Gay Men"Why are these men so repulsed when I send them pictures of my mangina? Could it be because they are gay? No! It must be the transphobia!"

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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 64 insightful - 43 fun64 insightful - 42 fun65 insightful - 43 fun -  (5 children)

"One gay man had a straight up dick fetish saying that he only wants to be with people with dicks"

LMAO

[–]Poppy29252Natal Cat Woman 39 insightful - 21 fun39 insightful - 20 fun40 insightful - 21 fun -  (3 children)

Everything is a fetish to them.

I'm eating pineapple right now. MUST BE A FETISH.

You drive a car....every day? FETISH.

You desire sex with people you're attracted to and not with people you're not attracted to? FETISHIZING FREAK.

[–][deleted] 23 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Real fetishists are not going to accept any substitutes, either. It's either a pair of pantyhose, or it's not.

[–]AugustiJade 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Classic projection on her part

[–]insta 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Everything is a fetish to them.

Especially when you’re an ugly person who does have interest in trans people. It’s only not a fetish when you’re hot and you also are attracted to trans people. Try to keep up.

[–]julesburm1891 27 insightful - 10 fun27 insightful - 9 fun28 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

You have to wonder what all these women would say about partners with twats instead of dicks. Something tells me they wouldn’t be on board...

[–]newaccount85 41 insightful - 14 fun41 insightful - 13 fun42 insightful - 14 fun -  (4 children)

funny how this bitch doesnt ever have to "break" her heterosexuality (since she's only into males) but would reject a woman who FEEELS like a man because she's not attracted to women lol Go on any, ANY "FTM subreddit" and they all say the EXACT same thing but they cant admit it to the outside world so they say garbage like, "it would just increase my dysphoria if i dated a female who said she was a man!". It's ALWAYS gays and lesbians who have to "break" their homosexuality but these heterosexuals, not for one second would ever consider "breaking" their heterosexuality

[–]julesburm1891 38 insightful - 6 fun38 insightful - 5 fun39 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

Dysphoria is the most convenient malady. It somehow only appears when someone asks why the same rules don’t apply or when someone questions a claim.

[–]newaccount85 29 insightful - 7 fun29 insightful - 6 fun30 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I've perused through far more transexual subs to know more about the dysphoria than they'd like the outside world to know. Dysphoria isnt some inherent medical thing. They openly admit it "fluctuates" DIRECTLY by how other people see them and they use the words "man" and "woman" so its 100% societal. Thats why theyre sometimes ok with their genitals, sometimes not, sometimes keep their breasts on as "FTM straight girls", sometimes need to chop them off...the dysphoria isnt an inherent medical thing. It's induced by how people see them...thats it. It's not like gays/lesbians have a "fluctuating" homosexuality based on how much we like the colour pink. Their "trans-ness" is just however much they need to "trans"themselves to escape a certain feeling.

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Surprise, because the dysphoria was socially engendered in the first place. (At least in a lot of FTM cases.)

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 18 insightful - 6 fun18 insightful - 5 fun19 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I have a "friend" who says this exact same shit. "Oh my dysphoria, noo, I couldn't date another AFAB." To give her credit though, I've been VERY OPENLY PENIS-ATTRACTED around her and she doesn't seem to care. So either she doesn't really think it's "transphobic" or she just isn't the bold enough type to say it to my face.

Or maybe she realizes that, after talking to a nasty penis fetish regularily, we're not actually evil and out to get trans people. HMMM.

[–]ThrowMeAway2879[S] 40 insightful - 15 fun40 insightful - 14 fun41 insightful - 15 fun -  (3 children)

Doozy of a thread with the usual homophobic warbling by FTMs who just can't understand what this "same sex attraction"-thing is all about.

OP admitting that she sends the pictures first, even though (at least by now) she suspects most don't read her profile first: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/mgg7cw/what_am_i_doibg_wrong_on_grindr/gsstuc7/

Also: The utter surprise that gay hookup culture is phallocentric. (Honestly: The best thing about gay hookup culture is unapologetic phallocentrism. Though I suppose you'd disagree if you didn't have one.)

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 19 insightful - 13 fun19 insightful - 12 fun20 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

The problem is that the entire world is phallocentric, not just gay culture, which makes sense to be phallocentric.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

It's phallocentric? In my experience it's assholecentric. Not enough penis appreciation, too much shit about "wrecking" assholes and degrading the "bottom" in some kind of pathetic attempt to seem like a "dominant male."

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

The only good thing in my opinion.

[–][deleted] 25 insightful - 7 fun25 insightful - 6 fun26 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

If everyone else is constantly the asshole, perhaps the problem resides in you.

[–]pacsatonifil 25 insightful - 6 fun25 insightful - 5 fun26 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

These are dark times to be a homo. We had some good 5yrs of acceptance and no trans cult trying to conversion therapy us.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That thread - and presumably the entire sub - is depressing. I assume it's almost all trans men. A few good comments down near the bottom pointing out OPs homophobia and incel behaviour.

Seriously, these people act like they hate all 'cis' gay men, yet are so determined to date them. And anybody who is interested in them as a trans man is a 'chaser'. What an exhausting life.

[–]censorshipment 10 insightful - 13 fun10 insightful - 12 fun11 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

I try to tell the gay guys that I will have my SRS soon but they say horrible things like "it will be a disgusting lump of flesh" and it makes me feel so dysphoric and depressed because no gay man wants me. What's wrong with them? Why are they all so transphobic?

💀 lmaooo my stomach hurts from rereading this. I love how brutally honest men are with her whiny ass. Goddamn I wish all lesbians were brutal like this.

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That OP is a pretty obvious troll, but the post he made on another subreddit shows a lot of sane trans gay men, I think it's worth a read, especially after reading the answers from the trans sub.

[–]ThrowMeAway2879[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, looking at the way this was posted over half of reddit, this might be a troll.

The replies in r/asktransgender prove however that they are not too far off from the mainstream thinking there.

[–]fuck_reddit 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That was like 5% a description of her specific experience and 95% a series of phrases I have seen a million times before word. for. word. “No thoughts, head empty” indeed.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

She’s posted this shit everywhere. Check this response:

It's not a preference, it's an aversion. a preference is like "oh, I prefer apples to oranges but if oranges are all you have I'll have one." And it's not okay to treat you like that.

I get so pissed off with bigoted gay men. Like, what have they been fighting for for the last half century? Access to the same male privilege that hetero men have? Sometimes it seems like that's what it is.

Plus they don't know what they're missing.

[–]JulienMayfair 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Plus they don't know what they're missing.

Eh, I tried it. Three times.

[–]shveya 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Lol she also made a post in a sub meant for gay men about her yaoi manga

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So they were just another fujoshi fetishizing gay men and pretending to be one themselves? Imagine my surprise lol.

[–]MagnoliaxMirageSuperfemme 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

"like i absolutely love dick , but I don't have any interest in men"

????? u wot mate???

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

begone thot