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[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This is why I avoid any of these spaces. I am a goddamn grown adult, not a kid. Seeing such a language even between adult people, even as a "joke" makes me super uncomfortable and all I do is step away. I feel the need to show to straight people I want to be treated like anyone else. Like an adult, who you talk to like to an adult. Not like to a 13 year old, who is on Tumblr too much.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not like to a 13 year old, who is on Tumblr too much.

The problem is that many of those who participate on these "queer groups" have this exact mental age.

One evidence which points to this is how they go completely ballistic if they witness any semblance of opposition to their beliefs: instead of having a civil discussion, like most grown adults, they resort to histrionic screaming and flailing their arms like a toddler who was denied a toy.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah the infantile behavior extends to pretty much everything. One thing is doing it as a part of a silly joke but it seems like any self-declared queer person is supposed to have this childish vibe as a whole.