I'm at a loss for words. How does a 4 year old kid know their identity? by ScornOfTheMoon in LGBDropTheT

[–]TurtleFuzz 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

My oldest is 4, and she thinks she is a construction crane.

All these trans cultists love to make the claim that young children know their "gender identity" but it's simply not true. The cultists probably don't have kids, since they chopped off their dicks and self-sterilized.

So, can transgenders be superLGBS or not? by Bhghbgh in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think that trans people can be supers, but a transwoman attracted to women is not a "SuperLesbian" because he's not a woman. He can be a SuperStraight trans identified male, who presents as a female. No shame in that.

Believe Moms: There's Something Else Going on With Trans Teens. A few weeks ago, I published an open letter about my Weird Son and his sudden and very unlikely self-diagnoses of being transgender. To my surprise, it was blocked as “Hate Speech” by Medium. by Chipit in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's appalling that this even needs to be said. Of course mothers know their children best!

Are there truly transphobic and homophobic parents out there? Of course. But not letting your kids take dangerous drugs, run off with pedophiles and make themselves sterile is not transphobic. It's good parenting.

Atlantic article about SuperStraight by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's mostly fair, but the author uses some really crazy pro-trans sources for quotes. The ContraPoints guy is really a stretch for a credible source. CP basically says "If you're a guy and you don't like dick, maybe you should just try it and you'll like it". Sounds pretty rapey to me.

Have you experienced superphobia? by Rage-Xion in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There was a whole website for sharing these exact experiences, but it looks like it was taken down :(

Oursuperstories.com

More censoring by superphobes, I'm guessing.

Four women in speedrunning by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

[–]TurtleFuzz 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

All of those pictures gave me the willies. Goddamn they are so creepy.

From Ovarit: College-age TRAs think being a superbi is transphobic by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, but Ovarit is generally pretty indifferent towards super sexuals. I'm also on Ovarit, and during the Super awakening, I noticed a lot of women were happy that males were finally realizing the shit women were going through with trans people and demanding sex. But yes, they're generally accepting, because men pretending to be lesbians is gross and we oppose it.

There isn't a lot of super talk over there, but you're welcome to join. Do you need an invite code?

STUDY: A Person's Body Stays Their Biological Sex After "Transgender" Therapy by purrvana in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Great find!

Can anyone explain to me what ‘Super Straight’ actually is, please? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]TurtleFuzz 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

When the Supersubs were activeon peddit, the consensus was that we don't want to join the LGB alphabet soup. Most people understand that being homosexual or bisexual is still in the minority, and didn't want to ruin it.

Also, the TQ+ are there, and we don't want anything to do with them lol.

Bisexual TERFs? by Rage-Xion in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm happily married and have a family but I would not date a trans person, TIM or TIF. Having children was important to me, and I am not attracted to trans genitals. And it'snot a "preference", because plastic surgery genitals are completely different from natal genitals.

I tried explaining this to a SuperStraightphobe on peddit, and he took screenshots of our conversation, didn't blank out my name, and posted them with the title "SHAME, SHAME, SHAME". Yes, this guy was very mature.

Luckily the SuperStraightPhobic sub was shuttered for hate speech a day later, so it was a win for me. But yeah, the trans will use any shaming tactic they can to coerce people into fucking them.

From Ovarit: College-age TRAs think being a superbi is transphobic by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A user on Ovarit got some screens of kids trying to justify rape culture because "not dating trans people is transphobic".

I really hope these kids step on a rake. Promoting rape and dismissing someone's sexual orientation is disgusting.

Trans rights stop at your body. No one is entitled to your body!

I got banned from 18 subreddits yesterday by CastleHoward in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

All the more reason I will not let my kids have smartphones until they're old enough to pay for them. And no unrestricted internet. My husband is a software engineer and very much Online, and he agrees with me. Social media was a mistake.

BIDEN: "There's Not a Single Thing a Man Can Do That a Woman Can't Do as Well or Better - Not a Single Thing" by scrubking in politics

[–]TurtleFuzz 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Males can piss standing up, you've got us there.

Reddit bans anyone for mentioning their new admin Ashton "Aimee" Challenor's name by TurtleFuzz in WatchRedditDie

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it's the advertising angle. People can't see ads of they can't see reddit.

I do think it would be a bigger impact if they left reddit, but there aren't ton of safe alternatives.

I hope something comes of this protest. First they censored and deleted SuperStraight, and now 2 weeks later they defend a pedophile apologist on their payroll. Doesn't look good.

Reddit bans anyone for mentioning their new admin Ashton "Aimee" Challenor's name by TurtleFuzz in WatchRedditDie

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It was my understanding that the subs are going private as a boycott. If you visit one of the private subs, you get redirected to a page that explains it: https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/mbcls0/ongoing_drama_update_rukpolitics_mod_team_release/

Reddit bans anyone for mentioning their new admin Ashton "Aimee" Challenor's name by TurtleFuzz in WatchRedditDie

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oops, thanks!

SuperStraight on Reddit improved my mental health by SearchingForTruth in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 31 insightful - 4 fun31 insightful - 3 fun32 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Same. Seeing so many people finding their bravery and speaking up was a breath of fresh air.

r/Superstraightphobic banned! Victory for SuperStraights! by NutterButterFlutter in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

That's amazing! I reported a lot of users and posts for harassment, and the sub itself. Great job to everyone who did the same!

Sexual orientation vs. preference by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

...you did, enough to comment on this post.

Sexual orientation vs. preference by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ouch, that's rough coming from a friend. Hopefully you have other friends who support your sexual orientation.

Thanks for being awesome, SuperStraights! - Lesbian and Gay News reports on the SuperStraight movement by reluctant_commenter in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Great article, thanks for sharing!

Good idea to have a term for non-super people? by Ambik in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I saw a lot of support for just calling them straight/gay/lesbian/bi.

They can keep that term, because the meaning has changed to include trans people. Which is totally fine,everyoneis free to date and have sex with whoever they want.

I say just leave them aloneand maybe they will leave us alone.

Glad to be here by Greykittymomma in lgbs

[–]TurtleFuzz 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, reddit blows

VRR GoFundMe by Superstraight has been taken down. No money going to charity. Link from the founder by Srfthrowaway2 in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I originally donated $5 through SuperStraight.

Now I'm directly donating $50.

Fuck TRAs.

The irony of the S+ sub ban by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Copy/paste from someone who said this same thing way before you did lol

TurtleFuzz[S] 14 insightful - 0 fun - 21 hours ago

I mean "peaks" as the GC/radical feminists use it.

You reach the peak (like the top of a mountain) by seeing an extreme case of insanity by the TRAs. Now that you're at the top, you can see everything below you, and you can see how illogical it all is.

The irony of the S+ sub ban by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hurr durr, can't have people donating money to a women's rape center! HaTeFuL bIgOtS!!1!

The irony of the S+ sub ban by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was loving all the support from people who were also tired of being shamed for their sexuality. I also hope we can find another home.

Welcome to exile, supers by notcisjustwoman in SuperStraight

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It was banned :(

Pedos are now a marginalized or vulnerable group on Reddit. by high-vulvan in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not surprised. Once I heard that pedos are trying to rebrand as MAPs, I knew that they would start vying for a slice of the oppression cake.

The irony of the S+ sub ban by TurtleFuzz in SuperStraight

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean "peaks" as the GC/radical feminists use it.

You reach the peak (like the top of a mountain) by seeing an extreme case of insanity by the TRAs. Now that you're at the top, you can see everything below you, and you can see how illogical it all is.

A Surefire Recipe for Celibacy: Publish a Sanctimonious Article Titled, "I’m Trans and Nonbinary: Here’s What I Want Cis People To Know About Having Sex With Me" by MarkTwainiac in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As a trans, nonbinary, agender person, navigating sex and pleasure is often challenging. That’s in large part a reflection of the lacking sex education young people get (if they get any at all) and patriarchal perspectives about sex and dating that center the cisgender, heterosexual experience.

Do people forget that the most common reason people date is to find a mate? It's our instinct to find mating partners and procreate.

Obviously, not everyone wants to have children, or even get married, and that's fine. But that seemingly disgusting, normie "cisgender heterosexual experience" is how the majority of people are born.

Anyone else annoyed by how hypocritical trans and gender fluid people are? by lskdfldskjkldsjf in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What I don't understand is "non-binary trans women". I thought the whole point of being trans was to more closely associate yourself with the opposite sex. Then why would you also say "I also don't identify as either gender"?? So frickin dumb

Great idea! New website where parents can share the indoctrination their kids are getting in schools - Woke-e-Leaks! by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cool idea, thanks for sharing!

I wonder, at what bra size do men think breasts are "big"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's what threw me off too.

He could be a very slender man, but most men aren't going to have a 32 inch ribcage.

My husband is a smaller than average guy: 5'9" and about 160 lbs. His ribcage is still bigger than mine.

For that TIM to have a 32" chest, he must be very very small. Like, bottom percentiles for males.

I wonder, at what bra size do men think breasts are "big"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, I'm 34G after having 2 kids, and I would love to be a "small" DD again lol

Prominent US biologist, Heather Heying, pushes back on the Uber Woke & Transwomen are Women by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Great read, thanks for sharing.

Fucking get me out of here please by fuckupaddams in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

🤔

We’re Raising Our Daughter Gender-Neutral, but She Only Wants Pink Dresses. Where did we mess up? by turtleduck23 in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The author did a great job pointing out that the mother missed the blatant sexism from the father, and doled out some tough love. Hopefully other parents read this and realize that liking pink is OK.

Oh the Irony by Sunflowerdevyl in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Rofl 😂

Study on how self-ID & safety (female spaces) by vintologi_se in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It says, in tiny print, that this was published by Springer Nature, in 2018. So it's little dated, considering how quickly pro-trans agendas have been lobbied the past few years.

Springer Nature also runs Scientific American, with articles such as this: https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/voices/stop-using-phony-science-to-justify-transphobia/

In which they claim that sex is a spectrum.

I don't have time to read the whole thing, but it seems like this may be biased in favor of transgender people.

The State Of Free Speech In Australia - SMH by Doobeedoo661 in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So bonkers. Stating that women's bathrooms should be for the female sex only is "insulting language". I hope Senator Chandler stays strong, and more people support her.

"It puts the lotion on it's skin..." (Latest Halloween Costume, Creepy...) by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's the scariest Halloween costume I've seen this year. Thanks. So. Much. lol

From personal experience: do NOT allow men to rob your space (in real life or online) by vitunrotta in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Great story, thank you for sharing.

When I was in high school I was part of the show choir, and our director used to tell us all the time: Fake it 'til you make it.

That saying can be applied to almost any public interaction nowadays. I think about it when I need to be brave. And now I don't need to fake it either :)

How media sexualization of girls creates long-term problems for children by eddyelric in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 13 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 6 fun14 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

It's shit like this that only reinforces my decision to not give my kids cell phones until they start part-time work in high school.

Girls who played with the Barbie doll had fewer goals than the girls who instead played with Mr. Potato Head, who has no sex appeal.

Sorry, but this legitimately made me laugh. Mrs. Potato Head must find him attractive, surely??? Lol

Coworkers sympathetic to TiM boss. by PeakingPeachEater in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You are not obligated to be friends with anyone. At all! You should still try and be civil with your coworkers, but you don't have to be friends. The people who claim your boss is a "cool person to talk to" are probably just kissing ass to get a promotion :/

Especially the woman who thinks other women are just sex toys. That's so gross and sexist.

I don't think you're biased, because your boss is obviously treating you differently than everyone else. You don't dislike him because he's trans; you dislike him because he's an asshole.

This man is upset that he cant become accidentally pregnant....because thats what all women hope for, obviously. by Twobigdogs in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Pick whatever "whatthefuck.gif" image you want and insert it here.

Jesus H. Christ.

TRAs' craziness just an online thing? by infrarojo in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It absolutely happens in real life. I had an ex-friend try to insert himself into women's oppression by claiming that I (a woman) was "mansplaining" to him (a pre-operation transwoman).

My post about it: https://saidit.net/s/GenderCritical/comments/5yjx/my_tim_friend_claimed_i_was_mansplaining_to_her/

PinkNews CEO thinks a man's right to rent a womb is the same as a woman's right to IVF by alttrawl in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks, I hate it.

This guy also said that adoption "wasn't right" for him, and also said the surrogate mother should not have her expenses covered. What a complete, all-encompassing douche.

My answer to "Women's Shelters are Transphobic" turned into a mini-essay so I thought I'd post it here by assignedcopatbirth in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nicely said.

My generation lacks empathy and critical thinking by GuacLettuceBacon in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This guy sounds like a coward. He is afraid that he might be wrong, and therefore shuts down the conversation before hearing the other side. You did the right thing though, by trying to give real examples of how this ideology hurts women.

I hate making generalizations, but I think a lot of people your age are like this. Growing up on the internet has twisted everyone. I'm in my early 30s, and my husband and I only got smart phones about 5 years ago. We both changed for the worse lol. My husband is addicted to Twitter, and I got sucked into a few mobile games for a while.

If it's any consolation, you don't have to be friends with anyone. You have no obligations! Just leave this guy to the crows and move on with your life.

Canadian women describes situation being in prison with males (Dec, 2019) by materialrealityplz in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I only watched 2.5 seasons, but Laverne Cox did play a TIM character. I'm pretty sure the character was post-op and had been for a few years, so at least it wasn't a blatant abuse of the self-id loophole.

What would you do if there were no men on Earth for 24 hours? by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd go out shopping, or for a walk, or literally anything out of my house, wearing a low-cut shirt or form-fitting shirt. Can't tell you how many stares I've gotten over the years from gross men.

Interested in an aneurysm? Try understanding this mumbojumbo... Gender compilation! by vitunrotta in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Somnigender: A gender identity related to, dependent upon, or inexorably connected to a feeling of sleepiness or tiredness. Alternately can refer to a gender that is difficult or impossible to perceive or identify due to feelings of sleepiness or tiredness.

I'm in this post and I don't like it omfg lol

Interested in an aneurysm? Try understanding this mumbojumbo... Gender compilation! by vitunrotta in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is so wild that I think it is a troll. Someone who puts this much thought into a made-up concept such as gender HAS to be joking lol

[Vent] Vent about myself by iloveyou in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do go out sometimes without shaving. Usually because it takes too long, and my kids are really needy (they are 3 and 1 year old). I do get some funny looks, but no one has made a comment to me in a long time. When it did happen, I would just pretend not to hear it and keep going about my business. People love to judge others, especially based on looks. It hurts at first, but eventually you don't even notice it. The "haters gonna hate" mentality does wonders haha!

Shaving can definitely be scary. And it's easy for me to say "don't do it, you'll be fine", because I don't know anything about you. But I do think you should try working on your confidence. Practice how you might react if someone says "ugh, look over there, she didn't shave".

I understand your feelings about not fitting in. I think a lot of people feel that way, especially when they're teenagers. Your whole body is changing and you feel like a stranger to yourself. But honestly, the only things you need to do to fit in are follow the laws, and like, not kill anyone lol. Just be a good person, and nobody will be mad about what you wear, what hobbies you like, etc. The way I see it, nobody has to "fit in" in the adult, working world. Everyone is so busy with their own lives that most people will leave everyone else alone :)

Cooking is one of those things that is so important to learn, that if you meet someone who can't cook, it's a deal breaker! I agree that it's usually women who cook for the family, but think about the loads of male celebrity chefs in the world. I doubt anyone is trying to convince Gordon Ramsey that "cooking is for women" lol. If you like cooking, then like it because you are good at it, or you enjoy how it makes you feel, not because "it's a woman thing".

Fashion is such a weird thing, because everyone has their own tastes. Yet the fashion industry is built around people liking the same things and buying them. I've never liked fashion, and my own style is really tame. And especially now that I stay home with my daughters, I mostly wear sweatpants and t-shirts most days! But I do like wearing dresses and nicer clothes when the occasion calls for it. I don't think that's "conforming to femininity" if you actually enjoy it. If someone forced you to wear skirts and dresses? Then yes obviously. But if you enjoy it, then I think it's fine! That's your preference and no one should shame you for it.

Sorry for the loooong reply, but I hope this help! Feel free to send me a private message if you want to keep talking or vent some more :)

[Vent] Vent about myself by iloveyou in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's OK to be uncomfortable sometimes. Nobody can go through life being completely happy and safe. Humans have learned to adapt and cope.

Does it feel scary not knowing all the answers? Heck yes. Does this mean we should immediately question everything we know about ourselves and change our entire lives? No.

If you're not on board with traditional/stereotypical feminine things, that's totally fine! That doesn't mean you are a boy.

For example, I love knitting, cooking and staying at home with my kids. I also love video games and anime, and I hate makeup, and don't often shave my legs or armpits. You can have diverse interests and self-expression and still be a woman.

A person I loved dearly recently came out as trans and I don't know what to say to him. by saragini in GenderCritical

[–]TurtleFuzz 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There are so many red flags in your post that you could probably see them from space.

This man is disgusting, and your mom should not let him be around you anymore. I would try to talk to her about it first. Tell her all the things he has done and said and you feel uncomfortable around him. Tell your mom that you do not want to be near him anymore.

Hopefully your mom is reasonable, as most parents will put their child's safety over a friend's happiness. But if your mom claims that he's harmless or means nothing by it, then you need to need to take it upon yourself to protect you and your sisters.

If your mom arranges "play dates", refuse to go or make other plans. If he comes over your house, ttake your bike and go to a friend's house. Physically remove yourself at every chance

If he starts following or stalking you, call the police.

Even Female Animals Have A Name - April Halley by yishengqingwa666 in GenderCritical

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Her account is only a week old, and it looks like she's focusing on the erasure of the word "women" and substitution of "menstruators", "uterus havers" etc.

https://www.instagram.com/sexistrubbish/

Scientists: Sex Chromosomes are a "belief system" by GuacLettuceBacon in GenderCritical

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If you think, I am pretending to be, ... or stealing benefits from, ... or taking advantage of, ... women, ...

You are weak, foolish, and unimportant.

I am a woman. And I’m stronger than you will ever be.

Another tweet from this lunatic. If you have to prop up your self-esteem by degrading others, you are not strong. You are a bully.

Even Female Animals Have A Name - April Halley by yishengqingwa666 in GenderCritical

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I gave her a follow on Instagram, so now I have a pocket of ready-to-acess sexism lol

Hagrid was a Death Eater all along | Jarvis Dupont | Spectator USA by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Reading this was so cringe but so funny. This guy is delusional. I wonder if he enjoys QAnon stuff as well lol

Teen book, Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender, features 17 year old with mastectomy scars on the cover by worried19 in GenderCritical

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This is absolutely horrible :(

USA WOMEN - SOMETHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT THIS TODAY! The Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) has proposed a rule change which would allow individual shelters to use bio sex as an admission criterion. The rule change is open to public comment through September 22nd. by yishengqingwa666 in GenderCritical

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So, if I read this correctly, the proposal is that if someone shows up to a temporary homeless or emergency shelter, and they are the opposite sex of the one the shelter serves, they will be transferred to the correct one. That seems fair. They won't be denied service because of the anti-discrimination laws protecting "gender identity", they'll just be moved to a different shelter.

So many people in the comments think this revision will deny trans people service. They most likely saw some dumbass facebook post claiming this would "take away trans rights" and didn't even read it.

I hate people so much.

"What's stopping men from going into women's bathrooms? do you really think people are going to bother changing their gender just to perv on women when they can do it right now? What's the difference?" by Dravidian in GenderCritical

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My husband and I were talking about this 2 nights ago. He brought up this exact scenario, and I explained it similarly to you. My husband didn't know how to respond.

lmao gottem

New study confirms: Gender Diverse show much higher rates of autism by BEB in GenderCritical

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I agree, any other mental health issues should be addressed, and made sure that the patient has them under control before talking about transitioning. Thanks so much for your reply and sharing your experiences!

New study confirms: Gender Diverse show much higher rates of autism by BEB in GenderCritical

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Nearly 70 percent of autistic gender-diverse adolescents say they need medical gender-related care, according to a small 2018 study, and 32 percent say their gender identity has been questioned because of their autism diagnosis.

“It’s really, really distressing to read sometimes, where you have people who have very strong gender dysphoria and want to transition, and their therapist says, ‘Well, we need to first cure your autism before we transition,’ which is wrong on all levels,” Warrier says. “We want this study to really demonstrate that both of these things can co-occur, and just because these things co-occur does not mean that one should be denied.”

What therapist actually thinks that autism is something you can cure? Do they also think you can catch it, too? This really makes me concerned, does the study investigator (as he is mentioned) know what autism is?

I get he wants to protect autistic children and teens, but allowing them to disregard safety and future health for immediate satisfaction is not the way to help these kids.

Actress' twitter bio includes pronouns beep/bop/boop, Twitter melts down by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Time to Stan Gina Carano! What a great woman.

Am I reading this right? This author thinks separate sex bathrooms are a ruse to "keep women down"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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That's really interesting, thanks so much for sharing!

MUST READ- explaining the founding documents of the international Gender Lobby, the Yogyakarta Principles, that got us to TWAW by BEB in GenderCritical

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Very interesting, thanks for sharing!

Americans, how angry do you want to get today? by BEB in GenderCritical

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I'm mad because how the heck do I read this ugly thing.

Water union is life jobs?

TiM: "I am a biologically entity and I am female, therefore I am biologically female" there is no arguing with this level of batshit insanity by Allie-rf in GenderCritical

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I am biological, and I am made of carbon, therefore I am a deer lol

TiM: "I am a biologically entity and I am female, therefore I am biologically female" there is no arguing with this level of batshit insanity by Allie-rf in GenderCritical

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Right and men absolutely can get breast cancer too. But I think that guy really just wants "big ole tiddies" to play with lol

Baeddels - ever heard of them? by Red-Orc in GenderCritical

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I love, LOVE, how commenters are asking "why do these people exist?"

Others respond, saying these men didn't have a place in society or identity, so they are trying to take from "real transwomen" and get them to join their ideology.

You mean, exactly what those "real transwomen" are doing to women?! The horror!

Where are you from? by blackrainbow in GenderCritical

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I'm in the northeast US, where it's ultra-liberal and woke. Not super thrilled about it, but it's better than California lol

TiM: "I am a biologically entity and I am female, therefore I am biologically female" there is no arguing with this level of batshit insanity by Allie-rf in GenderCritical

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I like how that last guy thinks that pumping himself full of dangerous drugs and developing "breasts" is totally biologically natural. No, dude, your body is not "developing" breasts. The foreign estrogen is wreaking havoc on your body and you are experiencing side effects.

The insanity is so real.

US Census and Sex question by our_team_is_winning in GenderCritical

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I did it online and also saw the biological sex question.

However, when I changed my gp to a new doctor, I had to answer a bunch of demographic questions for the hospital group's database. They asked me my legal sex, my "assigned sex at birth" (gross, and I totally forgot to say 'my observed sex' to correct them) and what gender I identify as. All in the name of "providing appropriate care for transgender patients". I wanted to puke lol

Am I reading this right? This author thinks separate sex bathrooms are a ruse to "keep women down"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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This is great, thank you so much!

Am I reading this right? This author thinks separate sex bathrooms are a ruse to "keep women down"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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Your replies are always so informative, I love reading them lol

Maybe men nowadays think that because women are out and about in their space, that must mean we don't want our own space! Because we all know how that went down with "women-only train cars"!

Am I reading this right? This author thinks separate sex bathrooms are a ruse to "keep women down"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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Thanks for sharing. I now understand the history of separate bathrooms, but I'm still not convinced the author of this article thinks that keeping them separated is a good thing. Like, do they still think wanting separate bathrooms is "so 19th century"? It seems that way.

Am I reading this right? This author thinks separate sex bathrooms are a ruse to "keep women down"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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I think it's gross that TIMs try to latch onto other groups of people and opt into their suffering for their own benefit. The argument this author makes is that women should be using unisex bathrooms because women "used" to be opposed and now we're not? It just made me scratch my head and wonder if I read it wrong lol

Am I reading this right? This author thinks separate sex bathrooms are a ruse to "keep women down"? by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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That's definitely an interesting read, thanks for sharing. I can understand why men didn't want women to have bathrooms to try and keep them at home.

But I don't think that most women today would want all unisex bathrooms? The author claims that since men and women are allowed in public spaces together, that means we should move past these archaic notions of women wanting a "protected space where they could rest". It just seems so weird to me.

A swedish woman asks college students if she can be a man and then asks if she can be Japanese. Double-think ensues. by LasagnaRossa in GenderCritical

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I love how you can see the cogs turning in people's heads as they try to come up with the most woke, PC answers haha

when TRA belittle moms valid concerns over her 12 year old daughters behavior by MadLass in GenderCritical

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I feel so bad for that mother. She knows her daughter better than any stranger on the internet, and they're trying to shit all over her saying things like "it's not a cry for attention" and "this didn't come out of the blue, she's been thinking about it for a long time". Like, what the actual hell?

If I was 12, and my mom got pregnant again, I'd sure as hell be confused and looking for affection or attention. And if I knew "being trans" got me showered with love, I would do it.

I also like one commenter saying "cis kids don't ever question their gender" come on, man. Of course they do. Especially when puberty hits! Puberty sucks, being a pre-teen sucks, suddenly getting a kid sibling sucks, school sucks. This girl probably has so many questions, and no one is giving her answers, just mantras.

Just another laydeee committing a laydeee crime... by BEB in GenderCritical

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Florida Man strikes again!

Newsreader Ordered to Pay $10000 to a TiM for Liking Offensive Facebook Comments by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Pretty soon TIMs will start civilian-arresting people for not complimenting them enough, or just looking at them. It's insane.

Newsreader Ordered to Pay $10000 to a TiM for Liking Offensive Facebook Comments by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I agree, it's not bad enough for a $10k fine. Just "liking" a comment should not be punished, at all.

Before peaking, how much of an ally were you? by Dravidian in GenderCritical

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I still believe that everyone should be treated with respect, even if they are transgender. Of course, if they do/say something rude, they lose all respect from me. Golden rule stuff.

Before I peaked, I was in the neutral/supportive camp. I tried to just be nice to people, especially if they were suffering from an illness that made them so uncomfortable in their own bodies. I didn't donate to causes or attend rallies or anything.

When a close friend came out as a TIM, I was happy for him and tried to be supportive. Giving advice, lots of compliments, etc. Then he said I was mansplaining to him and said I was always a TERF.

That, coupled with the apparent willingness of the woke-folks to experiment on children and allow any man to self-ID into women's spaces, really tied me over the edge. I now think that the huge push for trans-ing everyone is fueled only by money, and gullible idiots are falling for it.

Newsreader Ordered to Pay $10000 to a TiM for Liking Offensive Facebook Comments by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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The article only gives examples of 2 comments, and neither were offensive. I wonder if the other comments Ms. Rep "liked" had any rude language, slurs, or threats of violence. If not, this is a clear case of censorship and silencing of free speech. This is wild.

Emails show Brown University wants to kill 'pestilential' agreement giving women equity in sports by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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Very cool, Brown. Very cool.