Influential woman

lmaonope333 · 2020-12-13T01:42:55+00:00

yes but it's a long story

lmaonope333 · 2020-12-11T19:53:35+00:00

nah...I'm a teenager (19) and I did not like it. It was a cheesy movie with a predictable plotline. maybe if kstew's character would've broken up and gotten with the ex gf it might've possibly saved the movie. the whole scene where kstews gay guy friend tried to explain to her how hard it is to come out to family was bs in my opinion, it's a bad excuse for treating your gf terribly. I did not have an easy time coming out and I had to move out of my parents house at 18 and I lost a lot of friends. Yet I would never let my parents disapproval force a girl I'm dating to go back in the closet. if you're an adult and you don't rely on your parents you shouldn't let their opinion affect your partner to that degree, it's just unfair. either come out to your family or dont bring your gf to them for the holidays

lmaonope333 · 2020-12-08T05:01:24+00:00

19, NYC. My family knows, most of them disapprove of it, except for my sisters. And one of those sisters was originally very homophobic but I think shes coming around. I don't care what my parents think, my mom is a narcissist so she wouldn't love me even if I was straight so it's not like it's a loss.

lmaonope333 · 2020-12-07T04:25:31+00:00

strong arms, big butt, boob size doesn't matter but they gotta be well shaped.

lmaonope333 · 2020-12-02T00:26:30+00:00

the jokes write themselves

lmaonope333 · 2020-12-01T23:22:01+00:00

yes, haha, I've been texting and video chatting a girl for the past week, I'm meeting her tomorrow for the first time but we're both already a bit too invested, she even hinted to me that she wants me to come to her works Christmas party. lol. lesbians are gonna lesbian I guess

edit: I'm not involved with her anymore, she cancelled on me for the second time, she was supposed to have a day off but her boss asked her to cover for someone, and apparently she doesn't know how to say no. I really wanted to see her but if she doesn't have time for me now she never will

lmaonope333 · 2020-12-01T19:23:48+00:00

maybe she is being controlled

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-26T23:27:15+00:00

I generally dont trust men who complain about misandry, I've come to realize that 99 percent of men don't respect women or care about our safety, and if they seem like they care they're usually pretending. I don't wish harm upon men, I just dont think they're relevant to my life, and wish that they'd leave me alone. The few male friends that I do care about, proved their trustworthiness not by loudly proclaiming themselves as feminists, nor by complaining about misandry, but by simply being there for me and listening to my perspective. Based on the rest of your post it seems like your heart is in the right place, and if you do in fact care about female rights, I thank you for your support, however to me and many women, men complaining about misandry is a huge red flag

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-26T22:36:25+00:00

she wasn't speaking legalistically, same sex marriage was legalized where I live and she's still against it

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-26T06:33:24+00:00

my second grade teacher looked up MY skirt 💀

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-26T04:20:59+00:00

she told me that girls cant marry girls

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-25T16:53:46+00:00

drew sexy pictures of women. and when I was about seven I told my mom that I plan on marrying a girl

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-25T07:26:13+00:00

straight women cant sit in comfortable positions?

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-24T19:28:48+00:00

I feel fortunate that I'm blessed to love women

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-19T05:21:35+00:00

alternatively, accusing lesbians of having "toxic masculinity" is lesbophobic. and if you were a true ally you'd respect this as a lesbian only space and you wouldn't be posting here. and it's funny how you think that straight women fight for lesbian rights, you are just pulling that opinion out of your ass

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-14T07:59:41+00:00

I dont believe its harmless, she's perpetuating negative stereotypes against butches

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-06T00:15:08+00:00

I'm wondering the same, especially since all the comments on that post were civil

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-05T16:51:09+00:00

Green party, I couldn't bring myself to vote for Biden

lmaonope333 · 2020-11-02T17:47:42+00:00

or just be a father to your kids. you don't have to be a woman in order to look after your own goddamn children

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-30T22:38:30+00:00

and she calls lesbianism a "high school dating experience."

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-30T03:30:59+00:00

we were but r/truelesbians got banned ofc

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-30T02:13:06+00:00

if you have to ask the internet permission to call yourself a lesbian then chances are you aren't one

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-30T02:11:54+00:00

by "it" I hope she means a clitoris because I'd sooner castrate a dick than suck one

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-29T01:42:11+00:00

"jokes about not liking dick"

reminds me of my conservative parents who thought I was joking when I said that I'm a lesbian

same homophobia, new flavor

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-27T19:53:07+00:00

that's the difference between a mental illness and a personality disorder

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-27T19:51:17+00:00

It is really weird that he is targeting Asian women specifically...

anime

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-23T04:28:22+00:00

"gyns"

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-21T20:17:23+00:00

I get auditory hallucinations fairly often. Usually it's either someone calling my name, or music playing in the distance

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-21T18:31:55+00:00

it didn't work out

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-19T19:48:21+00:00

He's got more lgbt support than any other Republican president in history.

citation needed

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-18T08:28:30+00:00

I like confident women who are physically strong

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-18T00:40:19+00:00

I don't really buy into any specific political ideology, I just want the world to be run in a way that is most efficient and causes the least harm, and gives as many people as possible the freedom to succeed. And I don't claim to know exactly how to accomplish that. Probably different methods depending on the conditions of each country. I believe in social justice causes like ending racism and sexism, and taking care of the planet, but I'm not a blue haired SJW, I don't believe that being a minority is a license to act crazy

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-16T23:46:00+00:00

lesbians in general are hated by both sides. I disagree with your support for Trump, and most Trump supporters that I've met are racist and sexist, but I don't think that people should be attacked for expressing a political belief, if someone disagrees with me I'd rather have a calm discussion about it

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-15T03:40:26+00:00

My sexual orientation is homosexual female. My sexual preference is tall, feminine, assertive women. It could change though. It's not impossible for me to find a short gentle butch woman sexually attractive. But my sexual orientation is fixed, I will always be exclusively attracted to women

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-11T03:09:34+00:00

"I ask because I'm not sure if I'm asexual or a lesbian"

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-11T01:29:50+00:00

do you think about women when you masturbate? do you catch yourself staring at women? do you get butterflies when talking to a beautiful woman?

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-11T01:25:50+00:00

rule 6

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-06T22:35:13+00:00

this is misogyny, she's raising her daughter to believe that femininity is inherently bad. obviously a lot of feminine clothes are uncomfortable and impractical, and I wouldn't want to encourage little girls to wear things that restrict their movement, but if my daughter wants pink flowers on her shirt instead of stripes, I don't see a reason to discourage that

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-06T19:17:24+00:00

I graduated HS in June 2019, I went to a Jewish all girls school, same like you, i would've gotten expelled if the administration knew I was a lesbian. there were several other lesbians in my grade but we never really spoke about it. I didn't need a beard, where I come from its so religious that girls weren't allowed to even be friends with boys, theyre expected to get married in their early 20s and the marriages are semi arranged. But thankfully I realized I'm a lesbian before anyone could pressure me into marriage

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-06T17:54:44+00:00

homosexuality has been observed in over 1500 species. oh I bet penguins and polar bears were totally pressured by libtards into becoming homos

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-05T04:37:22+00:00

depends what you consider bullying

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-05T04:34:16+00:00

I'm a butch lesbian. I once walked into a queer bookstore and incidentally a nonbinary meetup was going on. The people invited me to sit down and join the meetup, without asking me whether or not I actually identify as nonbinary

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-05T02:51:22+00:00

a creepy guy at work

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-05T00:05:43+00:00

its probably more likely that lesbians as a demographic watch less porn. there's not that much out there catered towards us

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-05T00:04:31+00:00

in the same way as young girls who watch porn will turn out as lesbians

are you implying that homosexuality isnt innate? because if so, you're wrong

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-04T04:46:33+00:00

I'll post updates

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-04T00:02:57+00:00

I think hes getting fired

lmaonope333 · 2020-10-01T00:02:18+00:00

I like scented lotions, I dont really like the smell of alcohol

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-30T09:12:35+00:00

holding hands is ok but not much else

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-29T05:42:05+00:00

either your a lesbian or you're a bisexual with a preference for women. also rule 6

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-28T01:14:02+00:00

I'm not interested in someone so full of herself that she thinks her "hey" is gonna grab more attention than any other "hey"

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-28T00:23:08+00:00

It's a woke issue. Lesbians aren't considered a marginalized group anymore now that trans and nonbinary culture is in vogue. In fact, many exclusively lesbian bars were shut down because of transgender culture. And even the ones that are still opened have been renamed as "LGBTQ+" bars. For example,The Cubbyhole in Brooklyn

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-27T15:33:17+00:00

agreed

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-27T04:58:30+00:00

she probably just doesnt like the taste of pussy

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-26T22:42:25+00:00

if you're homosexual, if you're female, you need to get over internalized homophobia and internalized misogyny. get out of trans internet forums. dress the way you feel comfortable, but focus on hobbies and productive activities instead of focusing on the way you look

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-25T19:21:59+00:00

semantics

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-25T18:20:25+00:00

I just want to be genuinely happy and fulfilled and I'm still figuring out how to achieve that

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T21:44:22+00:00

because making trans people feel not valid is literally violence. a trans FtM, once told me, a lesbian, that I'm putting down other women for not dating trans identifying males, and that, she gets it that I'm all rah rah rah women, but that it's my fault if transwomen get killed by men

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T20:40:11+00:00

Favorite- Language Arts, History, Biology

Least Favorite- Maths, Bible, religious law

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T20:38:10+00:00

you know the world is in a sorry state when the nurse at a womans health clinic genuinely believes that lesbians can get accidentally pregnant

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T11:27:25+00:00

it's not really social anxiety, its trauma which conditioned me to be constantly waiting for the second shoe to drop so if i get a phone call I panic because I assume they're calling with bad news

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T06:53:11+00:00

I'm more afraid of receiving calls than making calls. I dont mind receiving calls from close friends and siblings, but if it's from practically anyone else it freaks me out. I once tried to get a therapist and he called me a quite a few times, but I wasnt aware of it and told clinic that he didn't contact me. Phobia of phone calls is pretty common for people with trauma, and that's what I was seeking therapy for, so the fact that he didn't think of emailing me tipped me off that hes probably unqualified to treat me. Also the fact that I googled him and hes a a trans MtF who identifies as a butch lesbian, lol

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T00:06:56+00:00

no, your map is extremely arbitrary

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T00:02:28+00:00

I fracture the same bone twice the fractures were 3 inches apart

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-24T00:01:13+00:00

I only feel something when theres a really drastic change in humidity

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-23T22:06:25+00:00

yup. inevitably they tell me to just try dick just once.

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-23T22:03:34+00:00

yup. so annoying. plus I have a medical condition that makes penetration extremely painful, so all the jokes about straps being dicks cracks me up. I cant even get my pinky finger up there

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-23T19:05:21+00:00

phone calls

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-23T00:52:24+00:00

I grew up orthodox orthodox Jewish, I couldn't reconcile religion with my sexuality, so I left

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T23:41:40+00:00

I'm not even isolated, I've been an essential worker all through covid. But all the usual places I hang out and socialize are closed due to covid

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T22:34:32+00:00

when I was 13 i looked up the word homosexual in the dictionary, knew immediately that it applied to me, and pushed it to the back of my mind, thinking that I'd grow out of it. at 17 i was conversing with a friend, we were talking about gay people and she said that it's not a sin to have gay thoughts as long as you dont act on it. this was a lightbulb moment because I realized you dont have to do anything or look like anything to be gay, you simply have to have homosexual thoughts/feelings. at that moment it hit me that I'm a lesbian

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T22:14:57+00:00

I would love to find out that a lesbian i already know irl isnt caught up in the TRA cult

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T17:20:28+00:00

been lonely since the start of covid

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T09:30:39+00:00

hi, nice to meet you 🤝

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T01:20:39+00:00

I'm good at being independent, managing my money, making friends, navigating my city's subway system

I'm bad at small talk and dating

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T01:19:15+00:00

yeah we all know that much about you by now ;)

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-22T01:17:21+00:00

yeah that's what I told her. but shes pretty insecure, the overachiever type, valedictorian etc so I guess this is how it manifested in her sexual life

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-21T23:10:05+00:00

ok I had this bi friend who told me she wanted to hire a hooker to teach her how to have sex cuz she was embarrassed that she was inexperienced. lol

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-20T06:57:16+00:00

we don't 😭

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-20T02:27:52+00:00

agreed. drag would not exist if not for the oppression of women, so I dont know why they're considered the height of wokeness. not all parts of history need to be preserved

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-19T21:41:27+00:00

I dont believe it's possible for everyone who is willing. Competent therapists are pretty hard to find if your issues are complex. Also, not everyone with emotional baggage treats romantic partners like shit. I know I don't. I'm just afraid of attracting narcissists and I dont trust people easily, so I avoid getting into serious relationships to begin with

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-19T20:51:54+00:00

I believe that true love exists, but not necessarily for everyone. Some of us are too emotionally damaged to form healthy and lasting romantic relationships

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-19T20:49:02+00:00

that's not true. there are women who do drag, and there were black people that did blackface. that doesnt make either of them ok as a concept, both were invented by the non minority in order to mock a caricatured version of a marginalized group, and just because a small number of member from a minority group participate in it for money it doesn't erase the negative affect that the (((art form))) has on the members of the minority

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-19T09:20:21+00:00

girl should just buy a vibrator

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-18T19:34:27+00:00

no boundaries

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-18T19:30:53+00:00

exactly. I'm attracted to bi women and I might date them, but it'd take longer for me to trust them. and I do strongly prefer lesbians

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-18T17:36:51+00:00

the worst part is I'm pretty sure it was filmed by a gay man

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-18T17:35:10+00:00

the flag stickers on the wrist, lol, so sappy

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-18T00:27:09+00:00

yeah I should really start calling myself a cis menstruator/vagina fetishist

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-17T15:39:15+00:00

yes. I am very worried for the future of the lesbian community

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-17T05:43:02+00:00

this video has major meme potential

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-17T01:09:19+00:00

yes but we are here to escape censorship. if we want to walk on eggshells for fear of offending non lesbians we would go back to reddit

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-17T00:56:42+00:00

no more boob sweat

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-16T06:15:08+00:00

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-16T06:14:46+00:00

sitting weirdly

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-16T06:13:28+00:00

my given name is feminine and it's also hard for most people to pronounce so I shortened it and go by the first syllable which is a unisex name. my family still calls me by my given name and I dont really mind, it just bothers me when people completely butcher my name so it's easier to just go by a nickname. I don't think I'll be legally changing my name, it's not worth the hassle

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-15T15:48:24+00:00

imagine shaming lesbians for not caving to the pressure of heteronormativy. when I realized I was a lesbian I was super relieved that I'd never have to be with men, so I find it comical that I'm being villianized for it. of course I have nothing against women who slept with men before they realized they were lesbians. I'm just happy and grateful that i never had those horrible experiences and I wish no lesbians would ever be pressured into sleeping with men

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-14T01:49:34+00:00

TW

god I could've wrote this post. in the community that I'm from, comp het was really strong so I thought I'd have to marry a man. I used to lie in bed at night and imagine what it would be like to have sex with a man, i always imagined I'd stay fully clothed and keep a full bush so that he wouldn't see my genitals, plus put a pillow in between his body and my body so that at least he wouldn't be able to touch my boobs. I used to lie in bed at night with those thoughts pretty often, and tense up my whole body especially my vagina. I'm pretty sure that's how I developed vaginismus

it was a relief to find out I'd never have to have sex with a man

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-14T00:57:37+00:00

I once started watching it but it was so full of cliches and stereotypes that it didn't hold my interest. pure cringe

lmaonope333 · 2020-09-14T00:53:31+00:00

I grew up in an insular community so it was pretty rare to find friends who were worldly. And we had a lot in common, personality wise. Shes willfully ignorant about sex and I'm pretty sure its because of some sort of past trauma but I always had plenty of things to talk to her about that dont involve sex/sexuality

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