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[–]Hydiee 11 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Well if you wanna have sex with someone then you're experiencing sexual attraction to them. It feels like wanting to have sex with someone lol

[–]Jillyjanejan 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pretty much.

[–]lmaonope333 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

do you think about women when you masturbate? do you catch yourself staring at women? do you get butterflies when talking to a beautiful woman?

[–]Athelhilda2[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I fantasize about women when I masturbate, but I spend a lot of time in my own little world, so I don't stare at or get butterflies with anyone. There was one time when I was talking to a woman and felt hot, like someone had turned a heater to its highest setting, but I'm pretty sure I was just anxious at the time.

[–]lmaonope333 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

rule 6

[–]Athelhilda2[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Not asking if I'm a lesbian, just what sexual attraction is and feels like.

[–]lmaonope333 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

"I ask because I'm not sure if I'm asexual or a lesbian"

[–]Athelhilda2[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Gotcha. I changed it.

[–]VioletRemi 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I ask because I'm not sure if I'm asexual or a lesbian"

I thought I am asexual until I was very close with woman I like at the age of 20. However, I only had crushes into women previous that point, I just had no sexual drive (and almost never was even masturbating) at all. Society around me was homophobic, and there were no info about homosexuals at all, so I did not know that such thing is possible. So in general, I always was attracted to women and always had crushes or dreams about women, but because I was not aware that I can be with women and never was close with women, my sexual drive was sleeping, until one night ;)