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[–]hellonumpty 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

"identity is messy and unpredictable"

People with identity disturbances need to stop assuming that the entire population does too.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Or that their disturbances should be heeded over the vast majority of people to ever live who never have to worry about unpredictability in their "identity"

[–]Poppy29252Natal Cat Woman 13 insightful - 10 fun13 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

The only person who can dictate your identity is yourself.

And yet they all act like Tinkerbell, fading away from existence if we don't enthusiastically validate them.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

God I wish they would.

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Remember when DID was actually treated rather than encouraged and validated?

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Older female humans with ample bosom are more valid for my vaginal lubrification though.

[–]iamonlyoneman 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

everyone's experiences with identity are valid

so identifying as the proverbial attack helicopter is heckin valid now

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Were not all just uneducated cis men saying were lesbians for a cheap laugh

And yet he doesn't know basic grammar, as seen in the final sentence where he says yourself instead of you, so I beg to differ.

[–]Virginia_Plain 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Stephen the Lesbian was a prescient satire.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

breathes WE'RE!! Also, you really aren't. You are a sick little fuck disrespecting a whole group of people with your bad imitation. Leave lesbians alone or you shall be dickless soon enough I'd bet!

[–]fuck_reddit 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ok, prove it

[–]Porphyria 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Heterosexual men are indeed valid.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

not so friendly

Could have ended that post right there.