Trans-identified woman publishes a book about gay dating.

hellonumpty · 2022-08-20T14:02:34+00:00

Tommy Dorfman is another one, except he went from gay man married to a man to a trans lesbian engaged to a woman. I can't imagine a flip like that without a personality disorder tbh.

hellonumpty · 2022-08-12T23:45:43+00:00

I've read it and there's lots to address but I'm just about to head to bed so I will only touch upon the whole "echo chamber" thing right now. The echo chamber is not really a choice. They have us banned on every platform for saying biological sex is real and males cant be females and vice versa. I also think plenty of us have engaged with or debated TRAs at some point. Personally, sometimes, I just want a place to bitch about them. 😂

I'm also at a place where I'm done with debating with them and would rather focus energies on practical ways to halt their nonsense and prevent them from doing any more damage. I'm going to be honest, in recent years, I feel like the trans movement has absolutely became further and further detached from reality (thanks to their own echo chamber, no doubt). You can't debate people who are essentially delusional.

So, Drop The T might be an echo chamber but not really one of our own doing. TRAs however, do indeed have an echo chamber of their own doing -- think the silencing, the wee browser plug-ins they use to determine if an online space is "safe" or not, the fact that many have full on (reality) (collapses/meltdowns) when they have to interact with the outside world and it's not consistent with their online echo chamber. Also, the anime. I want to say the anime is part of it.

hellonumpty · 2022-06-22T02:18:57+00:00

They are bottomless pits. No amount of fawning will ever be enough for them. They'll always want more and more. They're the best example of ~energy vampires~ I've ever seen.

hellonumpty · 2022-06-08T12:50:48+00:00

In one of her previous posts on r/lifeafternarcissism, she details how her ex-girlfriend was "clingy" and it took about 4 times to break up. In one of her posts on r/bisexual, she documents how sex with women never really felt good. She also has a history of alcoholism and two of her "lesbian" exes are now with men permanently.

Haha, I read this description of her before I clicked through to the thread and had a feeling I knew who you were talking about. Yep! I recognise her username from spending some time on r/bisexual a few years ago. Now she's a trans man because....of course she is. She's not got a ducking clue who or what she is. As you say - Cluster B vibes!

I wonder if her boyfriend sensed any red flags. Like, saying you're a lesbian for a decade and then claiming you have absolutely no attraction to women is surely a bit of a red flag for getting into a relationship and gives a glimpse into what the future might be like with that person. Sure enough, she's dumped her boyfriend after 4 years because she's decided that she's actually a man now. I remember she used to post about how amazing her boyfriend was. If he really was that amazing, she's ruined a perfectly good relationship. Identity disturbances are a hell of a thing. Maybe she'll cycle all the way around to straight trans men next? 🤦🏻‍♀️

All that aside though, I find it kind of scary the way I hear 'gay' trans men come to the conclusion that they are indeed trans men. It's like: Oh, I liked playing as male video game characters and I write about and relate to gay male fictional characters. Well, that must mean one thing! Better get on the testosterone! 😬

hellonumpty · 2022-05-30T08:59:11+00:00

It's all one big mass delusion. They lie to themselves and to others, and when they finally realise it's all been a lie they have a total reality collapse. It doesn't seem uncommon for a trans person lose their shit at some point (sometimes after they've had surgery too) because they realise that no, they'll never be able to attain their ~ideal~ looks, or actually be a real man or woman.

hellonumpty · 2022-05-25T16:31:49+00:00

This is even funnier when you google him. 😂

hellonumpty · 2022-05-21T05:34:09+00:00

🤢 🤢 Vile.

hellonumpty · 2022-05-19T19:51:24+00:00

She does hate men but her comment reads like she still values the nuclear family and that kids should have a mother and a father. Maybe I'm just not getting it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2022-05-19T19:33:04+00:00

Another one of this idiots comments:

Gay men are not oppressed. Gay men are still men. Gay men have never been denied the right to employment, property, money or control of their chattels.

???

hellonumpty · 2022-05-14T23:19:42+00:00

I second this as a bisexual woman. 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2022-05-08T07:09:45+00:00

But I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that it presents a totally neutered version of homosexuality where the gays are more like cutesy puppy dogs than actual human beings.

I only got to ep 3 before I gave up but I think you're right.

hellonumpty · 2022-05-03T09:21:07+00:00

All through high school I literally tried to force myself to like girls - I'd even watch lesbian porn haha.

These straight girls live in what universe where they were actually forcing themselves to like women???

I mean, I know they are trying to mirror gay men's experiences (and at this point have maybe even convinced themselves that what they are saying is true) but it's just embarrassing to see them write this stuff.

hellonumpty · 2022-04-28T16:37:58+00:00

YES your gay male friend who doesn't have your back is just another man playing a part in a sinister plot that is awful to women, awful to children, awful to families, filled with hypocrisy, filled with gaslighting, filled with lies, filled with sexism.

OK, well I hope they know that this goes for their spouses too then. 🤷🏻‍♀️✌🏻

hellonumpty · 2022-04-24T02:23:13+00:00

Oh ffs get a grip.

hellonumpty · 2022-04-22T17:09:58+00:00

I’m the opposite kinda. Knowing I always liked men and felt like a gay man trapped in a “girls” body was kinda what made me realize I was actually trans and not just fetishizing gay men. I’ve always been drawn to gay men and their love stories since I was a teenager. I thought it was cringy tho until it all clicked. I’m having a harder time with the idea of being seen as a man eventually and “being one of them” than as the idea of being gay. God life is so complex and exhausting lol

😬 I'm not sure how she thought "I feel like a gay men trapped in a girls body" somehow wasn't part of fetishising gay men?

And yes life must be so complex and exhausting pretending to be something you're not.

Another one:

I knew I liked boys as young as 6 (I still remember my first crush)

Wow. Congrats on being a straight girl. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2022-04-20T18:05:03+00:00

E4 is a channel here in the UK.

hellonumpty · 2022-04-19T19:03:31+00:00

I counted 26 of those posters (so far) are trans - 2 I think might be women IDing as non-binary.

Actually going down the list of commenters, it felt rare to find a woman.

hellonumpty · 2022-04-12T12:32:41+00:00

TRAs: Women lunching is a transphobic dogwhistle!! 😡 😡 😡 😡

hellonumpty · 2022-04-11T10:58:50+00:00

Time and time again I’ve had to see posts that say things like “being attracted to men proves sexuality isnt a choice”. It’s such bullshit.

Maybe I'm just sheltered but I don't think I've ever seen gay men say this once let alone "time and time again" 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Lol a "gay trans guy" complaining about something that is usually in the context of straight women.

hellonumpty · 2022-04-10T19:58:54+00:00

I think her boyfriend is also FTM.

hellonumpty · 2022-04-10T17:52:07+00:00

So checked this person twitter and like...she works with kids (nannying/childminding I'm assuming), posts the kids face on her twitter as well as nude photos of herself? Am I getting this right?

Hopefully I'm misunderstanding.

hellonumpty · 2022-04-09T15:10:17+00:00

lol one of the replies is like, "this is why I'm terrified of cis gay men" and I can't help but think if this person was so terrified, why not just stay away from 'cis' gay men then? It's not like gay men are actively going to seek them out. Most want nothing to do with them anyways. 🤷🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2022-04-01T07:05:47+00:00

Sounds insufferable.

hellonumpty · 2022-03-31T09:57:15+00:00

That's so sad. 1 like = 1 prayer.

hellonumpty · 2022-03-19T00:50:46+00:00

This is unsurprising coming from her. She's a chronic attention seeker who made the aftermath of Sarah Everard's murder all about her. Can't stand her.

Edit: Reading her tweets, she's still using Sarah's murder for her own clout ughhh.

hellonumpty · 2022-03-10T20:10:58+00:00

He wrote this in 2018 which would've made him 18 at the time. 😬😬😬

Edit: Should've said he posted in 2018. Who knows when he actually wrote all that shit.

hellonumpty · 2022-03-10T04:45:10+00:00

It's funny because a lot of queers are white, able bodied, financially privileged (or at least grew up that way) but their special identities make them the most marginalised people in the world apparently. 🙄

Idk, it's amazing (and batshit) that I could self-ID as non-binary right this minute and suddenly I am extremely oppressed and a victim of genocide. Time to set up a gofundme.

hellonumpty · 2022-02-16T07:57:49+00:00

know, I know some of them even wanna hook up w me, I know, I know,

lol.

hellonumpty · 2022-02-03T02:15:48+00:00

I'm scared.

hellonumpty · 2022-02-03T02:14:24+00:00

How do they think they’re being the good guys while all the other straight guys are toxic?

It's very much a "I'm not like other straight men" kind of vibe.

Also the distrustful part of me thinks it's all part of a potentially predatory tactic to get women to lower their guard and deflect from their own toxic and entitled behaviour by talking about just how awful (other) straight guys are.

hellonumpty · 2022-02-01T08:33:10+00:00

So many women use that master doc along with "comp het" to justify why they were always lesbians all along, just like the woman in the post linked ^{^} is doing with justifying why she thinks she was always a gay man. I think the master doc is a beacon to women who have issues with men, straight men in particular. I guess the idea of being a lesbian but still being able to fancy unavailable men feels safe to a lot of these women.

I think the few women I've seen online speak about going from lesbian (but are actually bisexual or even straight) to gay trans man use both identities as shields from dealing with their issues around straight men. It's just that I guess over time they've figured that being a gay trans man allows them to openly fancy men and even act on those attractions when they are ready - act on it with ''safe'' men, of course - and that's better for them in the long run.

hellonumpty · 2022-02-01T08:20:57+00:00

Obviously if you are attracted to men it's perfectly normal that you will, at some point, find yourself attracted to a gay man. Maybe even more than one. But this, "I always fancied gay men, I always wanted to be with gay men only," obsession is just fucking weird.

All I read from this is either, "my fetish for gay men has always been there" or, "my own assumptions about gay men being special and different from straight men has always been there"

These types of women are just so annoying. Instead of actually diving into these thoughts, and why they feel the way they do about gay men, they just jump to thinking that it must mean they were actually a gay man all along. Ffs. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2022-01-31T21:45:26+00:00

Well well well. So much for her having "identified" as a lesbian for years when she's only 18.

hellonumpty · 2022-01-20T05:57:42+00:00

I saw the episode. It was like maybe a minute or just under a minute of gay men talking about who has and hasn't had sex with a woman.

I was s h a k i n g from the bigotry. /s

hellonumpty · 2021-11-29T22:31:25+00:00

Get to feel ~special~ from the security of a het relationships without any of the possible shite stuff that comes with being gay or in a same sex relationships - like homophobic harassment, rejection from family or friends etc. Bet the worst they get from their families is an eye-roll.

hellonumpty · 2021-11-22T23:58:42+00:00

"identity is messy and unpredictable"

People with identity disturbances need to stop assuming that the entire population does too.

hellonumpty · 2021-11-10T15:39:05+00:00

Ffs she needs to get a grip.

hellonumpty · 2021-11-01T22:19:30+00:00

He's pre-op and pre-T, so his voice was higher and he still had boobs.

ffs. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2021-11-01T05:46:13+00:00

But then on the flipside you've got TRAs and other trans people claiming that the process of accessing trans healthcare is very difficult.

TBH when TRAs in the UK talk about this, it just comes across as if they're throwing tantrums about having to wait like everyone else does because they need to transition right.this.instant. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Kind of like a petulant child.

Edit: Just to add - they also complain about having ''segregated'' health care and by that I guess they mean having to specifically go to gender clinics. I'm not sure what's wrong with specialised health care but they just find ways to complain. I guess they want the least barriers with the least amount of questions asked. But that's stupid for making a big life changing decision like transitioning is.

It's the same when they also complain about having to jump through hoops to change their gender legally. They really do think that everyone should just believe that they are who they say they are. 🙄

hellonumpty · 2021-10-25T22:00:40+00:00

I remember seeing this on twitter. Absolute creep vibes. 🤢🤢

hellonumpty · 2021-10-18T20:34:26+00:00

He said he’s not into female vag. That doesn’t apply to you bc you’re male.

ffs. 😂

hellonumpty · 2021-10-08T07:02:01+00:00

I've heard several TRAs compare their treatment to gay men in the 80s, or compare their treatment to being in nazi Germany, waaaaay before this.

They're full of shit and the sky is blue, yeah yeah.

hellonumpty · 2021-09-30T12:34:14+00:00

I dunno. I think if you hear two men talking about how they've never seen a vagina but turn that into, "eww vaginas are gross" then that's a 100% you problem.

hellonumpty · 2021-09-28T16:35:53+00:00

I don't get why being constantly outraged by 'gold star' or 'platinum star' is so prevalent with the bi 'queers' when it's a joke most of the time. God these people are exhausting. Not everything is a personal attack or oppression. Like, gold stars aren't the majority of the population. If they want to have a wee joke amongst themselves then why the fuck not?

hellonumpty · 2021-09-24T18:58:10+00:00

I really hope the boss goes, "And what do you want me to do about it?"

I mean, if I'm reading it right, the person didn't actually send the '"transphobic abuse" to "him" but her friends, in a private discussion that "he" just happened to see. I've always been self employed so I don't know how workplaces would handle this but surely it's not really a work place matter?

hellonumpty · 2021-09-14T18:22:50+00:00

so this is what stunning and brave looks like.

hellonumpty · 2021-09-07T08:17:17+00:00

but overnight I went from being straight to gay

lol

I'm probably gonna be that person who awkwardly misread social cues and tells a guy I like him only for him to tell me he's straight.

Ffs.

Still pre-everything

Pre everything, so of course, the top priority is to try to bag a date with a gay man.

hellonumpty · 2021-09-02T15:28:26+00:00

Being pansexual sounds shite tbh.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-31T18:31:29+00:00

Women are often encouraged to give someone a chance - usually a man she has no interest in, but he has an interest in her, often to the point of being creepy or inappropriate. All the shit trans people say about dating reminds me of this a lot. Plus saying no is much harder when 'no' is considered bigoted and on the same level as a hate crime.

The proof, other than countless people speaking out about it and actual evidence online of trans people saying this stuff, is in their ideology. The idea that you refuse to date trans people is rooted in 'cis-sexism' is what they say.

Edit: Forgot to add - same sex attraction is now being referred to as a dog whistle, so don't know what planet this lad is on but it's not earth.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-29T17:13:36+00:00

Maybe it's just me, but I genuinely don't care what letter is at the front.

Though after seeing this, I don't want it to ever be the T, just out of pettiness.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-29T05:36:39+00:00

Protect straight lesbians at all costs!

hellonumpty · 2021-08-29T05:33:48+00:00

Yep same person!

hellonumpty · 2021-08-28T22:58:41+00:00

Wow so relieved that no one was hurt by this man's extremely violent hat. /s 😒

hellonumpty · 2021-08-28T15:35:51+00:00

It honestly seems like it would be exhausting to date these people.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-28T09:19:31+00:00

oh stfu India.

This is the same person who got pissy with a guy on national TV because he said he wouldn't date her/him/trans women.

If I remember right, India went crying to Boris Johnson's sister about it.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-22T09:18:31+00:00

I am not interested in bottom surgery and neither is she. HRT does not 100% guarantee that you will become infertile for either sex. I'm on T and she is not on E yet.

ffs.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-22T04:36:54+00:00

He was a finalist on the first series of Drag Race UK and I guess he takes it upon himself to 'educate' the lesser 'cis' gays on twitter constantly. 😒

hellonumpty · 2021-08-20T21:06:10+00:00

Oh god did anyone see that video in the replies of the trans woman singing about genital preferences etc? I hate itttt.

ugh hate it

And of course Divina always pops up in these convos.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-20T15:08:49+00:00

Oh no.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-16T16:36:13+00:00

The few posts from that sub that have been posted here have really made me think, even more so than before, that these 'gay trans men' are women who've taken their fetish of gay men to the absolute extreme.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-14T03:48:50+00:00

''lady body''

hellonumpty · 2021-08-13T20:17:01+00:00

I've encountered people like this, used to have a friend like this actually, and it's often a really narcissistic way of viewing the world and relationships. Basically, everything to them is transactional. If they did a nice thing for you, and you think it's out of the goodness of their heart, think again. It's so they can say that you owe them.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-13T20:12:48+00:00

Gay men won't date women, but will fuck men.

Well, I for one, am shocked.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-13T20:12:01+00:00

I think it might come from RuPaul's Drag Race. .gif for context.

But, regardless, it doesn't make sense lol.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-13T18:00:41+00:00

Whenever I've read straight women (FTMs) saying these things, it's because they read and relate to a lot of m/m pairings in fiction and read smutty fanfics about those characters. These fics are mostly written by women. So the attraction they're actually experiencing is simply through a lens of another (most likely) straight woman.

I think it's fetishisation but also a lot of these women seem to have issues with straight men and their femininity in relation to straight men, and so gay men feel 'safer' than straight men do. I also think there's certain straight women (FTMs included in this) who find themselves only attracted to gay men which I've assumed there's something going on with them mentally or emotionally to only be interested in men who are unavailable and will never, ever want you.

hellonumpty · 2021-08-13T17:33:22+00:00

Well since it's apparently been announced that in Scotland kids as young as 4 will be allowed to change their gender without parental consent, I'm gonna say.....we're not doing too good here tbh. Even though I love living here. I think it's fine for gay and bi people. But I genuinely worry how this trans stuff will play out here.

hellonumpty · 2021-07-18T09:25:18+00:00

why do some hyper-woke men think that they need to be a grotesque caricature of a woman to be a feminist?

It's more about the clout that anything else I think. So many male feminists are shady and have ulterior motives. And now 'Abi' calls himself the Princess Of TERF Island. It's nothing to do with being an ally and everything to do with his image, his reputation, his fame, his clout, and his oppression.

Coming out as a trans woman is like their form of asserting dominance. Trans women's word is gospel.

Oh yeah this is the prick that compared having access to abortions "which are permanent" to puberty blockers "which are reservable" in his coming out manifesto.

hellonumpty · 2021-06-25T06:53:34+00:00

Again with calling things a ~Westerner construct~ ffs.

hellonumpty · 2021-06-19T17:18:19+00:00

"Fae/Her. Girlflux Bi Lesbian."

🤦🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2021-06-14T16:39:36+00:00

It's shite being Scottish.

We're very woke in Scotland. Or trying to be.

Edit: I'm just having a bit of fun, it's not too bad. There's a decent amount of people speaking out about all this. TRAs of course are trying to get them de-platformed. And I don't know if it's just because I'm from Scotland, but I genuinely find Scottish TRAs to be such an insufferable bunch.

hellonumpty · 2021-06-13T14:39:39+00:00

I thought he was comparing himself to the Queen, which would fit his raging narcissism and delusions of grandeur.

Ha, oh for sure. But I think it's this particular photo of Claire Foy as the Queen from The Crown he photoshopped his face onto.

hellonumpty · 2021-06-11T22:43:45+00:00

There's a compilation all about him on twitter

Also it's so creepy how he photoshops himself as actresses - the current twitter pic is his face on Reese Witherspoon. He did the same thing with Claire Foy from The Crown, which was his twitter pic before the current one.

hellonumpty · 2021-06-11T22:33:20+00:00

He won't get "trans-affirming medical care" because he's straight

!!! this.

hellonumpty · 2021-06-08T14:52:38+00:00

It's funny because surely, if there's any group among the population that has thought about their sexuality in depth, it's LGB people.

Every time I think that gender identity ideology is harmless, I get reminded that it will never allow homosexuality to exist.

Yup!

Also twitter TRAs are now pushing that the whole 'genital preferences' thing is as a TERF lie and conspiracy theory. 🤦🏻‍♀️ The natural evolution of "this never happens"

hellonumpty · 2021-06-08T12:41:22+00:00

Honestly, a lot of the ''discrimination'' bi people face from lesbians and gay men is mostly a result of them just not reading the room. Most well known example I can think of is the bisexual woman who thought it was appropriate to write an article after Pulse that was essentially all about her struggle being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man, wondering if she was allowed to be ''sad'' about what happened. The world really didn't need that article.

Bi women like her are the quintessential 'bi queer woman' so I appreciate how annoying that can be for lesbians and gay men.

Also, about the first tweet - it's really hard to believe everything the media tells us about trans people is a lie when most of the things in the media are what led me to no longer support the trans community years before the media even picked up on it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2021-05-30T14:16:29+00:00

Twitter TRAs aren't backing down on this stance.

hellonumpty · 2021-05-26T21:18:56+00:00

Eh, I accept they might turn heads but the moment they speak their helium voice reveals all. 🙃

hellonumpty · 2021-05-16T14:52:34+00:00

“They're like, ‘Oh, well, you don't care about the girls,’ to which we respond: Here's a link of seven specific funds for trans women only. This one — this one over here — this is for us,” Lashun says."

🤔

hellonumpty · 2021-05-16T04:55:00+00:00

Their view of liberation just tickles me.

I think for people who've had to hide their sexuality and couldn't openly love their person, ''assimilation'' is indeed liberation. To be able to walk down the street while holding your person's hand? Build a life together. Have the option to marry them and start a family? Sure can be liberating.

But I understand how a straight woman whose never had any problems having these things would look at this as boring because she could do all these things all along. And this is a common pattern with self proclaimed ~radical~ queers.

She has to find other ways to be ~radical~ but the reality is same sex couples settling down in affluent neighbours with their white picket fences and boring but stable jobs are still more radical than blue haired girl-fags. 😬

(same sex couples settling down in affluent neighbours with white picket fences and boring but stable jobs is genuinely how they see people in same sex relationships if we aren't being obnoxious online 24/7)

hellonumpty · 2021-05-15T02:47:06+00:00

"...ignoring the fact that so many of your gay rights were actually won by the actions, riots and protests of trans people"

That's so funny because those 'trans people' are mostly gay men who the trans community decided to call trans. 🤭

hellonumpty · 2021-05-09T19:46:44+00:00

So this person is admitting that homophobia is the reason why lesbians are choosing to identify as trans.

hellonumpty · 2021-05-09T05:26:12+00:00

My only contact with asexuals has been on MOGAI tumblr when they'd frequently be like: ''tee-hee, at least we won't get AIDS!!" and just generally being homophobes.

I also think this privilege wheel is something the average person doesn't care about, at least, in depth anyway. What I'm about to say is kind of UK-centric but, in the local elections, Hartlepool turned it's back on labour and went tory for the first time in something like 50+ years. Some are saying that labour has now become the party of the middle class uni students obsessed with identity politics and is out of touch with what the average person wants and needs. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know the issue is probably a bit more complex than just that, but I also think things like privilege wheels don't help when all people are trying to do is run food banks so people in their community are fed, you know?

hellonumpty · 2021-05-05T08:27:33+00:00

💔

hellonumpty · 2021-05-04T06:59:55+00:00

Wow, only two commenters are the only ones with any ounce of common sense and one was downvoted quite a bit for it.

People have pointed out the possibility of this dude being a troll, but what worries me is when other trans people upvote him and seem to agree with him. This link shows the upvotes at 76.

hellonumpty · 2021-05-03T20:12:52+00:00

I think this is either entirely made up or seriously exaggerated. If it did happen, at most, I'd believe the mother may have used pepper spray on him (maybe also a kick to the groin) so she could get her and her child the hell away from him. If anyone was using their ~feminine intuition~ here, it was the mother.

Also lol at him trying to make this about TERFs when she's just a mother trying to get her kid away from a creepy dude.

hellonumpty · 2021-05-01T18:04:13+00:00

I was thinking about this not too long ago as someone I follow on social media was going on about how she's still queer even though she's only ever been in relationships with men.

I'm a bisexual woman of a similar age to this woman, I've really only had serious relationships with women, and queer has never been something used against me (at least to my face) so I'm very much doubtful that it's ever been used against her. An observation I've made is that a lot of the people 'reclaiming' queer do so because they've never been impacted by the slur. It's why they can be so flippant about it. To them it's nothing more than an edgy label to slap on.

So, I think the reclamation of slurs would much more impactful and meaningful when the ones reclaiming the slurs are the ones who’ve been most impacted or harmed by them. Where I live, queer is very much directed at gay and bi men in particular. Obviously it's not super clear cut but all that social justice sensitivity 101 seems to go out the window when it comes to people who've actually had queer flung at them as a slur. 🤷🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2021-05-01T09:24:33+00:00

~inclusive~

no.

edit: I'm just not a fan of sexualities being praised as inclusive as if who we sleep with is a form of activism. Duck that.

hellonumpty · 2021-04-30T20:55:28+00:00

I saw the video of her Oprah interview pop up on my YouTube page and just looking at the thumbnail made me so uncomfortable, I couldn't even watch the video. She looks so ill, it really shocked me. :/

About the whole ~omg the trans community are under attack~ thing....I'm just like ?? Really? I know here in the UK, when Philosophy Tube came out he wrote out this whole statement about how hard done by trans people are in the UK. But what this seems to amount to is the fact that trans people need to wait for treatment on the NHS (like everyone does) so basically, it's about them not getting what they want instantly.

hellonumpty · 2021-04-29T19:46:06+00:00

I've found straight women to be entirely clueless as to why this is annoying.

hellonumpty · 2021-04-25T01:32:40+00:00

I also got the distinct impression that this person felt more accepted as a trans man than as a gender non conforming woman.

Def.

The part in her interview where she basically says when she came out her dad (?If I'm remembering right) was like "omg we knew something was off with you because you were a tomboy and were only friends with boys" is super frustrating.

hellonumpty · 2021-04-24T17:06:59+00:00

I'm not being rude but Gottmik's make up literally reminds me of every single bio queen who turns up to gay bars (pre-COVID) here. 🤷🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2021-04-12T12:03:56+00:00

"the penis is not a very attractive looking appendage"

This seems to be a thing among trans activists. They're like 'but all genitals are ugly!!' but I'm wondering if anyone here feels the same? Because I like how penises and vaginas look. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Maybe I'm just a big genital fetishist after all. 🤭😂

hellonumpty · 2021-04-09T17:04:30+00:00

🤦🏻‍♀️

hellonumpty · 2021-04-03T15:38:00+00:00

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

This feels so on brand for him tho.

hellonumpty · 2021-04-02T20:13:40+00:00

A while ago I'd of thought this to be ridiculous but seeing how subreddits like AL and LGBT really didn't seem to care much about nekosune and have basically tried to deflect by blaming the TERFs instead of actually condemning paedophillia and those who support paedos....this could actually happen.

hellonumpty · 2021-04-02T19:59:27+00:00

This made me cackle. 😂

hellonumpty · 2021-03-26T07:25:26+00:00

Pretty sure this is about nekosune. He was a mod there if I'm not mistaken.

hellonumpty · 2021-03-25T21:30:21+00:00

The statement put out by r/trans is also interesting.

hellonumpty · 2021-03-24T01:26:28+00:00

r/actuallesbians.

of course.

hellonumpty