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[–]hellonumpty 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

"identity is messy and unpredictable"

People with identity disturbances need to stop assuming that the entire population does too.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Or that their disturbances should be heeded over the vast majority of people to ever live who never have to worry about unpredictability in their "identity"

[–]jay-dayGold Star Gay Woman[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The whole "identity is complicated" stuff is just a nicer way to say "accept everything I say, and don't ever question it." I'm not sure who is worse: the people who identify as ADHD-gender, Autism-gender, and male lesbians, or the people who accept it and believe them.

[–]wendyokoopa1 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Autism gender? Fuck my disorder isn't a gender and isn't something you virtual signal behind these people are fucking sick.

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's always the same stuff, when they don't want to answer to logic. "Sexuality is fluid", "gender is weird", "identity is complicated"

[–]Poppy29252Natal Cat Woman 13 insightful - 10 fun13 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

The only person who can dictate your identity is yourself.

And yet they all act like Tinkerbell, fading away from existence if we don't enthusiastically validate them.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

God I wish they would.

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Remember when DID was actually treated rather than encouraged and validated?

[–]jay-dayGold Star Gay Woman[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I looked into the guy he says he's Narcissistic (NPD), is Objectum, Cluster B, a non traumagenic system, autistic, BPD, and maybe has ADHD. He seems to be against medical care, and even though he likes talking about himself don't ever ask about his identity, he gets really angry when people do that. Male "lesbians" aren't new of course, but it's grown with the whole mogai, trans, and nonbinary bs, and is gaining legitimacy. Thanks trans community.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He seems to be against medical care

While this summary is a bit vague, this is pretty common in people with Cluster B disorders. Many (especially w/ NPD) don't think they need help, or (common with BPD) won't stick with it until it can actually do some good (which it can for the small percentage who get good help), while (Cluster B generally) making clinicians' jobs difficult.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Older female humans with ample bosom are more valid for my vaginal lubrification though.

[–]iamonlyoneman 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

everyone's experiences with identity are valid

so identifying as the proverbial attack helicopter is heckin valid now

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Were not all just uneducated cis men saying were lesbians for a cheap laugh

And yet he doesn't know basic grammar, as seen in the final sentence where he says yourself instead of you, so I beg to differ.

[–]Virginia_Plain 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Stephen the Lesbian was a prescient satire.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

breathes WE'RE!! Also, you really aren't. You are a sick little fuck disrespecting a whole group of people with your bad imitation. Leave lesbians alone or you shall be dickless soon enough I'd bet!

[–]fuck_reddit 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ok, prove it

[–]Porphyria 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Heterosexual men are indeed valid.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

not so friendly

Could have ended that post right there.