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[–]lmaonope333 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I dont believe it's possible for everyone who is willing. Competent therapists are pretty hard to find if your issues are complex. Also, not everyone with emotional baggage treats romantic partners like shit. I know I don't. I'm just afraid of attracting narcissists and I dont trust people easily, so I avoid getting into serious relationships to begin with

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I didn’t say they treat their partners like shit, but behave in ways that make it hard to connect with other people. There are many ways that type of thing can manifest. I went to a few therapists before I found a good one, over the years. There is a good one out there for you, don’t give up on that aspect. For real. You’ve got your whole life ahead of you.