Cass Review (by Dr. Hilary Cass): Gender Identity Services for Children and Young People

INeedSomeTime · 2024-04-12T11:57:08+00:00

Obviously you have TRAs trying to deny the facts.

INeedSomeTime · 2024-02-15T11:04:34+00:00

Men dressing up as women for lolz doesn't mean they're trans. But these people are ready to trans already established characters, draw them with masectomy scars or in this case... trans deceased people.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-10-19T12:20:30+00:00

We all have to be force-teamed with trans in the end looks like. They're truly cancer of LGB community.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-10-19T12:19:13+00:00

They love to invade and turn everything trans. Bathrooms, safe spaces for gay people or even just entertainment media...

INeedSomeTime · 2023-10-09T07:26:14+00:00

It is so clear to me that so many straight people in the LGBTQ movement see "gay" not as a sexual orientation, but as a desirable aesthetic-- a set of trendy habits, a haircut, a certain style of clothes and mannerisms, which bestow virtue upon the posturer.

So basically same goes for queer. I noticed that it's more like a subculture than just being gay, bi or even asexual. Certain behaviors or way of clothing tends to be associated with being queer. So often that behavior can be described as childish and that's one of the things making me uncomfortable in such places. I am a grown person, not a teenager. Colorful hair with awful haircut is other thing. To be fair I prefer to look the opposite way to queer lol. So I look "straight." That reminds me how some kweers cry about the idea of not being seen as "queer enough." What the fuck does it even mean?

INeedSomeTime · 2023-10-09T07:18:53+00:00

I feel bad for actual trans men when it comes to that. If I saw a short man with these mastectomy scars I'd not immediately think that's a trans man. But ever since these scars are basically glorified with Tumblr/Twitter artists giving them to every male character they draw then it's so easy to tell now. I hate these arts because they clearly draw a biological man but with these scars. Trans men rarely look like this. Their shoulders aren't broad and hips narrow. And their voices also are like on helium... And they're usually quite short. Misinformation is insane.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-10-07T11:34:50+00:00

I think a lot of lesbians who buy into this are bisexuals in denial, who bully actual lesbians into doing the same.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-10-07T11:31:14+00:00

Hell even if I am asexual I don't get how people buy into this shit that a lesbian is basically attracted to some vague idea of a woman but if such a woman looks like a hairy man with a dick somehow she gotta be into it. Sexuality is based on physical world, not some spiritual feelings wtf.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-10-04T08:16:48+00:00

I definitely agree that the whole "romantic asexual" thing might be just a platonic bond but since people don't take friendships seriously even if such bonds can be as strong and a "breakup" hurts as much too, then they prefer to call it romantic so it could be seen as more significant.

If that's the case it's definitely rather sad, not gonna lie. I can form really strong platonic bonds (friendships) but since it's not romantic in the actual sense (lacks sexual component) then it isn't seen as important by society even if it is important for me. It is seen as okay to end or neglect such a relationship for the sake of romantic one because it's seen as higher priority.

So I can see why ace community is clingy towards using that wording. Even if it's technically wrong.

I also agree with the other subgroup of "romantic asexuals." I overall have the impression asexual label truly attracts confused people (or spicy straights) but since this is a some kind of entry to LGBT community as a whole then maybe with time they will grow more comfortable with being just gay or bi by observing others who are gay or bi there.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-26T10:33:17+00:00

Honestly even I am not LGB but this shit concerns me and while I don't have the need to come out (even to just stop being asked if I am gay in denial...) but I don't wanna be assumed to be the blue haired queer nutjob, who is looking for kids, for being asexual.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-26T10:29:10+00:00

LGBTQ+ community is mostly a bunch of people, who actually don't have much in common besides for being a bit different. Trans people have so completely different stuff going on than gay or bi people. Asexual people are also different than gay or bi people - in such a space they wouldn't like to talk about sex in theory, right?

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-26T10:24:32+00:00

According to this form of classification I am aromantic and asexual (so technically your stereotypical asexual) so I may not be able to answer that too well. I think the difference between sexless romance and friendship is a bit blurry. I guess you wouldn't kiss a friend though. Might be that asexual simply says they're comfortable with doing stuff like kissing with both sexes. Some only feel comfortable with doing it with the same sex as them or as the opposite one.

Since I am super clueless about romance and sex (I mean, not surprising lol) then I am not gonna try engaging in a discussion about romantic attraction. Traditionally romantic attraction is understood as platonic attraction and sexual attraction. In asexual community they define it as... platonic attraction with some extra but not sexual stuff? I mean I am not gonna critize it because it's not rare to find the same word meaning a bit different things depending on the place/context/culture. So I don't think it's a stretch that romantic attraction understood by asexuals will be different than romantic attraction defined by the rest of society. It even shows some of these fundamental differences between actual asexuals and the rest of population I assume.

But this is where I think the whole split attraction model should be used exclusively by asexuals. Because asexual romantic attraction(platonic+nonsexual extra) is different from typical romantic attraction (platonic+sexual).

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-26T10:11:14+00:00

Emotional connection without sexual attraction is called a friendship, you fucking morons. It enrages me to see this blatantly homophobic and sexist drivel being spread because it pressures lesbian women to say and believe that they are bisexual, when they are not. This is exactly what happened to me when I was younger. And it is harmful for both lesbian and bisexual women. Meanwhile, equally clueless people in academia completely neglect to mention this phenomenon of lesbian women being pressured to self-identify as bisexual, and instead like to claim bullshit like "wOmEn aRe nAtUrAlLy bIsExUaL!1!" (edit: looking at you, Michael Bailey)

Yup I totally agree. I honestly think the whole stuff with biromantic, aromantic, homoromantic crap should be a thing exclusively used by asexuals. Using it outside of asexual community should be called a misuse and a mean of confusing people, who try to get more comfortable with being fully gay or bi.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-26T10:06:33+00:00

I find it crazy how people once heard some bullshit without any citation and now they repeat it like some total, absolute truth.

I also don't get how gay men are treated like "cishets" of the LGBT community, since if you look at third world countries they truly suffer the most. They are killed for being gay by some laws there!

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-26T10:03:51+00:00

Good. The radical inclusitivity is truly a cancer eating the whole community. Not just the LGB part. T and A as well. Words have no meanings - they are basically used like accessory to have. If someone says they're X, then they are X. If you see that someone is not X, you're a hateful bigot.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-26T09:58:18+00:00

The most bizarre thing about puberty blockers is instead of testing it properly until using it without giving it too much thought, they just rolled with it and if anyone had objections you were called a hateful transphobe.

Honestly, I was thinking about this shit a while ago and concluded that experimenting on people, who are considered to be trans, is hateful and transphobic itself! Regardless if these people are actually trans but somehow it's super acceptable to experiment on mentally vulnerable people. It's so sick.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-21T15:27:21+00:00

At least punks, emos, metalheads, goths had much better style and cool music. The queers have literally nothing cool to offer. Their culture is extremely off-putting.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-13T08:03:49+00:00

To be fair she is a very decent person aside from that and her "beliefs" make me sad more than infuriated because she overall has this kind of personally in which tries very hard to be a people pleaser and is afraid to confront anyone. It's clear to me she was exposed to a group which shared that belief and brainwashed her into believing it that. It's super sad and harmful though and makes me mad how this whole movement takes advantage of people like her, who are afraid to question or stand up for themselves. Hell, even I prefer to be anonymous when I come here - because the consequences can get this bad. So I am more pissed off at the whole TQ+ movement which made her have so messed up takes on her sexuality. And I will not reveal more personal stuff about her but that combo of prefering dicks but as long as they are "on women" and some stuff she experienced in real life with men, makes me believe she may be bisexual but due to past experiences she doesn't want to ever try anything with men as long as they pretend to be ladies. Because of course she believes a transwoman is just like normal woman.

Anyway I think a lot of handmaidens of the TQ+ movement are also people who ended up coerced to preach the gospel. It takes advantage of vulnerable people... but to be fair that’s not that surprising. It takes advange of vulnerability of being a minority so much that it’s disgusting.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-10T23:23:22+00:00

I got fed up with mainstream asexual spaces years ago. You'd think you will see people having discussion about actual asexuality - what makes us different to the rest to the world, what doesn't, what are the common experiences we don't relate to, how we want to navigate the world as asexuals etc. Well no. You so often so people being like: "How often do you guys masturbate?" "What kinks do you have?" "How often do you have sex?" "Is it OK for me to be in this space if I am ace who has sex everyday with my partner but just recently realized I may be ace but love sex?" "What kinds of porn do you watch?" Or some random posts like: "Remember you're valid if you're an asexual who is addicted to porn/is hypersexual/has kinks/has sex everyday/loves sex."

I got so fed up one day and unsubbed from all the "ace" subs on Reddit and muted tags and words associated with asexuality on other social media. Kinda sad but it saved me some sanity. I guess I can slightly relate to you guys when I see similar "activism" with posts/randos preaching how as a lesbian you have to love the dick if it's attached to a "woman" or as a gay man you gotta love pussy if it's attached to a "man".

I think the whole LGBTQWTF+ is all over the place for everyone. Even for actual trans people who don't subscribe to any of that bullshit.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-10T11:19:59+00:00

Cloning myself would be horrifying to be fair

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-10T11:18:06+00:00

I can see that even if asexuality is something I found out about when I noticed that I was genuinely different from other adults. Not by just doing the... "LGBT label shopping" on Tumblr (I think I didn't really have Tumblr account back then and on different socials LGBT was mostly about gay/bi people then).

But I see that I am spared this weird, creepy expectation to be down for a trans person no matter if you're gay, bi or straight. I have a friend who says she's a lesbian but has a... bigger preference for dicks. I don't have any comments. She is super brainwashed in that regards that I am a bit sad for her.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-10T11:13:13+00:00

Honestly I hate how greysexuality/demisexuality are put together with asexuality. One implies the person will be still down for something but after a while, the other one will be never down for anything. And this way a straight woman who just needs a bit more time to fuck can claim to be "queer."

And even then I don't view either as queer. I don't feel persecuted for asexuality like gay/bi people do. I have other issues though, as I gotta organize my life a bit differently than average straight person. In a way I gotta find another asexual like me to be comparible and have a relationship where we both are happy. Not one where one is prevented from having their natural needs met because of me.

I overall don't like the word queer at this point. I associate Queer with the idea of a subculture, cultural appropriation and LGB tourism by straight people. To me queer means a poser, lol.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-09-03T08:09:07+00:00

Yeah the infantile behavior extends to pretty much everything. One thing is doing it as a part of a silly joke but it seems like any self-declared queer person is supposed to have this childish vibe as a whole.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-08-27T08:08:17+00:00

There was a post in asexual forum asking if any other demisexual also develops sexual attraction quickly like them.

Words have no meaning.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-08-27T08:05:30+00:00

This is why I avoid any of these spaces. I am a goddamn grown adult, not a kid. Seeing such a language even between adult people, even as a "joke" makes me super uncomfortable and all I do is step away. I feel the need to show to straight people I want to be treated like anyone else. Like an adult, who you talk to like to an adult. Not like to a 13 year old, who is on Tumblr too much.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-08-27T07:58:16+00:00

Gender feels like the new God in a way. I find it crazy how important it is for some people. I never understood it. Gender or more like sex is only relevant when it comes to biological and cultural differences.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-08-21T14:27:05+00:00

I swear a few years ago that'd be an edit made to make fun of LGBT people

INeedSomeTime · 2023-08-21T14:24:31+00:00

I heard a friend who said that "LGBT" should put the T in the front (so it should be TLGB) because of how much trans women "did to the community." I barely managed not to slip up anything. I was just quiet pretending I was busy in a game.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-08-14T08:45:39+00:00

I agree with the 2nd argument because you can easily observe it around the people you know. More often they develop unhealthy straight relationships than "become homosexual" from that. I often heard this argument used against asexuality too and it started getting tiring especially when I never suffered from trauma.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-07-26T07:40:13+00:00

I have the impression with one friend of mine. Maybe I am wrong and because of meeting me and the other gay friend she just found out she's not straight but... "bi ace" (to me she is more likely to be just bisexuality but shy). Though she only thinks that because of fictional characters she likes and apparently "simps" for. No real life people involved. I don't think she does that for attention. I think she's simply confused.

Of course she got herself some bi flag merchandise as soon as she "realized" that. I don't know man but for some reason when I see these people swimming in kweer merch I roll my eyes. Makes me think of good old posers in metal community lmao.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-07-02T12:53:54+00:00

This has me really thinking.

Are transtrenders actually useless idiots?

They started the pronoun nonsense. It was unecessary before because trans people worked on being refered by pronouns they wanted and it was only he or she. I think thanks to them we ended up with all the homophobic shit called genital preference and changing homosexuality into homogenderism (?) where a second after a dude says he's a lady a lesbian gotta be into him. To me transtrenders are a source of all issues.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-07-02T12:49:10+00:00

Even if they try to lie about LGB groups but overall I am happy. Before no one even acknowledged LGB exists in any form, it was all LGBT and all gays/bis where somehow all uniform. Now LGB is getting some fraction. It's getting more noticeable to the point the kweers have to make up some bullshit why LGB is bad. So they either call you self-hating gays or alt-right straights. I personally prefer to be LGB ally than be a part of LGBTQWTF+. TQ+ is harmful even to me on many levels.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-06-20T12:59:53+00:00

That's what I think every time I see a "gay" trans "man". I immediately translate it into a straight woman.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-06-19T07:16:51+00:00

This is why dropping TQ+ is so important. Society must realize that all that ridiculous shit comes from the TQ part.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-06-11T12:10:05+00:00

All that is simply "anti-trans". Honestly they watered-down the meaning of anti-trans and transphobia so much that whenever I see these words mentioned towards someone or something my knee-jerk reaction is just "Good, they're simply are based" at this point.

Transphobia no longer means actual discrimination against a trans person. "Trans genocide" means stopping or looking critically that rapid increase of people identifying as trans even if they mostly do it to be seen as cool or as extension of self-harm. "How dare you stop us from converting more people into trans people?" - these TRAs basically.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-06-05T12:29:04+00:00

They just want to be special.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-06-05T12:26:31+00:00

I'm older Gen Z but I feel this lmao

INeedSomeTime · 2023-06-05T12:24:50+00:00

I was rolling my eyes at the changed picture of one of the purely gaming focused Discord server but oh shit this is is so horrid.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-31T01:04:31+00:00

Literally I met a "guy" who discovered "he" is trans from cosplaying some male character too. She changed her name to include the name of some anime character also... big red flags. I have no clue how therapist simply ignored that (that didn't happen in the US or UK btw).

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-27T11:36:27+00:00

Same. Once it becomes "normalized" all these genderspecials will stop being genderspecials. I guess they will latch to being "systems" aka appropriate DID and water it down into something similar to non-binary. Not related to trauma, just being born a system or some shit like that.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-22T11:04:26+00:00

Also what rights they don't have? They have them under human rights already and it amuses me when they repeat "trans right are human rights" like a gospel. They chant it to "fight" for some rights trans people somehow don't have yet as indicated by the slogan they say, they already have all rights everyone has.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-22T11:02:46+00:00

You can just go fuck yourself

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-22T11:01:40+00:00

This brings me back to me from a few years ago, who somehow was buying into this - though even then I felt that's a bit of an exaggeration. Imagine having this level of victimization.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-23T23:20:12+00:00

LGB: actual gay or bi people

LGBT: spicy straights who redefine words to fit them

Fixed.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-23T23:18:54+00:00

I agree with your point on asexuality actually. When you follow mainstream asexual communities the term "asexual" is pretty much meaningless like non-binary. It can include everyone, literally. But been seeing a little pushback against watering down the meaning of asexuality but as expected the mainstream calls them gatekeepers or bigots. Even if they simply want the word "asexual" to mean something specific.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-22T10:21:19+00:00

I understand having one day. After all we already have many bullshit/joke days like Pizza Day or whaterver. But a whole week?

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-18T10:02:47+00:00

I am not surprised but if you dare to say there is an ongoing social contagion after seeing every second person proclaiming being they/them and gay then somehow you're hateful

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-08T12:17:14+00:00

Her dysphoria is just her realizing she's disgusting for fethishizing gay men.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-08T12:15:21+00:00

Honestly I hope that this shit show will make people aware how unhinged TRAs and their trans ideology is. I see people who even support TRA cause to be ashamed of this crap so maybe something will change? Moderates will notice what's going on and realize how fucked up everything is? I really hope.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-04T15:15:06+00:00

The Sims 2 and 3 are the best! The Sims 4 is really bland

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-02T10:25:18+00:00

Ten years from now everyone will look at this with cringe

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-31T11:00:55+00:00

One way to end this shit is basically everyone declaring themselves to be non-binary. Because when you think long enough you will easily conclude 99% of society could be considered non-binary and you're not special for not being hyperfocused on your maleness/femaleness and having a personality besides for that.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-29T09:32:03+00:00

I genuinely expected this woman to look more butch at least but no. Straight people getting really desperate to be queer I see.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-26T11:08:10+00:00

Ah yeah, let's promote self-hating women.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-25T12:15:21+00:00

That's my biggest fear seeing all the TQ insanity. Even if I am not LGB but even I worry I will be accused of being a dangerous freak.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-24T12:25:06+00:00

Very based and sane rant. Sad that it's gone but to look at things through more optymistic lenses I think there is much more people thinking the same but it's really hard to win against a majority, which appropriates your condition and turns it into this weird abomination.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-24T12:21:20+00:00

I think that OP is planting seeds to change the tone of the truscum sub. And there are users in there parroting back TQ+ mantra and getting upvoted.

This is why some one the actually truscum people left that sub for transmedicalist subs. I remember checking that sub from time to time and seeing the periodical complains about truscum sub there.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-24T12:17:39+00:00

Ah yes, genitals, reproductive systems, musculoskeletal structures, pfft that shit is so easy to change, we're like Mr. Potato Heads, really. BUT MY DESIRE TO WEAR PRETTY DRESSES WAS DECIDED BY THE GODS THEMSELVES.

At this point transgenderism is truly like religion and you can't convince me otherwise. It's ridiculous to reject the objective reality but consider your beliefs to be something what is before the objective evidences. It's the same logic you see in religious people. For example Christians who reject evidences of evolution or that the world is older than 2 thousands years old because their beliefs matter more.

And science doesn't really back up gender identity - to be clear, there is just no actual concepts made around it yet - it only exists as a discourse among activists. There is no coherent definition of this concept while you can actually find various empirical definitions for concepts which are also psychological like - intelligence, emotions, personality etc. These tend to be understood slightly differently between professionals but even these different understandings tend to be coherent on their own. Because of the fact they could be conceptualized and professionals could create tools to measure them!

Meanwhile with gender identity? It's always described in a terribly vague way. Scientific concepts shouldn't be vague and up to someone's interpretation. They should be clear cut so anyone, who learns the definition can understand it in the same way.

Imagine trying to create a tool to measure gender identity like you have such ones for personality or intelligence. That's impossible to make without bringing up gender stereotypes. But since out TRAs insist gender identity is detached from gender stereotypes or anything social, then imagine conceptualizing that. How do you wanna measure it? Since you can't, then to me it feels like gender identity is more like a name you choose for yourself or someone. With new sets of pronouns, new name etc it really feels like gender identity is a "complex name" you attach to yourself.

Sorry I just can't. If discussion around transgenderism was based on acknowledging your biological sex but also acknowledging that in your mind you feel comfortable more as the opposite of your sex (because of severe distress aka gender dysphoria) then I think there would be no need for this sub even.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-21T09:24:39+00:00

Gay men aren't bisexual

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-14T11:49:09+00:00

I always hated the term. "My past name" doesn't sound so radical.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-08T17:38:19+00:00

Lmao so close to being self-aware

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-31T17:12:30+00:00

At least shitty dyed hair can regrow to normal and makeup can be washed off...

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-31T17:08:47+00:00

I guess it's nothing new that the queer or LGBTQWERTY label is just the "cool" label. Why is everyone so desperate to belong there even if they find a name for their obscure sexual preferences? Because they don't wanna be a "normie". It's not "cool" to be a "normie". As an anti-conformist person I tend to be angry I am not a straight person among the rest of my "queer" friends. And in creative works, unlike the others, I refuse to make everything "queer" or at least outright "queer" and I just make characters who may happen to be not straight people but it's usually not relevant and I don't shower them in colorful flags and pronouns. But I genuinely feel more original when I make very normie aka straight and non-trans characters' stories even if it may sound funny. God, I had to let it out.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-30T06:59:28+00:00

Good

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-25T20:44:00+00:00

I feel so much the point number 3. I had a friend suddenly realizing she is a "demigirl" but that's it to it. Just some laughable addition of "they" to pronouns list. I hope she will snap out of it. But besides for that she doesn't make a big deal out of it. She's rather very socially awkward and I'd say what she interprets as "not wanting to be seen as a woman by strangers" is the social awkwardness, boyish interests and shy personality she has. Basically being a "they" is her protective shield. It still fucking hurts to see even if technically nothing really changed.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-22T11:13:28+00:00

How come everyone thinks it's okay that your kids is drugging himself?

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-20T15:33:49+00:00

People really forgot what rainbow meant. It stood for equality and representing everyone. But it's not appealing to narcissists not to be on a pedestal- different from the rest.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-12T00:14:48+00:00

I guess years will pass and you will have more trans influencers coming out as detrans.

I do believe there are people who experience gender dysphoria and they deserve help but more options should be explored for them. Activists screaming how transition is the only good treatment is anti-scientific because a lot of time something considered to be "good" turned out not to ne and alternatives were found. Activists cannot stomach this.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-09T10:44:06+00:00

I feel like some of the proclaimed asexuals or aromantics are socially awkward people, who just never dated or fucked despite having a desire for it. It's a key to point it out they have a desire for these because they often even say that they love to fantasy about dating or sex but as they say they don't want to see themselves involved in the acts or they even imagine themselves in such scenarios. Meanwhile I just have no desire whatsoever. I don’t care.

I think there is a raise of awareness there is such a thing as asexuality but alongside that you have a lot of socially awkward or traumatized people identifying as such. But they discover a bit later they aren't asexual.... or they water-down the term to the point it's mind-boggling, just to keep the queer label.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-03T07:07:13+00:00

Damn. Reading the title I thought they realized all these genders are bullshit... but sadly no...

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-02T09:40:27+00:00

I really wonder how they manage to sell the idea that everyone wsnts trans people dead without mentioning that these potential hate murderers could as well mistake effeminate gay men or butch women for trans people and also target them. But no, somehow it's just only trans people being affected and no one else who is gender non-conforming could be mistaken for being trans by a hateful person.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-01T01:54:06+00:00

Pain

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-28T12:05:36+00:00

Self-fullfilling prophecy in a way. Once you consider you may be transgender suddenly you try to confirm it. It's just so interesting to me how someone, who was all comfortable with themselves, suddenly get so miserable once they consider they may be trans.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-28T12:01:33+00:00

I only expect to certainly lose friends I have if I shared my actual views on the current trans issue. It's not all negative towards trans people themselves. I'd say I hold a nuanced view on it where I differentiate between people, who you could call "genuinely trans" with severe gender dysphoria resistant to any interventions than just transitioning. But I cannot treat "trans/non-binary" people who have no dysphoria or just social dysphoria (which to me is very fucking normal) seriously and I find indulging their "identity" as actually harmful. So it pains me to have a friend with "they" pronouns and refer to her as such. I hate to indulge someone in avoidance of an issue she should face - sexism, misogyny etc. and pretend somehow she is suddenly above these once she declared having "they" pronouns. Today's trans activists claim how transgender is not mental illness but to me transgender identification (which is not caused by actual clinical gender dysphoria) can induce it. This is why I feel strong uneasiness with indulging proclaimed non-binary people or non-binary characters, which are being made nowadays. I view them as confused, disturbed people, who use depersonalization from their gender as unhealthy coping mechanism.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-27T11:01:26+00:00

This woman sounds... mentally unstable

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-24T10:42:53+00:00

Shooter, who killed people in a gay bar somehow isn't trans. But a sexual abuser, who raped his mother, must be refered to as "she".

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-24T10:41:30+00:00

I also find it funny that somehow identifying as trans should lower the possible punishment. So are the trans actually the most oppresed minority ever, which is always at risk of being murdered or actually a privileged class thriving on its made-up victimhood?

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-23T10:09:44+00:00

Wow I wonder if TRA brains are melting now

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-22T09:52:30+00:00

This gives me brain damage

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-20T10:17:18+00:00

Oh no! The horror!

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-20T10:14:08+00:00

Seeing that in order to be trans you don’t have to do anything but just proclaim it, watch the sudden increase of trans identification just for the money lmao

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-16T12:07:47+00:00

Suddenly milions of years of evolution which shaped the way we select partners to reproduce is reduced to just liking "masculinity" but not the most important and obvious sign your partner is male - a dick.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-16T12:06:02+00:00

Doubt

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-14T12:55:03+00:00

Yeah. I don’t know but I took this coming out as a slap in my face.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-14T12:53:42+00:00

What hurt the most was her trying to explain her non-stereotypically female interests and her tomboy look with that gender identity. I was in such a pain seeing this.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-14T08:56:29+00:00

If it's implemented imagine how hardcore abused this can be.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-12T18:14:00+00:00

I watched it all. Very good one and terrifying

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-08T14:03:40+00:00

I'm so tired

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-31T08:22:38+00:00

This is what trans mental health care should focus on to me. Working on having stronger self-esteem and confidence. You shouldn’t rely on the outside validation. As FtM you should feel absolutely confident you are a man regardless of how people gender you. The only distress would come from your appearance not matching your sex. Not from people just using their fucking eyes.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-31T08:19:24+00:00

True. Most of people don't truly care about pronouns. So called "cis" people don't break down if someone misgenders them. It's usually interpreted as someone having shit eyes. I always found obsession with pronouns unhealthy. Why are we indulging this obsession? People with obsessions and compulsions also feel physically sick with their obsessions.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T10:02:06+00:00

These guys never grew up being hated for their attraction to men. They were seen as yet another straight girls and they still fucking are. Now they're just exhibiting their yaoi addiction.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:59:58+00:00

I truly hate how "queer" is basically the new emo but at the same time you cannot call it this way... even if it's so clear it's just youth counter culture. Worst thing is that if it wasn't seen as "cool" no one would give a shit about LGBs or even asexuals. It feels like artificial acceptance just because LGBs or asexuals are just seen as "cool". Once it stops being seen this way I have a feeling people will just drop LGB people like dolls they got bored with.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:56:27+00:00

TQ+s are trying to redefine homosexuality to fit the opposite sex

I think they do it with literally any word in the acronym. It even includes transsexualism. It used to be a rare condition with a set of severe symptoms, which were treated with transition (because they were so severe and nothing could help them). Now it's a washed out term which includes also girls with "not like the other girls" syndrome, who don't feel any distress about their bodies nor presenting feminine.

TQ+ is watering down any term, so average "cishet" can be a part of the "LGBTQ+" community.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:52:18+00:00

I am impressed how these people don't seem to understand why biology matters so much.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:50:53+00:00

Why do people care so much to be called "queer" to begin with? Even if the answer to that question was "yes" then it changes literally nothing about me. Yet, another word attached to my person for no good reasons. Boring people with no personality only are so desperately craving for being called queer.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:42:07+00:00

At least there will be less "she/they" girls there.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-23T09:26:07+00:00

I feel like a lot of trans interventions suffer from sunk cost fallacy. No wonder regret seems to be rare. And studies don't take account of that.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-22T08:48:11+00:00

This is what happens when you preach that sexual attraction is tied to ever changing gender identity than just body you were born with. I never understood this logic even as a fucking asexual, lmao. I know a person, who literally only stops themselves from gushing over a character because of pronouns and supposed gender identity. If you changed nothing about the character's visuals but only changed their pronouns this person would suddenly allow themselves to have a crush on this character. Trans ideology truly melts one's brain by deprogramming you from trusting your instincts.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-22T08:43:43+00:00

Horrible design. There was one design used to represent everyone. The good old rainbow flag.

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