women my size because I like to feel equal.
  6. I want someone who is easy to talk to.
  7. N/A
  8. N/A
  9. Femme
  10. No one really comments on me being single except my little sister (HS senior) who thinks I am old and need to hurry up.
  11. No, and this is why my last relationship ended. Now that I am in my late 20s, I am struggling to find women who feel the same!
  12. I live 2000 miles away from my family, so I only visit once a year on average. I’ve never brought a girlfriend back to meet them.