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[–]lmaonope333 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

rule 6

[–]Athelhilda2[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Not asking if I'm a lesbian, just what sexual attraction is and feels like.

[–]lmaonope333 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

"I ask because I'm not sure if I'm asexual or a lesbian"

[–]Athelhilda2[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Gotcha. I changed it.

[–]VioletRemi 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I ask because I'm not sure if I'm asexual or a lesbian"

I thought I am asexual until I was very close with woman I like at the age of 20. However, I only had crushes into women previous that point, I just had no sexual drive (and almost never was even masturbating) at all. Society around me was homophobic, and there were no info about homosexuals at all, so I did not know that such thing is possible. So in general, I always was attracted to women and always had crushes or dreams about women, but because I was not aware that I can be with women and never was close with women, my sexual drive was sleeping, until one night ;)